You know I really gotta say this thread is great. I was NOT ready for kids but one day you get the "Im Late" speach and your life forever changes. I respect those that do not want children and stick to their beliefs.. Hey, Not EVERYONE wants to be a mom or dad and I can really respect that.
I knew I wanted to be a dad and therefore the decision is easy. It is DEFINITELY a mindset that you have to KNOW you want and it is a life commitment. BOTH ways. If you wanna be a parent.. . you are thrust into a lifetime of worry, fear and joy. If not, you are in a life where you will be in with no one to carry on your name (IF that is what you wish)
I dont chastise peoples choice when it comes to parenthood... I respect it.