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Posted: 4/9/2024 8:17:15 PM EDT
[Last Edit: HKocher]
Since abortion seems to be the topic of the day, let me pose this question.

I think most of us can agree that abortion is disgusting and abstinence or contraception is preferable, but this thread is about reality, not your personal morals.

Quick googling informs me that there are 500k - 1,500k abortions a year in the US, while there are 50k - 100k adoptions in the US per year. Feel free to correct my numbers. We can also agree that the adoption process in the US needs reform, but we’re still talking about at best, a surplus of 400k unwanted babies.

So what do we do with these children?

Force them on the parent(s) that didn’t want them?
Force them on pro-lifers?
Cheap labor?
Child super soldiers?
Put them in prison or mental institutions where they will inevitable end up?

FWIW, I’ve known many families that adopted, and in almost all of those cases, the child was serious messed up for life due to lack of love and affection in the infant stage.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:18:24 PM EDT
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Child super soldiers has a nice ring to it.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:18:37 PM EDT
[#2]
I guess we can stop importing third worlders for one
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:18:44 PM EDT
[#3]
How about concentrating on contraception.  

Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:19:39 PM EDT
[#4]
We could stop having unwanted children?
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:20:13 PM EDT
[#5]
The adoption numbers are not higher because there are not that many babies to adopt.

Adoptions would go up if more children were born.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:20:25 PM EDT
[Last Edit: AT-ST83] [#6]
Crime increases 2x-4x about 18-25 years from now.

Every politician wanted to credit the rapid fall of crime in the 90's to updated policing policies. But, there is a very good, data driven argument that credits it to Roe vs Wade in 1973.  All the "unwanted" children that were never born would have been 18-25 years old in the 90's; that is the statistical sweet spot for young males to commit crime.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:20:49 PM EDT
[#7]
Baby - The Other Other White Meat.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:21:36 PM EDT
[#8]
We train them to work work work. Social Security is saved.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:21:41 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Cincinnatus] [#9]
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:21:42 PM EDT
[Last Edit: DDDDCheapAF] [#10]
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Originally Posted By AT-ST83:
Crime increases 2x-4x about 15-18 years from now.
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There is that inconvenient truth .Morality today or a ton of feral little shitstains tomorrow? That quiet beach town in a faraway country is looking better all the time .
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:22:05 PM EDT
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Birth control sound be drug tested to qualify for welfare
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:22:08 PM EDT
[#12]
How about we stop subsidizing single parent households, and start depending on personal responsibility ?
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:22:11 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By TarzanT:
How about concentrating on contraception.  

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Do we force that contraception by govt mandate?
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:22:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lungbuster:
Child super soldiers has a nice ring to it.
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Probably not going to work out the way it does in Soldier.

Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:22:47 PM EDT
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Force the parents to raise them or go to prison for being a piece of shit and abandoning their offspring?
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:23:03 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By TarzanT:
How about concentrating on contraception.  

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Stupid people don’t use it.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:23:11 PM EDT
[Last Edit: MMcfpd] [#17]
Abortion is not going to be banned in the country as a whole.

Thoughts I've had as to how to address the tsunami of fatherless children (Abortion Rights Revisited).
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:23:41 PM EDT
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[#19]
imagine if we were killing puppies at the same rate we murder babies
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:23:54 PM EDT
[#20]
The world we live in, is not going to stop abortions.  Of all the things to ponder, that is way the fuck down the list.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:24:30 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:24:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Obo2:
The adoption numbers are not higher because there are not that many babies to adopt.

Adoptions would go up if more children were born.
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Would they? Are there really that many families willing to adopt based on charity or lack of fertility? I seriously doubt it.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:25:31 PM EDT
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Save 'em all, let God sort 'em out.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:25:35 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Cincinnatus:


No need to force it.

Such a cultural reset would bring back shotgun weddings
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You assume that there is a father or grandfather figure to enforce that shotgun marriage.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:25:38 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:26:43 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Cincinnatus] [#26]
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:26:53 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lungbuster:
Child super soldiers has a nice ring to it.
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The Soldier(1998): Children turned into killing machines(Scene 2)
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:27:44 PM EDT
[#28]
OP it’s a solid question without an easy answer.

The leftists are in control of the adoption processes so you can be sure that a lot of good people are getting filtered out.  

There are a lot of bad policies that government has created.  People need to be rewarded for being responsible and punished for not being responsible.  Unfortunately everything is backwards.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:27:51 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By BladedRonin:
How about we stop subsidizing single parent households, and start depending on personal responsibility ?
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Can’t disagree there, but again this thread is about (an imagined) reality.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:28:02 PM EDT
[#30]
What are we doing with the unwanted illegal's?
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:28:16 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Thrasymachus] [#31]
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Originally Posted By Lungbuster:
Child super soldiers has a nice ring to it.
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We can call them Astartes.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:28:26 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By HKocher:

Do we force that contraception by govt mandate?
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You take away incentives to be irresponsible.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:28:57 PM EDT
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What will happen in response is cheap clinics that offer sterilization.

And they will offer it to 18-21 yr olds without parents or spouses permission or notification.

Planned parenthood will turn into sterilization clinics, it will now become the modern cool thing to do. Eventually medicade and states will subside it and offer it for free.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:29:40 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Thrasymachus:


We can call them Astartes.
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I’m okay with that.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:30:19 PM EDT
[#36]
Labor pool issues would be sorted without having to import third-worlders, military recruitment number problems would be solved, collapsing birthrate would be addressed, lots of upside.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:30:19 PM EDT
[Last Edit: boolzi] [#37]
Originally Posted By HKocher:
Since abortion seems to be the topic of the day, let me pose this question.

I think most of us can agree that abortion is disgusting and abstinence or contraception is preferable, but this thread is about reality, not your personal morals.

Quick googling informs me that there are 500k - 1,500k abortions a year in the US, while there are 50k - 100k adoptions in the US per year. Feel free to correct my numbers. We can also agree that the adoption process in the US needs reform, but we’re still talking about at best, a surplus of 400k unwanted babies.

So what do we do with these children?

Force them on the parent(s) that didn’t want them?
Force them on pro-lifers?
Cheap labor?
Child super soldiers?
Put them in prison or mental institutions where they will inevitable end up?

FWIW, I’ve known many families that adopted, and in almost all of those cases, the child was serious messed up for life due to lack of love and affection in the infant stage.
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Kill the parents.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:30:33 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By FistPeso:


You take away incentives to be irresponsible.
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Again, I’m 100% in support of that, but don’t ever see it happening.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:30:44 PM EDT
[#39]
Make pit bulls great again.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:31:03 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Hillbilly62:
What are we doing with the unwanted illegal's?
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They become the unwanted childrens bosses.

They can use their hard work and taxes to finance new illegals. Gonna need a lot of new workers to support illegals and SS.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:31:14 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By runcible:
Baby - The Other Other White Meat.
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A swift reply with a modest proposal!

Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:31:30 PM EDT
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The reality would be even more money dumped into child services by big gov. They’re not gonna let babies starve on the street after all so Uncle Sam will take them all in and provide. Think they’ll sterilize the worst offenders or hold them accountable? Or…people will stop fucking so much? LOL.

Don’t forget the optics as well. 24/7 news stories about botched abortions and all sorts of feels. Think of the children! You think you’re paying a lot now for this shit. Don’t complain when it’s much much worse.

But it’ll never happen. It’ll stay either status quo or back to what it was.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:31:51 PM EDT
[Last Edit: FlamingDragon] [#43]
There are people who are willing to help.

My policy would be the church take care of them. Actually cut all gov. spending for welfare, food stamps, homeless, no more FSA. Give gov. tax breaks to married families with children.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:33:23 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By HKocher:

Would they? Are there really that many families willing to adopt based on charity or lack of fertility? I seriously doubt it.
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Originally Posted By HKocher:
Originally Posted By Obo2:
The adoption numbers are not higher because there are not that many babies to adopt.

Adoptions would go up if more children were born.

Would they? Are there really that many families willing to adopt based on charity or lack of fertility? I seriously doubt it.

A lot more adoptions would absolutely happen if it wasn't such a huge PITA.

We personally know of one family that had conception issues. They had one baby of their own and adopted a foreign child as it was way easier than adopting a US born kid.

From what they told me adopting a US born child was $50k+ and takes around 2 years IF everything goes smoothly.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:33:28 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lungbuster:
Child super soldiers has a nice ring to it.
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Soldier with Kurt Russel came to mind!
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:34:08 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By runcible:
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Raise more Pitbull, problem solves itself.


Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:34:23 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By sawgunner73:
We could stop having unwanted children?
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How simple.   Imagine that.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:34:24 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:34:36 PM EDT
[#49]
Then the next Republican winning strategy is campaigning on telling people not to have sex.
Link Posted: 4/9/2024 8:35:00 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Bye_Felicia] [#50]
Fuck it. Not wadding into another abortion thread.
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