Yesterday I bought a Sig P250 for a couple of reasons. To CCW when I don't want to or can't carry my 1911, and for a HD pistol that is simple and easy for my wife to use. Today, I cleaned it, and showed her how it works. Well, she is too weak to fully work the slide. Can't do it on my 1911, the 250, or the POS 380 Sigma. I simply can't believe she is that weak! I have tried to show her how to hold the gun, and hold it tight, but I can easily snatch it out of her hands. It's like my lab who is a poor retriever because he is so soft mouthed. Do I need to get her with an instructor who specializes in traching women? If the handled the pistol like she handles a jar of nail polish that won't open, it wouldn't br a problem... I'm kind of at a loss. She shows interest, but gets frustrated when I try to instruct.