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Posted: 6/24/2016 6:46:44 AM EDT
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Like I said before he seemed like a nice guy. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Also some more fun to add to the story which I know everybody is going to say isn't true and it doesn't matter just coming from my sister but oh well. A little while back he punched a bridesmaid at a wedding  .Why did your sister marry this winner? Like I said before he seemed like a nice guy. I call BS on that. She married him because he was a "bad boy". I have seen this way too many times. At least she only had one kid with him. I have seen other women have several until they finally get tired of his shit. I have seen/known women who are just like this. They love "bad boys", they're fun, cute and in the end, these women believe they are going to be the one to make him a "good boy". People don't change that much, they are who they are. I bet when she dated him, he was a big drinker then. She just didn't "see" it. Yeah, right. 
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Posted: 6/24/2016 7:13:09 AM EDT
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Everyone, including your saintly sister, lies. And everyone reading this knows it. I suggest you stay out of it. If you simply must get involved, buy your niece a secret cellphone. Make sure she understands that no one can know about it. And tell her to call you if he hits her. Then, if she does, you call the damn police.
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Posted: 6/24/2016 10:34:00 AM EDT
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Everyone, including your saintly sister, lies. And everyone reading this knows it. I suggest you stay out of it. If you simply must get involved, buy your niece a secret cellphone. Make sure she understands that no one can know about it. And tell her to call you if he hits her. Then, if she does, you call the damn police. Bingo! This. |
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Posted: 6/24/2016 2:05:05 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I LOVE watching Arfcom play "peel back the onion" in threads like this. It's fine when it's a hobby. When you do it for a living it gets old. |
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Posted: 6/24/2016 2:46:12 PM EDT
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here let me give you some advice that you will never take
walk away.... your sister made poor decisions, you didn't she is going to continue making poor decisions stop emotionally investing yourself in something you cant control |
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Posted: 6/24/2016 6:26:10 PM EDT
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Well she doesn't really have experience in a family court. And I told her she should've called the cops that night and the divorce would've been done very shortly and he would rarely see the kid but the kid also told the cops and lawyer he hit her but that doesn't really matter either. I don't know why everyone is saying my sister is bad but oh well. No one is saying that your sister is bad. What they're saying is that your sister chose to marry this guy, she chose to have a kid with him, and she chose not to call the cops when he beat her and their child up. The result of those choices is that her (hopefully) soon to be ex-husband has just as much right to that child as she does. Let's put the shoe on the other foot: you have a brother, and the woman he married has a bad case of the cray-cray. She files for divorce, emergency custody, and a TRO based on false allegations of abuse; she has no proof of anything and your brother never laid a hand on her. What do you expect the judge to do? Speaking of bad decisions, expect your sister to get back with her husband at least once. |
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Posted: 6/24/2016 6:36:30 PM EDT
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Sorry, been divorced twice and helped a few of my friends though theirs.
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Posted: 6/24/2016 8:45:11 PM EDT
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You need a lawyer. It probably wouldn't be extremely expensive to have a lawyer talk to you about the case. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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So my sister is finally getting rid of her piece of shit husband, she finally decided enough as enough after he got drunk and punched their 6 year old daughter hard enough for her to lose her breath and double over. Well the lawyer fucked up somewhere and after her having the kid for a couple weeks they took her away from her, and now he has her for as long as she had her. How can she get her back legally? She is in Tennessee in case that matters. Please help here, this guy is a real piece of shit and a violent drunk and is drunk 24/7. My sister had to write a paper of all the bad shit he's done and it's 10 pages long single spaced. I'd love to go kick a door in and take her but that's not helping any. Thanks to all that help in advance, the longer he has her the worst its going to be. You need a lawyer. It probably wouldn't be extremely expensive to have a lawyer talk to you about the case. Did you even read the post? They have a lawyer, but apparently the lawyer is a dip shit. Child needs a court appointed child law guardian to watch out for her safety, and Mom needs a real attorney. |
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Posted: 6/24/2016 9:02:47 PM EDT
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Not really. Judge said there was defeciancy in the lawyers case so he gets her for as long as my sister had her. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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More to the story? Not really. Judge said there was defeciancy in the lawyers case so he gets her for as long as my sister had her. Was the police ever involved? Drunk hit to a 6 year old === 911 call, at minimum; defensive CCW use at maximum. ETA: Maybe I should read threads before I post 
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Posted: 6/24/2016 9:05:07 PM EDT
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<snip> She didn't call them immediately after for some stupid reason, she actually just grabbed her shit and left, like I said she is absolutely terrified of the guy and for good reason. He actually called the cops on her the next day and she told them what happened and they said " we can't do anything now but will document it " or something like that. And this wasn't in the OP because you know this completely changes everything. How exactly? Don't play dumb. Thus far, I've seen nothing to indicate that he's playing. 
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Posted: 6/24/2016 10:20:16 PM EDT
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No one is saying that your sister is bad. What they're saying is that your sister chose to marry this guy, she chose to have a kid with him, and she chose not to call the cops when he beat her and their child up. The result of those choices is that her (hopefully) soon to be ex-husband has just as much right to that child as she does. Let's put the shoe on the other foot: you have a brother, and the woman he married has a bad case of the cray-cray. She files for divorce, emergency custody, and a TRO based on false allegations of abuse; she has no proof of anything and your brother never laid a hand on her. What do you expect the judge to do? Speaking of bad decisions, expect your sister to get back with her husband at least once. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Well she doesn't really have experience in a family court. And I told her she should've called the cops that night and the divorce would've been done very shortly and he would rarely see the kid but the kid also told the cops and lawyer he hit her but that doesn't really matter either. I don't know why everyone is saying my sister is bad but oh well. No one is saying that your sister is bad. What they're saying is that your sister chose to marry this guy, she chose to have a kid with him, and she chose not to call the cops when he beat her and their child up. The result of those choices is that her (hopefully) soon to be ex-husband has just as much right to that child as she does. Let's put the shoe on the other foot: you have a brother, and the woman he married has a bad case of the cray-cray. She files for divorce, emergency custody, and a TRO based on false allegations of abuse; she has no proof of anything and your brother never laid a hand on her. What do you expect the judge to do? Speaking of bad decisions, expect your sister to get back with her husband at least once. I actually suggested she might be bad. If you don't call the cops immediately when your husband punches your kid, I start suspecting it. He punched her bridesmaid and her daddy and she still married him and bred with him. I'm looking at her and the OP like this: 
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Posted: 6/24/2016 10:52:41 PM EDT
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I actually suggested she might be bad. If you don't call the cops immediately when your husband punches your kid, I start suspecting it. He punched her bridesmaid and her daddy and she still married him and bred with him. I'm looking at her and the OP like this: Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Well she doesn't really have experience in a family court. And I told her she should've called the cops that night and the divorce would've been done very shortly and he would rarely see the kid but the kid also told the cops and lawyer he hit her but that doesn't really matter either. I don't know why everyone is saying my sister is bad but oh well. No one is saying that your sister is bad. What they're saying is that your sister chose to marry this guy, she chose to have a kid with him, and she chose not to call the cops when he beat her and their child up. The result of those choices is that her (hopefully) soon to be ex-husband has just as much right to that child as she does. Let's put the shoe on the other foot: you have a brother, and the woman he married has a bad case of the cray-cray. She files for divorce, emergency custody, and a TRO based on false allegations of abuse; she has no proof of anything and your brother never laid a hand on her. What do you expect the judge to do? Speaking of bad decisions, expect your sister to get back with her husband at least once. I actually suggested she might be bad. If you don't call the cops immediately when your husband punches your kid, I start suspecting it. He punched her bridesmaid and her daddy and she still married him and bred with him. I'm looking at her and the OP like this: .....and they would look back like this...
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