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Posted: Yesterday 12:50:38 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By AZ_Mike: I would need to clean my car first but no problem. Maybe it is a private conversation and you don't want to stand in 114F heat to have it. I’ve been in situations where a group of us is coming out of an in-person customer meeting and have to jump on a Teams call and we’d pair up in our company vehicles. It happens and it’s innocent. |
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FM, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 12:53:17 PM EDT
[Last Edit: flyhack72]
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By gettysburg30: Why what job rule has he or she broken? What if they went to lunch? You guys need to get a grip. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By gettysburg30: Originally Posted By flyhack72: HR would have his ass if his wife doesn’t get to him first. Why what job rule has he or she broken? What if they went to lunch? You guys need to get a grip. If he’s a supervisor in any way, that type of situation would make him vulnerable. It’s a bad look that would raise eyebrows and people talk. It’s no difference having a one on one conversation in a closed room. Many will leave the door open to protect themselves from suspicion, rumors, or false accusations |
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FM, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 12:55:40 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By StevenH: HR has a problem with coworkers sharing a car? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By StevenH: Originally Posted By flyhack72: HR would have his ass if his wife doesn’t get to him first. HR has a problem with coworkers sharing a car? If she or anyone else makes an accusation, HR would get involved. We are living in a post #metoo world |
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MT, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 12:58:46 PM EDT
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No wonder this board is half divorced/ on their 2nd/3rd marriage.
 Were her ankles showing as well? Hell why was she in the parking lot and not home in the kitchen? |
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Posted: Yesterday 1:00:25 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By RTX: Forgive me father, for I have sinned - LMAO. Seriously, if you're gay, just say you're gay. Really...it's 2024 and that's supposed to be okay now. So, feel free to continue keeping guys like me at arms length - we appreciate it. Only chicks are allowed in my space, anyway. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By DADGAD: Originally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By PikeSlayer: I sit in my car every night after practice with my assistant coach, who is 27, single, and super attractive. Recap day's practice, schedule stuff, etc. Like model attractive. My wife knows too, and doesn't care because she knows I'm not going to try and fuck her. Admitting you have a problem is the first step toward fixing it. Now get that T checked and get better soon, cause you ain't right. Forgive me father, for I have sinned - LMAO. Seriously, if you're gay, just say you're gay. Really...it's 2024 and that's supposed to be okay now. So, feel free to continue keeping guys like me at arms length - we appreciate it. Only chicks are allowed in my space, anyway. Impulsivity is the result of an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. |
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Posted: Yesterday 1:02:52 PM EDT
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If the boss noticed it, why the fuck are the rest of you gossiping about it? He either told somebody he shouldn't have, or maybe wants to fuck her and is a little jealous? Either way, boss seems to be the one spreading shit.
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Posted: Yesterday 1:04:30 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By mudholestomper: Impulsivity is the result of an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By mudholestomper: Originally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By DADGAD: Originally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By PikeSlayer: I sit in my car every night after practice with my assistant coach, who is 27, single, and super attractive. Recap day's practice, schedule stuff, etc. Like model attractive. My wife knows too, and doesn't care because she knows I'm not going to try and fuck her. Admitting you have a problem is the first step toward fixing it. Now get that T checked and get better soon, cause you ain't right. Forgive me father, for I have sinned - LMAO. Seriously, if you're gay, just say you're gay. Really...it's 2024 and that's supposed to be okay now. So, feel free to continue keeping guys like me at arms length - we appreciate it. Only chicks are allowed in my space, anyway. Impulsivity is the result of an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. LOL - yawn. |
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Posted: Yesterday 1:07:47 PM EDT
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Yeah don't do that shit.
I think I've had a female coworker in my car one time in my entire life .. I was taking her to the shop to pick up her jeep and my wife knew about it beforehand. |
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Posted: Yesterday 1:10:18 PM EDT
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Two weeks ago I was sitting in the car with a married coworker. Why? Because I was interested in buying a used 2022 or 2023 Mazda CX-9 which she had and offered to let me check out (she wasn't selling, just helping me out). I was in the driver's seat fiddling around with stuff while she was in the passenger seat showing me the vehicle features. We even went on a test drive together.
Context is very important. Without being familiar with the situation, someone could walk by and wonder what was going on (which was totally innocent). |
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USA
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Posted: Yesterday 1:11:14 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By RTX: LOL - yawn. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By mudholestomper: Originally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By DADGAD: Originally Posted By RTX: Originally Posted By PikeSlayer: I sit in my car every night after practice with my assistant coach, who is 27, single, and super attractive. Recap day's practice, schedule stuff, etc. Like model attractive. My wife knows too, and doesn't care because she knows I'm not going to try and fuck her. Admitting you have a problem is the first step toward fixing it. Now get that T checked and get better soon, cause you ain't right. Forgive me father, for I have sinned - LMAO. Seriously, if you're gay, just say you're gay. Really...it's 2024 and that's supposed to be okay now. So, feel free to continue keeping guys like me at arms length - we appreciate it. Only chicks are allowed in my space, anyway. Impulsivity is the result of an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex. LOL - yawn. I’m not sure if this a troll or serious. |
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Posted: Yesterday 1:14:04 PM EDT
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Context matters.
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Posted: Yesterday 1:49:30 PM EDT
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Not married. I do have a long term girlfriend. She doesn't care. She has known me a long time. I have a lot of female friends anyways. When I was going to car shows I would take my friend, who is a fitness nut. Always tight pants bare midriff (she had a six pack) and 18 years younger than me.
My woman never said a thing. She trusted me, plus she knew it was a cliché. Old guy in a corvette with a young hot blonde. |
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Posted: Yesterday 2:25:31 PM EDT
[#13]
Car sitting turns to car fucking unless they were on some team call.
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Posted: Yesterday 2:48:05 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Skywarp2203: @treelow Kind of giving ArmedKulak vibes. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Skywarp2203: Originally Posted By treelow: Zero context in OP’s story (not surprising from him). OP doesn’t even have a significant other, so why does he care? MYOB? Etc etc OP always starts relationship threads here like this. OP needs to go to church, or something. Also, lots of insecurity showing from posters.  @treelow Kind of giving ArmedKulak vibes. @SkyWarp2203 Indeed. Pretty sure ArmedKulak listed KY as his location also. By the way, why has the OP ghosted his own thread? |
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AL, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 2:49:17 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By DVCER: Car sitting turns to car fucking unless they were on some team call. Good screenname and pertinent observation |
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KY, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 3:32:00 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By tnertb: No wonder this board is half divorced/ on their 2nd/3rd marriage. Were her ankles showing as well? Hell why was she in the parking lot and not home in the kitchen? See you're putting it all on her. I was raised to be a gentleman and it's a man's responsibility to be a gentleman. Assuming there was any blame it's on the man. Because he did not remain a gentleman. |
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Posted: Yesterday 3:35:30 PM EDT
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I can't believe how many of you guys think it's wrong to hang out with single chicks.
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Posted: Yesterday 3:40:15 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Elijah1: Absolutely not. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Elijah1: Originally Posted By Explorer225: Married male coworker sitting in a car just talking to a single female coworker. They were noticed by the boss on company property last night. My question for the married guys. Would your wife be OK with this? Are you OK with it? No judgment on my part and it's none of my business, but it definitely not something I would do if married. Yes. I know I'm old fashioned. Absolutely not. |
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PA, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 3:47:16 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By tnertb: No wonder this board is half divorced/ on their 2nd/3rd marriage. Were her ankles showing as well? Hell why was she in the parking lot and not home in the kitchen? Because they spend excess time alone with single females? Or Because they don’t spend excess time alone with single females? Which one contributes to divorce and which one helps prevent divorce? |
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Posted: Yesterday 3:48:05 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: I can't believe how many of you guys think it's wrong to hang out with single chicks. Having a platonic relationship with a woman who isn't married isn't so much the issue as the propensity for something like being alone in a car together to both give the appearance of an illicit relationship, as well as the probability that things would actually go sideways (whether in terms of actual intimacy, or an accusation that would more or less wreck the man's or woman's reputation). |
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NM, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 3:49:15 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: I can't believe how many of you guys think it's wrong to hang out with single chicks. I'm sure some would flip that I've gone to help a mutual female friend of my wife and I. Met her at a store, hauled the stuff back to her house and spent a couple hours showing how to install the stuff while my wife was home. |
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OH, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 3:49:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Mall-Ninja: Might be innocent, but raises way too many questions and starts rumors. If you’re not comfortable with your wife doing such things, then you shouldn’t be doing them either. This is probably the most important part: If you’re not comfortable with your wife doing such things, then you shouldn’t be doing them either. |
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Posted: Yesterday 3:49:55 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By ClayHollisterTT: Because they spend excess time alone with single females? Or Because they don't spend excess time alone with single females? Which one contributes to divorce and which one helps prevent divorce? Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By ClayHollisterTT: Originally Posted By tnertb: No wonder this board is half divorced/ on their 2nd/3rd marriage. Were her ankles showing as well? Hell why was she in the parking lot and not home in the kitchen? Because they spend excess time alone with single females? Or Because they don't spend excess time alone with single females? Which one contributes to divorce and which one helps prevent divorce? Because they don't know how to act around women and they can't be appropriate... They are missing out on awesome friendships due to avoiding girls. |
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PA, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 4:01:07 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: Because they don't know how to act around women and they can't be appropriate... They are missing out on awesome friendships due to avoiding girls. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: Originally Posted By ClayHollisterTT: Originally Posted By tnertb: No wonder this board is half divorced/ on their 2nd/3rd marriage. Were her ankles showing as well? Hell why was she in the parking lot and not home in the kitchen? Because they spend excess time alone with single females? Or Because they don't spend excess time alone with single females? Which one contributes to divorce and which one helps prevent divorce? Because they don't know how to act around women and they can't be appropriate... They are missing out on awesome friendships due to avoiding girls. You are completely missing the point, but that is ok if it works for you. Some of us have extensive experiences with women who wanted to be “friends” up until they didn’t. |
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Posted: Yesterday 4:07:51 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Explorer225: Married male coworker sitting in a car just talking to a single female coworker. They were noticed by the boss on company property last night. My question for the married guys. Would your wife be OK with this? Are you OK with it? No judgment on my part and it's none of my business, but it definitely not something I would do if married. Yes. I know I'm old fashioned. So, after hours? Not acceptable but MYOB. Might be on the up and up-someone’s car broke down and needed help moving it, you never know. |
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Posted: Yesterday 4:08:54 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JBecker_72: I wouldn't put myself in that situation out of respect for my wife. Then again, I've only got the energy for one woman's drama as it is. I don't need to take on more. |
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Posted: Yesterday 4:29:48 PM EDT
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Only a fool allows themselves to be alone with a female or a minor.
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USA
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Posted: Yesterday 5:09:16 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By Ridgerunner9876: Only a fool allows themselves to be alone with a female or a minor.  a lot of it is knowing that there is a solid reason why you are alone with a person. I have women I work with or are friends with who I trust, and there is no problem with me or my wife. Two decent trustworthy adults should not present any problems. I can't think of a good reason why I would ever be alone with a minor, not my own child. As a coach, it is always in a team setting with parents and players all over. As a scout leader, there are clear rules about being alone with a scout, which is a very good thing for all. |
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TX, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 5:36:47 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: Because they don't know how to act around women and they can't be appropriate... They are missing out on awesome friendships due to avoiding girls. LOL. In my experience, it has usually been the women taking things to the inappropriate level in the "friendship." Something about that whole monkey-branching thing... Anything that a woman offers in friendship can be found in male friends too...and without the risk of her becoming romantically interested in you and going all #metoo on you once you turn her down. Some you are talking like the man just needs to behave and everything will be fine, but women have a mind of their own too...again, men have more to lose. Don't invite drama into your life. |
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Posted: Yesterday 5:50:49 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By sirgilbert357: LOL. In my experience, it has usually been the women taking things to the inappropriate level in the "friendship." Something about that whole monkey-branching thing... Anything that a woman offers in friendship can be found in male friends too...and without the risk of her becoming romantically interested in you and going all #metoo on you once you turn her down. Some you are talking like the man just needs to behave and everything will be fine, but women have a mind of their own too...again, men have more to lose. Don't invite drama into your life. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By sirgilbert357: Originally Posted By OverScoped: Because they don't know how to act around women and they can't be appropriate... They are missing out on awesome friendships due to avoiding girls. LOL. In my experience, it has usually been the women taking things to the inappropriate level in the "friendship." Something about that whole monkey-branching thing... Anything that a woman offers in friendship can be found in male friends too...and without the risk of her becoming romantically interested in you and going all #metoo on you once you turn her down. Some you are talking like the man just needs to behave and everything will be fine, but women have a mind of their own too...again, men have more to lose. Don't invite drama into your life. I have a couple of gay male friends. You and others are acting like it's ok to hang with them, but not a girl... because omg... possibly sexytime... Well dude can suck yer dick if ya let him. would your wife be more mad if you got a bj from a dude or a woman?? |
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Posted: Yesterday 5:57:05 PM EDT
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If they are just chilling and talking in there, it's sus but not necessarily unacceptable. Could be they needed to talk about something private but not intimate/romantic/scandalous. But it certainly looks sus. I can't think of a good reason I'd ever do something like that.
These days being alone with a female coworker you aren't in a relationship with is asking for trouble. |
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NM, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 7:00:43 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By DADGAD: I ain't skeered. a lot of it is knowing that there is a solid reason why you are alone with a person. I have women I work with or are friends with who I trust, and there is no problem with me or my wife. Two decent trustworthy adults should not present any problems. I can't think of a good reason why I would ever be alone with a minor, not my own child. As a coach, it is always in a team setting with parents and players all over. As a scout leader, there are clear rules about being alone with a scout, which is a very good thing for all. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By DADGAD: Originally Posted By Ridgerunner9876: Only a fool allows themselves to be alone with a female or a minor. a lot of it is knowing that there is a solid reason why you are alone with a person. I have women I work with or are friends with who I trust, and there is no problem with me or my wife. Two decent trustworthy adults should not present any problems. I can't think of a good reason why I would ever be alone with a minor, not my own child. As a coach, it is always in a team setting with parents and players all over. As a scout leader, there are clear rules about being alone with a scout, which is a very good thing for all. I was in my early twenties at a county fair when a divorced friend with a daughter caught a ride back to the city we all lived in with her boyfriend in his helicopter of all things. I got her to write a fucking note with contact info before I drove her teenage daughter back to their house.
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Posted: Yesterday 7:07:29 PM EDT
[#33]
I like whores
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TX, USA
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Posted: Yesterday 8:28:00 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: I have a couple of gay male friends. You and others are acting like it's ok to hang with them, but not a girl... because omg... possibly sexytime... Well dude can suck yer dick if ya let him. would your wife be more mad if you got a bj from a dude or a woman?? That's not what the OP asked, but I see no difference. Cheating is cheating, and if it is in appropriate, it is because of the possibility for sexual tension/actions, not because of the gender of the other person. I don't know why this is so hard for some of you guys. |
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Posted: Today 4:32:55 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By sirgilbert357: That's not what the OP asked, but I see no difference. Cheating is cheating, and if it is in appropriate, it is because of the possibility for sexual tension/actions, not because of the gender of the other person. I don't know why this is so hard for some of you guys. Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By sirgilbert357: Originally Posted By OverScoped: I have a couple of gay male friends. You and others are acting like it's ok to hang with them, but not a girl... because omg... possibly sexytime... Well dude can suck yer dick if ya let him. would your wife be more mad if you got a bj from a dude or a woman?? That's not what the OP asked, but I see no difference. Cheating is cheating, and if it is in appropriate, it is because of the possibility for sexual tension/actions, not because of the gender of the other person. I don't know why this is so hard for some of you guys. Same. I don't know how difficult it is for some of the guys here to accept that males and females can be alone together and not want to fuck. |
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USA
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Posted: Today 5:03:56 AM EDT
[#36]
Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By OverScoped: Same. I don't know how difficult it is for some of the guys here to accept that males and females can be alone together and not want to fuck. your avatar isn't helping that statement
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Posted: Today 5:06:57 AM EDT
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Quote HistoryOriginally Posted By JBecker_72: I wouldn't put myself in that situation out of respect for my wife.. This |
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Posted: Today 5:08:34 AM EDT
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I will never deny a woman the pleasure of my company but I will deny her my essence
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Posted: Today 6:14:51 AM EDT
[#39]
What if the woman calls her own husband a heifer in front of you?
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