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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:43:33 PM EDT
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Nj has a no fault clause and lifetime alimony.
Thank God we never were able to have kids
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Move to Texas. Divorce her.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:43:41 PM EDT
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Nj has a no fault clause and lifetime alimony.
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Lifetime alimony? Yeah fuck that shit.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:43:55 PM EDT
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the first time !
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fail
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:44:30 PM EDT
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Check her phone?

Hire a lawyer and put money away now.

When you find out she will probably realize you now know and that’s when the shit hits the fan.
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Drain the joint accounts NOW. It's your right and it's protection.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:45:39 PM EDT
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I would have to pay her $400 a week to get rid of her, sell my house and split the rest.
My pension and annuity 1/2 goes to her .
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:46:02 PM EDT
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The whole damn marriage is a train wreck man !
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27 years?!??  what kind of train wreck lasts 27 fucking years! lol

no affiliation but this tracker has good reviews https://www.amazon.com/AMERICALOC-GL300W-Mini-Portable-Tracker/dp/B0197FV8YU/

you've gotta report back though, this thread has potential!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:47:13 PM EDT
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That's actually pretty fucking brilliant lol.
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Not really unless she's keeping the fact that she's married a secret. She'd just ask the other guy if he sent them and it could alert her that the husband is on to her.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:47:20 PM EDT
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He is an old test.  Take some of her hair and place it in a jar.  Fill the jar half way up with vinegar.  Add two tablespoons of baking soda.  If you wife is off sucking someone’s dick while you play with your volcano then she is cheating.
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:48:51 PM EDT
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I caught mine using keylogging software.  Easy peasey.  I even paid for a trip for her to see her 'old college friend' in DC before I found out......
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:49:21 PM EDT
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Have you thought about a brutally honest conversation?   Without communication and trust you might as well end it as amicably as possible.  She may welcome the interaction, if not it's over anyway.

What do you have to lose?

What if you caught her?  Would that really help?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:49:25 PM EDT
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Thats how i caught her the first time !
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Check the phone bill.
Thats how i caught her the first time !
There’s your answer
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:49:39 PM EDT
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Oh yeah, slip one of those Tile locators into her pocket book or car.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:49:51 PM EDT
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I would have to pay her $400 a week to get rid of her, sell my house and split the rest.
My pension and annuity 1/2 goes to her .
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Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:51:31 PM EDT
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How did u find out ?
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I just told her to tell me the truth.
Had my suspicion,and I was right.
She was screwing her Sgt.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:52:27 PM EDT
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Check her phone?

Hire a lawyer and put money away now.

When you find out she will probably realize you now know and that's when the shit hits the fan.
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Hiding money isn't going to help anyone except her. What needs to be done is to "gamble it away".
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:52:45 PM EDT
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Send her flowers at work "From your one true love."

If she doesn't tell you about them, she's cheating.
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What’s to keep her from checking with her boyfriend first?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:53:10 PM EDT
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Routine panty check?
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This right here. I meant don't do this right here

I knew a woman who's husband would check her panties every time she came home.

How degrading.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:54:44 PM EDT
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Fuck NJ's divorce laws. Cheaper to keep her. Time to find a hard bodied 22yr old for yourself
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:54:47 PM EDT
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If your on a cell family plan,  check cell records.

Look for repeated cell # at odd times and when your not around.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:57:39 PM EDT
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This right here. I meant don't do this right here

I knew a woman who's husband would check her panties every time she came home.

How degrading.
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Routine panty check?
This right here. I meant don't do this right here

I knew a woman who's husband would check her panties every time she came home.

How degrading.
Dam.
If that’s the status of anyone’s marriage they just need to call it quits.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 9:57:41 PM EDT
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Its over OP, at this point find a good lawyer and move on with your life. Shit happens. Sorry
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:00:23 PM EDT
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What ever you do....don't put a cam in your bedroom.
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A former coworker did just that and his wife was fucking the 15 year old from another apartment. The camera was mounted in the ceiling fan right above the bed. He had a friend be a witness when he popped the evidence in the dvd player in front of her. I begged him to call the police on her but he wouldn't.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:00:39 PM EDT
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Cheap smartphone on a cheap data plan.  Install tracking apps, recording apps, and whatever else you want.  Get a decent quality car charger and hardwire it in under the dash, secure the phone to the charger and secure the bundle under the dash.  Make sure that sound, vibrate and notifications are off and GPS and data are on and set to send you updates and recordings to your main phone.  Gather evidence.  When you develop a pattern, rent a car and go wait near her most visited locations and take good pictures.  Get a lawyer, present evidence, split all your shit, join Tinder.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:00:40 PM EDT
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Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice...
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Thats how i caught her the first time !
Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice...
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:00:58 PM EDT
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what the fuck over ... I'm in !!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:10:31 PM EDT
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cant be 100% b/c discharge.
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Routine panty check?
cant be 100% b/c discharge.
Taste test.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:15:01 PM EDT
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OP is about to fail at life?

Can't even sniff-out ballz on his own?

Bang a cocktail waitress and step on you wife neck.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:19:49 PM EDT
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Follow the money!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:20:11 PM EDT
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27 years? By then who cares. Do whatever or whomever you want.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:20:53 PM EDT
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The flip side is there is a girl from HS that i used to bang, who has been hitting me up .
Maybe just stay in this shitty relationship keep half my shit and fuck all her friends and co workers ?
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yea thats a great idea

if theyre married youd put some other poor guy in the exact same spot youre in

Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:22:12 PM EDT
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Nj has a no fault clause and lifetime alimony.
Thank God we never were able to have kids
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After 28 years i hope you would have adult life by now.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:22:25 PM EDT
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The first time?

You're a lost cause
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:23:58 PM EDT
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I am a retard, she fucked around i in turn did too, 3 years later and never trusted her since.
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Ah.the plot thickens.you guys deserve each other
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:27:36 PM EDT
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That's actually pretty fucking brilliant lol.
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Send her flowers at work "From your one true love."

If she doesn't tell you about them, she's cheating.
That's actually pretty fucking brilliant lol.
Like she wouldn’t check with her boss first. C’mon, guys.

Give us something good.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:29:42 PM EDT
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yea thats a great idea

if theyre married youd put some other poor guy in the exact same spot youre in

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"I beleive in karma. You can do anything to anyone and know it's okay because they deserve it"
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:30:17 PM EDT
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Oh yeah, slip one of those Tile locators into her pocket book or car.
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Those stupid things don’t work unless they are in range of a phone with the app on it.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:30:31 PM EDT
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He is an old test.  Take some of her hair and place it in a jar.  Fill the jar half way up with vinegar.  Add two tablespoons of baking soda.  If you wife is off sucking someone’s dick while you play with your volcano then she is cheating.
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Witch!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:31:18 PM EDT
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When I ride my road bike I use a GPS tracker where I've been...speed etc...You could buy a Cateye cycling GPS cheap and toss it in the back of her car.  When she gets back you download it to your computer and it will map every place she's gone
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:32:45 PM EDT
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https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/04/dna-infidelity-testing_n_1253448.html

“Just provide us an article of clothing, preferably underwear or panties, and we will do the rest,” Charles said. “We can identify if semen or female DNA is present [and] make sure it’s viable for DNA extraction.”
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This....who left dna in your panties it wasn't me...

Also should hold up in court.

Confiscate all dirty panties immediately.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:34:50 PM EDT
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Whoever said put money away now and get an attorney is correct.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:35:44 PM EDT
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Visor in the full down position

Chin on chest

Grab the yellow handles.

Call out “Eject Eject Eject”

Pull the handle.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:39:47 PM EDT
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Buy a pay as you go phone that you can track and throw it in the car somewhere to see where she goes.

That’s how a guy at work did it, he’s going threw the Big D right now.

Sorry to hear man...
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:39:48 PM EDT
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what exit?
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:42:45 PM EDT
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Send her flowers at work "From your one true love."

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Even better to fuck with an ex, send her flowers with that statement.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:42:58 PM EDT
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Dis go be good...sofa king in!
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:43:00 PM EDT
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Surprise her at work with a visit.  While there, ask her to see her cell phone.  This would work best if you can get to her directly at her work. For instance, if you have to check in with the receptionist and the receptionist has to call your wife to tell her she has a visitor, it could give her time to wipe the phone.  However, you could bring lunch or use another rouse.  Then spring the, "hey, mind if I look at your phone" question.

If you don't want to be so blunt about the phone, give her some reason that you need to see it.  If she's cheating, you ain't seeing shit.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:44:23 PM EDT
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Check the phone bill.
Thats how i caught her the first time !
GTFO with you bullshit.

Trolls aren’t even trying now.
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:45:56 PM EDT
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Plot thickens. And she'll be smart about the phone now
Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:46:47 PM EDT
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Guy at work was wondering why his now ex wife was ordering so much shit online.

He comes home early one day and finds the UPS man fucking his wife.

I couldnt help it but laugh when he told us that

Link Posted: 3/2/2018 10:47:17 PM EDT
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Pretty sure my wife is cheating on me and need proof to eject ! What says the hive ? No she didnt just have a boob job !
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How about be an adult and just ask her?
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