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Posted: 8/10/2015 10:56:52 PM EDT
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Ask Kim Walker from Yorkton, Saskatchewan that question. Daughter made some poor life decisions with a POS boyfriend. Dad took care of the POS boyfriend.
http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/saskatchewan-father-gets-more-jail-time-for-killing-daughters-boyfriend/article586761/ |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:03:22 PM EDT
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Watching your daughter being collected by her date feels like handing over a million dollar Stradivarius to a gorilla - Jim Bishop
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:06:30 PM EDT
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It takes two to tango. Raise your daughters well. Teach them to respect themselves. Instil them w/ goals, and a knowledge of how the world works and boys think. Then when they bring a boy home, be cordial. But, find out who he is, who his parents are, how he was raised, as well as his goals and ambitions.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:10:24 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: It takes two to tango. Raise your daughters well. Teach them to respect themselves. Instil them w/ goals, and a knowledge of how the world works and boys think. Then when they bring a boy home, be cordial. But, find out who he is, who his parents are, how he was raised, as well as his goals and ambitions. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:10:30 PM EDT
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Sorry Dad. Your daughter is getting plowed right now by one or more douchebag teens trying to get all the pussy he can. Hell, there's probably video of it somewhere.
I never bought the "Tough dad" routine. Especially when the dad was a drunk, or couldn't touch his own toes and ran out of breath on the way to the door. (like at least 3/4 or arfcom I'm guessing  )
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:11:52 PM EDT
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I don't have time for games with the girl, I don't have time for the games with the father either. If the father is a douchebag, I can only assume he raised his daughter to be the same. I never had it come up with past girlfriends, but I would dump them if their father pulled anything.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:12:19 PM EDT
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Like you know shit about women. 
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Please knock it off with the whole "you hurt my daughter, i kill you" crap. comes across as weak. 
Was talking on phone with girl I had one date with, but respect enough for more. Unbeknownst to me, her family is there and her dad asks to speak with me. Then proceeds with the whole 'what do you want with my baby girl" tripe... and you absolutely cannot say it over the phone and be convincing, you are not Liam Neeson.
I was polite but even if he was joking like he claimed at the end of the talk, he still sounds like a douchebag. The fact he's not a Frank Sinatra fan didn't help him either. I don't blame him for being protective, I would be the same but there are better ways of going about it. For starters, this should have been done in person. Rant off.. Like you know shit about women.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:12:23 PM EDT
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I'll never play that game. If boy does something untoward, I'll go after his dad. I won't even worry about it either.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:12:53 PM EDT
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Thread is not going as OP intended. The girls with fathers with the "or I'll kill you" mentality usually apologize about their daddy a few times in advance. That said, I've only once encountered it myself. Maybe it's because I'm significantly bigger than an average person, and I keep dating left wing chicks with left wing dads.  http://www.quickmeme.com/img/3c/3c09d14adcdd6626599b630020298af374a0fd836295a829a62c17c45770fd64.jpg Maybe I meant I'm really, really fat?
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:13:42 PM EDT
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As a woman, fathers of daughters: don't let the mothers of your daughters ever convince them that the other girls are mean "because they're jealous." This is setting them for a lifetime of ego and hubris. The other girls might be mean because they're pmsing, just feel like it, or heaven forbid your snowflake started it. Seriously, these girls grow up into the most awful women to work with and I imagine they're no treat to date/marry either. Put your foot down, dads, because moms fuck this up all the time. LOL, no. Sometimes they really are just jealous. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:15:37 PM EDT
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I have two daughters and I will do anything I deem necessary to protect them until my dying day.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:16:35 PM EDT
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LOL, no. Sometimes they really are just jealous. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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As a woman, fathers of daughters: don't let the mothers of your daughters ever convince them that the other girls are mean "because they're jealous." This is setting them for a lifetime of ego and hubris. The other girls might be mean because they're pmsing, just feel like it, or heaven forbid your snowflake started it. Seriously, these girls grow up into the most awful women to work with and I imagine they're no treat to date/marry either. Put your foot down, dads, because moms fuck this up all the time. LOL, no. Sometimes they really are just jealous. Jealousy and envy are strong motivators for young women. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:20:17 PM EDT
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This is why I had a son. yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:24:52 PM EDT
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OP...
Question 1) why are you in a relationship with someone who inhabits the same dwelling as her parents? Question 2) who in 2015 is talking on landlines phones, and not texting? |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:27:06 PM EDT
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First date with a real girl?
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:28:42 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: This is why I had a son. yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:32:06 PM EDT
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This is why I had a son. Me too, though if some asshole threatens my teenage son we are going to do some talking and he won't be dating your fucking princess. He's a great kid, straight A's, black belt, loves to shoot, fishes like a fiend in the salt, volunteers at our wildlife park, great with animals - around here Dad's throw their daughters at him. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:32:12 PM EDT
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"Spartanatheart" You have No Idea what a Father is capable of. No idea at all. It's something you cannot comprehend, until you have a daughter of your own.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:34:02 PM EDT
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Don't mess with my daughter. or I'll she'll kill you. Fixed. Raise them girls right fellas. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:36:39 PM EDT
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OP... Question 1) why are you in a relationship with someone who inhabits the same dwelling as her parents? Question 2) who in 2015 is talking on landlines phones, and not texting? Excellent questions. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:38:15 PM EDT
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I have a daughter. Not dating age quite yet.
After having her, my only sole duty in life is to raise and protect her. I would lay my life down for her, kill for her, go to prison for her. Take that as you will. Us old guys with daughters may seem like our prime has come and gone, but you have no idea what a father will do for his child. Don't ever misunderstand that shit! |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:38:36 PM EDT
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It's all in the delivery. That false bravado shit is transparent.
My wife's niece was six when we (my wife not her niece you perverts) started dating. She's called me uncle from the first time we met. I couldn't care for her more if she were my own daughter. She married a guy who had a reputation as a hothead. My BIL is weak and nerdy, so he wasn't going to be any help. I talked to her and of course she loved him and he was nice. I talked to him and he assured me his wild days were over. As we were going through the receiving line at the wedding I gave him a crushing handshake, a big hug with the Vulcan death grip and whispered in his ear, "If you ever hurt her, they'll never find your body.". All with a smile on my face. He looked me in the eye and said, "Yes, Sir. Never, Sir" He's been a model citizen and a great husband and father. That was 23 years ago. To this day he only addresses me as "Sir". It's all in the delivery. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:38:43 PM EDT
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OP- Making friends and influencing people in this thread.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:39:49 PM EDT
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OP... Question 1) why are you in a relationship with someone who inhabits the same dwelling as her parents? Question 2) who in 2015 is talking on landlines phones, and not texting? Excellent questions. Thank you, fellow. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:39:58 PM EDT
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I have a daughter. Not dating age quite yet. After having her, my only sole duty in life is to raise and protect her. I would lay my life down for her, kill for her, go to prison for her. Take that as you will. Us old guys with daughters may seem like our prime has come and gone, but you have no idea what a father will do for his child. Don't ever misunderstand that shit! Big difference between that and threatening people for no reason. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:42:17 PM EDT
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Big difference between that and threatening people for no reason. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I have a daughter. Not dating age quite yet. After having her, my only sole duty in life is to raise and protect her. I would lay my life down for her, kill for her, go to prison for her. Take that as you will. Us old guys with daughters may seem like our prime has come and gone, but you have no idea what a father will do for his child. Don't ever misunderstand that shit! Big difference between that and threatening people for no reason. True. I have a feeling OP's dates father was just giving OP a hard time. OP's little special snowflake feelings are hurt. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:42:53 PM EDT
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Meh, my girls are 7 and 4. I hope to have raised the two most dangerous girls in highschool by the time they get there. Shoot, hunt, camp, travel the world, race track time, martial arts, they will be the badasses. Why? Because all that will instill self confidence in them. When you are confident in who you are you can choose a better person to be with.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:43:10 PM EDT
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Daughter can handle herself, she just graduated MCT.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:43:11 PM EDT
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When I got engaged a few years back my fiancee's boss came up to me and said something along the lines of, "if you ever hurt her there will be consequences for you."
I find that really hilarious in hindsight especially because she cheated on me for years with two other dudes. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:43:35 PM EDT
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I wouldn't be a hypocrite about it.
I'd be like "Use protection. If she gets an STD from you... I will make damn sure Anthrax finds its way into your sugar shaker". |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:43:40 PM EDT
[#31]
My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too.
Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:44:53 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Daughter can handle herself, she just graduated MCT. This made my day. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:45:42 PM EDT
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Me too, though if some asshole threatens my teenage son we are going to do some talking and he won't be dating your fucking princess. He's a great kid, straight A's, black belt, loves to shoot, fishes like a fiend in the salt, volunteers at our wildlife park, great with animals - around here Dad's throw their daughters at him. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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This is why I had a son. Me too, though if some asshole threatens my teenage son we are going to do some talking and he won't be dating your fucking princess. He's a great kid, straight A's, black belt, loves to shoot, fishes like a fiend in the salt, volunteers at our wildlife park, great with animals - around here Dad's throw their daughters at him. I knew plenty of guys like that growing up - they probably had more sex than the "bad boys". Can you clarify "great with animals"? |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:45:59 PM EDT
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Please knock it off with the whole "you hurt my daughter, i kill you" crap. comes across as weak.
Was talking on phone with girl I had one date with, but respect enough for more. Unbeknownst to me, her family is there and her dad asks to speak with me. Then proceeds with the whole 'what do you want with my baby girl" tripe... and you absolutely cannot say it over the phone and be convincing, you are not Liam Neeson.
I was polite but even if he was joking like he claimed at the end of the talk, he still sounds like a douchebag. The fact he's not a Frank Sinatra fan didn't help him either. I don't blame him for being protective, I would be the same but there are better ways of going about it. For starters, this should have been done in person. Rant off.. Oh sonny, you have a lot to learn about fathers. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:46:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too. Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Why did you raise your daughter to have such bad taste in boys? |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:49:01 PM EDT
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I don't know if it's luck or what, but I've never had a problem with any of the girl's fathers I've ever dated.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:51:56 PM EDT
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I knew plenty of guys like that growing up - they probably had more sex than the "bad boys". Can you clarify "great with animals"? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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This is why I had a son. Me too, though if some asshole threatens my teenage son we are going to do some talking and he won't be dating your fucking princess. He's a great kid, straight A's, black belt, loves to shoot, fishes like a fiend in the salt, volunteers at our wildlife park, great with animals - around here Dad's throw their daughters at him. I knew plenty of guys like that growing up - they probably had more sex than the "bad boys". Can you clarify "great with animals"? He likes dogs ... lol 
My wife is the curator of a zoo so he grew up with bears, panthers, etc.. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:52:00 PM EDT
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when I was in high school, a guy beat up my sister. I beat him so bad he spent 4 mos in hospital and wound up getting a medical discharge from the navy and an assault and battery charge.
I'll assume that if someone hurt my daughter I'd respond about the same........ so go ahead and see how far some dads will go. Some are probably talking. Others, will probably bury you in pieces in the west desert. I guess you play the odds and hope you get one that won't react. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:52:02 PM EDT
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My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too. Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Why did you raise your daughter to have such bad taste in boys? Oh. Snap. |
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:53:23 PM EDT
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My FIL thought I was a perfect match for his little angel. He must have been real wise because 21 years later we are still together.
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Posted: 8/10/2015 11:54:16 PM EDT
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When I got engaged a few years back my fiancee's boss came up to me and said something along the lines of, "if you ever hurt her there will be consequences for you." I find that really hilarious in hindsight especially because she cheated on me for years with two other dudes. Just an FYI, but that should have been a dead giveaway that the boss was in on it. |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:00:12 AM EDT
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My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too. Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Why did you raise your daughter to have such bad taste in boys? Actually the lad tried to take unwanted advances with her. She texted me to come get her which I did. Lad and I had a civil talk... Right up to the point he said "wtf you going to do about it old man" That's when class started. He got schooled real good. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:02:17 AM EDT
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yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later Quote HistoryQuoted:
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This is why I had a son. yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later When the wife is super horny and needs to make another baby. Wait till tomorrow. It's a timing thing. Y's swim faster and X's retain potency longer. No guarantees, and I came by the knowledge too late. |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:06:03 AM EDT
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What the OP doesn't realize, some men mean it. |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:09:24 AM EDT
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The only intimidation I got from a girlfriend's father/brother resulted in a taste for habaneros, and a desire to learn Spanish.
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:10:25 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Actually the lad tried to take unwanted advances with her. She texted me to come get her which I did. Lad and I had a civil talk... Right up to the point he said "wtf you going to do about it old man" That's when class started. He got schooled real good. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too. Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Why did you raise your daughter to have such bad taste in boys? Actually the lad tried to take unwanted advances with her. She texted me to come get her which I did. Lad and I had a civil talk... Right up to the point he said "wtf you going to do about it old man" That's when class started. He got schooled real good. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Punching a kid because of something he said? You sound like a real tough guy.Key words: "Tried" to make advances. "Civil" talk, until he said something that upset you. |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:19:06 AM EDT
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When the wife is super horny and needs to make another baby. Wait till tomorrow. It's a timing thing. Y's swim faster and X's retain potency longer. No guarantees, and I came by the knowledge too late. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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This is why I had a son. yes, because you had 100% control of the gender of your baby. You should tell everyone else how to make boys so they don't have to clean guns in front of future boyfriends later When the wife is super horny and needs to make another baby. Wait till tomorrow. It's a timing thing. Y's swim faster and X's retain potency longer. No guarantees, and I came by the knowledge too late. I'm 0/2 on that strategy. If we have another I'm sure I'll be a happy father of three girls. Well, happy until they are teenagers , anyway. |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:21:06 AM EDT
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The guy who doesn't say shit, is the one you have to be concerned about. Nailed it. As a young guy I can agree with that one |
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:22:50 AM EDT
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Sticks and stones, dude... Punching a kid because of something he said? You sound like a real tough guy.
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My youngest daughters ex boyfriend thought he was real cleaver too. Right up to the point I busted his jaw and knocked his teeth out literally. Best five grand I ever spent. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Why did you raise your daughter to have such bad taste in boys? Actually the lad tried to take unwanted advances with her. She texted me to come get her which I did. Lad and I had a civil talk... Right up to the point he said "wtf you going to do about it old man" That's when class started. He got schooled real good. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Punching a kid because of something he said? You sound like a real tough guy.
Key words: "Tried" to make advances. "Civil" talk, until he said something that upset you. Negatory, Monkey Boy. Good Beat Down. 
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Posted: 8/11/2015 12:25:50 AM EDT
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"Whatever you do to my daughter I'll do to you" "i licked her bum last night" This. Although I don't think "ask her if it hurt when I tongue punched her fart box last night" would go over well as an answer... |
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