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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:09:03 PM EDT
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How old is this guy? And how old can should one be when they can expect sex less than, say, two times a week?
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:09:34 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... to love and to cherish. . . . |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:10:48 PM EDT
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Nah, some women have very low sex-drive. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. Nah, some women have very low sex-drive. so? roll over and take it, not like she HAS to do much 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:11:46 PM EDT
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:13:42 PM EDT
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Morally or legally?
Morally, perhaps. Legally? Don't need a reason. Irreconcilable differences. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:16:48 PM EDT
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In Arkansas, impotence is one of the choices to file under.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:19:31 PM EDT
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Ya know, chloroform isn't just for getting to know someone. 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:19:32 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:23:40 PM EDT
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are you married? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. Yes she is... AND you don't want to sword fight Jane's mental dick. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:24:30 PM EDT
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Simple enough problem to solve. You tell her that you're having sex this Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.
It's her choice as to whether or not it's with her. Frigidity should be grounds for a reasonable divorce. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:24:48 PM EDT
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Deal breaker.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:27:46 PM EDT
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. And that's the crux of the issue, isn't it? If she's not willing to engage in intercourse with him more frequently than once every 3 months, she's not comfortable with him as her partner, hence she should move on. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:28:17 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Morally or legally? Morally, perhaps. Legally? Don't need a reason. Irreconcilable differences. AB |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:28:22 PM EDT
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The former Mrs. Kpel308 turned off the tap about 3 months after we got married, and we had been having a great sex life for about 4 years. We had nookie 4 times in 6 years, and I still stuck with her and didn't cheat. Wow. As far as the question in the OP, look up "alienation of affection" and "constructive abandonment." |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:29:54 PM EDT
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Nah, some women have very low sex-drive. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. Nah, some women have very low sex-drive. Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:30:24 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Yes she is... AND you don't want to sword fight Jane's mental dick. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. Yes she is... AND you don't want to sword fight Jane's mental dick. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:31:54 PM EDT
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Legally yes..... Biblically no.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:32:53 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Maybe she got tired of him spending his free time with his buddies all of the time. Who knows? Im just saying if you treat your woman right and take care of yourself things will run a lot more smooth. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Quoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. Sometimes the woman is just FUBAR and no matter what you do, nothing but a psychologist and meds will fix. Sometimes they will admit they have issues and go. Sometimes they tell you too fucking bad because it is who they are now and you might as well learn to deal with it because it's too embarrassing to go talk to a professional about it....
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:33:18 PM EDT
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It is in North Carolina, "alienation of affection".
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:35:14 PM EDT
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are you married? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. Yes, I am. Blissfully. 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:36:39 PM EDT
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Tell him to eject. My ex cut me off for the last 4 1/2 years of our marriage. Without medical reasons, ejecting will come MUCH sooner now. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:38:05 PM EDT
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:40:14 PM EDT
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I think if the discussions have happened and one party gives all indication that they just don't give a shit and aren't willing to meet the other halfway, then that's grounds for divorce.
That really goes for any issue in the marriage. When one decides they won't make the other person a priority, especially in the way(s) that person needs it most, then what's left, really? |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:42:59 PM EDT
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Tell him to eject. My ex cut me off for the last 4 1/2 years of our marriage. Without medical reasons, ejecting will come MUCH sooner now. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Tell him to eject. My ex cut me off for the last 4 1/2 years of our marriage. Without medical reasons, ejecting will come MUCH sooner now. Damn. What was her excuse? |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:48:09 PM EDT
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There are ways to take care of that...by the hour.
Just sayin'... 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:48:18 PM EDT
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Damn. What was her excuse? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Tell him to eject. My ex cut me off for the last 4 1/2 years of our marriage. Without medical reasons, ejecting will come MUCH sooner now. Damn. What was her excuse? No desire. Always mad about something. Even on my birthday. I'm 44 and have never had birthday sex. She always had excuses to deny me. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:51:16 PM EDT
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And that's the crux of the issue, isn't it? If she's not willing to engage in intercourse with him more frequently than once every 3 months, she's not comfortable with him as her partner, hence she should move on. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. And that's the crux of the issue, isn't it? If she's not willing to engage in intercourse with him more frequently than once every 3 months, she's not comfortable with him as her partner, hence she should move on. I try, though I don't succeed, to not say what others should do. But if I found myself with a man who I desired so little, yes, I'd move on. Indeed, there'd be a smoking trench from my bed to the courthouse. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:52:26 PM EDT
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Don't get married.
Fuck whoever you want. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:52:39 PM EDT
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I'm not going to read the whole thread, but in the days of contested divorces, frigidity was grounds for divorce, and failure to consummate, as in no sex ever, was grounds for annulment.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:52:53 PM EDT
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IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Sex is an important part of marriage. Intimacy is one of the key components to a happy marriage, in my opinion. If she's being stingy with it or cuts him off completely I would say an eject is appropriate. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:53:11 PM EDT
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maybe it's just him, and she's not having a lack of sex.... FPNI ETA: Since most states have "no fault" divorce, an actual "offense" isn't required anymore. If he wants a divorce over this, he can. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:53:42 PM EDT
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Legally? No fault is no fault... Morally? IMO yes. If you can't be happy with your spouse, you just can't be happy. There are lots of things to consider, of course, starting with impact on kids. I'd divorce before I cheated. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Legally? No fault is no fault... Morally? IMO yes. If you can't be happy with your spouse, you just can't be happy. There are lots of things to consider, of course, starting with impact on kids. I'd divorce before I cheated. If I recall correctly, in many places, back in the days before no-fault divorces, when it could actually be hard to get one, a refusal to consummate the marriage was considered legitimate grounds for divorce. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:53:49 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. Horse shit. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:54:24 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:54:29 PM EDT
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I try, though I don't succeed, to not say what others should do. But if I found myself with a man who I desired so little, yes, I'd move on. Indeed, there'd be a smoking trench from my bed to the courthouse. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. And that's the crux of the issue, isn't it? If she's not willing to engage in intercourse with him more frequently than once every 3 months, she's not comfortable with him as her partner, hence she should move on. I try, though I don't succeed, to not say what others should do. But if I found myself with a man who I desired so little, yes, I'd move on. Indeed, there'd be a smoking trench from my bed to the courthouse. Indeed 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:56:24 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. LOL. Shape? Women will ruin themselves for a slob with a bad boy attitude. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:58:01 PM EDT
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. x2. Women are emotional by nature and crave that kind of attention like we need sex. Try taking her out on a date or connecting with her on a more intimate/emotional level. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 4:58:04 PM EDT
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I don't understand how a woman can think that not taking care of her man will not leave her alone in a ditch in the end? I'd only put up with it for so long and then it's not just over, but fuck you over. It's like ripping off your husband's bank account. It's like spreading salt on the field he works in. It's like spitting in his food. You might as well be fucking his best friend. I suspect when it gets to that it is basically over, and any remaining concerns she has for the "relationship" involves economic issues. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:00:55 PM EDT
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Sounds like my ex............except I discovered her excuse one day. It's name was Sam. I pulled that eject handle so hard and so fast that I broke the thing
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No desire. Always mad about something. Even on my birthday. I'm 44 and have never had birthday sex. She always had excuses to deny me. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? Co-worker swears he is either going to divorce his wife or find a mistress because he only has sex about once every three months. I think something came to ahead last night, because this guy is never open about this sort of stuff or anything, but today he 'confided' in two of us. I'm not sure lack of sex is grounds for divorce...but what do I know? Tell him to eject. My ex cut me off for the last 4 1/2 years of our marriage. Without medical reasons, ejecting will come MUCH sooner now. Damn. What was her excuse? No desire. Always mad about something. Even on my birthday. I'm 44 and have never had birthday sex. She always had excuses to deny me. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:01:08 PM EDT
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It isn't in itself, but people make some poor decisions when the party stops.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:01:22 PM EDT
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"With or without you, I'm getting laid. Sorry honey."
4 times a year is insane. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:11:03 PM EDT
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"With or without you, I'm getting laid. Sorry honey." 4 times a year is insane. This. "Now I'm a pretty good dog, but if you don't pet me every once in a while... I'm gonna have a hard time staying on the porch!" |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:14:43 PM EDT
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If lack of sex is not grounds for divorce, the infidelity it will bring, certainly is.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:16:11 PM EDT
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Is lack of sex a divorcable offense? If it isn't, it should be. Personally, I have no intention of living under the same roof with a man whose physical needs I'm unwilling or unable to meet. The only fair thing is to cut him loose so he can look for someone who better suits him. Besides, men are apt to be unpleasant in that circumstance. I don't need that shit. I like your way of thought. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:19:40 PM EDT
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It's not the standard in FLA.
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:31:59 PM EDT
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IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... IMHO she broke her vows fist by not sexing him. Agreed. The "for better or for worse" part applies to her too. She may not be completely into it but she could give it up if she loved him and wanted to make him happy. Her selfishness is ruining the marriage. Life is too short for that shit. He needs to eject and go find some strange. I've never been married and the older I get the more independent I become. Pussy is too abundant to have to be miserable without it. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:32:01 PM EDT
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This. "Now I'm a pretty good dog, but if you don't pet me every once in a while... I'm gonna have a hard time staying on the porch!" Quote HistoryQuoted:
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"With or without you, I'm getting laid. Sorry honey." 4 times a year is insane. This. "Now I'm a pretty good dog, but if you don't pet me every once in a while... I'm gonna have a hard time staying on the porch!" This! I have had to lay this out to my wife once and it did the job! Just once we went through a spell & I couldn't take it anymore. Yes we talked about it on many occasion and nothing changed for about a two month period. I finally just came out and told her that either we are going to have sex or I will find it elsewhere. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:33:55 PM EDT
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For better or for worse; in sickness and in health... Agreed, but that has nothing to do with not having sex. |
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:43:01 PM EDT
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You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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If that guy took very good care of his body and was in shape his woman wouldn't be able to keep her hands off of him. Tell him to lose his beer belly and start being nice to her and I bet things will change. And how do you know how fit this guy is, exactly? That's a pretty big assumption. It just couldn't be the woman's fault. You're assuming things again. You're also assuming being fit, healthy and treating your woman right leads to a healthy sex life, which is absolutely not the case in many many relationships. Being fit and healthy may not be the solution but I dont think it has ever the problem 
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Posted: 10/16/2013 5:59:56 PM EDT
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Don't most states today have no fault divorce? If so he doesn't need "grounds". He can just cite irreconcilable differences and get his divorce and she would be powerless to stop him. She might make him pay dearly but ultimately he'll get his divorce. I thought this was the case as well...BUT, in the case of if "fault" could be found, such as not giving it up any more, would the "She might make him pay dearly" be changed to "She might make him pay a little bit" due to the "fault"? |
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