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Posted: 4/25/2024 7:10:26 PM EDT
I’m married with children but sometimes think if I wasn’t I would pack it up and move across the country or live in a van. But I don’t really hear about single people doing that. Maybe it’s because I only deal with white collar office types. Does being married with children keep people from doing crazy stuff?
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:04:27 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Your location sounds pretty rough for being single. Unless someone wants to be single of course. Move to Puyallup.  Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: All the farm girls (a couple threw hay with us a couple of times when I was in my 20s) have long since moved away, gotten married and had kids unfortunately for me.  Your location sounds pretty rough for being single. Unless someone wants to be single of course. Move to Puyallup. It is rough, I've watched the generation of my age all move away and now the new generation is coming in around me. No one I know in the area that's around my age that isn't married with kids. |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:06:23 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By rtlm: No expectations. Less stress for you. Getting you used to talking to women. I have a few, great gals. They like to talk, give advice, try to set ya up with their friends…etc Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By rtlm: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By rtlm: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By TaskForce: You need to practice talking to and interacting with women and socializing with people in general to get good and comfortable with it. That's the exposure technique. Generally it hasn't worked for me, especially in group settings. Goes better in one on one for me, but that's still very difficult. Believe it or not, I have gotten better over the years. Not functionally better though. That's where medication needs to come in and I need to ask my doctor about it. Maybe get to know a gal that is just a friend. Women friends can be awesome wingmen! Not really sure how managing to gain a purely platonic relationship with a woman would be any less difficult though? No expectations. Less stress for you. Getting you used to talking to women. I have a few, great gals. They like to talk, give advice, try to set ya up with their friends…etc I really wish that was the case, but my anxiety doesn't work that way. As I have mentioned, I believe medication is required. |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:07:21 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Hmm. Maybe online dating is the best option in this case. "Saddle up! Seeking a ride-or-die companion for life's adventures." |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:09:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By rtlm: Good luck, the old man’s gotta sleep. Tune in tomorrow when Cliff has his pimp hand and is slaying ass across 9 different counties Wishful thinking, but I appreciate it!  Have a good night. 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:12:05 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm gonna have to post the story. Alright, here it goes... "My boss, who I've worked for for over 20 years, used to board horses as a side gig. He had maybe 13 at most at one point and he had the cheapest fees around at $175 per month. But anyways, he did that from about 2005 through to the midpoint of 2021. There was a girl I took notice of a few years prior to him getting out of it that had her horses boarded there. I never purposefully went out of my way to talk to any of the horse's owners, but as I was working around they would occasionally wave and/or say "hi" and I'd wave and say "hi" back. I never wanted to socialize or bother anyone of course as it's not in my personality. So it was either the end of August or start of September 2020, I had gone down to feed the horses that evening as my boss had went on vacation and I was his go to for taking care of things while he was away. So I get down there and this girl that I mentioned pulls in to take one of her horses out for a ride and she was having a hell of a time backing up to her trailer (not a problem I ever saw her have before). I was watching this in my rear view mirror as I sat in my truck waiting for her to take her horse and go, but she was having no luck. I even saw her get out of her truck a few times to come back and look to see how close to lined up she was to the hitch of the trailer. She was so frustrated on the second to last attempt that she clenched her fists and stomped at the ground and walked back in a puff to make another attempt. Well, by that point I finally couldn't take watching her and not offering to help, and against my anxiety that had me waiting too long to offer a hand I finally got up the nerve and got out of my truck to walk over to try and help guide her back. Though she had finally gotten it as I was coming over... She said she was so used to the back up camera on her husband's truck that the truck she had brought today (which didn't have a back up camera) was not so easy for her and she was very out of practice. So she thanked me for coming over to try and help and I held off on feeding the horses so she could get hers and go. I just awkwardly stood there and filled up the water trough as she did that... So as she was getting ready to leave she asked me for a flake of hay which I handed to her and she was off on her way. We only ever waved and said "hi" to each other a couple times after that point. Wasn't thrilled to find out she was married. So fast forward to the end of June 2021 as my boss was getting out of horse boarding, the girl I mentioned was the last to be leaving and still had her 2 horses boarded at my boss's place. I was feeling like I wish I could have talked more to this girl at some point and knew I'd probably never see her again once she left, So I wrote her a somewhat long winded note feeling that it was down to the last minute and I put it inside her trailer where she would easily see it. Didn't hear a thing after she got it. After the 4th of July she came back and got her horses and she was gone... A couple days later I went down to head off on a job with my boss and he said someone had left me an envelope in their mail box. I was very excited to hear that and also felt somewhat sick at the same time. I knew who it had to be from, but up to that point I was sure I wasn't going to hear back from her. I believed I had weirded her out with the note, but nope! She wrote me a very nice note back and I couldn't believe it! It really made my year. It would be awesome and anxiety inducing if we ever cross paths again, I almost hope that we do." I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:12:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: I really wish that was the case, but my anxiety doesn't work that way. As I have mentioned, I believe medication is required.
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:15:46 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: I've always been an ass man, and for some reason tend to be drawn to women with smaller boobs. Idk, they're cute. And they always seem a bit insecure about having small boobs, even when they have a great ass. Boobs that are too big are a turnoff, same with salami nipples. But I gotta agree with personality. I've met some really hot girls, who after talking to them for 5 minutes I'm like "I wouldn't fuck you to save the human race." Horrible personality makes them ugly as fuck, no matter what their body looks like. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By rtlm: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By rtlm: No problem: This one is easy peasy. Take 2 gals out that know each other, be the dd. You can hit a restaurant instead of a bar. They will talk so much after a few beers you won't have to say a word, just admire them tits. No stress or pressure. Just spend a few dollars.  Lol! You must not remember the boob thread. Damn, I remember that. You fucked that all up  Not on purpose though... I just mentioned how I wasn't all that into boobs and it snowballed from there.  Ass mo bettuh! When I think of asses.....a woman's ass.....something comes outta me. I think it's a whole package thing for me, but personality is always first. I've always been an ass man, and for some reason tend to be drawn to women with smaller boobs. Idk, they're cute. And they always seem a bit insecure about having small boobs, even when they have a great ass. Boobs that are too big are a turnoff, same with salami nipples. But I gotta agree with personality. I've met some really hot girls, who after talking to them for 5 minutes I'm like "I wouldn't fuck you to save the human race." Horrible personality makes them ugly as fuck, no matter what their body looks like. You and me are running on the same wavelength, not in every possible way of course, but when it comes to the order of importance you got it right. 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:24:40 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: How'd you know? But seriously, I've mentioned that I don't go to casinos multiple times throughout this thread. Gambling just isn't for me.Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By showmeballer: I keep coming back here to see what's up and it gets worse each time. You don't like beer, steak, or tits. WTF! That's the trifecta. Probably don't like gambling too. How'd you know? But seriously, I've mentioned that I don't go to casinos multiple times throughout this thread. Gambling just isn't for me.Are you in some tiny town in WA with only married horse chicks? |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:25:36 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: recently i skipped going to dinner with coworkers so i could instead use the cash to purchase moar harbor freight tools. https://i.redd.it/c07o227n7a9c1.jpeg well that and who wants to pay $18 for a hamburger in this economy? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Honestly I've had similarly awkward experiences eating dinner with some of the guys I work for and their wives... It certainly was a development experience. https://i.redd.it/c07o227n7a9c1.jpeg well that and who wants to pay $18 for a hamburger in this economy? Don't have to tell me twice, a $20 dollar hamburger is insane... I might need to introduce you to the Snap-On catalog one of these days though.
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:25:53 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: booze! Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I really wish that was the case, but my anxiety doesn't work that way. As I have mentioned, I believe medication is required. 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:26:33 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By showmeballer: Ever hear of online gambling? Are you in some tiny town in WA with only married horse chicks?  |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:27:08 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Don't have to tell me twice, a $20 dollar hamburger is insane... I might need to introduce you to the Snap-On catalog one of these days though. i am a shameless harbour freight sloot. 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:27:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Hmm. Maybe online dating is the best option in this case. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I see how that could work, though I don't have any married couple friends, or even friends in general. The guys I work for and their wives are all in their mid to late 50s to 60s, with some approaching 70 or in their 70s. None of them would know anyone single around my own age that they could introduce me to. Hmm. Maybe online dating is the best option in this case. Seeing my brothers luck I'd rather not, but I am the best looking out of the three of us... According to my Mom. 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:29:23 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Seeing my brothers luck I'd rather not, but I am the best looking out of the three of us... According to my Mom. "Mom says I'm the Best Looking of all of her Sons."
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:29:55 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: i don't have the budget for Strap On. i am a shameless harbour freight sloot. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Don't have to tell me twice, a $20 dollar hamburger is insane... I might need to introduce you to the Snap-On catalog one of these days though. i am a shameless harbour freight sloot. No judgment, some of that HF stuff isn't so bad... One of my brothers gets away with it working on cars well enough. |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:30:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: there's your Tinder headline right there. "Mom says I'm the Best Looking of all of her Sons." Quirky shit like that can work. |
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:34:33 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: let's put together a Tinder profile for Cliff556. "Saddle up! Seeking a ride-or-die companion for life's adventures." Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By TaskForce: Hmm. Maybe online dating is the best option in this case. "Saddle up! Seeking a ride-or-die companion for life's adventures." I have visions of how Sheldon met Amy on The Big Bang Theory... I would not be a willing participant in any of those shenanigans! 
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Posted: 4/30/2024 11:57:22 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm gonna have to post the story. Alright, here it goes... "My boss, who I've worked for for over 20 years, used to board horses as a side gig. He had maybe 13 at most at one point and he had the cheapest fees around at $175 per month. But anyways, he did that from about 2005 through to the midpoint of 2021. There was a girl I took notice of a few years prior to him getting out of it that had her horses boarded there. I never purposefully went out of my way to talk to any of the horse's owners, but as I was working around they would occasionally wave and/or say "hi" and I'd wave and say "hi" back. I never wanted to socialize or bother anyone of course as it's not in my personality. So it was either the end of August or start of September 2020, I had gone down to feed the horses that evening as my boss had went on vacation and I was his go to for taking care of things while he was away. So I get down there and this girl that I mentioned pulls in to take one of her horses out for a ride and she was having a hell of a time backing up to her trailer (not a problem I ever saw her have before). I was watching this in my rear view mirror as I sat in my truck waiting for her to take her horse and go, but she was having no luck. I even saw her get out of her truck a few times to come back and look to see how close to lined up she was to the hitch of the trailer. She was so frustrated on the second to last attempt that she clenched her fists and stomped at the ground and walked back in a puff to make another attempt. Well, by that point I finally couldn't take watching her and not offering to help, and against my anxiety that had me waiting too long to offer a hand I finally got up the nerve and got out of my truck to walk over to try and help guide her back. Though she had finally gotten it as I was coming over... She said she was so used to the back up camera on her husband's truck that the truck she had brought today (which didn't have a back up camera) was not so easy for her and she was very out of practice. So she thanked me for coming over to try and help and I held off on feeding the horses so she could get hers and go. I just awkwardly stood there and filled up the water trough as she did that... So as she was getting ready to leave she asked me for a flake of hay which I handed to her and she was off on her way. We only ever waved and said "hi" to each other a couple times after that point. Wasn't thrilled to find out she was married. So fast forward to the end of June 2021 as my boss was getting out of horse boarding, the girl I mentioned was the last to be leaving and still had her 2 horses boarded at my boss's place. I was feeling like I wish I could have talked more to this girl at some point and knew I'd probably never see her again once she left, So I wrote her a somewhat long winded note feeling that it was down to the last minute and I put it inside her trailer where she would easily see it. Didn't hear a thing after she got it. After the 4th of July she came back and got her horses and she was gone... A couple days later I went down to head off on a job with my boss and he said someone had left me an envelope in their mail box. I was very excited to hear that and also felt somewhat sick at the same time. I knew who it had to be from, but up to that point I was sure I wasn't going to hear back from her. I believed I had weirded her out with the note, but nope! She wrote me a very nice note back and I couldn't believe it! It really made my year. It would be awesome and anxiety inducing if we ever cross paths again, I almost hope that we do." I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? Holy cow man, I went through all the same emotions. I went and re edited the letter a few times before I finally left it in her trailer (her name is Rachel)... Then the next day I got cold feet about it and took it back out and re edited it again and put it back in her trailer. The anxiety I had over that week was nauseating and exhausting, but in the end I believe that I would have regretted it if I hadn't of done it. Just like the girl I have posted pictures of in this thread, I will always have a spot for the girl I wrote that letter to. Like you, I could tell I had struck a nerve in seeing what she wrote back to me and I hope she always keeps it. I never got to say goodbye to the girl in the pictures (her name is Nicole)... The last day I saw her (probably in 1994 or 1995) she hid me behind a tree so our parents couldn't see us and put her arms around me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss, and at that point I knew we were together. Then my family moved and that was it. I was homeschooled with my brothers and she went through the public school system. We never got to see each other again after that. So it was just left open ended... I just couldn't let that happen again with another girl I had feelings for, so I had to write her that message. For better or worse Nicole will always have had some effect on me. Picture removed by me. -556Cliff |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:08:25 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: booze! Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I really wish that was the case, but my anxiety doesn't work that way. As I have mentioned, I believe medication is required. Don't think I didn't try that good sir. Amazingly I only really started drinking around 2015, it didn't help at all for the anxiety and being able to talk to people, but I gained a bit of an addiction. I finally cut it out completely around September of last year. I may or may not be suffering from issues related to my experience with alcohol. Haven't really gotten to the bottom of anything yet. And I never really thought I was a heavy drinker, it really creeps up on ya though if you start.  But anyways, some are happy drunks, some are mean drunks, some are sleepy drunks... I was a sad and depressed drunk and I did it to myself alone. Not socially. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:14:07 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By showmeballer: Ever hear of online gambling? Are you in some tiny town in WA with only married horse chicks? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By showmeballer: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By showmeballer: I keep coming back here to see what's up and it gets worse each time. You don't like beer, steak, or tits. WTF! That's the trifecta. Probably don't like gambling too. How'd you know? But seriously, I've mentioned that I don't go to casinos multiple times throughout this thread. Gambling just isn't for me.Are you in some tiny town in WA with only married horse chicks? I have heard of online gambling, still not for me though. I'm not going to get all that specific on my location, but of the two biggest cities in Washington, I'm near one of them and it's not Seattle. The roads are bad where I'm from.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:15:22 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: there's your Tinder headline right there. "Mom says I'm the Best Looking of all of her Sons." Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Seeing my brothers luck I'd rather not, but I am the best looking out of the three of us... According to my Mom. "Mom says I'm the Best Looking of all of her Sons."  You are killing me man! |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:16:47 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Quirky shit like that can work. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By TaskForce: Originally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: there's your Tinder headline right there. "Mom says I'm the Best Looking of all of her Sons." Quirky shit like that can work. Okay, goin to have to note that down.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 1:29:17 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Holy cow man, I went through all the same emotions. I went and re edited the letter a few times before I finally left it in her trailer (her name was Rachel)... Then the next day I got cold feet about it and took it back out and re edited it again and put it back in her trailer. The anxiety I had over that week was nauseating and exhausting, but in the end I believe that I would have regretted it if I hadn't of done it. Just like the girl I have posted pictures of in this thread, I will always have a spot for the girl I wrote that letter to. Like you, I could tell I had struck a nerve in seeing what she wrote back to me and I hope she always keeps it. I never got to say goodbye to the girl in the pictures (her name was Nicole)... The last day I saw her (probably 1994) she hid me behind a tree so our parents couldn't see us and put her arms around me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss, and at that point I knew we were together. Then my family moved and that was it. I was homeschooled with my brothers and she went through the public school system. We never got to see each other again after that. So it was just left open ended... I just couldn't let that happen again with another girl I had feelings for, so I had to write her that message. For better or worse Nicole will always have had some effect on me. https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.18169-9/27236_100894853282926_8253884_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=5f2048&_nc_ohc=g5LPIsd7adUQ7kNvgE76isO&_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.xx&oh=00_AfAR1obNk8VCUZR1qnadg_7JF2c4-VT2vs6QoOkSXglb9Q&oe=66591BF5 Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm gonna have to post the story. Alright, here it goes... "My boss, who I've worked for for over 20 years, used to board horses as a side gig. He had maybe 13 at most at one point and he had the cheapest fees around at $175 per month. But anyways, he did that from about 2005 through to the midpoint of 2021. There was a girl I took notice of a few years prior to him getting out of it that had her horses boarded there. I never purposefully went out of my way to talk to any of the horse's owners, but as I was working around they would occasionally wave and/or say "hi" and I'd wave and say "hi" back. I never wanted to socialize or bother anyone of course as it's not in my personality. So it was either the end of August or start of September 2020, I had gone down to feed the horses that evening as my boss had went on vacation and I was his go to for taking care of things while he was away. So I get down there and this girl that I mentioned pulls in to take one of her horses out for a ride and she was having a hell of a time backing up to her trailer (not a problem I ever saw her have before). I was watching this in my rear view mirror as I sat in my truck waiting for her to take her horse and go, but she was having no luck. I even saw her get out of her truck a few times to come back and look to see how close to lined up she was to the hitch of the trailer. She was so frustrated on the second to last attempt that she clenched her fists and stomped at the ground and walked back in a puff to make another attempt. Well, by that point I finally couldn't take watching her and not offering to help, and against my anxiety that had me waiting too long to offer a hand I finally got up the nerve and got out of my truck to walk over to try and help guide her back. Though she had finally gotten it as I was coming over... She said she was so used to the back up camera on her husband's truck that the truck she had brought today (which didn't have a back up camera) was not so easy for her and she was very out of practice. So she thanked me for coming over to try and help and I held off on feeding the horses so she could get hers and go. I just awkwardly stood there and filled up the water trough as she did that... So as she was getting ready to leave she asked me for a flake of hay which I handed to her and she was off on her way. We only ever waved and said "hi" to each other a couple times after that point. Wasn't thrilled to find out she was married. So fast forward to the end of June 2021 as my boss was getting out of horse boarding, the girl I mentioned was the last to be leaving and still had her 2 horses boarded at my boss's place. I was feeling like I wish I could have talked more to this girl at some point and knew I'd probably never see her again once she left, So I wrote her a somewhat long winded note feeling that it was down to the last minute and I put it inside her trailer where she would easily see it. Didn't hear a thing after she got it. After the 4th of July she came back and got her horses and she was gone... A couple days later I went down to head off on a job with my boss and he said someone had left me an envelope in their mail box. I was very excited to hear that and also felt somewhat sick at the same time. I knew who it had to be from, but up to that point I was sure I wasn't going to hear back from her. I believed I had weirded her out with the note, but nope! She wrote me a very nice note back and I couldn't believe it! It really made my year. It would be awesome and anxiety inducing if we ever cross paths again, I almost hope that we do." I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? Holy cow man, I went through all the same emotions. I went and re edited the letter a few times before I finally left it in her trailer (her name was Rachel)... Then the next day I got cold feet about it and took it back out and re edited it again and put it back in her trailer. The anxiety I had over that week was nauseating and exhausting, but in the end I believe that I would have regretted it if I hadn't of done it. Just like the girl I have posted pictures of in this thread, I will always have a spot for the girl I wrote that letter to. Like you, I could tell I had struck a nerve in seeing what she wrote back to me and I hope she always keeps it. I never got to say goodbye to the girl in the pictures (her name was Nicole)... The last day I saw her (probably 1994) she hid me behind a tree so our parents couldn't see us and put her arms around me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss, and at that point I knew we were together. Then my family moved and that was it. I was homeschooled with my brothers and she went through the public school system. We never got to see each other again after that. So it was just left open ended... I just couldn't let that happen again with another girl I had feelings for, so I had to write her that message. For better or worse Nicole will always have had some effect on me. https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.18169-9/27236_100894853282926_8253884_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=5f2048&_nc_ohc=g5LPIsd7adUQ7kNvgE76isO&_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.xx&oh=00_AfAR1obNk8VCUZR1qnadg_7JF2c4-VT2vs6QoOkSXglb9Q&oe=66591BF5 Her name was Genavieve. Gena for short. And yeah, she'll always have a special place in my heart. There will always be that little ember that burns for her, no matter how much time passes. It took me a while to come to terms with that, but at the end of the day I suppose it truly is a beautiful thing. Fuck me, now I'm crying again.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 2:11:00 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: Her name was Genavieve. Gena for short. And yeah, she'll always have a special place in my heart. There will always be that little ember that burns for her, no matter how much time passes. It took me a while to come to terms with that, but at the end of the day I suppose it truly is a beautiful thing. Fuck me, now I'm crying again. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm gonna have to post the story. Alright, here it goes... "My boss, who I've worked for for over 20 years, used to board horses as a side gig. He had maybe 13 at most at one point and he had the cheapest fees around at $175 per month. But anyways, he did that from about 2005 through to the midpoint of 2021. There was a girl I took notice of a few years prior to him getting out of it that had her horses boarded there. I never purposefully went out of my way to talk to any of the horse's owners, but as I was working around they would occasionally wave and/or say "hi" and I'd wave and say "hi" back. I never wanted to socialize or bother anyone of course as it's not in my personality. So it was either the end of August or start of September 2020, I had gone down to feed the horses that evening as my boss had went on vacation and I was his go to for taking care of things while he was away. So I get down there and this girl that I mentioned pulls in to take one of her horses out for a ride and she was having a hell of a time backing up to her trailer (not a problem I ever saw her have before). I was watching this in my rear view mirror as I sat in my truck waiting for her to take her horse and go, but she was having no luck. I even saw her get out of her truck a few times to come back and look to see how close to lined up she was to the hitch of the trailer. She was so frustrated on the second to last attempt that she clenched her fists and stomped at the ground and walked back in a puff to make another attempt. Well, by that point I finally couldn't take watching her and not offering to help, and against my anxiety that had me waiting too long to offer a hand I finally got up the nerve and got out of my truck to walk over to try and help guide her back. Though she had finally gotten it as I was coming over... She said she was so used to the back up camera on her husband's truck that the truck she had brought today (which didn't have a back up camera) was not so easy for her and she was very out of practice. So she thanked me for coming over to try and help and I held off on feeding the horses so she could get hers and go. I just awkwardly stood there and filled up the water trough as she did that... So as she was getting ready to leave she asked me for a flake of hay which I handed to her and she was off on her way. We only ever waved and said "hi" to each other a couple times after that point. Wasn't thrilled to find out she was married. So fast forward to the end of June 2021 as my boss was getting out of horse boarding, the girl I mentioned was the last to be leaving and still had her 2 horses boarded at my boss's place. I was feeling like I wish I could have talked more to this girl at some point and knew I'd probably never see her again once she left, So I wrote her a somewhat long winded note feeling that it was down to the last minute and I put it inside her trailer where she would easily see it. Didn't hear a thing after she got it. After the 4th of July she came back and got her horses and she was gone... A couple days later I went down to head off on a job with my boss and he said someone had left me an envelope in their mail box. I was very excited to hear that and also felt somewhat sick at the same time. I knew who it had to be from, but up to that point I was sure I wasn't going to hear back from her. I believed I had weirded her out with the note, but nope! She wrote me a very nice note back and I couldn't believe it! It really made my year. It would be awesome and anxiety inducing if we ever cross paths again, I almost hope that we do." I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? Holy cow man, I went through all the same emotions. I went and re edited the letter a few times before I finally left it in her trailer (her name was Rachel)... Then the next day I got cold feet about it and took it back out and re edited it again and put it back in her trailer. The anxiety I had over that week was nauseating and exhausting, but in the end I believe that I would have regretted it if I hadn't of done it. Just like the girl I have posted pictures of in this thread, I will always have a spot for the girl I wrote that letter to. Like you, I could tell I had struck a nerve in seeing what she wrote back to me and I hope she always keeps it. I never got to say goodbye to the girl in the pictures (her name was Nicole)... The last day I saw her (probably 1994) she hid me behind a tree so our parents couldn't see us and put her arms around me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss, and at that point I knew we were together. Then my family moved and that was it. I was homeschooled with my brothers and she went through the public school system. We never got to see each other again after that. So it was just left open ended... I just couldn't let that happen again with another girl I had feelings for, so I had to write her that message. For better or worse Nicole will always have had some effect on me. https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.18169-9/27236_100894853282926_8253884_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=5f2048&_nc_ohc=g5LPIsd7adUQ7kNvgE76isO&_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.xx&oh=00_AfAR1obNk8VCUZR1qnadg_7JF2c4-VT2vs6QoOkSXglb9Q&oe=66591BF5 Her name was Genavieve. Gena for short. And yeah, she'll always have a special place in my heart. There will always be that little ember that burns for her, no matter how much time passes. It took me a while to come to terms with that, but at the end of the day I suppose it truly is a beautiful thing. Fuck me, now I'm crying again. And that's how it goes... Twice, maybe three times in this thread now I got pretty emotional myself while writing out replies bringing up the past. Nothing to be ashamed of at all. Honestly, I was a little hesitant to share the names (and especially the pictures) of any of the girls I've been talking about, but I just feel better telling the stories and being able to put a name to the face. I don't have any pictures of Rachel, but I'd post them if I had them. Worst case scenario with the one pictured is that someone recognizes or knows her and blabs my story to her, and honestly I wouldn't be against it if she got to see all of what has been said here. I imagine you might feel similar about that. Thanks for sharing and telling your stories. It was good having something to relate to.  And have a good night! -556Cliff |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 2:47:08 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: And that's how it goes... Twice, maybe three times in this thread now I got pretty emotional myself while writing out replies bringing up the past. Nothing to be ashamed of at all. Honestly, I was a little hesitant to share the names (and especially the pictures) of any of the girls I've been talking about, but I just feel better telling the stories and being able to put a name to the face. I don't have any pictures of Rachel, but I'd post them if I had them. Worst case scenario with the one pictured is that someone recognizes or knows her and blabs my story to her, and honestly I wouldn't be against it if she got to see all of what has been said here. I imagine you might feel similar about that. Thanks for sharing and telling your stories. It was good having something to relate to. And have a good night! Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Originally Posted By CastleBravo91: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I'm gonna have to post the story. Alright, here it goes... "My boss, who I've worked for for over 20 years, used to board horses as a side gig. He had maybe 13 at most at one point and he had the cheapest fees around at $175 per month. But anyways, he did that from about 2005 through to the midpoint of 2021. There was a girl I took notice of a few years prior to him getting out of it that had her horses boarded there. I never purposefully went out of my way to talk to any of the horse's owners, but as I was working around they would occasionally wave and/or say "hi" and I'd wave and say "hi" back. I never wanted to socialize or bother anyone of course as it's not in my personality. So it was either the end of August or start of September 2020, I had gone down to feed the horses that evening as my boss had went on vacation and I was his go to for taking care of things while he was away. So I get down there and this girl that I mentioned pulls in to take one of her horses out for a ride and she was having a hell of a time backing up to her trailer (not a problem I ever saw her have before). I was watching this in my rear view mirror as I sat in my truck waiting for her to take her horse and go, but she was having no luck. I even saw her get out of her truck a few times to come back and look to see how close to lined up she was to the hitch of the trailer. She was so frustrated on the second to last attempt that she clenched her fists and stomped at the ground and walked back in a puff to make another attempt. Well, by that point I finally couldn't take watching her and not offering to help, and against my anxiety that had me waiting too long to offer a hand I finally got up the nerve and got out of my truck to walk over to try and help guide her back. Though she had finally gotten it as I was coming over... She said she was so used to the back up camera on her husband's truck that the truck she had brought today (which didn't have a back up camera) was not so easy for her and she was very out of practice. So she thanked me for coming over to try and help and I held off on feeding the horses so she could get hers and go. I just awkwardly stood there and filled up the water trough as she did that... So as she was getting ready to leave she asked me for a flake of hay which I handed to her and she was off on her way. We only ever waved and said "hi" to each other a couple times after that point. Wasn't thrilled to find out she was married. So fast forward to the end of June 2021 as my boss was getting out of horse boarding, the girl I mentioned was the last to be leaving and still had her 2 horses boarded at my boss's place. I was feeling like I wish I could have talked more to this girl at some point and knew I'd probably never see her again once she left, So I wrote her a somewhat long winded note feeling that it was down to the last minute and I put it inside her trailer where she would easily see it. Didn't hear a thing after she got it. After the 4th of July she came back and got her horses and she was gone... A couple days later I went down to head off on a job with my boss and he said someone had left me an envelope in their mail box. I was very excited to hear that and also felt somewhat sick at the same time. I knew who it had to be from, but up to that point I was sure I wasn't going to hear back from her. I believed I had weirded her out with the note, but nope! She wrote me a very nice note back and I couldn't believe it! It really made my year. It would be awesome and anxiety inducing if we ever cross paths again, I almost hope that we do." I wrote a letter to that girl I worked with who I was crazy over when she finally left work for a different job, this walking completely out of my life. Went through several drafts, because I poured out everything I wanted to say to her, good and bad. Older guy I worked with was helping me with lady issues, he told me to do this: when you have something to say to her, sit down and write a letter like you intend to give it to her. Say whatever you're gonna say, let the consciousness flow, get it all out on that paper. Seal it up, then put it away, don't give it to her. Come back to it a few days later and read it. Now, how much of what you said would you have regretted had you actually gave her the note? So I did exactly that, and kept revising, and revising, and revising until I finally had something I wanted her to read. She actually came to work while I was on shift to tell me how sweet it was, and she was half crying about it, saying no one has ever gave her something like that. I could tell it struck a nerve. I often wonder if she held onto it. Fucking A, even typing this out I'm getting watery eyes thinking about the whole thing. Goddamn it, why do I do this to myself? Holy cow man, I went through all the same emotions. I went and re edited the letter a few times before I finally left it in her trailer (her name was Rachel)... Then the next day I got cold feet about it and took it back out and re edited it again and put it back in her trailer. The anxiety I had over that week was nauseating and exhausting, but in the end I believe that I would have regretted it if I hadn't of done it. Just like the girl I have posted pictures of in this thread, I will always have a spot for the girl I wrote that letter to. Like you, I could tell I had struck a nerve in seeing what she wrote back to me and I hope she always keeps it. I never got to say goodbye to the girl in the pictures (her name was Nicole)... The last day I saw her (probably 1994) she hid me behind a tree so our parents couldn't see us and put her arms around me and gave me the biggest hug and kiss, and at that point I knew we were together. Then my family moved and that was it. I was homeschooled with my brothers and she went through the public school system. We never got to see each other again after that. So it was just left open ended... I just couldn't let that happen again with another girl I had feelings for, so I had to write her that message. For better or worse Nicole will always have had some effect on me. https://scontent-sea1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.18169-9/27236_100894853282926_8253884_n.jpg?_nc_cat=103&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=5f2048&_nc_ohc=g5LPIsd7adUQ7kNvgE76isO&_nc_ht=scontent-sea1-1.xx&oh=00_AfAR1obNk8VCUZR1qnadg_7JF2c4-VT2vs6QoOkSXglb9Q&oe=66591BF5 Her name was Genavieve. Gena for short. And yeah, she'll always have a special place in my heart. There will always be that little ember that burns for her, no matter how much time passes. It took me a while to come to terms with that, but at the end of the day I suppose it truly is a beautiful thing. Fuck me, now I'm crying again. And that's how it goes... Twice, maybe three times in this thread now I got pretty emotional myself while writing out replies bringing up the past. Nothing to be ashamed of at all. Honestly, I was a little hesitant to share the names (and especially the pictures) of any of the girls I've been talking about, but I just feel better telling the stories and being able to put a name to the face. I don't have any pictures of Rachel, but I'd post them if I had them. Worst case scenario with the one pictured is that someone recognizes or knows her and blabs my story to her, and honestly I wouldn't be against it if she got to see all of what has been said here. I imagine you might feel similar about that. Thanks for sharing and telling your stories. It was good having something to relate to. And have a good night! Yeah, I do feel similar. In spite of the crazy things I ended up doing that drove her away and maybe even burned a bridge, I would hope she knows that my feelings for her were true and pure, and if I could tell her one thing it would be "I'm sorry for being crazy, and I hope we can still be friends." That is one thing that makes we want to cross paths again, if I could know for sure that she forgives me that's all I would need. I imagine she does, but I'd like to know for sure. And yeah, no problem with sharing. This is actually the most I've ever discussed my love life with anyone, ever. I just don't talk about it. Feels good, I needed to, since I've been frustrated about it for a while.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 7:55:51 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Not really sure how managing to gain a purely platonic relationship with a woman would be any less difficult though? Just shitpost at them |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:32:40 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By iwouldntknow: Just shitpost at them Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By iwouldntknow: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Not really sure how managing to gain a purely platonic relationship with a woman would be any less difficult though? Just shitpost at them Through what medium? As mentioned, I don't really do social media (unless you count gun forums). Not that I believe sh!t posting to random girls would be a great way to kick anything off. I did have an Instagram account for a while and hated it. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:38:36 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: I have heard of online gambling, still not for me though. I'm not going to get all that specific on my location, but of the two biggest cities in Washington, I'm near one of them and it's not Seattle. The roads are bad where I'm from. spent a couple decades there for work one year. you should head 'er on down to Hoffman's and find me a deal on some new boots. https://hoffmanboots.com/product/xt-powerline-composite-toe-2/  |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:41:21 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: Yeah, I do feel similar. In spite of the crazy things I ended up doing that drove her away and maybe even burned a bridge, I would hope she knows that my feelings for her were true and pure, and if I could tell her one thing it would be "I'm sorry for being crazy, and I hope we can still be friends." That is one thing that makes we want to cross paths again, if I could know for sure that she forgives me that's all I would need. I imagine she does, but I'd like to know for sure. And yeah, no problem with sharing. This is actually the most I've ever discussed my love life with anyone, ever. I just don't talk about it. Feels good, I needed to, since I've been frustrated about it for a while. So I think with that we have to ask ourselves, how has this not been a form of online therapy? Probably better than a real in person therapy session honestly, because (at least for me) I didn't hold too much back. This was a lot cheaper too.  Same with me, it just felt good to vent a little and get some things out of my own mind. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:42:59 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: So I think with that we have to ask ourselves, how has this not been a form of online therapy? Probably better than a real in person therapy session honestly, because (at least for me) I didn't hold too much back. This was a lot cheaper too. Same with me, it just felt good to vent a little and get some things out of my own mind. think of all the hot little chicas at texas roadhouse who can't make rent today. help out a hot little chica at the texas roadhouse. do it for merica. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:48:41 AM EDT
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My career IS my hobby—in an awesome way, not a bad way. I get paid to fly high performance business jets.
Now, my odometer just turned over 65 and my job is a lot more work than I’d like but, it still gives me enjoyment and pretty good bucks. I’d love to still be chasing strange pussy but that had its own set of drawbacks. The wife is chill when I go out with my buddies and vice versa. If I could fly contract gigs 10 days a month and travel with the wife, that would be ideal. But, she’s working too much, too. I guess we’ll see where we end up. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:49:18 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: spokompton, you say? spent a couple decades there for work one year. you should head 'er on down to Hoffman's and find me a deal on some new boots. https://hoffmanboots.com/product/xt-powerline-composite-toe-2/ https://hoffmanboots.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/products-0001021_xt-powerline-composite-toe.jpeg Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: I have heard of online gambling, still not for me though. I'm not going to get all that specific on my location, but of the two biggest cities in Washington, I'm near one of them and it's not Seattle. The roads are bad where I'm from. spent a couple decades there for work one year. you should head 'er on down to Hoffman's and find me a deal on some new boots. https://hoffmanboots.com/product/xt-powerline-composite-toe-2/ https://hoffmanboots.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/products-0001021_xt-powerline-composite-toe.jpeg I do need to get some new boots. Problem I'm having lately is that the place I got boots from for over ten years discontinued the model I've always worn... Everyone switched to 100% waterproof which doesn't work out so great working in the Summer heat. That picture I posted of Nicole above, that was around 2010... It's not safe to walk in that area unarmed anymore, really the whole city is like that at this point. -556Cliff |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 10:53:19 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: i just paid my rent. think of all the hot little chicas at texas roadhouse who can't make rent today. help out a hot little chica at the texas roadhouse. do it for merica. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: So I think with that we have to ask ourselves, how has this not been a form of online therapy? Probably better than a real in person therapy session honestly, because (at least for me) I didn't hold too much back. This was a lot cheaper too. Same with me, it just felt good to vent a little and get some things out of my own mind. think of all the hot little chicas at texas roadhouse who can't make rent today. help out a hot little chica at the texas roadhouse. do it for merica. You really have a thing for the Texas Roadhouse. Maybe possibly more so than for the women that work there? I imagine you'll be there by the end of the day. 
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:05:57 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: You really have a thing for the Texas Roadhouse. Maybe possibly more so than for the women that work there? I imagine you'll be there by the end of the day. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:10:29 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: @Wolverine1776 for less than two years of rent on a shitass studio in the worst part of town you can build one of these:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZzqBh9LOTsGotta be careful where you park it. Hoodrats will break in to steal the packages when you go inside to fuck your dental hygienist. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:13:23 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: all you need to know when you see a hot little chica at the roadhouse who needs a little help with the rent is: ay, mami! Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: You really have a thing for the Texas Roadhouse. Maybe possibly more so than for the women that work there? I imagine you'll be there by the end of the day. 
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:14:00 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: you can't let those crazy hot young horny bishes blow you in the pahkin' lot at the bar and then bring you home to bend them over the back of the couch with your belt around her neck like a leash and one thumb pressed firmly against her pretty little freshly bleached and waxed booty hole. no sir. https://y.yarn.co/b644935e-4517-4485-8cab-245dcb770842_text.gif They ALL want that. They just may not be aware that they do.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:15:05 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By NoStockBikes: Pretty much this. My theory: Stage 1: Crazy, dumb and broke. Stage 2: Responsible adult rasing productive members of society. Stage 3: Crazy but wise, now with grown up money. Stage 4: Nursing home.  Attached File |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:22:58 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By showmeballer: Take an Uber tonight to a local sports bar (strip club is 10x better) with chick bartenders and get some liquid courage to start talking to women. You need to take baby steps first and start with talking to pros. If this isn't trolling and you are actually a virgin you need to get this sorted out right now. All this gay talk about dating sites and anxiety isn't going to change anything. This. I have had several bartender “girlfriends” who I'd met after my divorce. I’d just go shoot the shit with during the slack after lunch period. Once they figured out I wasn’t hitting on them, they gave pretty good advice. They were total train wrecks in their own lives but they knew women and what it took to get them in the sack. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:30:28 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By denverdan: Bruh. You’re making me sad. We need to hang out. I can teach how to be proper degenerate. Teach him how to string power lines and the chick stuff is easy?
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:32:20 AM EDT
[#41]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: recently i skipped going to dinner with coworkers so i could instead use the cash to purchase moar harbor freight tools. https://i.redd.it/c07o227n7a9c1.jpeg well that and who wants to pay $18 for a hamburger in this economy? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: Originally Posted By 556Cliff: Honestly I've had similarly awkward experiences eating dinner with some of the guys I work for and their wives... It certainly was a development experience. https://i.redd.it/c07o227n7a9c1.jpeg well that and who wants to pay $18 for a hamburger in this economy? Just as good
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:32:31 AM EDT
[Last Edit: rtlm]
[#42]
Double tap for cliff
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:39:19 AM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By RRA_223: You're stuck picking from the pieces of failed dreams and trying to find the most normal of what's left. Make the most of it... really - what else do you have left to lose? It’s liberating when you get to that point. You swing, miss and move on. Nothing personal—you have to be really mercenary about chicks. Shoot the shit with them for a few minutes and you both know if you’re gonna get laid. If the vibe is “no”, move on. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:40:32 AM EDT
[#44]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By CastleBravo91: I went on Etsy and bought a "lot of 5" so I could pick a favorite, then they sent me friggin 18 of them for some reason. So now I have crystals hanging all over the place. After all, this thread is about single people doing "crazy shit."  Top one is smokey quartz. https://i.ibb.co/4NRqwtm/IMG-20240428-204644135.jpg Gettin’ laid by nutty hippy chicks? Great angle, CB!
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:44:53 AM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: is there anything sadder than 556Cliff picking out a Digiorno For One microwave pizza and 20-oz mountain dew at the grocery store on sunday night and not finding a timbersports gorl to take him home and have her way with him? https://bloximages.newyork1.vip.townnews.com/eastoregonian.com/content/tncms/assets/v3/editorial/1/b2/1b203424-d2b1-11eb-8159-5749a23dd331/60d0c3df1ba33.image.jpg?resize=333%2C500 I think I talked to her in that bar in Appleton with all the Christmas lights up year round. Cleo’s or something like that… I’m a little foggy on the events that night.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:52:31 AM EDT
[#46]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: I actually had homemade fajitas... I don't eat all that much processed frozen food and it's rare that I drink soda. I didn't even go out today other than to make a trip over to take care of one of my neighbors dogs and horses while they are away on vacation. Edit: Gorl, seems like a very manly woman...  I'm not sure if I have a type, but I'm sure I'm not into gorls.Remember, this one is/was my base line... https://media.licdn.com/dms/image/C5603AQGuyfQAd4tjYg/profile-displayphoto-shrink_200_200/0/1517072652198?e=2147483647&v=beta&t=xOP9zn1QuyDE1CqXtYXy4S2bmb4tQZXfnJcGrMok7LM Fun fact: Her Mom was my dental hygienist up until I was a teenager (she's the wife of one of my Dad's old friends), but anyways, about 10 or so years ago in a Christmas card she sent to my parents, she maybe not so jokingly asked if I was still available for her daughter... This was shortly after she had just went through a divorce from her first husband. I'm not sure that my Mom ever got back to her on that, but I probably wouldn't have really considered it anyways since she had kids by that point. I think her Mom always hoped her daughter had went with me over the guys she ended up with. I wasn't bad looking around that time and I still had most of my hair... I even wore jeans back then, lol. We might have made a good match. Just thinking about it all here recently makes me kind of sad. https://i.imgur.com/KYmRT6Yl.jpg Hey, I have one I should have married. Same deal, we were good friends and went out and did stuff but, I just wasn’t ready to have a wife before I had a career. She married another guy she dated on and off and lived in Peoria. She got killed in a car crash 20 years ago. I often think how my life would have been different/better had I grabbed her back right out of college. Like JLP said, you lay awake at night contemplating your bad decisions… |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:56:21 AM EDT
[#47]
Cliff:
I know a cute young Latina looking for a husband so she can stay. 22 with a 2yr old but she’s hunting. Her English is just ok. So you could smile a lot and just nod your head.
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Posted: 5/1/2024 11:58:30 AM EDT
[#48]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By 556Cliff: Through what medium? As mentioned, I don't really do social media (unless you count gun forums). Not that I believe sh!t posting to random girls would be a great way to kick anything off. I did have an Instagram account for a while and hated it. Text your number neighbors. |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:22:21 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: in the time it took you to write all this you could've hit on all the waitresses at texas roadhouse, found a couple who need help paying the rent tomorrow, and profited. the rare and true gems come out of the woodwork when the rent is due and/or they have cah repairs that need funding.  Attached File |
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Posted: 5/1/2024 12:24:30 PM EDT
[#50]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JLPettimoreIII: how can you not like steak? Go for the steak. Stay for the waitresses? I’m a Longhorn guy (only on the company credit card…) but TRH will work fine. |
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