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Posted: 3/26/2015 9:12:31 AM EST









Are you just plain stupid??? Seriously woman. How about teaching her to stick up for herself. Teach her that beauty comes from within. You claim she is your beautiful daughter yet her ears are a problem. Grow up!! Just an FYI your pinned back ears look like a half folded cheese sandwich. Be a parent, not your child's best friend.














 
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:13:41 AM EST
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Country is fucked majorly
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:13:54 AM EST
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Curious, who would pay for the surgery?

Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:15:14 AM EST
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quiet, she'll hear you.

Seriously, that is fucked up though. So what you have big ears, deal with it.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:16:07 AM EST
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Its a very simple and common procedure.

If she's paying for it, why not?

You'd correct a hair lip, right?

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Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:16:52 AM EST
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the kids ears look fine, the mom's ears look fucked up.





Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:17:28 AM EST
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I had a friend whose little sister had that done at about the same age.  I remember being appalled.  I don't even pierce my daughters' ears until they're old enough to ask to have it done and even then we wait until we know it's something they really want and not a passing fancy.

Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:18:02 AM EST
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Hair lip has speech problems not looks.

 
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Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:19:29 AM EST
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She can be the scout in any squad maneuvers.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:19:36 AM EST
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Yup.  She's projecting her insecurities onto her daughter.
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No I think that's a cleft palate (sp?)

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Seriously, plus she will most likely grow into them and be a beautiful women.
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I had a friend whose little sister had that done at about the same age.  I remember being appalled.  I don't even pierce my daughters' ears until they're old enough to ask to have it done and even then we wait until we know it's something they really want and not a passing fancy.



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Completely agree. I have not done my 2 year olds. Will wait until she wants it.

 
Something she needs, sure. A fashion statement?? That is her decision to make.



Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:22:16 AM EST
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No I think that's a cleft palate (sp?)



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Same thing

 
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:22:27 AM EST
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I don't see anything wrong with the kid's ears. Besides, bullies will always find something to pick on. It's all about your attitude, less so your appearance.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:22:34 AM EST
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The ears worked ok for Will Smith.  I have always hated my nose, i "think" it never shaped up, and looks the same as when i was a baby,  I just deal with it, unlike my 2 cousins who had nose jobs by the time they were 18.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:22:42 AM EST
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Seriously, plus she will most likely grow into them and be a beautiful women.
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Seriously, plus she will most likely grow into them and be a beautiful women.


Ugh.

Anyways, if not, she could always be President, like Obama.  
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:23:48 AM EST
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My ears stuck out like that when I was little.  My parents got me surgery for them, but I was too small to remember.  They look like normal ears these days, not like the Mom's ears in the video.  



My son's ears stick out slightly more than normal, but we're not going to do anything to them.  Should be his choice when he's older.  FWIW, I'm glad my parents had my ears done.  Doesn't bother me.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:24:24 AM EST
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Meh, at least she's not in the middleeast.
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No I think that's a cleft palate (sp?)

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No I think that's a cleft palate (sp?)

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Since we're talking about spelling, I'm pretty sure it's "harelip."  
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:24:48 AM EST
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Shriners hospital will do it, without drama.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:26:12 AM EST
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My daughter has some pretty serious scars on her body.  I teach her to wear them as a badge of courage.  


You are what you are.  Be proud of it.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:26:19 AM EST
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that little girl is cute as a button.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:26:41 AM EST
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Yeah, the mom's ears are jacked. I didn't know that Earl Scheib offered plastic surgery.
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This. Sad that mom is projecting onto her.

 
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:27:33 AM EST
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You owe me a new keyboard!!!

 
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:28:51 AM EST
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This. Sad that mom is projecting onto her.  
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What I thought too.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:30:01 AM EST
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Beauty doesn't come from within on the playground, it just doesn't.  I agree with your ideals but they're ideals.  Kids can be cruel little fuckers when they want to be and if you're the girl with the big ears, your attitude doesn't change anything.  

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Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:30:55 AM EST
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I'm not sure that people understand what 'bullying' actually is anymore.

Teasing is not bullying.  All kids tease and get teased.


My best man has ears that stick way out of his head.  Looks kinda goofy.  We used to tease him all the time about it.  Friends fuck with each other.

His daughter got his ears.    But if she has friends as good as us?  Yeah, she'll get teased, but no, it won't be a big deal.

It certainly isn't bullying.


Bullying is methodical psychological and physical torture.  Some jokes between friends is not bullying, and it's important to be able to tell the difference.
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I'm not sure that people understand what 'bullying' actually is anymore.



Teasing is not bullying.  All kids tease and get teased.





My best man has ears that stick way out of his head.  Looks kinda goofy.  We used to tease him all the time about it.  Friends fuck with each other.



His daughter got his ears.    But if she has friends as good as us?  Yeah, she'll get teased, but no, it won't be a big deal.



It certainly isn't bullying.





Bullying is methodical psychological and physical torture.  Some jokes between friends is not bullying, and it's important to be able to tell the difference.
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I want to subscribe to your logical news letter. I think you will blow minds up with all of your logic....

 
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:33:37 AM EST
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I wondered about that. I assumed you were just exceptionally confident of your position.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:34:37 AM EST
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Well to be fair those are some gnarly ears.
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Hair, girls can grow it. It covers up ears. I think the moms ears looked more funny. Speaking of funny. Funny how when you grow up most people seem to grow out of, or into their ears. Now if you're 40+, balding and have ears like that, you might consider doing something.

Bully: You have funny ears!
Kid: So, I can hear a mouse fart at night!
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:45:00 AM EST
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My little brother had ears that stuck out so bad that people called him Dumbo or Ears... I couldn't beat them all up and dad couldn't protect him from every gawking parent. They really didn't have a surgery back then to fix this either. The torment that he went through seemed relentless until he hit puberty and then he grew into his ears. I was very happy for him that the torment finally stopped.

Bottom line is kids are cruel and parents aren't much better. If you have the means to prevent this torment and prevent this from affecting their psyche, then why not. It is the same as kids getting braces for their teeth, wearing back braces to straighten out their backs, getting nose jobs to fix disfigured noses or the myriad of other abnormalities that kids have to endure.
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Completely agree. I have not done my 2 year olds. Will wait until she wants it.    Something she needs, sure. A fashion statement?? That is her decision to make.


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I had a friend whose little sister had that done at about the same age.  I remember being appalled.  I don't even pierce my daughters' ears until they're old enough to ask to have it done and even then we wait until we know it's something they really want and not a passing fancy.

Completely agree. I have not done my 2 year olds. Will wait until she wants it.    Something she needs, sure. A fashion statement?? That is her decision to make.





All of ours were born with extra pinkies.  Runs on my husband's side.  

First kid's were removed at 3 months old.  Even then I didn't want to do it.  I'm a wimp.  But they're attached via a very thin strip of skin and everyone had me terrified that they were going to get caught on something and ripped off.  

Second kid's were removed at 5 months old.  She only had it on one hand.  

Third kid had hers removed right before starting Kindergarten.  I would just forget they were there.  They were normal to me.  It wasn't until someone, usually another kid, saw them and stared or asked questions.  We gave her the choice to have it done and she waffled back and forth.  She didn't mind them at all and wasn't the least bit embarrassed.  We did talk about potential injury on the playground and stuff so she went ahead and wanted them removed.  

I really don't know where my line is when it comes to stuff like that.  Lifesaving is an absolute, of course.  Quality of life is pretty much a given as well.  Strictly cosmetic?  Whether it's done at all or not wouldn't be at my urging, regardless of what it is.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:50:29 AM EST
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No kidding. Bullies will always find something to pick at. She should be teaching her daughter that who she is and what she does with herself is far more important than appearances anyway. Learning to be happy with who you are is a far more important lesson that thinking a slice and dice doc is the answer to her problems.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:50:47 AM EST
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have her wear a bandana, Axl Rose style
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 9:50:52 AM EST
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I see nothing wrong with surgery as long as im not paying for it. How many here call Obama "jug ears"?  Pot meet kettle. It's not like the kids getting a fucking sex change for fuck's sake.
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Meh, if Obama wasn't a total narcissistic prick I doubt he'd be called "Jug Ears".
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 10:06:16 AM EST
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So, she's a single mother?

Ears be damned...
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Of course she's a single mother.
She's bat shit crazy.

Cute kid will grow into those ears, or not.
Only she can decide if she's bullied.

You have to choose to be hurt.

This is coming from someone that reached his max adult height of 5'6" in 7th grade and had a face that looked like a the inside top of poorly handled pizza delivery box.
As well as ears that resembled a taxi cab with its doors open.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 10:15:18 AM EST
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My daughter's are like that. She hated them from about 11-15 years old. Now she says she likes them,they are part of her, and wouldn't change if it was free. She's almost 21 now.
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If she's paying for it, why not?



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Exactly this.  We're not talking about major surgery here.  



 
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Exactly this.  We're not talking about major surgery here.  
 



I suppose because I would never want my daughters to think there was something wrong with what the good Lord gave them.  How can I teach them to have self-respect AND to accept others' differences if I *correct* something that is just a variation of normal.  

It's not a birth defect.  Some kids have big ears, some have big noses, some have freckles, etc.  Why are any of those things *wrong*?
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 10:24:34 AM EST
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I think that the little girl is cute as a button.
Link Posted: 3/26/2015 10:26:53 AM EST
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Reminds me of a cop at work who went through the trouble of changing his name so his daughter wouldn't get made fun of.
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This. Holy shit.
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