FWIW, my wife is the ultimate rule follower. I often half jokingly accuse her of dreaming of being a crossing guard and doubt she has ever knowingly broken a law in her life.
There is always a line of parents at school drop off accusing the teacher of being responsible for their little Johnny failing. It is never us, and we’ve had conversations how it never will be us as we and our own little Johnny need to take responsibility for his success or failure.
I just turned to her and asked “imagine our son was 17, he showed up with a dead body in the trunk and said he had killed the guy in a fit of anger, but for no good reason, would you call the cops or help hide the body”.
Without hesitation she said “hide the body”.