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Posted: 4/26/2024 3:53:12 PM EDT
[Last Edit: thawntex]
A large, popular church in the thriving suburb where I live hosts a monthly singles night. Tonight it's at one of those dinner-and-a-movie type places. I did a year-long men's Bible study at this church a couple of years ago, and while I woship and serve elsewhere now, I know they are solid.

I am 49 and somewhat interested in attending one of these events, but I wonder if I'll be adding to a crowd of mostly dudes. It wouldn't be a huge problem, as I would resolve to be social anyway, and I could always stand to make friends with other Christian men.

The goal would be to meet single Christian women, however, which I think are numerous in my community, but who knows if this is how any of them will be spending their Friday night.

What's your guess?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:55:08 PM EDT
[#1]
I’m going with orgy.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:55:16 PM EDT
[#2]
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:55:40 PM EDT
[#3]

Ask me how I know you're gay.


Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:56:29 PM EDT
[#4]
You would probably have a better chance at the grocery store
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:56:41 PM EDT
[#5]
dick swinging fest

go to a bar, get drunk and snag a milf
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:56:45 PM EDT
[#6]
At least you are going to an event where there will be women at or close to your age as opposed to that one guy on here who was wanting to hook up with teenagers at church.  Nothing wrong with meeting a woman at church as long as you don’t make it weird and creepy.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:57:04 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:57:29 PM EDT
[#8]
LOL 40+ year old virgins.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:58:19 PM EDT
[#9]
That church wants men to be miserable.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:58:55 PM EDT
[#10]
Well if I don't go at least I have this thread for tonight's entertainment
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 3:58:55 PM EDT
[#11]
This thread needs a poll. My vote is sausage fest. Go check it out and report back. Let's not turn this into a safe thread.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:01:07 PM EDT
[#12]
yes you should absolutely fo
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:01:27 PM EDT
[#13]
The women who attend will certainly be Heavy and Hairy.

@midcap
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:01:53 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Krombompulos_Michael:
At least you are going to an event where there will be women at or close to your age as opposed to that one guy on here who was wanting to hook up with teenagers at church.  Nothing wrong with meeting a woman at church as long as you don’t make it weird and creepy.
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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:01:58 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By markl32:


Ask me how I know you're gay.


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Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:02:15 PM EDT
[#16]
Show up as a woman and see where the night takes you.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:02:43 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By PossumKing:
Show up as a woman and see where the night takes you.
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I kind of thought that going incognito would be a good way to test the waters.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:03:30 PM EDT
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What denomination?

I'm still gonna bet there are more women there than men. Women like church more than men.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:03:32 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By thawntex:
Well if I don't go at least I have this thread for tonight's entertainment
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Well OP, you certainly can go, but...


Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:03:42 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Cobra-Commander:
LOL 40+ year old virgins.
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Shut your whore mouth!
What do you know about it?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:04:11 PM EDT
[Last Edit: LineOfDeparture] [#22]
I wouldn't waste my time with a 30-50's single night if you want kids. Find yourself a younger, healthier, and more biologically viable woman.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:04:25 PM EDT
[Last Edit: scopedope] [#23]
I’d go, find a needy woman and hit the shit out of it. Our church has some divorced hotties that are well off. High Income area. Get a Sugar Momma.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:04:48 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By SAE:

Shut your whore mouth!
What do you know about it?
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Thank you for not adding a poll or “go” to the end of your try hard post.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:04:50 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By thawntex:
I kind of thought that going incognito would be a good way to test the waters.
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Originally Posted By thawntex:
Originally Posted By PossumKing:
Show up as a woman and see where the night takes you.
I kind of thought that going incognito would be a good way to test the waters.

A burka would be one way to do that.

Kharn
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:04:58 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By scopedope:
I’d go, find a needy woman and hit the shit out of it. Our church has some divorces hotties that are well off. High In one area. Get a Sugar Momma.
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...

Men like this are why contemporary woman act like whores.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:05:50 PM EDT
[#27]

you never know until you go.

give it a shot  
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:05:57 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Cobra-Commander:

Thank you for not adding a poll or “go” to the end of your try hard post.
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Originally Posted By Cobra-Commander:
Originally Posted By SAE:

Shut your whore mouth!
What do you know about it?

Thank you for not adding a poll or “go” to the end of your try hard post.


Lol...
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:06:04 PM EDT
[Last Edit: PacNW5] [#29]
According to GD, church was one of the places you should go to meet a 'good' girl so you should follow GD's advice as it's never wrong
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:06:11 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By LineOfDeparture:


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Men like this are why contemporary woman act like whores.
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Your point?
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:08:42 PM EDT
[#31]
Dress as a Waiter.
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Originally Posted By LineOfDeparture:
I wouldn't waste my time with a 30-50's single night if you want kids. Find yourself a younger, healthier, and more biologically viable woman.
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I'm good in the kid department.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:09:03 PM EDT
[#33]
"You cannot win, if you do not play." -S. Forbert
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:09:33 PM EDT
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I think you'll have more 50-ish women there than 30-ish. I doubt it will be mostly men.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:09:38 PM EDT
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The ratio of women to men attending church is like 2-1, and a lot of those guys are just there because their wife or mom made them go. Women are probablyore likely to be actively seeking a man that goes to church, so I'd bet the ratio at least would be good.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:09:59 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By LineOfDeparture:


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Men like this are why contemporary woman act like whores.
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The broads are there looking for a wallet.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:11:09 PM EDT
[#37]
Hope you like talking about cats
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:11:16 PM EDT
[#38]
You should go! SIIHAAPP to prove it
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:11:25 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By scrambler28:


The broads are there looking for a wallet.
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Originally Posted By scrambler28:
Originally Posted By LineOfDeparture:


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Men like this are why contemporary woman act like whores.


The broads are there looking for a wallet.


Retirement husband.

From what I’ve seen with older friends the market shifts dramatically in favor of men after age 45 or so. That is because men will date down in age, but much more rarely date up in age.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:11:41 PM EDT
[Last Edit: Lexustech48] [#40]
Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself.

Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:12:32 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By PacNW5:
According to GD, church was one of the places you should go to meet a 'good' girl so you should follow GD's advice as it's never wrong
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they are "good girls" alright.  
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:12:35 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By scrambler28:


The broads are there looking for a wallet.
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Yes, because the OP's church is encouraging it. He needs to, first, find a new church.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:13:20 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By mleaky:
Hope you like talking about cats
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As a newly single man I have of course started an Instagram account, which features loads of cat videos.

I think my cat-talking game could be solid
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:13:38 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lexustech48:
Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself.

Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha.
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Yeah that the end of the day it's a numbers game. You have to put yourself out there. I took a drawing class (no credit) at night at a large university. It was 28 women, me and a retired doctor. Get out there and do things you like to do that women go to.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:13:45 PM EDT
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It certainly couldn't hurt.  Better than going to a bar.   When a few of the ladies that I went to church with found out that I was single.  At first sided with my ex wife.  But then after she moved out of state...The same ones were disappointed that I was dating someone.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:14:09 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By thawntex:
Well if I don't go at least I have this thread for tonight's entertainment
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You have to go and report back now that you made a thread.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:14:18 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Lexustech48:
Go find out. If it's a bunch of dudes and like a few ladies, leave. Worse that can happen is you go home and rub one out. Might meet an amazing woman with the same values as yourself.

Won't know unless you try. Or get on Tinder and swipe right as fast as you can haha.
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Tinder is full of thots, fatties, and the mentally ill.  

Don't lower your standards OP.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:14:31 PM EDT
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Well, they happen monthly, so what do you have to lose?

I predict 70% men, 10% older ladies, 10% fatties, and 10% reasonable looking women who are more into talking with each other about how there aren't any decent men who are 6' tall and make $200k.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:15:50 PM EDT
[#49]
While doing a similar thing, I was told by other group members that food increases the number of ladies that attend.
Link Posted: 4/26/2024 4:16:05 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By LineOfDeparture:
I wouldn't waste my time with a 30-50's single night if you want kids. Find yourself a younger, healthier, and more biologically viable woman.
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LOL    OP is 49.  He would be in his 70's when he kids would graduate HS even if he could find someone half his age who thought his net worth was was enough.
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