In all honesty (and as a former "Aeroshell evangelist"), most people have the wrong idea about what the grease is there for in the first place, so they make poor decisions about what they use, and sometimes that can be a problem.
The grease is NOT an "anti-seize" agent. It is an assembly grease. Its purpose is to ensure that the barrel nut slides smoothly across all of the threads of the upper which in turn is important to getting a consistent grip between the nut and the upper. And that grip, in turn, controls the clamping force applied between the barrel nut and the barrel flange against the upper's face. And a good bit of that force comes from actually stretching the upper (microscopically).
But if you did not use grease, or used something other than a grease that meets MIL-G-21164 specs (which Aeroshell 33MS (now called Aeroshell 64, by the way*)), it's unlikely you have caused any problems.
There are tons of people claiming that "Brand X must use super thread locker on their barrel nuts because it took me and Bubba on a 6' cheater bar to get that sucker off!!!" And they're wrong**. People make this claim (often) because they assume that they shouldn't have to use more than 80 ft-lbs of torque to remove a barrel nut. Force needed to remove a torqued fastener often has little to nothing to do with the torque originally applied to install it.
*This specific kind of grease, meeting the specs it does, is generically called "Grease 64" throughout the aviation industry, and in military use. Royco has always called their MIL-G-21164 grease "Grease 64", and I think it's probably related to the spec number (but I could be wrong).
**There's evidence that some builders have used a variety of materials on their barrel nuts. And some DO use LocTite in assembling barrels to uppers, but generally NOT on the barrel nut threads. Over time, some assembly agents could cook away, dry up, or otherwise become sticky. But a heat gun or a carefully used torch usually takes care of that.