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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:44:45 AM EDT
I haven't posted much about recent events but felt like I needed to share.
My son passed away on June 3rd last year due to complications of Cerbral Palsy due a doctors error. He had just turned 17. It's been a hard year for the wife and I and I've been sort of feeling lost for last year. The full weight of what happened did not really hit me till one of my coworkers wished me a happy father's day this morning. I wasn't and am still not sure how to respond to that. I keep thinking I should have just stayed home today.  Attached File |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:46:10 AM EDT
[#1]
You're in my thoughts brother.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:47:55 AM EDT
[#2]
Thoughts and prayers.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:48:01 AM EDT
[#3]
*Hugs* bro. Sorry for your loss
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:48:10 AM EDT
[#4]
Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him.
Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:48:15 AM EDT
[#5]
I’m sorry.
If you are struggling and need to talk, we are here for ya buddy. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:48:38 AM EDT
[#6]
I know my words won’t mean much but just know how very sorry I am for your loss and that you, your wife and your boy will be in my prayers now and later on when I get to church.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:49:16 AM EDT
[#7]
Oh man.
I’m sorry. I have no words that’ll make it better. 
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:49:56 AM EDT
[#8]
Prayers for you and yours.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:50:03 AM EDT
[#9]
Sorry for your loss. No one should outlive their kids.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:50:48 AM EDT
[#10]
Sorry for your loss. Let today be a reminder of the good times.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:51:07 AM EDT
[#11]
I'm sorry.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:51:16 AM EDT
[#12]
Prayers outbound for you.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:51:28 AM EDT
[#13]
God bless you, OP. You're always a Dad, and I'm sure your son would tell you the same right now if he could.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:51:31 AM EDT
[#14]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. Well said Op. Sorry for your loss! However you will always be his father. Think of the good times. The happy memories. The first time you held him as a baby. The first everything. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:52:13 AM EDT
[#15]
I lost a daughter to a rare disease; it never gets easier. I still put on brave face every day for my wife and other daughter.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:52:30 AM EDT
[#16]
I would say that you are probably more of a father than most - Raising a child with a disability is a tough job
So sorry for your loss OP
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:52:46 AM EDT
[#17]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:52:57 AM EDT
[#18]
It's a club no one wants to be in. Sorry for your loss.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:53:19 AM EDT
[#19]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. This |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:53:22 AM EDT
[#20]
I'm very sorry, OP. I'm not sure what to say, but I will listen, if you need someone to talk to.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:53:29 AM EDT
[#21]
Very sorry op.
My son died June 16 2011. Makes for a rough Father’s Day. Hang in there, talk about it with friends and family. Be there for your other children, because it’s really hard for them. Sending thoughts your way today. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:54:31 AM EDT
[#22]
Try to take it in the spirit it was offered. Don't know the particulars of you and your coworkers familiarity with each other's lives and circumstances.
I can't imagine going through what you're going through, and, honestly hope that I never do. I have 2 boys. We'll keep you and your family in our prayers. I wish this day was better for you, but know that you ARE STILL a father who loves his son. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:55:23 AM EDT
[#23]
Sorry to hear that. Keep your chin up…prayers sent.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:55:24 AM EDT
[#24]
Prayers for you and your family and sorry for the loss of your son.
I pray for your comfort today and moving forward. We are here for you. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:56:29 AM EDT
[#25]
Very sorry for your loss.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:57:02 AM EDT
[#26]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Can't say it any better than this. Very sorry for your loss. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:59:19 AM EDT
[#27]
Very sorry for your loss.
Hang in there brother. 
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Posted: 6/16/2024 10:59:55 AM EDT
[#28]
Came here to wish people a happy father's day.
As a father (and grandfather) it always seems to be a bittersweet day for many of us. I'm so sorry to read of your tragedy. Life is a difficult row to hoe, sometimes. Rejoice in the memories, and hold your head high. You did all that was asked of you, and more. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:00:45 AM EDT
[#29]
I'm saddened by your loss, compounded by knowledge of my feelings in the same situation. Better to have had him as long as you did.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:00:51 AM EDT
[#30]
I lost my oldest 19 yrs ago at age 6 so I understand brother!! God be with you...............
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:00:51 AM EDT
[#31]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. Couldn’t have said it better. Prayers for you and your wife. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:01:39 AM EDT
[#32]
Brother.. You are still a father.
I'm sorry, I cannot imagine losing a child, I know I would be broken for a long time. I'm sure your coworker meant no harm with the comment. I wouldn't be too upset with him over it. Be proud that you were the best father you could be while your son was with you physically, be proud that you are still that father with the son in your heart and memories. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:01:43 AM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. Well said! Prayers from me as well. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:05:01 AM EDT
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@wjoutlaw
He was a fine looking young man. Having a special needs child is different and only parents with that type of child know and understand the special love you have for them. Your son is in heaven running around and playing with the other boys and girls enjoying what he could not here on Earth. You and your wife are in my prayers friend. My daughter Brianna and her sister's Morgan, Abbt, and Mackenzie.  Attached File |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:05:52 AM EDT
[#35]
Once a father, always a father. Praying for you.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:06:39 AM EDT
[#36]
Whether your son is still with us or not, you are still a dad.
Did you love your son immensely? Did you do everything possible for him involving his comfort & care while he was with us? Happy Fathers Day.... You met the requirement. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:06:53 AM EDT
[#37]
I'm sorry for your pain Sir.
You made your son's life better and he loved you both. Never forget. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:07:45 AM EDT
[#38]
So sorry. I have a sister with cerebral palsy. I understand beyond what I can write in words.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:07:52 AM EDT
[#39]
Remember the love you had for each other, his smile and laughs.
In my thoughts. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:07:57 AM EDT
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:08:07 AM EDT
[#41]
I empathize with you, OP. Give yourself plenty of time to grieve. Ignore the “stages of grief” timetable. Grief is a very personal thing that is different for everyone.
This is the first FD since my brother’s adult daughter died of pancreatic disease. This is the 27th FD since the death of my 17-year-old son. The first one in ‘97 was brutal. The next few weren’t much better. We traveled from Texas to Ohio to be with him and his wife for today. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:08:15 AM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. This ^^^ |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:09:35 AM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Hey man, you're still a father, and you loved him. Someone wishing you happy fathers day should also be a reminder of that love. Stay strong for those who need to lean on someone. That's also being a Dad. Gonna pray for all of you. This. OP, I'd bet you did everything you could for your son and you loved him more than anything. I bet he was extremely lucky to have you as his father. So yes, happy Father's Day. You'll always be his father. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:10:29 AM EDT
[#44]
Prayers and condolences up for you and your wife for what you have had to endure. You're still a father, and I think probably a damn good one.
Hope you are able to enjoy your day, today. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:10:37 AM EDT
[#45]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Whether your son is still with us or not, you are still a dad. Did you love your son immensely? Did you do everything possible for him involving his comfort & care while he was with us? Happy Fathers Day.... You met the requirement. This |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:10:47 AM EDT
[#46]
I'm sorry OP. I've no words but you're in my thoughts.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:12:30 AM EDT
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:12:46 AM EDT
[#48]
I'm so sorry.
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:13:14 AM EDT
[#49]
Prayers sent OP. You are never alone here. |
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Posted: 6/16/2024 11:13:30 AM EDT
[#50]
I am so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine what you have had to go thru.
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