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Posted: 4/26/2024 11:45:54 AM EDT


You know the homeless person you see begging dressed like a bum


that's me everyday
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 11:52:07 AM EDT
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Retired?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 11:53:42 AM EDT
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You mean like the team of folks that take shifts sitting in the boulevard at the parking lot entrance of the grocery store with their newish car parked on the other side of the street?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 11:54:21 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Frank_B:
Retired?
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Yep and when I have to face the world I realize I can't go out in public like this.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 11:54:34 AM EDT
[#4]
I feel your pain.


<------- work from home
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:08:41 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Dissident:
You mean like the team of folks that take shifts sitting in the boulevard at the parking lot entrance of the grocery store with their newish car parked on the other side of the street?
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Almost word for word to what I saw in Hendersonville, NC.

I was in the Walmart parking lot, waiting to meet a guy who wanted to buy something we were selling on Craigslist. I watch a late model Camry pull up, a couple of mid-twenty years olds get out and go around to the trunk. They start dressing out like AT through-hikers, complete with staffs, backpacks and boots, and he puts on a chest papoose baby carrier for the infant strapped in the back seat. At that point they "hiked" down to the light, right across from Chic-fil-A and set up in the median. When I left I was shocked to see their sign...some bullshit about being stranded and out of baby food.

This wasn't panhandling, it was outright fraud. They'd thought this through, and were raking in cash.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:12:28 PM EDT
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My Father always said, "Look good, feel good."

As I get older I've become even more orderly with everything including my grooming.  My Jeep is spotless, I make my bed every single morning, and I get a haircut every two weeks whether I need it or not.  I dress nicely, I have clothing for each season and change out my closet so that everything is nice and at hand.

As the world slides into chaos all around us, I think it's important to put in good order that which we can put in good order.  

Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:32:23 PM EDT
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Fellow retired pants hater, op.
We need a leaving the house support forum.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:34:17 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Enzo300:
Fellow retired pants hater, op.
We need a leaving the house support forum.
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Count me in
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:35:36 PM EDT
[#9]
A fresh pair of basketball shorts and new Crocs make the man
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:37:36 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:41:33 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Dissident:
You mean like the team of folks that take shifts sitting in the boulevard at the parking lot entrance of the grocery store with their newish car parked on the other side of the street?
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Yes, one works, the others rest on break with their iphone and smokes.  Don't forget the sympathy dog.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:45:47 PM EDT
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I've got 30 year old overalls I still wear.

What does that tell you?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:46:41 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:

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Guess you don't grocery shop at Walmart...
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:47:50 PM EDT
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PJ’s and fuzzy slippers like the low class trollops
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:48:32 PM EDT
[#15]
Can't you just order groceries to be delivered and stay in your underpants?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:49:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By wildearp:
Yes, one works, the others rest on break with their iphone and smokes.  Don't forget the sympathy dog.
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off a local highway near me, these assholes have fucking kids out there. and they have the balls to walk up and start knocking on windows when you ignore them. more then a few times (because its on my way home) I've rolled my window a couple inches and told them to politely fuck off and dont touch my vehicle.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:51:54 PM EDT
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And there it is.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:52:42 PM EDT
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See, that's why I like Dollar General.

You don't have to get all dressed up like when you go to the Walmarts.



ETA: Dammit!

Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:52:46 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:53:08 PM EDT
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Same here. Might hit a movie at the mall later. Can't be a bum all day every day
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:57:10 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Osprey61:


Almost word for word to what I saw in Hendersonville, NC.

I was in the Walmart parking lot, waiting to meet a guy who wanted to buy something we were selling on Craigslist. I watch a late model Camry pull up, a couple of mid-twenty years olds get out and go around to the trunk. They start dressing out like AT through-hikers, complete with staffs, backpacks and boots, and he puts on a chest papoose baby carrier for the infant strapped in the back seat. At that point they "hiked" down to the light, right across from Chic-fil-A and set up in the median. When I left I was shocked to see their sign...some bullshit about being stranded and out of baby food.

This wasn't panhandling, it was outright fraud. They'd thought this through, and were raking in cash.
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Originally Posted By Osprey61:
Originally Posted By Dissident:
You mean like the team of folks that take shifts sitting in the boulevard at the parking lot entrance of the grocery store with their newish car parked on the other side of the street?


Almost word for word to what I saw in Hendersonville, NC.

I was in the Walmart parking lot, waiting to meet a guy who wanted to buy something we were selling on Craigslist. I watch a late model Camry pull up, a couple of mid-twenty years olds get out and go around to the trunk. They start dressing out like AT through-hikers, complete with staffs, backpacks and boots, and he puts on a chest papoose baby carrier for the infant strapped in the back seat. At that point they "hiked" down to the light, right across from Chic-fil-A and set up in the median. When I left I was shocked to see their sign...some bullshit about being stranded and out of baby food.

This wasn't panhandling, it was outright fraud. They'd thought this through, and were raking in cash.


And not an isolated incident

https://www.ksl.com/article/27782692/business-of-begging-the-real-stories-behind-utah-panhandling
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:04:05 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:


You know the homeless person you see begging dressed like a bum

that's me everyday
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I had a friend, now deceased, who "dressed down" daily. I asked him why, he said, it was his grey man and "no one asks me for anything."
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:47:30 PM EDT
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fugum......crocs, shorts, t-shirt , and I guess I'll put on underwear.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:58:40 PM EDT
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I feel you, OP.

I work from home and I really have started to resent the days I have to put on "outdoor" clothes.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:29:23 PM EDT
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Shorts and T shirt six days a week this time of year. Even when going up town.  

Got to wear a suit to a wedding next month. I dread it.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:32:27 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:

Yep and when I have to face the world I realize I can't go out in public like this.
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:
Originally Posted By Frank_B:
Retired?

Yep and when I have to face the world I realize I can't go out in public like this.

Why not I do.

Fuck it
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:36:17 PM EDT
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If you move to a rural enough area people don't care what you wear to the store anymore.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:36:45 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Enzo300:
Fellow retired pants hater, op.
We need a leaving the house support forum.
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:37:31 PM EDT
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InstaCart, sir.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:40:35 PM EDT
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In the vernacular of my people… You a puttin’ on yer goin’ duds er yer Sundee meeting’ clothes?”
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:43:12 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:43:21 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By greenranger:

Why not I do.

Fuck it
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I don't know

When messing around on my property  going fishing or hiking walking with the dog I might look like the homeless bum you meet in the woods

When I go out in public I still dress somewhat normal but I guess it doesn't matter

It's just habit I guess
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:44:22 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Butternut:
OP, that's what I call "shower day" around here.
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:49:38 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Jack19:


I had a friend, now deceased, who "dressed down" daily. I asked him why, he said, it was his grey man and "no one asks me for anything."
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:


You know the homeless person you see begging dressed like a bum

that's me everyday


I had a friend, now deceased, who "dressed down" daily. I asked him why, he said, it was his grey man and "no one asks me for anything."

"The millionaire next door"...
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:51:13 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Butternut:
OP, that's what I call "shower day" around here.
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Why would you want anyone to get that close to you?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:29:46 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By HoodyHoo21:
I feel your pain.


<------- work from home
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:45:26 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:

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Face the day,
Embrace the pain!
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 5:06:27 PM EDT
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I spread a couple hundred pounds of fertilizer on the yard this morning and realized I needed two or three more bags.  Headed to Walmart in dirty shorts, sweaty t-shirt, ball cap, crocs with socks.  ZFG.  Retired life!
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 5:10:57 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:

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Why not?

Give no fucks, man. Not a single one. You're not going to a damn fashion show, you're going to buy groceries. Nobody cares what you look like, as long as your card goes through.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 5:26:06 PM EDT
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Wouldn’t be any different that some that Insee in PJs in the store.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 6:57:20 PM EDT
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4 years retired and I feel your pain OOP. Sometimes you just have to look a bit better than a hobo so ya gotta get cleaned up.
It sux.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 7:01:44 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By icemann0:
PJ's and fuzzy slippers like the low class trollops
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Don't judge until you've walked a few hundred yards in their flip flops.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:00:20 PM EDT
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Too funny. Today was our weekly going into town 45 minutes away for shopping and lunch. I too had to put on underwear.

What does a cheap hotel and underwear have in common?

No ball room.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:07:16 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:

Yep and when I have to face the world I realize I can't go out in public like this.
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Originally Posted By ranging-by-zipcode:
Originally Posted By Frank_B:
Retired?

Yep and when I have to face the world I realize I can't go out in public like this.


I'm retired and I live alone.

sometimes my laundry is five pairs of boxers, one shirt and a pair of shorts.
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