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Posted: 4/25/2024 11:00:06 PM EDT
Watching Father of the Bride 2 with my two kiddos. I’m still in my 30s (for just a little while longer).

Anybody slip one past the goalie in their 50s? 60s?
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:02:43 PM EDT
[#1]
Never had a chance.  After my wife had our last kid when I was 42, she said no more.  

My grandpa fathered my dad at age 47 though, so it does run in my family.
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:04:49 PM EDT
[#2]
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:11:46 PM EDT
[#3]
Is Tony Randall a member here?
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:20:19 PM EDT
[#4]
Wife and I were 46 with #5.

''Don't worry honey, I can't get pregnant''


Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:32:48 PM EDT
[#5]
I'm 51 and my youngest is 10 we have 2 grandchildren that are 1 and 2 wouldn't change a thing although I occasionally joke that we'd be home free if we didn't have the last one but he brings an unbelievable amount of joy to our lives I can't even explain it
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:38:04 PM EDT
[#6]
My father was 53 when I was born and 55 when my brother was born .
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:43:04 PM EDT
[#7]
The only people who worry about getting pregnant "too late" are the same people who are still fucking their spouse after age 40. Those people have different marriages than I have. 😳
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:47:07 PM EDT
[#8]
My twins were born when I was 49.  My first kids.
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:54:17 PM EDT
[Last Edit: GDaawg] [#9]
Ex-wife and I had our late twenties. Felt like the right time in life.

Sadly though, the longer a man waits in life the greater the chances become his sperm can produce offspring with issues like autism and sensory disorders.
Link Posted: 4/25/2024 11:55:30 PM EDT
[#10]
I was 43 , wife 41 with our last .
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:03:16 AM EDT
[#11]
35.  

She’s a Gator and just landed a
$35k a year scholarship for the next 3.

Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:10:27 AM EDT
[#12]
Had my first at 17 and last at 40
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:10:49 AM EDT
[Last Edit: MrHold] [#13]
Dad was 55 when I was born,

My mothers first visit to Doc, Doc told her I was a tumor

My sister-in-law (my oldest brother was 30 years old and already had a daughter) viewing me in the hospital a lady asked, is that your nephew, she answered back no! that's my brother in law

Lady looked at her like
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:20:06 AM EDT
[#14]
I did at 55, my 2nd wife is MUCH younger than me. I’m so glad we did.

He’s almost 17, a HS Jr. He just found out today that he scored 34 (out of 36) on his ACT. He scored 1,450 on his PSAT last year, he doesn’t have his SAT score yet from this year.  He’s scoring in the top 1% nation wide. He hopes to be a National Merit Scholar. He’s very conservative and grounded like his mom & dad. He’s leaning towards aerospace engineering.

He keeps me young. We ride dirt bikes together, shoot together, and he’s a gear head like me.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:22:06 AM EDT
[#15]
I was just shy of 43 when we had my youngest
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:44:45 AM EDT
[#16]
Had my two at 46 and almost 48. My wife is 12 years younger than me. I'm 50 now.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 12:53:05 AM EDT
[#17]
My oldest was born when I was 49 and my youngest was born a week before I turned 52. My wife is 10 years younger than I am.

Better late than never.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:05:36 AM EDT
[#18]
Didn't get mine. I'm 45, the gf is 49. Not gonna happen.

It's been a real downer, tbh.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 1:08:16 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By wideglidejoe:
I did at 55, my 2nd wife is MUCH younger than me. I’m so glad we did.

He’s almost 17, a HS Jr. He just found out today that he scored 34 (out of 36) on his ACT. He scored 1,450 on his PSAT last year, he doesn’t have his SAT score yet from this year.  He’s scoring in the top 1% nation wide. He hopes to be a National Merit Scholar. He’s very conservative and grounded like his mom & dad. He’s leaning towards aerospace engineering.

He keeps me young. We ride dirt bikes together, shoot together, and he’s a gear head like me.
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Those are great scores. Smart kid.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:00:09 AM EDT
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I’ve got a 4 month old.

Born Christmas Eve.

I’ll be 52 in a few weeks.

Kid #5. Mom is 40. We also have ages 13,11 and 9 together.

Oldest is 26 from earlier marriage.

Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:36:35 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By wideglidejoe:
I did at 55, my 2nd wife is MUCH younger than me. I’m so glad we did.

He’s almost 17, a HS Jr. He just found out today that he scored 34 (out of 36) on his ACT. He scored 1,450 on his PSAT last year, he doesn’t have his SAT score yet from this year.  He’s scoring in the top 1% nation wide. He hopes to be a National Merit Scholar. He’s very conservative and grounded like his mom & dad. He’s leaning towards aerospace engineering.

He keeps me young. We ride dirt bikes together, shoot together, and he’s a gear head like me.
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Does he play any sports?

Is he athletic?

@wideglidejoe
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 2:49:34 AM EDT
[#22]
Awesome on all you older parents.  

Thought my wife and I were having them old at 29-34.  Three in a row!  Last one was an awesome surprise for me at 33.  After that, I was snipped, sutured, clamped, and cauterized.

Turns out we were the young parents in our area.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:18:33 AM EDT
[#23]
Had our last of 3 kids at 37 (me) and 33 (wife).  Wanted to be done by the time I was 30.  Wife had trouble getting pregnant which prolonged things a bit.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:23:58 AM EDT
[#24]
Almost 40 and wife is due next month. I’ve told her every time after the 2nd that we were done after that one. Here we are years later and I’m sure she’ll try to talk me into just “one more”.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:33:47 AM EDT
[#25]
I wont win....but I will be 50 next year and my much younger wife is due in a few months.  I have a kid from my "Starter Wife" that will be 20 around the same time.


Here is where it gets wild.

My father, who was almost 70 (and I look like him, he is my dad)  once worked for a Civil War Vet. Seriously, I was raised by some folks that were almost born in the 1800s.  Here we are in 2024, and I have second hand accounts from the CIVIL WAR!!!!!

My son, (its a boy!!!!) will be able to tell people in the 2100s that his grandfather could have known someone that knew George Washington.

Time is a weird thing.

...and when you have a few generations of old folks fucking young gals.....

It makes for wild shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:33:48 AM EDT
[#26]
Our daughter was born the year I turned 50. Best thing I ever did.

Sometimes I wish I would have done it sooner, but I was a shithead when I was younger.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:44:15 AM EDT
[#27]
I have a newborn and I'm 77.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:03:20 AM EDT
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I have a newborn and I'm 77.
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Really?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 7:20:45 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By WeimaranerDad:


Does he play any sports?

Is he athletic?

@wideglidejoe
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Originally Posted By wideglidejoe:
I did at 55, my 2nd wife is MUCH younger than me. I’m so glad we did.

He’s almost 17, a HS Jr. He just found out today that he scored 34 (out of 36) on his ACT. He scored 1,450 on his PSAT last year, he doesn’t have his SAT score yet from this year.  He’s scoring in the top 1% nation wide. He hopes to be a National Merit Scholar. He’s very conservative and grounded like his mom & dad. He’s leaning towards aerospace engineering.

He keeps me young. We ride dirt bikes together, shoot together, and he’s a gear head like me.


Does he play any sports?

Is he athletic?

@wideglidejoe


He attends the states largest HS, so the competition is fierce to be on team sports. He played football thru 8th grade, and basketball thru 9th grade, but he wasn’t tall enough to keep playing. He’s just now 5’10” and still growing (late growth spurt, but I was still growing when I joined the Army).  He still plays basketball in a rec league. He’s been in karate since he was 5, he’s a 3rd degree black belt instructor now, he teaches red & black belt classes weekly to teens & adults. He hits the gym 4-5 times a week, he’s pretty scrappy for his height & weight. He also has a retail job and works 10-12 hrs per week while in school, and more in the summer.

We’ve never pressured him in anything, he’s very self driven.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 7:22:38 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By AlamTX:
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Impressive!
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 7:28:10 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Low_Country:


Those are great scores. Smart kid.
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Originally Posted By wideglidejoe:
I did at 55, my 2nd wife is MUCH younger than me. I’m so glad we did.

He’s almost 17, a HS Jr. He just found out today that he scored 34 (out of 36) on his ACT. He scored 1,450 on his PSAT last year, he doesn’t have his SAT score yet from this year.  He’s scoring in the top 1% nation wide. He hopes to be a National Merit Scholar. He’s very conservative and grounded like his mom & dad. He’s leaning towards aerospace engineering.

He keeps me young. We ride dirt bikes together, shoot together, and he’s a gear head like me.


Those are great scores. Smart kid.


Thx!!
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:14:41 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Low_Country:
Watching Father of the Bride 2 with my two kiddos. I’m still in my 30s (for just a little while longer).

Anybody slip one past the goalie in their 50s? 60s?
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I don’t, but I know a guy…
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:17:49 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By The_Like_Button:
Almost 40 and wife is due next month. I’ve told her every time after the 2nd that we were done after that one. Here we are years later and I’m sure she’ll try to talk me into just “one more”.
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Three kids sucks.   Four males sharing and family stuff easier. No middle child. Three kids is the absolute worst decision you’ll ever make.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:29:47 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By durtychemist:




Three kids sucks.   Four males sharing and family stuff easier. No middle child. Three kids is the absolute worst decision you’ll ever make.
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Oh, horse sh!t.  

I got 3 and it is perfect.  We have traveled around the world.  


I am 61 and they are 6, 7 & 9.  


4 kids would make some things more difficult such as can no longer travel in normal 5 seat vehicle, one standard hotel room would not be possible.    
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:37:20 AM EDT
[#35]
I just had my first at 41. Wife is 37. He was born Feb 5th.

It’s definitely been different getting used to it.

Every day I feel like Danny Glover from Lethal Weapon, “I’m gettin too old for this shit.”
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:39:09 AM EDT
[#36]
I'm by far not the oldest at 39, but I googled kids from my elementary school and my 'girlfriend' from fifth grade has grandkids older than my kids. (Her daughter was a teen mom on the MTV show)
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:39:50 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:44:27 AM EDT
[#38]
My parents were 21 years apart. My dad was in his early 50s when my brother and I were born.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:47:03 AM EDT
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I have a newborn and I'm 77.
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This guy fucks
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:47:58 AM EDT
[#40]
I'm not, but sure feel like it some days.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:48:38 AM EDT
[#41]
I was 42 when we had our youngest.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 8:58:27 AM EDT
[#42]
Had our last kid and wife was 37
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:02:39 AM EDT
[#43]
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:09:59 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Aimless:
My son slid down a slide at a Renaissance Fair and the lady at the bottom of the slide said "go to grandpa!" My son looked around in confusion for his grandfather.

I could faintly hear a wife's voice from
the distance. "That's his father not his grandfather!" I laughed
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I was just a hair shy of 40 when my boy was born, and I haven't had this happen yet. However, I have encountered more grandparents than parents at playgrounds and kid centered events that are my age.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:14:10 AM EDT
[Last Edit: TxRabbitBane] [#45]
Every time I do stuff with the kids, I wish I’d have met my wife sooner… we’d have had half a baseball team. Unfortunately just 2. (Nothing exceptional about the timing, early 30s)
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:18:43 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By AlamTX:
I have a newborn and I'm 77.
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An 80 year old man was having his annual checkup and the doctor asked him how he was feeling. "I've never been better!" he boasted. "I've got an eighteen year old bride who's pregnant, and having my child! What do you think about that?"

The doctor considered this for a moment, then said, "Let me tell you a story. I knew a guy who was an avid hunter. He never missed a season, but one day, went out in a bit of a hurry and he accidentally grabbed his umbrella instead of his gun. So he was in the woods and suddenly a grizzly bear appeared in front of him! He raised up his umbrella, pointed it at the bear, and squeezed the handle. And do you know what happened?"

Dumbfounded, the old man replied "No."

The doctor continued, "The bear dropped dead in front of him!"

"That's impossible!" exclaimed the old man. "Someone else must have shot that bear."

The doctor replied, "That's kind of what I'm getting at..."
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:20:45 AM EDT
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Impressive!
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Not impressive at all. How long is that kid going to have a father for?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:25:04 AM EDT
[#48]
Had my son at 54 he’s 14 months old now
Wouldn’t change it for the world

Link Posted: 4/26/2024 9:26:13 AM EDT
[#49]
I was 43 when my son was born.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 10:14:04 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By durtychemist:




Three kids sucks.   Four males sharing and family stuff easier. No middle child. Three kids is the absolute worst decision you’ll ever make.
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I’ve read a similar idea on this before and for me to a lesser degree, it makes some sense.  However it has not at all been my experience.  My boy and two girls are quite close to each other.  In their teens, they still want to spend time together.
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