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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:31:01 PM EDT
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maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex....
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:31:21 PM EDT
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It might be. People have divorced for far less. If cobwebs are appearing between her legs, and in this case it looks to be that way, a man can be driven to desperate lengths.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:31:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex.... That's what I thought, but I sure as shit wasn't going to say it. I don't want him going on a rampage tomorrow. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:32:23 PM EDT
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health...
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:33:28 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:33:29 PM EDT
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:33:49 PM EDT
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:34:02 PM EDT
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Absomotherfuckinglutly unless there is a legit medical reason such as death.
It ain't gonna suck itself. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:34:07 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:34:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:34:57 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:35:01 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Freudian slip?  I think a lot depends on how long they've been together, whether they have kids in the house, and other factors. For newlyweds with no kids, it would be a very big deal. Quoted: Quoted: For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... Sex is a healthy thing. Lack of sex is sometimes related to health problems, physical or mental. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:10 PM EDT
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Once every three months isn't healthy. There are many things that lead to this, it is probably a symptom of other things.
If everything else is good, and he is a solid husband, she isn't doing her part. Eject. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:19 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. Nah, some women have very low sex-drive. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:25 PM EDT
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... pff... vows are so old fashioned. It's all about "me" now. What's in it for ME! |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:32 PM EDT
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Until she tries to kill you in your sleep. The former Mrs. Kpel308 turned off the tap about 3 months after we got married, and we had been having a great sex life for about 4 years. We had nookie 4 times in 6 years, and I still stuck with her and didn't cheat. Fat lot of good that did me. I wish to hell I had left sooner. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:36 PM EDT
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Sex four times a year?
Yup, I'd divorce. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:36:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. Guy is an average dude. Not fat, not a stud, just a normal, average joe. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:37:23 PM EDT
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Legally? No fault is no fault... Morally? IMO yes. If you can't be happy with your spouse, you just can't be happy. There are lots of things to consider, of course, starting with impact on kids. I'd divorce before I cheated. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:37:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:37:40 PM EDT
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He should just tell his wife that she's the reason men cheat.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:37:50 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: ...The former Mrs. Kpel308 turned off the tap about 3 months after we got married, and we had been having a great sex life for about 4 years.... Wedding Cake Poisoning strikes again. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:38:04 PM EDT
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Once every three months isn't healthy. There are many things that lead to this, it is probably a symptom of other things. If everything else is good, and he is a solid husband, she isn't doing her part. Eject. Agree |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:38:11 PM EDT
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Not sure how that relates to sex... Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... It means that you don't get divorced. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:38:20 PM EDT
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Freudian slip?
I think a lot depends on how long they've been together, whether they have kids in the house, and other factors. For newlyweds with no kids, it would be a very big deal. Sex is a healthy thing. Lack of sex is sometimes related to health problems, physical or mental. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Freudian slip?
I think a lot depends on how long they've been together, whether they have kids in the house, and other factors. For newlyweds with no kids, it would be a very big deal. Quoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... Sex is a healthy thing. Lack of sex is sometimes related to health problems, physical or mental. I plea the fif 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:39:05 PM EDT
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Having seen the divorce paperwork for people getting divorced for exactly that... Yes, you absolutely can at least here in NY. On of the things I remember seeing mentioned is that the person was not refusing to engage in sexual relations because of a health issue.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:39:45 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:39:51 PM EDT
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Shit. I've only had sex with my wife 3 times and we have 4 kids....
J/k - in fact, Ima bang her after the kids go to sleep and I haven't showered since them last time we did it. And I shower every day.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:39:57 PM EDT
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People have divorced for less.
But, I'd say that the first post probably nails it here... |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:40:23 PM EDT
[#30]
If he gets some on the side, she divorces him for cause. Maybe she's setting him up.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:41:03 PM EDT
[#31]
You can get divorced for any reason you like...
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:43:19 PM EDT
[#32]
Ya know, chloroform isn't just for getting to know someone.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:43:37 PM EDT
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IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. This is exactly how I feel about it. If the woman has physical issues that's one thing but if she has just lost interest and is doing nothing to aleviate the problem then it's over. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:43:38 PM EDT
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Maybe she got tired of him spending his free time with his buddies all of the time. Who knows? Im just saying if you treat your woman right and take care of yourself things will run a lot more smooth. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:44:13 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. http://weknowgifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/thats-real-retarded-sir-meme.jpg |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:44:59 PM EDT
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I'm sure it has been for some.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:45:51 PM EDT
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Are you talking "Wife" or "Mistress"? lol
It (That question) DOES actually apply  |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:45:53 PM EDT
[#38]
It is, the legal term is Constructive Abandonment. http://definitions.uslegal.com/c/constructive-abandonment/
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:46:54 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:48:02 PM EDT
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maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex.... Quote HistoryQuoted:
maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex.... Quoted:
Absomotherfuckinglutly unless there is a legit medical reason such as death. It ain't gonna suck itself. You guys have the same avatar. 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:49:27 PM EDT
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The folks voting no must be women.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:50:46 PM EDT
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Absolutely.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:51:10 PM EDT
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pff... vows are so old fashioned. It's all about "me" now. What's in it for ME! Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... pff... vows are so old fashioned. It's all about "me" now. What's in it for ME! If there's nothing in it for you I would not call it a good relationship. Sex every three months is simply not acceptable. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:51:11 PM EDT
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Don't most states today have no fault divorce? If so he doesn't need "grounds". He can just cite irreconcilable differences and get his divorce and she would be powerless to stop him. She might make him pay dearly but ultimately he'll get his divorce.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:51:13 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: You guys have the same avatar. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex.... Quoted: Absomotherfuckinglutly unless there is a legit medical reason such as death. It ain't gonna suck itself. You guys have the same avatar. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 3:57:23 PM EDT
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Im just going with the limited information available. Maybe he cheated on her in the past and she still has resentment about it. Who knows? It seems people are so fast to blame the woman here, why is that? Is some hurt from the past clouding the judgment of some in here? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. Lol you keep adding assumptions. Going on the limited info available would give you a guy who's frustrated his wife won't have sex. Nothing more or less, which is what I'm going off of. The fact he's the one frustrated is an indication she's the one not doing her part. Its possible he needs to look inward, but its not like he's asking a lot considering how many times she's let him in. But its more fun to call him a slob and let everyone know I'm a Greek god while doing so... |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:01:46 PM EDT
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I don't understand how a woman can think that not taking care of her man will not leave her alone in a ditch in the end? I'd only put up with it for so long and then it's not just over, but fuck you over. It's like ripping off your husband's bank account. It's like spreading salt on the field he works in. It's like spitting in his food. You might as well be fucking his best friend.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:01:56 PM EDT
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Probably some sort of sex cult. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Absomotherfuckinglutly unless there is a legit medical reason such as death. It ain't gonna suck itself. You guys have the same avatar. Disturbing isn't? |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:04:54 PM EDT
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Legally I am not sure if it is or isn't, but hey if your wife is only giving it to you once every 3 months...and she realizes that you need it more and that your not happy about the situation, then she inviting trouble, unless she has a damn good medical reason.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:08:07 PM EDT
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IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Freudian slip, there, Knuckles?
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