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Posted: 4/24/2024 4:21:05 PM EDT
I've been snarkier than usual and posting like a jerk in some instances.

It's been a tough 4 months - My sister passed at the end of December, and I'm burying my Dad next week. I'm a little pissed off at the world in general.

I'm sorry if I've been more of an ass than usual to anybody.

Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:26:11 PM EDT
[#1]
You never wronged me,
but losing multiple close
family members has got
to be terrible.

I wish you can recover
and find peace in your
life again.

(Steven in Loudoun County, VA.)
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:27:56 PM EDT
[#2]

no worries bro -- this is GD

gotta have a thick skin to play here anyway

hope all is well and everything is looking up for you
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:27:56 PM EDT
[#3]
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:28:56 PM EDT
[#4]
Sorry man. Hope it all eases up on you.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:28:58 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Cobra-Commander] [#5]
GD is serious business.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:30:03 PM EDT
[#6]
Sorry for your losses OP.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:30:46 PM EDT
[#7]
No apologies needed. Sorry for your losses. Losing 2 immediate family members within a few months would be hard on anybody.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:30:49 PM EDT
[#8]
Stay strong
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:31:38 PM EDT
[#9]
Don't sweat it.............you are going through alot, and have my condolences for your losses
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:31:41 PM EDT
[#10]
Losing family sucks OP, you are right to be upset about it....As for GD some here deserve the treatment they get...
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:38:09 PM EDT
[#11]
Sorry for your losses man.

Hang in there.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:39:35 PM EDT
[#12]
That FPNI thing.

Grieving is difficult.

Carry on.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:44:01 PM EDT
[Last Edit: PR361] [#13]
Best wishes, sorry for your losses.

Can’t remember you hurting my feelings…
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:47:41 PM EDT
[#14]
No apology necessary for me.
A thick skin is useful in getting jostled around in GD.
Sorry to hear you've been through a rough patch.
Things will get better.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:48:37 PM EDT
[#15]
There are so many assholes on here, I'm sure no one noticed.

Condolences to you and your family.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:50:11 PM EDT
[#16]
I get it.
Similar reasons over here.
Plus, I'm prejudice against stupid people. That's not a good trait for GD.

Good luck.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:53:57 PM EDT
[Last Edit: nmxdavenn] [#17]
I thought the whole point of GD was being an ass to everyone?

That’s what we do here bruh.

If anything, this post is too nice for these parts.

Edit in something about Ukraine/Russia or Trump.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:57:44 PM EDT
[#18]
I clicked on this thread expecting the OP to say something like "Lick my baalls!"

Isn't that what counts for a polite departure from many discussions?

Attachment Attached File
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:58:03 PM EDT
[#19]
I like that you said more than usual, that is funny
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:58:14 PM EDT
[#20]
I am so sorry for your loss,  I know it can be emotionally devastating.   I chose to not healthily deal with a family loss and it took me over a year to finally go to grief counseling and to where I felt like "me" again.  

So don't be like me,  go talk to someone.


Also,  this is GD... so obligatory



Link Posted: 4/24/2024 4:59:38 PM EDT
[#21]
Sorry for your losses.  Hang in there.  I have not noticed you being snarkier.  I think your contributions to ARFCOM  are positive
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:02:06 PM EDT
[#22]
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:04:49 PM EDT
[#23]
Tomorrow is another day. Head up, carry on. Never offended me but it is a real man that will admit a fault. I have my own.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:06:56 PM EDT
[#24]
Hey man, life happens. Sometimes it really, REALLY sucks. But you get through it and try to make things better. You manned up and apologized (even though your probably didn't need to). So good on you. I hope life starts giving you some positive things.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:21:26 PM EDT
[#25]
Originally Posted By dorobuta:
I've been snarkier than usual and posting like a jerk in some instances.

It's been a tough 4 months - My sister passed at the end of December, and I'm burying my Dad next week. I'm a little pissed off at the world in general.

I'm sorry if I've been more of an ass than usual to anybody.

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If I find myself in a situation like you, and I have been there I will not even get on this site or any other site for a few days.
So sorry for your loss, Dad and sister, that would put pressure on anyone.
I have never noticed you being an ass to me, I hope everything works out for you.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:30:22 PM EDT
[#26]
I had a year like that a year and a half ago.

Roid surgery
Shingles scarred cornea
Dad died
Dog died
Truck died

It was rough but life ain't ever guaranteed fair or easy. Good luck op. No sweat venting to friends here.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:39:28 PM EDT
[#27]
I still love you big guy
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:40:33 PM EDT
[#28]
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Originally Posted By Ridgerunner9876:
I had a year like that a year and a half ago.

Roid surgery
Shingles scarred cornea
Dad died
Dog died
Truck died

It was rough but life ain't ever guaranteed fair or easy. Good luck op. No sweat venting to friends here.
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Sorry to hear about your dad, your dog, your ass, and your truck (this is starting to sound like a country song). How is your eye? Did it clear up?
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:42:33 PM EDT
[#29]
No worries. Sorry for your recent losses.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:44:14 PM EDT
[#30]
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Originally Posted By Ronin72:


Sorry to hear about your dad, your dog, your ass, and your truck (this is starting to sound like a country song). How is your eye? Did it clear up?
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They saved most of my vision in that eye. Still gets fatigued easy.

Didnt mean to sidetrack your thread, OP. Just empathizing, fwiw.

Life can kick the shit out of you and I kept reminding myself that others have had it way worse.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:44:37 PM EDT
[#31]
My condolences, no apologies needed. You're going through a very tough time. Prayers up for you and yours.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:45:49 PM EDT
[#32]
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Originally Posted By Ridgerunner9876:

They saved most of my vision in that eye. Still gets fatigued easy.

Didnt mean to sidetrack your thread, OP. Just empathizing, fwiw.

Life can kick the shit out of you and I kept reminding myself that others have had it way worse.
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Here, I made a song for you...

https://suno.com/song/7448d268-a048-4131-bf98-bc15af29971e
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:45:56 PM EDT
[#33]
< snark on >

In for inherited gun pics.  

< snark off >

That's rough, OP.  My sympathies.  Hope your mother is holding up well in all this.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:49:06 PM EDT
[#34]
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:56:40 PM EDT
[#35]
As one of GD most hated sorry for your troubles, your snark is appreciated.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 5:59:00 PM EDT
[#36]
Ehhhhhhhh, the only way to stand out in GD is to be not-snarky.

Sorry for your troubles and hope things start looking up for you though.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:06:49 PM EDT
[#37]
Originally Posted By dorobuta:
I've been snarkier than usual and posting like a jerk in some instances.

It's been a tough 4 months - My sister passed at the end of December, and I'm burying my Dad next week. I'm a little pissed off at the world in general.

I'm sorry if I've been more of an ass than usual to anybody.

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No worries from this guy!  It takes a man of integrity to apologize if you think you've wronged someone, and I appreciate you doing that.

And I am very sorry for your loss.  Know I'll be praying for healing for you.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:47:54 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Ridgerunner9876] [#38]
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Originally Posted By Ronin72:


Here, I made a song for you...

https://suno.com/song/7448d268-a048-4131-bf98-bc15af29971e
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Originally Posted By Ronin72:
Originally Posted By Ridgerunner9876:

They saved most of my vision in that eye. Still gets fatigued easy.

Didnt mean to sidetrack your thread, OP. Just empathizing, fwiw.

Life can kick the shit out of you and I kept reminding myself that others have had it way worse.


Here, I made a song for you...

https://suno.com/song/7448d268-a048-4131-bf98-bc15af29971e

Lol. Thanks

I'm gonna have to add a few verses. I think this may become SOP on arfcom.

"Here, I made a song for you" could cover a wide swath of situations from sympathy to "Well, bless your heart".
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:50:48 PM EDT
[#39]
Same same
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:50:51 PM EDT
[#40]
Hey man sorry to hear about your family losses. You don't need to apologize to me. You wanna tell me to f'off you tell me to f'off. I won't take it personal.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:53:13 PM EDT
[#41]
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Originally Posted By Cobra-Commander:
GD is serious business.
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goddamn right.gif
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 6:58:20 PM EDT
[#42]
Originally Posted By dorobuta:
I've been snarkier than usual and posting like a jerk in some instances.

It's been a tough 4 months - My sister passed at the end of December, and I'm burying my Dad next week. I'm a little pissed off at the world in general.

I'm sorry if I've been more of an ass than usual to anybody.

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No worries at all, prayers for you and family man.

My wife and I had to spend 4 years living in the city up until recently, which was bad enough in itself what with crime, shit getting stolen off our porch, aggressive homeless and general misery. And in that time my wife's sister passed, a year later her best friend died unexpectedly, my mother died, and to top it off my best lil buddy of a cat died in my arms after 15 years.

And lawd knows, i've been a fuckin dick the whole time. My apologies as well to the folks here.

I hope life gets better for you, it did for us, so much weight has been lifted from my shoulders, and I actually feel like being kind to folks and want to make friends once again. I pray this happens for you to whoever might be listening up there.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:00:32 PM EDT
[#43]
Sorry for your losses man.

my family will be praying for you
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:03:02 PM EDT
[#44]
Praying for you Buddy!

Hebrews 13:5
King James Version
5 : for He hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.

Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:04:28 PM EDT
[Last Edit: cancard] [#45]
We’re all family here, OP.  All is good.

I’m sorry about your loss.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:07:15 PM EDT
[#46]
Anyone who can’t take some snarkiness on GD needs to turn in their adult card.

Sorry for your pain, OP.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:14:21 PM EDT
[#47]
Best pub on the net, without a doubt.

Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:20:16 PM EDT
[#48]
Sorry to hear that man. As someone who has lost a lot of family, I encourage you to talk with someone about it. Speaking words about it out loud has a real effect of moving you through the grieving process. That, and time. It doesn’t make anything go away, but it changes it.

Also, if you saw them change through their illness, I can say that over time your memory of them will become the image of them you knew throughout their life, and not the image of them ill at the end of their life.

Hang in there.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:39:11 PM EDT
[#49]
I have no idea what you may have posted, but my condolences. Lost my mom a couple years ago, no idea how I'd handle it if my dad or one of sisters died too. I usually avoid people when I'm in a bad mood. I wear that shit on my face and I don't want people to think Im upset with them when I'm not.

But yeah OP, you can lean on us. Seems like pretty much everyone here has been through some shit. We understand.
Link Posted: 4/24/2024 7:40:26 PM EDT
[#50]
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Originally Posted By Butternut:
Prayers sent, brother. Hang in there. We're here.
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This

No apologies needed.
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