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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:00:05 PM EDT
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People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I am talented and opinionated and passionate and valuable.
Opinionated (adjective): Obstinate or conceited with regard to the merit of one's opinions. (Synonyms: dictatorial; domineering; self-important; pompous; arrogant) I don't think that word means what she thinks it means. how is she valuable? fat chicks are a dime a dozen. seriously, you can't give them away. People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. so everyone is valuable? If so, then why list it as a positive? Should she list, "possesses a pancreas?" Her putting it down means that she thinks she is uniquely valuable. Maybe as an emergency source of sustenance. How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:01:25 PM EDT
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how is she valuable? fat chicks are a dime a dozen. seriously, you can't give them away. People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. Also this. That was a very stupid comment. http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z316/runcible22/keep-calm-and-lighten-up-12_zpsgetmafuk.png I'm only 106lbs at 5 months preggo. How much lighter do you want me to get?  
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:01:39 PM EDT
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Shes not that bad. Pretty face. If she ever does find a man to marry her,thats when she will put on the serious weight though.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:04:43 PM EDT
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People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I am talented and opinionated and passionate and valuable.
Opinionated (adjective): Obstinate or conceited with regard to the merit of one's opinions. (Synonyms: dictatorial; domineering; self-important; pompous; arrogant) I don't think that word means what she thinks it means. how is she valuable? fat chicks are a dime a dozen. seriously, you can't give them away. People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. We're not talking about society here, we're talking about the sexual marketplace. Regardless of whether you or I or anyone else wants to admit it there are certain biological imperatives that govern how the sexes interact. As I stated before, said marketplace is the final arbiter of ones worth. Men desire a suitable mate to carry on their line. Traits like youth, health, fertility, and beauty signify to a man that she is of optimal genetic makeup and thus a worthy mate. Women desire safety and security. Traits like physical strength, monetary resources, social station, and wisdom signify to a woman that a man would be able to care and provide for her and their offspring. As much as society at large tries to escape these principles, they remain, only to be cloaked in the ism du jour. Fact is, she is a 4 at best and probably could only ever hope to land a mate that's a 4, maybe 5 if he isn't aware of his SMV. She had her chance. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:05:23 PM EDT
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Run more, eat less, cut out sugar.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:07:02 PM EDT
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If she ever does find a man to marry her,thats when she will put on the serious weight though. My wife is 15 lbs lighter than when we were married. I'm 50 lbs heavier. That shit goes both ways. You think a woman eating the cake is bad, look what it does to guys. Intro dadbod here. Or just the general fatass married dude. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:09:46 PM EDT
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so everyone is valuable? If so, then why list it as a positive? Should she list, "possesses a pancreas?" Her putting it down means that she thinks she is uniquely valuable. Maybe as an emergency source of sustenance. How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. so everyone is valuable? If so, then why list it as a positive? Should she list, "possesses a pancreas?" Her putting it down means that she thinks she is uniquely valuable. Maybe as an emergency source of sustenance. How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:11:27 PM EDT
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It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. so everyone is valuable? If so, then why list it as a positive? Should she list, "possesses a pancreas?" Her putting it down means that she thinks she is uniquely valuable. Maybe as an emergency source of sustenance. How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. She's actually paid quite well. She is employed by Focus on the Family (or one of their network companies, I forget exactly) and makes a good bit in freelance editing work. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:12:07 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:13:48 PM EDT
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For a Christian man looking for a Christian woman whose life demonstrates adherence to Christian values like humility, the heart of a servant, and submissiveness, declarations like "I am talented and opinionated and passionate and valuable" pretty much tell you that, fat or not, she's not the woman you want to waste your time on.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:13:51 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:15:16 PM EDT
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I would love to pass my days maneuvering a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring. Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:16:59 PM EDT
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Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurrence, yes? |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:17:33 PM EDT
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Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? Quote HistoryQuoted:
I would love to pass my days maneuvering a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring. Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? Maybe because she has a heart for kids in shitty fucked up situations without parents? Also, her statement does not preclude biological children. I believe she wants both. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:17:38 PM EDT
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Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? Quote HistoryQuoted:
I would love to pass my days maneuvering a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring. Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? Are you saying no one should adopt kids that need a family? We should just raise our own bio children and let the system care for the rest? |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:18:00 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Well said. I'm not overweight and don't go around complaining about the quality of single men on the market. Complaining about it doesn't do any good toward solving the problem. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:18:26 PM EDT
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She had more than her share of the bread at communion. 
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:20:08 PM EDT
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It was published in the Post with her concurrence, yes? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurrence, yes? Maybe she likes money. I know a lot of people who like money. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:20:14 PM EDT
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It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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People have merits and contributions to society beyond their weight and appearance. Recognizing that isn't exactly difficult. She may not be someone's ideal mate, but she is not without worth. so everyone is valuable? If so, then why list it as a positive? Should she list, "possesses a pancreas?" Her putting it down means that she thinks she is uniquely valuable. Maybe as an emergency source of sustenance. How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. Her listing of valuable is, one must assume, simply concerning her viability as a potential wife. She doesn't want kids (and seems to imply that once married her role will be to stay at home and chaffeur around kids she didn't bear) She is overweight, and apparently lacks the discipline to change that. And she, like many overweight women and girls, blames men for her plight instead of herself. And "opinionated" is not a trait that attracts men for marriage. That is instantly translated to "nagging bitch" She isn't trigglypoof, I'll give her that much. And, if she was a normal weight would probably quite attractive. but she has a combination of being physically unattractive, demanding, utterly without any empathy towards men, an over inflated sense of worth and whiny. she is ugly through and through based upon the article she herself wrote. men don't find fat women attractive by and large (pardon the pun) she needs to accept that fact. she can change who she is, but instead she wants to change all men. yeah, sign me up for that! |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:21:29 PM EDT
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:21:50 PM EDT
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It was published in the Post with her concurance, yes? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurance, yes? Yes, but she didn't write it for the Post. Also, many of you are doing a good bit of selective reading; while I disagree with JB's one-sidedness (men get turned down for petty superfluous shit too), I do agree that the way the "church" has "theologized" being a fat woman in the dating scene is pretty twisted. That was her main point, and it was right. Leave God out of that shit. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:23:52 PM EDT
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:28:34 PM EDT
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She does have a pretty face and dresses well despite her weight. I see plenty of thin decent looking guys with heavy women. What else does she have to offer as good partner traits? She is either a major bitch/PITA or she is waiting for Prince Charming to come along. If Arfcomer had a dating forum she would get flooded with messages.
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:30:40 PM EDT
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Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. So why can't she find a decent man? She's either delusional or a special snowflake princess which you claim she isn't. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:30:42 PM EDT
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Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. She might want to reword a bit on whatever dating profile she has, then. As for weight, touch large for my taste. But, nothing that couldn't be worked on. Not sure why she'd want a bunch of kids that are not her own, unless medical reasons but, to each their own on that. She may, or may not, find someone. Pretty much how it goes with all of us. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:30:57 PM EDT
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Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. Tell her to work on her marketing techniques and ad copy. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:32:23 PM EDT
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So why can't she find a decent man? She's either delusional or a special snowflake princess which you claim she isn't. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. So why can't she find a decent man? She's either delusional or a special snowflake princess which you claim she isn't. Honestly, her standards are probably unrealistic (yea I know, irony). She's my friend, but she has her faults. ETA: also, I've never dated her so she might say/do the wrong things. I dunno, there's a lot you can do to turn someone off on a first date besides being a raging bitch. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:32:38 PM EDT
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Well said. I'm not overweight and don't go around complaining about the quality of single men on the market. Complaining about it doesn't do any good toward solving the problem. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Well said. I'm not overweight and don't go around complaining about the quality of single men on the market. Complaining about it doesn't do any good toward solving the problem. Truly. I wasn't all impressed with that I-am-woman-hear-me-roar shit either. When it comes to roaring, if you have to tell people you're doing it, you're not doing it right. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:33:13 PM EDT
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Honestly, her standards are probably unrealistic (yea I know, irony). She's my friend, but she has her faults. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. So why can't she find a decent man? She's either delusional or a special snowflake princess which you claim she isn't. Honestly, her standards are probably unrealistic (yea I know, irony). She's my friend, but she has her faults. Heh. We all do. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:34:02 PM EDT
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Honestly, her standards are probably unrealistic (yea I know, irony). She's my friend, but she has her faults. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Over the years, from my experiences, 'opinionated and passionate' tends to mean 'I am a shrieking, royal bitch when no ones looking'. She may wish to consider different term if that is not how she is. Having known her for quite a while, she isn't that. She's quite pleasant. So why can't she find a decent man? She's either delusional or a special snowflake princess which you claim she isn't. Honestly, her standards are probably unrealistic (yea I know, irony). She's my friend, but she has her faults. Do you know anyone you could set her up on a date with? Maybe she could use help. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:34:07 PM EDT
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Her listing of valuable is, one must assume, simply concerning her viability as a potential wife. She doesn't want kids (and seems to imply that once married her role will be to stay at home and chaffeur around kids she didn't bear) She is overweight, and apparently lacks the discipline to change that. And she, like many overweight women and girls, blames men for her plight instead of herself. And "opinionated" is not a trait that attracts men for marriage. That is instantly translated to "nagging bitch" She isn't trigglypoof, I'll give her that much. And, if she was a normal weight would probably quite attractive. but she has a combination of being physically unattractive, demanding, utterly without any empathy towards men, an over inflated sense of worth and whiny. she is ugly through and through based upon the article she herself wrote. men don't find fat women attractive by and large (pardon the pun) she needs to accept that fact. she can change who she is, but instead she wants to change all men. yeah, sign me up for that! Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. Her listing of valuable is, one must assume, simply concerning her viability as a potential wife. She doesn't want kids (and seems to imply that once married her role will be to stay at home and chaffeur around kids she didn't bear) She is overweight, and apparently lacks the discipline to change that. And she, like many overweight women and girls, blames men for her plight instead of herself. And "opinionated" is not a trait that attracts men for marriage. That is instantly translated to "nagging bitch" She isn't trigglypoof, I'll give her that much. And, if she was a normal weight would probably quite attractive. but she has a combination of being physically unattractive, demanding, utterly without any empathy towards men, an over inflated sense of worth and whiny. she is ugly through and through based upon the article she herself wrote. men don't find fat women attractive by and large (pardon the pun) she needs to accept that fact. she can change who she is, but instead she wants to change all men. yeah, sign me up for that! And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:34:28 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurrence, yes? Maybe she likes money. I know a lot of people who like money. Whining for monetary gain is worse still. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:36:31 PM EDT
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And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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How is she more valuable than any other person? a fat blogger without a job? gee. Fucking potential gold mine there. It appears she does, in fact have a job. Which means she is likely not on the FSA roles. Nor is she pumping out kids out of wedlock. She is contributing to society, advocating taking care of other people's cast off children that didn't get aborted, probably paying taxes, and actively seeking a married lifestyle rather than being a perpetual party girl. She at least supports the 2nd, according to Bizzarolibe. She may have plenty of other talents and hobbies that aren't listed in that particular article/blog post. Sooooo.....yeah. Value. Someone who is ostensibly on our side. And yet, her appearance has you casting her aside as worthless in spite of that. Her listing of valuable is, one must assume, simply concerning her viability as a potential wife. She doesn't want kids (and seems to imply that once married her role will be to stay at home and chaffeur around kids she didn't bear) She is overweight, and apparently lacks the discipline to change that. And she, like many overweight women and girls, blames men for her plight instead of herself. And "opinionated" is not a trait that attracts men for marriage. That is instantly translated to "nagging bitch" She isn't trigglypoof, I'll give her that much. And, if she was a normal weight would probably quite attractive. but she has a combination of being physically unattractive, demanding, utterly without any empathy towards men, an over inflated sense of worth and whiny. she is ugly through and through based upon the article she herself wrote. men don't find fat women attractive by and large (pardon the pun) she needs to accept that fact. she can change who she is, but instead she wants to change all men. yeah, sign me up for that! And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. Heh. *Zing* |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:39:25 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurance, yes? Yes, Thought so. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:41:26 PM EDT
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I consider the fact that Ms. Smith felt the need to publically whine in the WaPo about being emotionally traumatized due to her weight as more of an issue than her weight per se. Actually, her piece was originally just a blog post; it was then picked up by the WaPo. If I was getting paid as much for the piece as she is, I'd have done the same. It was published in the Post with her concurance, yes? Yes, Thought so. Oh SNAP, you got me good 
She wrote an opinion piece for a blog on the church's fucked up theology about fat/overweight women in the dating scene. It got picked up by WaPo. She got paid. I'd have done the same. Get over yourself. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:42:44 PM EDT
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And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. I think we all assumed the part in bold. As a short guy, cry me a river. I don't exist to women who are taller than I am. Simple fact of life. There is nothing I can do about it and I don't complain about it. It simply, "is". For a short guy to write a blog post why taller women don't find him attractive but they should would be hilarious. This chick has a choice. She chose food over a having a husband. Her call. But don't bitch about it. 3rd wave feminism is not only about choice, its about freedom of being responsible for your choices. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:45:49 PM EDT
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I think we all assumed the part in bold. As a short guy, cry me a river. I don't exist to women who are taller than I am. Simple fact of life. There is nothing I can do about it and I don't complain about it. It simply, "is". For a short guy to write a blog post why taller women don't find him attractive but they should would be hilarious. This chick has a choice. She chose food over a having a husband. Her call. But don't bitch about it. 3rd wave feminism is not only about choice, its about freedom of being responsible for your choices. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. I think we all assumed the part in bold. As a short guy, cry me a river. I don't exist to women who are taller than I am. Simple fact of life. There is nothing I can do about it and I don't complain about it. It simply, "is". For a short guy to write a blog post why taller women don't find him attractive but they should would be hilarious. This chick has a choice. She chose food over a having a husband. Her call. But don't bitch about it. 3rd wave feminism is not only about choice, its about freedom of being responsible for your choices. My dad is way shorter than you. He snagged a taller woman. Never let it slow him down. Maybe he's just got swagger. My brothers are both shorter than you too. They do alright for themselves. 
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:46:10 PM EDT
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Meh. Eat less. Exercise. Stop being fat. They'll come around. Advice so bad, the opposite often beats it. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:46:40 PM EDT
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I would love to pass my days maneuvering a minivan full of foster kids to soccer games and recitals and tutoring. Why foster kids? Why not your actual genetic kids? Are you saying no one should adopt kids that need a family? We should just raise our own bio children and let the system care for the rest? No, I'm not saying that. If I had meant to say that, I would have combined words into a sequence that conveyed that idea. I did not. Why mention only foster children? I think she may be infertile, which may be a much bigger problem in the dating market (esp. the Christian dating market) than size 16 pants. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:50:54 PM EDT
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She's a cute girl. I don't think most people would say, "Hey, look at that fatass" as she is walking down the street. She's thick but no more than 90 days away from solving her problem. I don't know her (and holy shit Rule 87 of the Internet kicked in when we have a guy on here that knows her) but I think it is more of a case of self-esteem than major personality issues or her weight based on what has come up in this thread. <shrug> |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:52:34 PM EDT
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She's a cute girl. I don't think most people would say, "Hey, look at that fatass" as she is walking down the street. She's thick but no more than 90 days away from solving her problem. I don't know her (and holy shit Rule 87 of the Internet kicked in when we have a guy on here that knows her) but I think it is more of a case of self-esteem than major personality issues or her weight based on what has come up in this thread. <shrug> based upon the ARFCOMMER who knows her, her self esteem is the problem. she has waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much of it. you go girl! to golden corral. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:58:23 PM EDT
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And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. I think we all assumed the part in bold. As a short guy, cry me a river. I don't exist to women who are taller than I am. Simple fact of life. There is nothing I can do about it and I don't complain about it Meh, we're about the same hight, and you'd be the hottest guy here if you weren't pissing and moaning about women all the fucking time. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:02:06 PM EDT
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She has bad posture in all of her pictures... Did her tits grow along with her ass? That is who I feel sorry for, a big girl that still has no tits. Offensive on so many levels. edit-I agree that fat and flat is a waste, I find it terribly offensive. Stop eating or see a plastic surgeon and buy some proportion. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:04:19 PM EDT
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So, the twitter pic earlier, and the bio pic, are both her. From reading a bit on her website, yeah, she has some self-confidence issues. Nothing wrong with her that a little time, and effort, wouldn't take care of. <<shrugs>>
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:05:54 PM EDT
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She's a cute girl. I don't think most people would say, "Hey, look at that fatass" as she is walking down the street. She's thick but no more than 90 days away from solving her problem. I don't know her (and holy shit Rule 87 of the Internet kicked in when we have a guy on here that knows her) but I think it is more of a case of self-esteem than major personality issues or her weight based on what has come up in this thread. <shrug> based upon the ARFCOMMER who knows her, her self esteem is the problem. she has waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay too much of it. you go girl! to golden corral. I probably wouldn't even look at her if she was walking in my vicinity. Estimating by her pictures I would say she is maybe 200lbs or slightly over, 45" at the hips, 35" at the waist, and maybe a what 38C? She doesn't eat right or exercise so she probably has a soft flabby body composition. Thats not attractive at all. Now if she ate right, lifted and was even 180lbs with a 42" ass, 28" waist, and 36C's with the attendant confidence she may be more attractive to a larger group of people. She could probably have quite the transformation in 12 mo time, and Jesus could take all the credit. But she chooses to focus outward instead of inward. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:19:09 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Honestly, she sounds obnoxious and full of herself. I don't think fat is her only problem and I'd also bet that all the unattractive fat guys are not even on her radar, she thinks she is owed some financially secure good looking man. The economics of dati g far favor women. Back in the day...when obesity was rare, the average good looking guy of modest means has a decent shot with a woman of equal good looks of similar modest means. Now, however, due to the rarity of non-obese women... women who are in shape have drastically higher social value... even if they come from low socio-economic class. So now, the men who are decent looking of modest means (blue collar workers) must all settle for the fat chicks...while all the wonen in shape crowd around and play musical chairs with rich male players. Even the fat chicks think they deserve a man with ripped abs, six figure income, and looks that rival Channing Tatum. If you're an aveage guy, working an average job, ... and you dont want to live the rest of your life climbing a woman's belly.... you need to seek women overseas where obesity is less of an epidemic. Oh and for fucks sake...dont demand a skinny broad if youre a fat fuck male either. I was fat...and when I was... I dates fat chicks. I never really found any attractive, and I forced myself to "like them"...but it never worked out. Hence why I chose to lose the damn weight. I wanted to attract thinner women...so I thinned myself. Thing is, since I started... Ive been seeing a cute filipina. So, I have no idea how well I would do on the single's market. But from what I hear, being a decenf looking guy, in shape, with a decent job, isn't enough anymore. |
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:19:31 PM EDT
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:21:38 PM EDT
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:35:27 PM EDT
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And yet, she seems to tick off most of the boxes many men here say they appreciate, other than appearance. She can likely cook and keep house, is family oriented, has a stable income, including a job she can probably do from home, is conservative, Christian, and a 2A supporter. She sees that the cast off could-have-been-aborted-but-weren't need parenting too, and Bizzarolibe says he thinks she also would like biological children some day and is generally sweet natured. So we are left with her being resentful that guys can't see past her weight to the other qualities they say they want. Yes, it's whiny and somewhat lacking in empathy. It speaks of a lack of motivation to be the best version of her possible in an area she has had difficulty with all her life. Men find that a turn off, and that's completely acceptable. Men also find batshit crazy behavior a turn off, but are willing to overlook that if the face is pretty enough. It's all about priorities, I suppose. I think we all assumed the part in bold. As a short guy, cry me a river. I don't exist to women who are taller than I am. Simple fact of life. There is nothing I can do about it and I don't complain about it Meh, we're about the same hight, and you'd be the hottest guy here if you weren't pissing and moaning about women all the fucking time. I love women. Its feminists I have a problem with. regardless their gender. Yeah, OK. 
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Posted: 6/28/2016 2:40:09 PM EDT
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Being fat is a choice. If that lady hired a personal trainer and got in shape she'd find a man in no time. But that's hard. Its easier to blame men for not being attracted to fat women.
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