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Link Posted: 9/6/2021 1:57:46 PM EST
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I say, I went to buy some spats, bloomers, and a cod piece and my local haberdashery only had pantaloons!

The horror!
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 1:58:31 PM EST
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If a tucked in shirt is required, I don't belong.
My wife is happy seated outside with ocean view. She also expects me to be carrying something decent (more than just a pocket gun).
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Married guys, that don’t  wear collared shirts, suits or blazers, does your wife ever want to get dressed up and go out to a place that requires a reservation?


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If a tucked in shirt is required, I don't belong.
My wife is happy seated outside with ocean view. She also expects me to be carrying something decent (more than just a pocket gun).


The last wedding my wife and I went to involved a hay-ride from the ceremony to the reception
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 2:01:34 PM EST
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Link Posted: 9/6/2021 2:06:59 PM EST
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OP it's not just fashion or the way people present themselves.  It's all of society.  Not sure if it's just America, but we are a nation of classless fat slobs who couldn't care less about themselves or anybody else.  We dress accordingly.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 2:16:39 PM EST
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I honestly have no idea where a regular joe would go to shop for dressy clothes.

I would guess that there's very expensive designer stuff for white collar city folks, and low rent uniform typeworker bee stuff.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 2:23:42 PM EST
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I honestly have no idea where a regular joe would go to shop for dressy clothes.

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Everyone gives them shit, but you can get a decent looking suit at Men's Warehouse for a reasonable price. If you aren't the type that has off the rack stuff fit you well though you'll need to go somewhere to have one tailored though.

If you are a dude that needs a very expensive suit or 5, you probably need to go directly to a tailor or high end place.

For the rest of us that just need a jacket and pants every now and then, see if you can find a brand that fits you well off the rack and have it altered if you you need to.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 7:01:24 PM EST
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You know how many judges wear dress clothes to sign a warrant at 3am?

It's not the clothes that make the person.

Now if they're sloppy, as in food stains on their cloths or trash in their office or car, that's a different issue.
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A judge we used all the time was never, ever seen without a tie, day or night. I don't know anyone who has ever seen him not in a shirt and tie.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 7:48:29 PM EST
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Part of me growing up was to know how to change a flat. Address people as Sir and Ma'am. Carry a knife. Have a nice wallet with $100 tucked inside. Know how to tie your own lure. Take care of your tools. Have a nice watch. Know which utensil to use. To eat your steak medium-rare at most. How to enjoy bourbon. How to enjoy wine. Know which direction is north. Hold the door open for anyone, especially women. Rotate your ties. Own a sport coat. Own a suit.

I'll be 40 next year and I still think all that matters. GD is such a spaghetti of not knowing what they truly want. Its either a race to be the less caring and cheapest or to be the most opulent. If someone doesn't agree with the way one feels then that makes that person some sorta troglodyte in their narrow world.

I like nice clothes. I love well fitted jacket, shirt, jeans, nice shoes, all that stuff. I love the confidence it gives me and how people look at me, especially the women-folk. That's it. That's all there is to it for me. If you think that makes me a Yes Man, Boomer, or whatever stupid fucking term that GD wants to latch onto this quarter then that's on you -- GD loves its wide, broad brushes.
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Well said.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:16:59 PM EST
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You also have to realize all the fat bodies look like shit in a suit. You have to be in shape to look good in a suit. GD neckbeard basement dwellers
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That's a very astute point.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:36:10 PM EST
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That's a very astute point.
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You also have to realize all the fat bodies look like shit in a suit. You have to be in shape to look good in a suit. GD neckbeard basement dwellers

That's a very astute point.


It's obtuse.

Suits are about the best way to adequately cover up most fatbodies fat... bodies.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:38:43 PM EST
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I’m 31 and I kind of see where you’re coming from wanting nice clothes, but at the same time I think it’s just a waste of money. Clothes don’t last much longer than a couple wash cycles now and I end up just wearing the same polos and Cargo shorts.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:41:01 PM EST
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@AKCory762 did you try Nordstrom?
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:49:46 PM EST
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Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:57:36 PM EST
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I'm 31 and I kind of see where you're coming from wanting nice clothes, but at the same time I think it's just a waste of money. Clothes don't last much longer than a couple wash cycles now and I end up just wearing the same polos and Cargo shorts.
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I'm 31 and I kind of see where you're coming from wanting nice clothes, but at the same time I think it's just a waste of money. Clothes don't last much longer than a couple wash cycles now and I end up just wearing the same polos and Cargo shorts.
ever hear of dry cleaning?
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 8:59:28 PM EST
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The only thing worse than indoor scarf guy or suit when nobody else is wearing a suit guy is fucking bow tie guy.

Stop it. Just stop it.

Or actually keep doing it. It's funny.
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So if I'm coming from an event where a suit or jacket is proper attire, and I stop at a restaurant for a drink or something to eat where no one else is dressed similarly, "there's nothing worse"?
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:04:55 PM EST
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So if I'm coming from an event where a suit or jacket is proper attire, and I stop at a restaurant for a drink or something to eat where no one else is dressed similarly, "there's nothing worse"?
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The only thing worse than indoor scarf guy or suit when nobody else is wearing a suit guy is fucking bow tie guy.

Stop it. Just stop it.

Or actually keep doing it. It's funny.

So if I'm coming from an event where a suit or jacket is proper attire, and I stop at a restaurant for a drink or something to eat where no one else is dressed similarly, "there's nothing worse"?
yeah youre a fucking loser.


these people are sick in the mind...  keep your suit on.  people might think you have a job.

Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:06:24 PM EST
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1974 killed it. "Never again!"
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Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:17:17 PM EST
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I had some time on my hands this afternoon so I took a ride to some stores to look at a new pair of brown leather shoes and maybe a new sport jacket.

My in-laws are coming in this week for my wedding and I figured a new jacket my be nice for dinner.

All the department stores are disgusting and a mess with fake leather garbage. Ok. I go to Jos a banks and they said the only have 1 style in stock.

All the other men’s shops had zero stock. Ugly plain sport coats. Like wtf happened, they decided to make garbage in China and now can’t get any stock......

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Most people now are savages. For as long as I can remember pop culture has been pushing the idea that sophisticated and dignified people with standards are no fun and to be emulated. And at the same time we're told to embrace hip-hop and hood culture, and never taught the value of taking yourself seriously or aspirating any degree of excellence.
My wife just interviewed a candidate for a middle management job who showed up in bright red tennis shoes, jeans and a polo shirt tucked in with no belt.
That's honestly what passed for professional these days  

Elites are genuinely evil people, but they're not wrong about the general public.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:23:14 PM EST
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Average Americans 1930



Average Americans today

Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:23:50 PM EST
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I found a nice travel jacket online and then went to a dress shop to have it fitted. No tailors within an hour drive
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:28:11 PM EST
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I've been to the office exactly 2 times so far this year.  No need for such clothes.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:28:33 PM EST
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I don't mind wearing a decent sport coat, dress shirt, and tie. But the bottom half will be jeans and boots. I have been a pallbearer for 3 close loved ones wearing exactly that. I don't wear slacks, and I'm not going to.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:44:13 PM EST
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Why would anyone wear clothes that make you sweat like hell in the name of looking "nice"? I'd rather be mobile and comfortable than conform to some artificial and contrived dress standard.
Link Posted: 9/6/2021 9:58:43 PM EST
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Suits are for mattress sales, or big box stores electronic salesman.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 10:30:12 AM EST
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I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

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ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

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Link Posted: 9/7/2021 10:45:58 AM EST
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Oh no, I'm wearing Salomons in the office, I hope my boss doesn't find out how classless I'm dressed

Link Posted: 9/7/2021 5:25:57 PM EST
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I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/9E1949E3-5C94-4894-ACD8-D0DDA979E0D7_jpe-2081771.JPG

ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

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I have a few pair of Johnston and Murphy’s, they are extremely comfortable
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 5:53:22 PM EST
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Oh no, I'm wearing Salomons in the office, I hope my boss doesn't find out how classless I'm dressed

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I'm wearing these in the office and I don't have a boss.



Still own a suit, though.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 5:57:52 PM EST
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I spend the least amount of money as I can get away with on clothing.

Not to say I don't have the ability to right now get dressed up and go out for a night on the town but it's just wasteful.

Clothing has no resell value.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:04:47 PM EST
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We’re all just walking around in 5.11s and Salomons now.

Classless fuckers.
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your the cheap fuck going to fucking department stores for dress clothes.

go to a tailor.

I bought a fantastic suit and the same kinda shoes presidents wear. Wore it to one fucking meeting.
Nobody wears that shit anymore.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:08:03 PM EST
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Very wrong. I made tons of money buying expensive mens dress clothes from thrift stores and selling on eBay. Enough to pay my rent and grocery bills every month.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:10:04 PM EST
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I'm in my early 30s.

I throw a rager of a party every year. It's a Black Tie Grilled Cheese party. Everyone goes all out for it. Everyone enjoys dressing up every now and then. Just give them a reason to.

I rarely wear a suit outside of that. I'd stand out like a sore thumb if I did. None of us do. Almost all of us are white collar professionals.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:11:26 PM EST
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all you hooligans are the reason the USA is going right into the shitter.

no class, no nice clothes having heathens.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:14:09 PM EST
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Lol, no.

Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:16:23 PM EST
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The societal idea that someone needs to be dressed “nice” to eat a meal is odd
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:28:24 PM EST
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Anywhere I've ever worked you'd be "That Guy" and people would make fun of you. You have a nickname at work with the young people. Do you know what it is? Also very few people would take you seriously. Trying WAY too hard.
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I’m a holdout like you, OP…wear suits to work despite the office going more casual with each passing year.

There is NOTHING casual about business!

Resist the race to the bottom.



Anywhere I've ever worked you'd be "That Guy" and people would make fun of you. You have a nickname at work with the young people. Do you know what it is? Also very few people would take you seriously. Trying WAY too hard.


The comment was intentionally provocative but I probably do have nicknames unrelated to my attire.

Associates report that I’m a little intimidating but they keep requesting to be assigned to my teams

Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:31:27 PM EST
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Wear a sport coat and slacks from JoS. A. Banks every Sunday, to every one of my children's weddings. Paying respect is just the way I was raised.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:37:42 PM EST
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I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/9E1949E3-5C94-4894-ACD8-D0DDA979E0D7_jpe-2081771.JPG

ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/CF4EF780-D3CA-4EF2-8E9A-578FEC36DC80_jpe-2081772.JPG
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I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/9E1949E3-5C94-4894-ACD8-D0DDA979E0D7_jpe-2081771.JPG

ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/CF4EF780-D3CA-4EF2-8E9A-578FEC36DC80_jpe-2081772.JPG



Water moccasins?
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:40:09 PM EST
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I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/9E1949E3-5C94-4894-ACD8-D0DDA979E0D7_jpe-2081771.JPG

ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/CF4EF780-D3CA-4EF2-8E9A-578FEC36DC80_jpe-2081772.JPG
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@AKCory762 did you try Nordstrom?


I end up finding a really nice slim fit jacket that has a tailored feel to it from Express. Not sure if I’ll def wear it this week but I liked it.

I also in my hunt found some nice loafers getting my old man of with these but they’re super comfy and I liked them.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/9E1949E3-5C94-4894-ACD8-D0DDA979E0D7_jpe-2081771.JPG

ETA: I bought a citizen diver too lol. Kay jewelers had 25% off yesterday so for $220 I thought it was a decent deal. I have some really nice watches but this caught my eye as a beat around watch other than my Apple.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/346339/CF4EF780-D3CA-4EF2-8E9A-578FEC36DC80_jpe-2081772.JPG


Nice watch.

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Link Posted: 9/7/2021 6:42:11 PM EST
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Mrs Rabinowitz buys my clothes. I'll always have at least one tailored suit, a half dozen sharp long sleeved shirts, and 2 pair of slim cut NOT SKINNY LEG jeans.

I have lots of casual clothes. But when it comes time to look better than a Tijuana rag picker, I'm happy to please her.

Women like a sharp dressed man.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:01:55 PM EST
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I'm married.
The wife doesn't like to dress up to go out for the most part. Not a whole lot of places you even need a reservation for right now and being in vegas most of them are very accepting of just about any dress. There are plenty of golf courses and clubs that have dress codes like no denim and needs a collar but I'll wear a short sleeve button down from rei or wrangler outdoor or whatever that is lighter and more comfortable than a t shirt in the hot sun and shorts that don't have baggy cargo pockets.
Most of the time we go do stuff that results in us getting dirty and sweaty and then like to bring our dogs and sit outside with them.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:02:52 PM EST
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How you dress reflects either well or not well on your spouse/SO.

I would never dress in a way that would embarrass Mrs Rabinowitz.  It would be unpardonably disrespectful.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:04:36 PM EST
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It's obtuse.

Suits are about the best way to adequately cover up most fatbodies fat... bodies.
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You're 100% correct. Not sure why I posted that, as I know it's not so. I may have been sampling spirits.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:13:21 PM EST
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Wore it to one fucking meeting.
Nobody wears that shit anymore.
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Glad I don’t consider myself a nobody.

Not a fancy suit everyday but I dress in a manner that shows respect for myself and others.
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:13:23 PM EST
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this is a big part of why i basically never wear a suit jacket. I have a petty coat for when it's colder and i want something nicer than my camo... I would just sweat my ass off most places in nv trying to wear a sportcoat.
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I'm wearing these in the office and I don't have a boss.

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there is nothing there which is a good look... that looks like a womans foot with cankles who hasn't shaved
Link Posted: 9/7/2021 7:53:10 PM EST
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I surprised this thread is still going. Lots of butt hurt. I bet you guys own Holosuns too.
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there is nothing there which is a good look... that looks like a womans foot with cankles who hasn't shaved
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I'm wearing these in the office and I don't have a boss.

https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/105138/1631055141728-2082183.jpg

Still own a suit, though.

there is nothing there which is a good look... that looks like a womans foot with cankles who hasn't shaved


It is a weird looking photo, to be honest.
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