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Posted: 5/9/2024 8:30:58 PM EDT
this is rough...

A mother has revealed the heartbreaking last conversation she had with her dying four old son.

Ruth Scully, from Leonardtown, Maryland, lost her four-year-old son, Nolan, in February of 2017 to Rhabdomyosarcoma.

The cancer, which affects the soft skeletal tissue, is highly aggressive and can spread quickly - becoming resistant to all forms of treatment.

Nolan had just 15 months to fight the disease, from November 2015 to February 2017, before it took his life.

In one of their last conversations together, she told her son that he 'didn't have to fight anymore' who said he would go to Heaven and 'play until you get there'.
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https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-13402011/Mother-final-conversation-dying-son-cancer.html
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:32:49 PM EDT
[#1]
Fuuuuuuck.

Healthy children are such blessing.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:34:03 PM EDT
[#2]
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:37:00 PM EDT
[#3]
Well I'm crying like a baby.  
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:37:46 PM EDT
[#4]
My son is three going on four. He’s a sweet kid.

That hurt to read.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:39:01 PM EDT
[#5]
Yes you will kid….you will.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:40:42 PM EDT
[#6]
Prayer sent.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:40:52 PM EDT
[#7]
I don’t have any real problems. Bless that family.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:41:19 PM EDT
[#8]
Damn allergies
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:42:51 PM EDT
[#9]
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Originally Posted By CanaryCamaro:
Fuuuuuuck.

Healthy children are such blessing.
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Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:43:13 PM EDT
[#10]
That one hurts. RIP little fella.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:45:21 PM EDT
[#11]
Yeah, that was tough to read.  I hate that stuff like that happens to kids.  Cancer truly is the worst.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:46:15 PM EDT
[#12]
Oooof
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:46:36 PM EDT
[#13]
I can't imagine anything being harder to go through.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:46:41 PM EDT
[#14]
Godspeed little man.



Dammit! Why is it always the ones that DON'T need to die, always die too damn young?
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:46:53 PM EDT
[#15]
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Originally Posted By ServusVeritatis:
Yes you will kid….you will.
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Yep. Have fun little man.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:47:00 PM EDT
[#16]
Cant imagine.

Going to hug the kid hard.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:47:59 PM EDT
[#17]
Fuck
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:49:07 PM EDT
[#18]
Damn, that was tough to read.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:49:15 PM EDT
[#19]
His Lord and Savior will take good care until mom gets there to be with him throughout eternity never to be separated again.
God is not a man that He would lie.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:50:06 PM EDT
[#20]
Not reading that, but prayers to the family.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:52:09 PM EDT
[#21]
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Originally Posted By TLD05:
Well I'm crying like a baby.  
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You’re not alone
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:53:51 PM EDT
[#22]
The picture of him curled up next to the tub while his mom showered because he was scared to be alone…

Yeah, I’m done.  Out.

Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:54:10 PM EDT
[#23]
Rest in peace little buddy.   Being a dad this shit always scares me.  I try to love my kids as much as I can everyday.   It's tough when they are being little shits, but I always try my best and give them hugs every chance I get.

Years ago someone here shared a story of a terminally ill kid that just wanted subs on YouTube.  Sweet kid, I gave him views and likes as often as I could, tucked when the uploads stopped

https://youtube.com/@theenchantedemeraldpickaxe1848?si=ODpVrYBYYVidvZDC
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:54:28 PM EDT
[#24]



Rest easy little man.😭

Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:55:00 PM EDT
[#25]
That was tough to read Prayers for the family.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:55:19 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Rat_Patrol:
Can't bring myself to read it. Just here to say fuck cancer.
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Same here.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 8:55:23 PM EDT
[#27]
Not reading. Just the single quote is enough to break my heart. But also renew my utter belief in a loving God. Yep that young man is indeed having a joyous time at the Lords side. With angels to play with him and never to experience pain again.  Amen.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:02:03 PM EDT
[#28]
My chest got tight reading that.

God bless that child and his family. May they meet again.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:03:14 PM EDT
[#29]
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:03:42 PM EDT
[Last Edit: D_J] [#30]
GTFO with those comments.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:06:37 PM EDT
[#31]
Bless the little one dear Father….
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:08:10 PM EDT
[#32]
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Originally Posted By ServusVeritatis:
Yes you will kid….you will.
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Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:11:46 PM EDT
[#33]
Damn it man, nothing like a good dose of realty to keep things in perspective.

Most of us bitch and moan everyday over petty little things while a baby and mother have to deal with terminal cancer.

I’m ashamed of myself after reading that and am now doubly thankful for my two healthy kids.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:12:37 PM EDT
[#34]
Fuckin A bro.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:13:58 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By Rat_Patrol:
Can't bring myself to read it. Just here to say fuck cancer.
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I have four kids. I really wish I hadn’t read that.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:20:27 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By JHMC79:
Damn it man, nothing like a good dose of realty to keep things in perspective.

Most of us bitch and moan everyday over petty little things while a baby and mother have to deal with terminal cancer.

I’m ashamed of myself after reading that and am now doubly thankful for my two healthy kids.
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This
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:21:32 PM EDT
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Originally Posted By LCPL4ever:
Rest in peace little buddy.   Being a dad this shit always scares me.  I try to love my kids as much as I can everyday.   It's tough when they are being little shits, but I always try my best and give them hugs every chance I get.

Years ago someone here shared a story of a terminally ill kid that just wanted subs on YouTube.  Sweet kid, I gave him views and likes as often as I could, tucked when the uploads stopped

https://youtube.com/@theenchantedemeraldpickaxe1848?si=ODpVrYBYYVidvZDC
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My neighbors lost two.  She was pregnant with one when they discovered some rare fatal genetic disorder in their toddler. Toddler passed from it then the baby died after a few months of life. They have two healthy older kids that they spoiled rotten. I won't judge their parenting.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:22:42 PM EDT
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I fucking hate cancer.  


I watched a life long friend lose her life to cancer.  Broke my heart.  Seeing it destroy her was difficult.  But dammit seeing little kids in the cancer ward bothers me badly.  


Then we found out my wife had cancer.  In all our cancer treatment visits it was very hard to see children suffering in the various ways cancers would affect them.  

It puts things in perspective.  One thing that really struck me was.. Those little kids are tough,  they would just soldier on like it was just another day.  Because in too many cases,  that is what they know.  In too many cases spent more of their lives fighting that fucking abhorrent disease than not.  



Rip little man.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:24:52 PM EDT
[#39]
Braver than I would ever be.

Prayers to you kid.  God bless you.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:25:54 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:26:29 PM EDT
[#41]
If I get to Heaven, I'm going to ask God about this sort of thing.  And if I'm not satisfied with the answer, I'm going to give Him an ear full.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:29:11 PM EDT
[#42]
Being the father to a 3 month old son, this kind of stuff scares the ever living shit out of me way more than any gunfight I’ve ever been in has.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:33:21 PM EDT
[Last Edit: DrKlahn] [#43]
Damn, just …..

Most of us have lost  a loved to one to cancer at this point in our lives (30 and up crowd).  

The biggest fuck you is we still can’t do a fucking thing to stop it, i would have gladly trades places with my father just so he didn't have  suffer and wither away.

Cancer doesn’t care, think, feel, have a logic we can understand. There is no rhyme or reason for how it makes this spontaneous change.

It is just a  mutation of cells by nature, either naturally occurring or caused by environmental, chemical, or radiation exposure.

It has always existed, in man and animal.  It may be some evolution experiment gone wrong.

It doesn’t matter at fucking all, we are powerless to stop this, we watch, pray, poison and still have a fucking funeral in the end.





Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:36:38 PM EDT
[#44]
Such innocence, dang...
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:38:53 PM EDT
[#45]
That is so horrible.  Children shouldnt have to deal with stuff like that.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:44:43 PM EDT
[#46]
That’s the nightmare scenario for a parent. That’s awful.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:46:14 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:46:55 PM EDT
[Last Edit: jtskier11] [#48]
How sad…. I can’t even bring myself to click the link. Made my heart hurt just seeing the thread title….

Rest easy little dude.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:51:41 PM EDT
[#49]
My 4 year old son recently defeated cancer. Seeing the year long process through my child was the most hardening experience of my life.

Along the way, I had many interactions at the pediatric hospital with other children and their families who you knew weren’t getting out of there. It was absolutely brutal.

Things that used to make me feel a certain way have zero effect now. It has forever changed me. There are so many things we think are important you quickly realize are not important at all in the grand scheme of things.

I’m not saying life is now dull and meaningless, I’m saying the opposite. It re-wired my brain to truly appreciate everything, and just be happy for every minute we have with our children.

As someone said earlier, children are some of the most resilient creatures on the planet. They are so much braver and mentally stronger than pretty much all adults.

My son and the other kids there would be playing and laughing even when you could tell they were so weak from radiation and chemo they could barely keep their eyes open or food in their belly. They never felt sorry for themselves.

There is a special place in heaven for the children who fight that battle, and there is also one for the medical providers who spend all day making a families darkest days a little brighter in that situation.
Link Posted: 5/9/2024 9:56:37 PM EDT
[#50]
Yeah that gets you right in the feels. Heaven needed him more up there than down here. I know God loves all of his children, especially the young ones.
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