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Have you even considered the possibility that sometimes she is unhappy and he had nothing at all to do with it? It seems as if you believe female unhappiness is always due to her mans actions. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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A lot of conservative/traditional "Good Men" are taught that all women are noble selfless angels, men should always be good to them because they always deserve it, and men should just put up with whatever women do and be good providers. So I appreciate that someone out there is trying to teach men that some women are like that, some women are not, and here's how to spot the ones who are not. You may not realize you did it, but you did. Most men I have had dealings with predictably answer they would choose respect over love if they had to choose between the two. IOW, if the question is “would you rather be respected or loved?”, men pick respect. And that is the half of the statement that gets directed at women, because men already know that. The whole 'emotionless men' has some merit to it, but why? Maybe they are emotionless to their spouse because the sex fountain dried up. Its the what came first theory of chicken vs the egg. It’s a vicious cycle that starts in small ways and snowballs. There’s no way to say this one or that one is the guilty party, because it takes two. They both start it in their own ways, and they both continue it. Fact is, though, that if you look at a lot of marriages, the men in them are emotionally absent. And that’s a recipe for divorce. That’s a major component of why women cite being “unhappy” as a reason for divorce. Why are they unhappy? Because their man is emotionally absent. And also that if she is unhappy, the first thing she needs to do is examine her own attitude and behavior, not stew about his. |
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Not when it comes to emotional stuff and communication. Or better stated, women aren’t taught how to handle emotional stuff and communicating with men. It gets dismissed as “unloving” and “men are assholes” and “Why doesn't he feel what I want him to feel?” And since they don’t know how to handle that stuff, they don’t see it as a failure on their part. That’s just stuff they don’t do. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Not when it comes to emotional stuff and communication. Or better stated, men aren’t taught how to handle emotional stuff and communicating with women. It gets dismissed as “girl stuff” and “women are crazy” and “who could ever understand that alien mindscape?” And since they don’t know how to handle that stuff, they don’t see it as a failure on their part. That’s just stuff they don’t do. Or better stated, women aren’t taught how to handle emotional stuff and communicating with men. It gets dismissed as “unloving” and “men are assholes” and “Why doesn't he feel what I want him to feel?” And since they don’t know how to handle that stuff, they don’t see it as a failure on their part. That’s just stuff they don’t do. |
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Yeah right, introspection won't fix those- however I *think* we would all agree it's still on her (or whoever is suffering from these mental issues) to seek help from medical professionals. It would be on the spouse to support them as they seek help. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Quoted: Have you even considered the possibility that sometimes she is unhappy and he had nothing at all to do with it? It seems as if you believe female unhappiness is always due to her mans actions. And also that if she is unhappy, the first thing she needs to do is examine her own attitude and behavior, not stew about his. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml |
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Quoted: I don't give a shit. You brought up wives cutting off husbands physically. Learn to follow along. Your emotions cloud your logic. Or you just fail at logic. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: I don't give a shit. You brought up wives cutting off husbands physically. Learn to follow along. Your emotions cloud your logic. Or you just fail at logic. The whole 'emotionless men' has some merit to it, but why? Maybe they are emotionless to their spouse because the sex fountain dried up.
Its the what came first theory of chicken vs the egg. ...but do carry on with your 'following along' and success with logic. |
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Quoted: 22.3% adult women suffer from mental illness. They cannot all be unmarried. That’s a lot of women that’s will likely be unhappy no matter how exceptional her husband treats her. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml View Quote ETA: https://www.mdedge.com/familymedicine/article/60747/womens-health/gender-differences-utilization-health-care-services Attached File |
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22.3% adult women suffer from mental illness. They cannot all be unmarried. That’s a lot of women that’s will likely be unhappy no matter how exceptional her husband treats her. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Quoted: Have you even considered the possibility that sometimes she is unhappy and he had nothing at all to do with it? It seems as if you believe female unhappiness is always due to her mans actions. And also that if she is unhappy, the first thing she needs to do is examine her own attitude and behavior, not stew about his. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml |
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Is it possible women are just more likely to seek help then men? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Or it could be that you are attributing to me something that Voodoo3dfx brought up: Though it is true that he makes mention to the 'sex fountain' drying up, he explicitly indicates that it's a chicken vs the egg thing, highlighting the ambiguity of who is responsible for the root cause. ...but do carry on with your 'following along' and success with logic. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
Quoted: I don't give a shit. You brought up wives cutting off husbands physically. Learn to follow along. Your emotions cloud your logic. Or you just fail at logic. The whole 'emotionless men' has some merit to it, but why? Maybe they are emotionless to their spouse because the sex fountain dried up.
Its the what came first theory of chicken vs the egg. ...but do carry on with your 'following along' and success with logic. |
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22.3% adult women suffer from mental illness. They cannot all be unmarried. That’s a lot of women that’s will likely be unhappy no matter how exceptional her husband treats her. https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness.shtml View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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What does that have to do with the presumption that every unhappy wife is unhappy because of her husband? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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What does that have to do with the presumption that every unhappy wife is unhappy because of her husband? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Who is making that presumption?!? Even Namaah says an unhappy woman should first look at herself for why she's unhappy. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Quoted: I broadly addressed voodoo's post. You keyed on the physical stuff. I merely used the opportunity, once again, to point out that once it reaches that point, it doesn't matter where the blame lies. You've already screwed up as a husband. Because that doesn't happen overnight. View Quote |
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Yes, I have. You can rest assured and take satisfaction that I will absolutely pay for my errors for the rest of my life. Probably beyond. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
Quoted: I broadly addressed voodoo's post. You keyed on the physical stuff. I merely used the opportunity, once again, to point out that once it reaches that point, it doesn't matter where the blame lies. You've already screwed up as a husband. Because that doesn't happen overnight. |
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Quoted: Assuming the girl is giving you IOI's (sorry Roland, I know I'm violating our newly signed peace treaty here with redpilled terms) then I absolutely go for a kiss on the first date. and NOT right as I'm dropping her off at home or at her car in the parkign lot. Be spontaneous and just go for it early/mid date if things are going well! WhenI was younger/dumber and didn't read IOI's and bodylanguage as well I had a few negative reactions to those. But as I've learned to read women better, I've since never had a negative reaction when just going for that first kiss. But NO tongue. View Quote You are kissing with tongue? That's nasty. |
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What if I told you everyone is simultaneously a lock and a key? https://media.giphy.com/media/xEGqih6o0meyY/giphy.gif |
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View Quote Good that I don't like to kiss. |
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She may have sucked a dick half an hour before the date. Good that I don't like to kiss. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
She may have sucked a dick half an hour before the date. Good that I don't like to kiss. |
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She may have sucked a dick half an hour before the date. Good that I don't like to kiss. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
She may have sucked a dick half an hour before the date. Good that I don't like to kiss. |
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Never, who knows what nasty things she had in her mouth. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes |
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and the inability to find a good woman become a little more clear View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes |
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Like I said I honestly don't know if you're joking, but I have this morbid curiosity...
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Its ridiculous to assume you don't care how you look to others. Or do you not take time to dress nice either? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
Its ridiculous to assume you don't care how you look to others. Or do you not take time to dress nice either? And beyond that, one can care about maintaining a clean and neat appearance for reasons other than attracting a mate. Just seeing it as a part of being a decent person in a civilized society, for example. Quoted:
You cool driving a totally lame car as long as it goes from A to B? Most of my vehicles are the butt of stereotypical jokes anyway. Quoted:
Do you not aspire to anything above a stock Glock 19 cuz that'll do the job? I have everything from stock Glocks to tricked-out custom Open guns... but none were ever to impress anybody else. Quoted:
Virtue Signalling about how working out is "for me" is a blatant lie. Quoted:(and if you really don't you're a weirdo) |
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What if I told you everyone is simultaneously a lock and a key? https://media.giphy.com/media/xEGqih6o0meyY/giphy.gif She ages well. |
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Eh, I'll agree that kissing is kind of gross. I do it because others like it, but it does not give me any pleasure beyond a quick closed mouth kiss as an expression of affection.
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Since were getting all freaky weird and uncomfortable in here. I draw a thick line at butt stuff.
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You like to put your mouth in places where dozens, maybe a hundred or more guys put there dick? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes |
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Is it possible women are just more likely to seek help then men? ETA: https://www.mdedge.com/familymedicine/article/60747/womens-health/gender-differences-utilization-health-care-services https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/327887/Annotation_2019-07-03_175929_jpg-1002879.JPG View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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View Quote I'm packing gloves, condoms, rubbing alcohol and some medical disinfection spray for the date later. |
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No date, met her maybe 3 hours before in a bar, more like sixteen miles, and she wanted to have sex with me. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes |
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Quoted: You need to slow down your heavy twang, I am just a poor northerner with a college degree. View Quote Hey Alabama, are you an Alabama 10 or a regular 10? |
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Quoted: You like to put your mouth in places where dozens, maybe a hundred or more guys put there dick? View Quote You clearly have a lot of issues regarding females and sex. It’s not them, it’s you. |
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