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Posted: 7/19/2009 4:48:00 PM EDT
To a different, much better woman that is.......
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I don't know. I've hit eight years this month, and still haven't even dated yet.
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"A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience." ![]() Dude, thats deep. Now I'm really stumped. |
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Long enough to really think about what the fuck you're about to do this time. That's for damned sure!
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When you deem it acceptable for yourself.
Why make same mistake twice though? |
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Never...
I'm dead serious. I'm never doing this again. Been doing it for 23 years, if it doesn't work out, I proved I could sustain it awhile...no need to prove it again. |
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the next morning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I waited 3.5 years and wished I had waited longer since I havent grown up much in the past 38 years I am told!!!!!! Still can't wait til the next TDY to cut a little rug!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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you just bailed out of hell and you want to know how fast to get back?
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Never... I'm dead serious. I'm never doing this again. Been doing it for 23 years, if it doesn't work out, I proved I could sustain it awhile...no need to prove it again. darn toot'n |
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The advice given in the divorce care group I was in was that it for you to get over your previous spouse/marriage/situation it will take you 2 months for every year you were together. They said some might take longer but you are kidding yourself if you think you can do it in a shorter amount of time.
Who really knows. My cousin took a little time after his marriage, dated for awhile and took it slow in getting to know the girl. Then he seemed to jump from dating right into marriage without much of an engagement. After divorcing his second wife for cheating on him he swore he wasn't going to get married again. Three months later he was serious with a new girl, 9 months later they were married. A year later they had a kid. He just turned 1 last weekend and they seem to be doing great. My question for you would be unless you plan on having a family with the girl, why would you want to get married again? |
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I'd wait till the clerk files the paperwork in...just a professional opinion.
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Never... I'm dead serious. I'm never doing this again. Never is the accepted standard... |
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Quoted: To a different, much better woman that is....... ![]() The next day after your divorce is finalized. Screw everyone else's opinion. If your happy its your life. Live it to the fullest. |
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Very simple answer from someone has made that mistake.
NEVER get married again. There is no need to have a piece of paper from the government to be with the one you love. |
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A couple of years ago I was reading the local paper/rag/commie libtard propaganda sheet and was reading the divorces and marriage license section in the Matter of Record. It showed the divorce of this guy and his wife and right down the column, under marriage licenses, was the same guy getting a marriage license, with a different woman. They were one day apart.
So I would say that you only need to wait one day to get re-married. In my case I waited 2 1/2 years. Although sometimes I wish I had never re-married, but this marriage is FAR better than my first one. |
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There is no need to have a piece of paper from the government to be with the one you love. The truth. |
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I've learned that old expression is true. Marriage is the best way to fuck up a beautiful friendship. Long term relationships? Sure. Marriage? Never again.
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As soon as the ink is dry.
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One week for me
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Never, If she has kids––Never never never never never If you own anything never, If you do it just give her everything you own because she will get it anyway.
Don't even think of asking how I know this. VM |
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As soon as you sober up from the divorce party I would suppose.
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Never.
But if you are determined to do it again, wait at least 70 years. Then you may be ready.
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Same day the divorce is final. thats what the ex wife thought. |
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Doesn't matter after the divorce. It's no one's business but yours and the next girl.
HH |
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I waited 3 years. My wife's divorce was only 7 days old when we got married. We are going on our 21st year.
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Dude, why buy the cow, when you are lactose intolerant..... ![]() ![]() |
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My dad remarried after about 6 mo, to a woman he met online after the divorce. Mom is still single.
Personally I would say never. |
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