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Posted: 3/14/2020 10:00:56 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Fongman]
Jeff (Gunner1X) was a friend of mine for the last 20 years. He was more than just a shooting buddy or competition partner, he was my covenant brother. I knew I could always count on him no matter what I needed or when I needed it. I will miss our long talks and fun fellowship. I will really miss just knowing you are there.

My heart is broke, not just for my loss, but the thought of what his kids must be feeling is just devastating. Don't know if I'm even making sense right now, I just really miss my friend and I'm hurting for his family.

He quit posting here a couple of years ago. Had a bought with cancer and beat it. But it came back a couple of months ago and he went fast. I'm glad he is no longer suffering. And knowing he was a believer I'm comforted knowing I'll see him again some day. But this still sucks.

This was his last avatar:

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I was kinda searching for his last post here and came across this post. I know it wasn't his last, but it was the post I was supposed to find. It was like he was ministering to me:

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Goodbye my friend I already really miss you.

(Jeff in the middle)

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Edited to add:

Sorry, didn't think about pic time line. Pic is 10+ years old. I've added a lot of silver highlights to my hair since. I just always loved the pic, even though I don't have a good copy of it.

Jeff was (I think) 56, his youngest son is in college now. His daughter just graduated college and is getting married in June. One of his last requests of me was to pray he could make it long enough to walk her down the isle. Dang that messes me up.

He really was one of the good ones!

Another pic of my dear friend:

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I started reading all our text exchanges since 09. I only made it a handful of years. Some friendships are just not replaceable in this life.

I really really do appreciate the prayers and kind thoughts - especially towards his family.

Last edit:

Thank you everyone for the kind words.

I went to Jeff's funeral yesterday, it was sad, but well attended. The family is still pretty devastated, but honestly doing pretty well, considering...

I miss my friend, but absolutely do cherish the time and memories.

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I'll see ya soon brother!
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 6:57:59 PM EDT
[#1]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 6:59:06 PM EDT
[#2]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 6:59:43 PM EDT
[#3]
Cancer? Fuck. Sorry, man.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 6:59:44 PM EDT
[#4]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:00:32 PM EDT
[#5]
Sorry for your loss.  Cancer sucks.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:00:54 PM EDT
[#6]
Sorry to hear OP.  
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:01:03 PM EDT
[#7]
Sorry for your loss and condolences to Jeff’s family.

From the picture he looks pretty young...
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:01:20 PM EDT
[#8]
Sorry to hear this. Prayers for the family
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:01:29 PM EDT
[#9]
Well, I'm sure sorry for the loss, and for your loss.

RIP, I hope.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:02:08 PM EDT
[#10]
Damn. That sucks
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:02:43 PM EDT
[#11]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:02:46 PM EDT
[#12]
Prayers for his family and friends.

Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:02:56 PM EDT
[#13]
Way too young. Sorry to hear about your friend. Sounds like he was one of the good ones. Hang in there and prayers for you and his family.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:03:22 PM EDT
[#14]
Damn, RIP....prayers out to his family and friends....
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:04:26 PM EDT
[#15]
Man he look young. The kids.......
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:04:41 PM EDT
[#16]
Sorry to hear this news.

I'm glad he was a believer.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:04:57 PM EDT
[#17]
RIP.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:05:16 PM EDT
[#18]
Sorry for your loss OP.

He's clearly someone who probably had great effect on a lot of people for the better.

Please know that I've prayed for you and his family and will continue to do so.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:05:47 PM EDT
[#19]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:06:09 PM EDT
[#20]
RIP
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:06:32 PM EDT
[#21]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:07:03 PM EDT
[#22]
Rest in peace,  my Arf brother
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:07:46 PM EDT
[#23]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:07:50 PM EDT
[#24]
Sorry man.  
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:09:55 PM EDT
[#25]
Sorry, didn't think about pic time line. Pic is 10+ years old. I've added a lot of silver highlights to my hair since. I just always loved the pic, even though I don't have a good copy of it.

Jeff was (I think) 56, his youngest son is in college now. His daughter just graduated college and is getting married in June. One of his last requests of me was to pray he could make it long enough to walk her down the isle. Dang that messes me up.

He really was one of the good ones!
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:11:55 PM EDT
[#26]
My condolences to his family and you OP.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:14:03 PM EDT
[#27]
We are all diminished.

Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:14:55 PM EDT
[#28]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:16:56 PM EDT
[#29]
R.I.P. Condolences to the family of Gunner1X and to you.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:17:40 PM EDT
[#30]
RIP Jeff.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:18:12 PM EDT
[#31]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:19:48 PM EDT
[#32]
RIP Jeff.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:20:10 PM EDT
[#33]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:21:43 PM EDT
[#34]
Prayers and condolences to Jeff's family and friends over this loss.  So sorry to hear of how this loss is truly affecting you as one of his close friends, OP.

RIP Gunner1X
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:22:09 PM EDT
[#35]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:23:31 PM EDT
[#36]
Man, I'm so sorry.

I remember his posts well. I always "liked" what he said.

Nothing says how good of a guy he was than your testimony about him and y'alls friendship.

Again. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:24:15 PM EDT
[#37]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:25:29 PM EDT
[#38]
Very sad to read that :’(

RIP fellow arfcommer
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:28:52 PM EDT
[#39]
I usually hate when people bold the title and think that should be a mod/staff function only, but you should bold this title.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:33:26 PM EDT
[#40]
Godspeed,  Gunner1X.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:34:19 PM EDT
[#41]
Sorry for your loss
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:34:23 PM EDT
[#42]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:34:49 PM EDT
[#43]
I'm sorry to hear that.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:35:02 PM EDT
[#44]
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:36:07 PM EDT
[#45]
RIP Gunner1X and sorry for the loss to family and friends sounds like a solid dude.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:38:12 PM EDT
[#46]
Godspeed to him, and may the lord comfort his loved ones.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:39:35 PM EDT
[#47]
Damn man
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:39:46 PM EDT
[#48]
we are all diminished
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:40:36 PM EDT
[#49]
Damn....just...damn. Prayers out for his family and friends.

Seems we've been losing a lot of Arf-brothers of late.

Fuck you cancer.
Link Posted: 2/29/2020 7:41:41 PM EDT
[#50]
Godspeed.
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