My parents and grandparents put money together and bought me a craftsman mechanic socket with ratchet tool set, wrenches, screwdrivers, and a dead blow hammer. It was not a complete set up but I still have every piece except one socket. Hammer was replaced under warranty just before Sears died. I have used those tools for 27 years. At least once a week I use them to fix or build something.
I've bought each of my kids a toolset when they turned 16. If they showed any interest I've added to the set as needed. I don't expect them to be mechanically minded like me. If I'm working on their car I do expect them to help and learn.
My oldest wanted to join the Army after highschool. I supported his decision. The wife was not as enthusiastic. His life is not mine to live