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Link Posted: 2/12/2022 5:11:18 PM EDT
[#1]
You’re in my prayers, Bama. I wish I could say something to comfort you and your family.  You have my deepest and sincerest condolences.
Link Posted: 2/12/2022 5:15:23 PM EDT
[#2]
Mike, I’m so sorry. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Link Posted: 2/13/2022 5:29:17 AM EDT
[#3]
Sorry Mike.

You are the classiest poster in this place.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 6:14:35 PM EDT
[#4]
Im just seeing this thread. Im so sorry for your loss. I cant even imagine...but I am grateful that both of you were able to enjoy all those years together and make memories that will last beyond us all.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 9:45:39 PM EDT
[#5]
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 9:48:15 PM EDT
[#6]
Sincerest condolences. Very sorry this happened to you.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:16:54 PM EDT
[#7]
Awful news, she was a beautiful woman.so sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:27:58 PM EDT
[#8]
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:31:55 PM EDT
[#9]
Prayers sent
Sorry to hear as I just stumbled upon this thread.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:32:22 PM EDT
[#10]
I’m sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:35:24 PM EDT
[#11]
My deepest condolences.  May her memory be a blessing.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 10:57:03 PM EDT
[#12]
Thoughts and prayers headed your way. Not sure how I missed this thread till now but deeply saddened to see it.
Link Posted: 2/15/2022 11:08:34 PM EDT
[#13]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
I read every post. Thank all of you.

I'm so busy. So many things to take care of.

Taking a break to ease my mind with some grands time tomorrow.

Word of advice, make sure your stuff is organized. I thought mine was, I was wrong.



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We all love you brother.  Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don’t keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up.  You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss.

Link Posted: 2/15/2022 11:09:49 PM EDT
[#14]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
I read every post. Thank all of you.

I'm so busy. So many things to take care of.

Taking a break to ease my mind with some grands time tomorrow.

Word of advice, make sure your stuff is organized. I thought mine was, I was wrong.
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Your word of advice is headed.

Thank you for thinking of us instead of YOU in your time of needing of OUR strength.
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 4:32:54 PM EDT
[#15]
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 4:35:46 PM EDT
[#16]
I’m sorry, OP. Can’t imagine what you’re going through.
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 10:24:45 PM EDT
[#17]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:


I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


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Every person on earth should be as lucky as you to love or have loved someone as you loved her.
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:17:34 PM EDT
[#18]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:


I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


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Boys don't cry.  Real men do.  My condolences Bama....
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:29:38 PM EDT
[#19]
Seems like it's totally impossible to go through life without grief.

If this is of any consolation, every person / family goes through a lot of grief (even if they don't show it).
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:37:10 PM EDT
[#20]
I know these things are a part of life, but damn.  I don't shed tears often but reading this it's hard not to. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need something, whether it's now, next week or next year.
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:44:32 PM EDT
[#21]
I’m sorry man, I can’t imagine.

What kept my grandfather going, and happy, and continuing to live a long healthy life after my grandma passed, was the kids, grandkids, and great grandkids.

Family is the most important thing and you have a lot of it.

Based on what I saw in him, you’ll miss her forever, but there’s still a lot of joy ahead of you.

Hope I’m not out of line. I wish you the best.
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:48:10 PM EDT
[#22]
Bama, Im sorry for your loss, I feel your pain as well. I lost my wife last Sunday, over a month on respirator. Its hard for someone to lose there special other. My emotions are up and down too, Ill pray for you, your loved ones and family. im at a loss myself, pray for me as well. GOD BLESS!
Link Posted: 2/18/2022 11:52:13 PM EDT
[#23]
I am so sorry for your loss.  Prayers sent.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 12:40:36 AM EDT
[#24]
so sorry for your loss.

my deepest sympathies.

Link Posted: 2/19/2022 12:51:14 AM EDT
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:


I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


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Bama, I am very happy that it has helped you!


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Link Posted: 2/19/2022 12:57:39 AM EDT
[#26]
God bless you.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 1:09:10 AM EDT
[#27]
I’m so sorry brother.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 8:51:43 AM EDT
[#28]
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Originally Posted By rinferno:
Bama, Im sorry for your loss, I feel your pain as well. I lost my wife last Sunday, over a month on respirator. Its hard for someone to lose there special other. My emotions are up and down too, Ill pray for you, your loved ones and family. im at a loss myself, pray for me as well. GOD BLESS!
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You are added to my prayers
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 1:09:00 PM EDT
[#29]
I am so sorry for your loss. There aren't words for when you lose a love that is part of your soul. I will be praying for God to give you peace.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 1:14:03 PM EDT
[#30]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:


I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
Originally Posted By sq40:

We all love you brother.  Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don’t keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up.  You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss.



I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.




You'll choke up a lot in the next weeks and months as you think upon your life with her. Love can be a very painful thing at times and it doesn't stop when one passes on. The alternative, a life without love, would not have made you who you are now.

Still thinking and prayers for you and your family.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 1:19:37 PM EDT
[#31]
I'm sorry for your loss. RIP
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 3:18:52 PM EDT
[#32]
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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:


I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


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Originally Posted By Bama-Shooter:
Originally Posted By sq40:

We all love you brother.  Remember to grieve and let it out when its heavy on your heart. Don't keep that pain inside or try to be stoic, it will only eat you up.  You have every right before god and man to express the depth of your loss.



I'm letting the pain flow it's natural path like water in a stream.

There is no dam.  

Sometimes I'm good. Other times I just tear up and cry.

I'm not ashamed or embarrassed by it. It hurts, a lot.

I've been using that saying someone posted along the lines of "Grief is the price of love."

I wouldn't trade my grief for peace, if it meant I never got to love her.

I choked up typing that.


You are going to spend the rest of your life seeing or hearing things that you two shared, said, etc.

You will know that your grieving is over when they put a smile on your face instead of a tear in your eye.

God bless you both.
Link Posted: 2/19/2022 3:19:04 PM EDT
[#33]
So sorry for your loss Brother.
Link Posted: 2/24/2022 11:12:15 PM EDT
[#34]
Topic Moved
Link Posted: 2/24/2022 11:20:37 PM EDT
[#35]
My deepest condolences, and prayers for you and your family.
Link Posted: 2/24/2022 11:52:52 PM EDT
[#36]
Prayers Sent          Be at Peace
Link Posted: 2/25/2022 3:32:45 AM EDT
[#37]
Prayers sent .  So sorry for your loss...
Link Posted: 2/25/2022 8:28:41 AM EDT
[#38]
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Originally Posted By G-REM:
Praying for you both right now.
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Link Posted: 2/25/2022 9:39:52 AM EDT
[#39]
My sincere condolences on your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through.
Link Posted: 2/25/2022 10:03:48 AM EDT
[#40]
I'm sorry for your loss.
Link Posted: 2/25/2022 12:02:53 PM EDT
[#41]
Hanging out with family and seeing the love, positive affect your wife has had on them can help the healing process. I know this to be true.
Link Posted: 2/27/2022 11:57:36 PM EDT
[#42]
So very sorry for your loss...
Link Posted: 2/28/2022 12:13:45 AM EDT
[#43]
May God grant you peace.
Link Posted: 3/7/2022 11:10:48 AM EDT
[#44]
So sorry.  I couldn't imagine.  We will include you in our prayers.  Stay strong.  
Link Posted: 3/8/2022 10:28:30 AM EDT
[#45]
Damn Bama Shooter, I'm so sorry to hear this.  I'm here in the Birmingham area, so if ya ever need anything locally, please hit me up.
Link Posted: 3/8/2022 10:36:19 AM EDT
[#46]
So sorry for you & yours in this most difficult time.

Hang in there & let the warm memories of the love help with the pain you feel.

You are in the prayers of your many brothers & sisters here on ARFCOM.

BIGGER_HAMMER

Link Posted: 3/17/2022 9:52:02 PM EDT
[#47]
I'm so sorry for your loss?
Link Posted: 3/19/2022 11:14:57 PM EDT
[#48]
RIP


Very sorry for your loss Bama.  You are one of the good guys.  I'm sure she was an amazing lady.
Link Posted: 3/20/2022 9:32:12 PM EDT
[#49]
I'm sorry for your loss the pain is real.  I know she is always your love forever.  Take care of yourself and I had a major tragedy also. Just holding on is all you can do right now.  I don't have any verses or words of wisdom that can help.  I'm sure enough people have said a bunch of stuff to you.  Take any good advice and best wishes in this very bad time.  Good luck.
Link Posted: 3/24/2022 8:57:56 AM EDT
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I'm so sorry.  I only just heard.  

I wish there was something to be said to make it easier.  

Praying for you and your family.
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