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Posted: 5/2/2024 8:35:00 PM EDT
Or will they compensate with wine and cats?

Family Guy - 37 year old woman on a blind date fun
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 8:38:37 PM EDT
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They'll adopt an absolute shitload of third-worlders to signal their virtue.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 8:46:02 PM EDT
[#2]
Yes...

I'm an Xer, most of the women I know that waited until their late 30s+ to have kids required in vetro.  Through the magic of technology, all were successful at least once, although for a few it took several expensive tries.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 8:48:28 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By DriftPunch:
Yes...

I'm an Xer, most of the women I know that waited until their late 30s+ to have kids required in vetro.  Through the magic of technology, all were successful at least once, although for a few it took several expensive tries.
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And only 100 embryos doomed to remain on ice
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 8:52:12 PM EDT
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38 year old millennial here. The mid to late 30s women I know do regret not having kids.

There's a lady at my friends work who got dumped by her long-term boyfriend because she wouldn't have kids, even if they got married. He says she became mega-giga Karen afterward and hates women who take time with their kids instead of doing OT
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 9:02:26 PM EDT
[Last Edit: lazyengineer] [#5]
Yes - they will.  Some will wait until their 40's before it hits them.  Social practices don't change the biological drive.  So, they will get cats and vote Democrat; but yes - it will.  

This is why most Dr's won't do elective sterilization of women before a certain age - because they know all of them will later ask to have it reversed - basically all of them.  They are 100% committed to the plan... now, in their late 20's.  And then 40 isn't that far away, and BAM!  

Though a curious development I didn't forsee.  in Texas, doctors are starting to do it more for the younger women due to the A' topic.  I know one 20-30yr old women who spent 4 years trying and failing to get her tubes tied; and was intensely frustrated at being man-'splained that no, she's too young and the Doctor won't do it (correctly,  I daresay Dr was right - and despite my rather disappointing lack of tact at times; I had enough tact to just keep my mouth shut on that one.  It's rare - I should get a Juice Box or something for that...).  Anyway, the day after Texas passed that A' topic restriction; her Dr called her said Ok, I'll do it and sterilize you now.   Not trying to say write or wrong, but a curious and unexpected aspect from all that, that I hadn't anticipated.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 9:35:31 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Pallas] [#6]
The women I know in their 40’s who don’t have kids are happy AF, they travel, they have good careers, they look great.

Children/no children goes both ways. There is no free lunch.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:28:13 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Pallas:
The women I know in their 40’s who don’t have kids are happy AF, they travel, they have good careers, they look great.

Children/no children goes both ways. There is no free lunch.
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They're going to be miserable dying alone in a nursing home someday.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:30:41 PM EDT
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why wood zekes do this?

@killerb6
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:32:47 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By JLPettimoreIII:
why wood zekes do this?

@killerb6
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....

...it shouldn't take much to add them to your harem for the when the zombies come....thought you would be happy.....
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:33:18 PM EDT
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Nothing like spending your golden years taking care of high needs (risk) children
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:35:26 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By lazyengineer:
Yes - they will.  Some will wait until their 40's before it hits them.  Social practices don't change the biological drive.  So, they will get cats and vote Democrat; but yes - it will.  

This is why most Dr's won't do elective sterilization of women before a certain age - because they know all of them will later ask to have it reversed - basically all of them.  They are 100% committed to the plan... now, in their late 20's.  And then 40 isn't that far away, and BAM!  

Though a curious development I didn't forsee.  in Texas, doctors are starting to do it more for the younger women due to the A' topic.  I know one 20-30yr old women who spent 4 years trying and failing to get her tubes tied; and was intensely frustrated at being man-'splained that no, she's too young and the Doctor won't do it (correctly,  I daresay Dr was right - and despite my rather disappointing lack of tact at times; I had enough tact to just keep my mouth shut on that one.  It's rare - I should get a Juice Box or something for that...).  Anyway, the day after Texas passed that A' topic restriction; her Dr called her said Ok, I'll do it and sterilize you now.   Not trying to say write or wrong, but a curious and unexpected aspect from all that, that I hadn't anticipated.
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This is good. Better to get sterilized than bring an innocent life into the equation and discard it.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:35:27 PM EDT
[Last Edit: bjkb1f] [#12]
I hope not. We don’t need any more pansexual, non-binary, genderfluid, dragon kin in our preschools. Zero is more than enough.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:37:36 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Scoobysmak:


....

...it shouldn't take much to add them to your harem for the when the zombies come....thought you would be happy.....
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my harem shall be composed of hot young MILFs from orange theory fitness and/or crossfit.

former college cheerleaders slash gymnasts turned powerlifters and/or crossfitters.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:38:09 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By NotIssued:

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everyone dies alone.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:39:01 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By NotIssued:

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Judging from GD's "family sharing stories"/"That bitch turned my kids against me, so fuck 'em all!", lots of people with 2-4 children will be dying alone in a nursing home, someday.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:43:36 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Pallas:
The women I know in their 40’s who don’t have kids are happy AF, they travel, they have good careers, they look great.

Children/no children goes both ways. There is no free lunch.
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There are always exceptions, but most of the mid life women I see "living their best life" are usually shallow, narcissistic and generally a bore to interact with.  They're all hot - they have to be to get literally any kind of attention - but rode hard and put away wet until some beta cuck realizes he needs a place to live and doesn't mind licking a few boots and saying Yes, Dear" on command.   Not a bad gig - just not for all of us.

I like my marriage the old fashioned way: conflict.  
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:47:43 PM EDT
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It will be a net plus for the nation when these past expiration date old bags start dropping aspies on society. Gee, thanks. Just what is needed. Of course the same docs who tell fat asses they are healthy at any weight wont tell a 35-40 year old women the dangers posed to their future children for her decision to wait so long in life to get pregnant.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:48:56 PM EDT
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It will be a net plus for the nation when these past expiration date old bags start dropping aspies on society. Gee, thanks. Just what is needed. Of course the same docs who tell fat asses they are healthy at any weight wont tell a 35-40 year old women the dangers posed to their future children for her decision to wait so long in life to get pregnant.
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Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:53:55 PM EDT
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There will not be one homeless cat in America for the next 50 years.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:54:56 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By NotIssued:

They're going to be miserable dying alone in a nursing home someday.
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Originally Posted By NotIssued:

They're going to be miserable dying alone in a nursing home someday.


I’ve seen that happen with people who had children.

Originally Posted By Lone_Gringo:
There will not be one homeless cat in America for the next 50 years.


Inshalla, I like cats more than kids.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:55:13 PM EDT
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So you're asking what the odds are that a woman will admit she was wrong?
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:57:01 PM EDT
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It's a mix, some people really don't want kids.  That's fine, but some women are not realistic about kids and find out biology doesn't care about your life choices.  Men have the freedom to procreate until they die, women don't have that luxury.

My FIL is a doctor and he told both his daughters when they were in college that if they want children to have a plan to start before they are 30 because the rates of infertility, birth defects, and pregnancy complications increase rapidly after that age.

Wife's sister is is Doctor, well a surgeon actually, she delayed going to work after her residency to have her first child, and several of her friends from med school did the same, because they know the medical reality of pregnancy and age.  However, it doesn't take a surgeon to understand the science on this topic.

Link Posted: 5/2/2024 10:58:21 PM EDT
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I try not to worry about stereotyping generations of people.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:03:35 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By usmcdean:
It will be a net plus for the nation when these past expiration date old bags start dropping aspies on society. Gee, thanks. Just what is needed. Of course the same docs who tell fat asses they are healthy at any weight wont tell a 35-40 year old women the dangers posed to their future children for her decision to wait so long in life to get pregnant.
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Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:05:48 PM EDT
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Everyone needs to have three or four kids just so there is a chance one is responsible enough to take care of them in their old age.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:12:47 PM EDT
[#26]
We had a similar conversation with the late 30's early 40's yuppies in the 1980's

the more things change...
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:20:14 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By NotIssued:

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If only I had a dime for every person I watched die at a hospital with no loved ones to be seen.  I’m not talking er deaths.  I am talking hospice long time coming deaths.  These people had husbands,wives, and kids.

Having offspring is no gaurentee. Like wise not having them is a gaurentee.

It’s amazing to me that people in this world and site are so convinced of how people should live their lives.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:22:00 PM EDT
[Last Edit: ThrustMyStoma] [#28]
already happening. they will pay to fuck now. from they cover your coldstone ice cream bill for the poor hoes to payin the 4 day beach front hilton head vrbo for the muh boss puss hoes mid late 30s ones. make them cream on your cock and like good wooden floors can walk on them for life. everybody wins. i make my rari payments they get a space in time of connection.

aladdingeniegiveherthedick.meme
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:24:38 PM EDT
[#29]
Is this how I start my harem being a pure blood alpha male?
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:24:54 PM EDT
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Apparently, the Gen Z women in the Dakotas are pumping out the kids for the rest of us
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:25:33 PM EDT
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everyone dies alone.
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eh... my uncle died with his girlfriend next to him yesterday morning.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:26:08 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ThrustMyStoma:
already happening. they will pay to fuck now. from they cover your coldstone ice cream bill for the poor hoes to payin the 4 day beach front hilton head vrbo for the muh boss puss hoes mid late 30s ones. make them cream on your cock and like good wooden floors can walk on them for life. everybody wins. i make my rari payments they get a space in time of connection.

aladdingeniegiveherthedick.meme
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Can't tell if stroke or half way through a bottle
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:29:31 PM EDT
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better brain processing then you. get relevant.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:30:52 PM EDT
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Millennial women are at that age now; are they freaking out?

Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:33:02 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By DriftPunch:
Yes...

I'm an Xer, most of the women I know that waited until their late 30s+ to have kids required in vetro.  Through the magic of technology, all were successful at least once, although for a few it took several expensive tries.
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My wife was 37 when we had our last kid.

My sons wife was 30, had two kids (boy and a girl) and my son got snipped.

By then perhaps the gen Z folks will be mature enough to raise a kid.

Daughter works in OB and said she never wants to be pregnant and got her tubes tied at 22.

She said she will adopt one day vs having stretch marks, c section scars etc. she is 5' 3" and 110lbs. She doesn't want to wreck her body with a pregnancy because she is small.

She loves babies, that's why she chose OB as a career, she just likes her body and works to hard to allow a pregnancy to ruin it.

Luckily I told her with abortion banned their will be lots of kids to choose from She said she with deal with the adoption fee and wait vs getting pregnant.


Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:33:29 PM EDT
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They'll blame their depression and lack of fulfillment on sexism, capitalism, and climate change and teach gen Alpha to be just like them online and in classrooms.
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:46:53 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ThrustMyStoma:
better brain processing then you. get relevant.
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Originally Posted By ThrustMyStoma:
Originally Posted By Your1Savior:


Can't tell if stroke or half way through a bottle
better brain processing then you. get relevant.


Got my answer...




Also, it's "than" not "then"
Link Posted: 5/2/2024 11:55:13 PM EDT
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F'ing women.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:03:09 AM EDT
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Statistically speaking..

A woman is as likely to get married in her mid 30s as having a car accident
A woman in as likely to get married in her 40s as getting his by lightning
A woman in as likely to get married in her 50s as getting hit by a metorite


Cougars don't marry, they only hunt to kill.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:06:12 AM EDT
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Having children is much too expensive a thing for most people to consider. And when some thing is too expensive it must be cut out of your life like a cancerous tumor.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:29:26 AM EDT
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Yes

It's already happening

I'll give them credit for wising up before 35.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:41:36 AM EDT
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The problem is that the concept of getting married and/or having kids will always be rosier than reality. People can lament the "what ifs," but the only reality they know is the one they've lived.  Marriage and parenthhood are great concepts to mourn the loss of.  I guess it's better than having experienced the reality and having even worse regrets.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:45:35 AM EDT
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Having children is much too expensive a thing for most people to consider. And when some thing is too expensive it must be cut out of your life like a cancerous tumor.
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and cold like
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:46:01 AM EDT
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Daughter is 20. Doesn't want kids.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:50:45 AM EDT
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Having children is much too expensive a thing for most people to consider. And when some thing is too expensive it must be cut out of your life like a cancerous tumor.
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Move to the south. I see plenty of people who can't afford a pot to piss in dragging 5 kids around.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 12:53:19 AM EDT
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There are other alternatives.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 1:46:15 AM EDT
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I just started dating a Gen Z gal. She wants kids, though. I am happy to have as many as I and my future wife, whoever she may be (this gal seems swell so far), can financially, emotionally, and physically handle. Hopefully several.

Link Posted: 5/3/2024 7:12:27 AM EDT
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I work as a Fertility Specialist. ( running semen analysis procedures daily)

even in our laboratory, there are 4 women in their mid to late 30's who have not been able to conceive with even moderate procedures and Rx.

we are about to hit critical mass with infertility due to women waiting until their late 30's and the clot shot. we were having Zoom Meetings with CDC, researchers and others in the know almost immediately with the clot shot implementation regarding fertility and miscarriage rates.

same issues with men.

waiting to have kids
alcohol use
shitty diets
modified foods
obesity
clot shot
etc
etc


are not conducive to fertility
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 7:13:12 AM EDT
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many are already miserable for dozens of reasons.
Link Posted: 5/3/2024 7:27:54 AM EDT
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Of those that DO wait until 35 or later, a significant portion will have some difficulty.  In many cases, they'll be 40+ when children finally happen...

And when it does happen, a fairly significant number of them are going to be heartbroken, because the child will be afflicted with a number of serious maladies such as Downs Syndrome.

Consider that:  You're 42, and just gave birth to the long-awaited child, and this child has severe Downs Syndrome.  You now realize that the ret of your days will be spent in child caregiver mode, only your child WONT turn 18, go to college and move out.  He or she will stay in high school until 21, and then you're still going to be in serious caregiver mode at age 63 as they hopefully find an "independent living" arrangement.  You'll be in caregiver mode until you die....

My ex-wife (of over 20 years) was a pediatric physical therapist.  She deal with Downs, Spina Bifida, CP and a host of other issues in kids birth through 18.  The whole "older mom =  disabled child" thing (especially downs) is REALLY well documented, and its 100% no shit, 'I can see the link' readily observable.  

Lots of "normal' kids are born to moms over 40.  However, the chances of a pregnancy-gone-wrong and a big lifetime of problems is several times higher in the older mom demographic...

There's another issue.  Just because Ms. Liberated wants to wait until she's 40 for a kid doesn't mean guys want to.  A lot of men want kids, but want them when they are 20,25,30.  By the time a guy is into his late 30's, many of them either already have their own kids or decided they dont want any.  This introduces a whole new level of complexity for women in their 40s looking to have a kid....   I know I do NOT want to be 60 and having a 15 year old.

Yeah.  I think a LOT of women who wait are going to be severely disappointed for a number of reasons.  Decisions have consequences....
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