I'm not a huge fan of stinging insects in general, but the only time I've EVER been stung was by a paper wasp and I wasn't doing anything that I think merited a defense reaction.
I was at least 20 feet away from the nest and wasn't doing anything to it.
But I did get my revenge later. I did a mag dump into their nest at point blank range with my AR. There were no survivors and no recognizable bits of wasp left over.
As for honeybees, they ARE gentle unless threatened or harmed. I've had them land
on me and crawl around, and that's cool as long as you don't startle them. They're cool little buggers.
And I've certainly never been stung by one.
We have had occasional problems with carpenter bees. As they eat wood, like the eaves
of my house, and my fence, too, I always go on the warpath when they show up.
They don't last long when you plug up the holes in the board they've made into a nest
and then you soak the entire board in lacquer thinner.
CJ