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Quoted: But not how to be a gracious guest, apparently. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: OP knows how to be a decent host to his guests. But not how to be a gracious guest, apparently. I ate the steak with a smile and I thanked the host. The original question was does it piss you off when dinner is ruined. That is a long way from saying I was a ass to the host. That was typical GD over generalization. |
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I went to a gathering like that once. Everyone brought their own steak for this “chef” that my wife’s friend married. I knew I was fucked when he made two drug deals while the grill was getting hot. Said he was about to smoke steaks and they’d be the best steaks we’ve ever had. He “smoked” them for about 2 hours while he told us all how good of a cook he was. They weren’t worth 2 shits. I’ve had better steaks at golden coral….
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Quoted: It's a red flag for me when someone says they like their steak well-done. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Yep almost as bad as a host who cooks everything well done! On Purpose It's a red flag for me when someone says they like their steak well-done. "So what you're telling me is that you don't like steak and you want something else." |
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Quoted: Sorry for your loss but these ribeyes came out perfect. https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/696/IMG_0977_jpg-2505430.JPG View Quote Needs some more directed heat to render down that fat on the side. But if that was the result of balancing it with having the meat rare to almost medium rare, then you made the right call. |
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Take away from this is if you are going to cook for other people, just ask:
"How do you want your steak cooked" But Nooo.... |
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Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/160746/64D0BACB-3BE7-4B70-88CC-4B1CC9C26D9E_jpe-2505455.JPG my 14 yo son does pretty well View Quote |
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Quoted: Wait...you're at a get-together with friends, and you're posting on ARFCOM? View Quote I invited friends over for dinner…waiting for my buddy to quit surfing ARFcom on his phone before I take his steak off the grill. Should I say something, or just serve his steak well done/ruined? |
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Quoted: Needs some more directed heat to render down that fat on the side. But if that was the result of balancing it with having the meat rare to almost medium rare, then you made the right call. View Quote They were smoked over Hickory until internal was at 125F and then reversed seared for about 2min on each side in ghee on a black-stone. They were rare to medium rare and perfect. |
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Quoted: Not since I've started to sous vide mine, they're only on the grill a total of 5 minutes, Hard to fuck them up in that time period. Most nervous was cooking a bunch of dry aged steaks at a bachelor party for a bunch of drunk hungry guys, I thankfully nailed those. View Quote After a sous vide, I skip the grill and go straight to a blowtorch. Max heat. |
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Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/160746/64D0BACB-3BE7-4B70-88CC-4B1CC9C26D9E_jpe-2505455.JPG my 14 yo son does pretty well View Quote Quoted: Take away from this is if you are going to cook for other people, just ask: "How do you want your steak cooked" But Nooo.... View Quote A pic in support of what I just said. Some people may like steak undercooked. I don't. If somebody wanted me to give them a undercooked steak I would; I'd also expect them to be as considerate and put that back on the grill for me, cause I ain't eating it like that. |
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A real man would have spared the meat with a hostile takeover
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Ill generally eat whatever is served when someone invites me to their place. If someone whines about stuff at my place, they aint going to eat it.
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Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/160746/64D0BACB-3BE7-4B70-88CC-4B1CC9C26D9E_jpe-2505455.JPG my 14 yo son does pretty well View Quote Attached File |
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Quoted: I ate it and thanked the host. It was not good. Cooked over the finest match light kingsford no less. Loved the slight petroleum notes. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Did you buy the steaks? If not be gracious, idiots and fuckups generally lack the self awareness and it's not socially appropriate to point it out when they're the host. I ate it and thanked the host. It was not good. Cooked over the finest match light kingsford no less. Loved the slight petroleum notes. Did you at least have any A1 to help wash it down? |
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Quoted: if you are going to cook for other people, just ask: "How do you want your steak cooked" View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: if you are going to cook for other people, just ask: "How do you want your steak cooked" Meat thermometers are like $10, and anyone cooking steak (or anything on a grill) should have one anyway, makes it really easy. Quoted: Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/160746/64D0BACB-3BE7-4B70-88CC-4B1CC9C26D9E_jpe-2505455.JPG my 14 yo son does pretty well /media/mediaFiles/sharedAlbum/0c96c781a5e6260d0827848aec47d205-381.gif Yeah, not really much to brag about there. Zero skill needed to prepare (not really "cook") a cut of beef in that manner. |
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Last time I did steaks for family someone put their med rare steak into the fucking microwave. So pretty much never again for that person.
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Some people can’t eat raw meat. The best thing to do as a host is to either ask, or cook it medium well done. I’d rather ask people how they like it. Noting there will always be someone who says medium well or well done. There is a whole generation of folks that are used to eating steaks well done and don’t like anything else.
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My BIL insists on hosting got every summer holiday , he has a shitty grill ( charbroil) and he cooks everything to blackened hockey puck steaks, brats, burgers, hot dogs , all cooked black hard
He has no idea that 160 degree is the magic temp By vote they asked me to take over the grill. He still cook leftovers to black after I leave |
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Did you pay for the steaks? Did you do the prep work? Are you going to do the cleanup?
If no, shut up and enjoy your Saturday night. If you want to control things, then you can host a party or cook steaks for yourself. |
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Quoted: I ate it and thanked the host. It was not good. Cooked over the finest match light kingsford no less. Loved the slight petroleum notes. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Did you buy the steaks? If not be gracious, idiots and fuckups generally lack the self awareness and it's not socially appropriate to point it out when they're the host. I ate it and thanked the host. It was not good. Cooked over the finest match light kingsford no less. Loved the slight petroleum notes. Life is just full to the brim with one soul crushing disappointment after another it would seem. I hope you are able to overcome your difficulties in good stead, sir. Good luck and God speed, my friend. |
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Quoted: Have you ever been over to dinner and the host was so busy playing the fucking center of attention that they completely ruined the meal? I am sitting here now watching 6 good filets get turned into dog food. Overdone but not even with a sear. It is everything I can do to not tell him to get the fuck away from the grill and go sit in the corner and feel bad about himself. View Quote Last fishing trip. The chef brought out n entire prime rib roast and I got erect at the thought of a ful day fishing then eating a killer slice of a roast .. Welllll he proceeds to slice it super thin and put it on the flat top with 0 and I mean not a single granule of salt or pepper... Griddled until you came in to eat.... Shoe leather... Mac salad with a cheese sauce... Wtf?!?!!?? Well turns out he lied on his resume and I'm guessing was never a chef on a long range boat. |
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Quoted: Last fishing trip. The chef brought out n entire prime rib roast and I got erect at the thought of a ful day fishing then eating a killer slice of a roast .. Welllll he proceeds to slice it super thin and put it on the flat top with 0 and I mean not a single granule of salt or pepper... Griddled until you came in to eat.... Shoe leather... Mac salad with a cheese sauce... Wtf?!?!!?? Well turns out he lied on his resume and I'm guessing was never a chef on a long range boat. View Quote Or, or... He wasn't lying, and that's why he was a chef on a long range boat? |
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Quoted: Quoted: Have you ever been over to dinner and the host was so busy playing the fucking center of attention that they completely ruined the meal? I am sitting here now watching 6 good filets get turned into dog food. Overdone but not even with a sear. It is everything I can do to not tell him to get the fuck away from the grill and go sit in the corner and feel bad about himself. You are a poor guest. This. |
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Quoted: It's a red flag for me when someone says they like their steak well-done. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Yep almost as bad as a host who cooks everything well done! On Purpose It's a red flag for me when someone says they like their steak well-done. Is it a double red flag when they slather it in ketchup and washing it down with Diet Coke? |
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Yeah I'd definitely rather have it bloody and undercooked so I have to blow up his shitter while there and have the gurgs in my stomach.
Just enjoy your time there, it happens. |
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Quoted: Take away from this is if you are going to cook for other people, just ask: "How do you want your steak cooked" But Nooo.... View Quote Quoted: Meat thermometers are like $10, and anyone cooking steak (or anything on a grill) should have one anyway, makes it really easy. View Quote I guess I should have been more specific. How I want it cooked is not just a temperature, it is until there is only a little pink left; it doesn't have to be well done, but almost. I seldom go (avoid is accurate) to cookouts, potlucks; I have food at my house and as seen in this thread people can take it personal over food because you don't want your food their way. |
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Thankfully no.
The only place I’ve had ruined steaks these days is at Longhorn. Over seasoned and tough - even when rare. |
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OPs mom fucked up his steak nuggets. He pissed.
Prob made him loose his video game when she called him too. |
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