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Posted: 10/8/2018 3:43:50 PM EDT
Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer.
No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? |
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Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer. No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? View Quote |
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Congrats.
We have a hearing for a new trial in two weeks on the financial issues. That will be two years and three months after she first filed. I try not to think about how much I have spent. |
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I remember that day.
Best part was that she was trying to act like it was the happiest day of her life when we were in court to get the final order signed, because I must have been sooooo horrible to the point that it was obvious. When she saw that I literally did not care about a single thing she did/said and that I was truly happy being done with her and her shit, which was on display in front of everyone, I remember the moment, because I saw it, when she realized that I was now truly happy and she was just going to go on with her miserable existence - alone. Yay. |
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Congrats
My "Divorce is Final" party was way bigger than the wedding reception |
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Alternating holidays and during the summer?
F that. I have my daughter Friday 6pm, saturday, sunday, Monday Tuesday 6pm. No way I could not see my kid. |
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Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer. No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? View Quote |
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When I worked in prison my barber told me -“mr stg1 I can be your barber for the next 17 years- I got divorced the hard way!!!”
I said it must of felt good at least for a minute!! |
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Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer. No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? View Quote |
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Quoted: It's a bit more complicated than that. It's not that I'm a bad father or can't provide for the boy, or won't be in his life, but different states, health issues, education, I can honestly say this is what's best for the boy. View Quote You know your situation better than anyone else though. Congrats. |
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Don't worry... they can fix that real easy. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes |
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good for you. take care of that little one.
I remember the final day of my divorce. the ex couldn't bother to show up. boy was her lawyer pissed off. |
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Someday you'll probably realize this wasn't as great as it seemed
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Damn brother !!!! She basically took your child from. You get to see your child very little. That's not a good thing. There are what ? 10 Holidays in a year and summer is about 2 months ? I don't think you won this one OP
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Divorce laws were made in the 20's and 30's when mama stayed home and daddy went to work. When daddy found a chickie and left mama, the laws had to be in her favor so life could go on.
Things have somewhat changed today and I congratulate any man that comes out for the good if he didn't bear the blame for the divorce. |
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Threads like this are a great reminder of why I refuse to ever marry or have kids.
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Threads like this are a great reminder of why I refuse to ever marry or have kids. View Quote Attached File |
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Just wait until she files for state assistance. Child support Incoming.
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I've been divorced about 7 mos now, it was a shit show but in the end I got:
50/50 Custody of my also precious 2 year old boy, alternating weeks, in summer she gets june and i get july (win) Geographical restriction to the county I live in for both of us (fine by me since my business and family/friends are all here). No child support. I got the house. Both my paid off vehicles. All my paid off motorcycles, Almost everything in the house minus her personal effects, washer and dryer (no care, replaced with speedqueens) She got: 50/50 Custody Geo restriction to our county (she has no fam here few friends) All her debt her car which she owes more on than it's worth, and her degree (6 figure education paid for by me.) washer dryer from the house and her personal effects |
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It's a bit more complicated than that. It's not that I'm a bad father or can't provide for the boy, or won't be in his life, but different states, health issues, education, I can honestly say this is what's best for the boy. View Quote |
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So you don't have any obligation to support your child? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer. No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? |
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How does one get divorced, not pay an attorney, not pay alimony or child support? You should write a book.
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Someday you'll probably realize this wasn't as great as it seemed View Quote |
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People that have kick ass wives and awesome fucking kids and generally winning at life don't start threads saying look how fucking awesome we're doing and everyone else blows moose cock. View Quote |
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Have a precious 2 year old boy that I'll get during alternating holidays and summer. No child support or alimony, didn't even have to pay for an attorney I'm wondering if I should go buy a lottery ticket. Perhaps too soon? View Quote |
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I've been divorced about 7 mos now, it was a shit show but in the end I got: 50/50 Custody of my also precious 2 year old boy, alternating weeks, in summer she gets june and i get july (win) Geographical restriction to the county I live in for both of us (fine by me since my business and family/friends are all here). No child support. I got the house. Both my paid off vehicles. All my paid off motorcycles, Almost everything in the house minus her personal effects, washer and dryer (no care, replaced with speedqueens) She got: 50/50 Custody Geo restriction to our county (she has no fam here few friends) All her debt her car which she owes more on than it's worth, and her degree (6 figure education paid for by me.) washer dryer from the house and her personal effects View Quote |
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People that have kick ass wives and awesome fucking kids and generally winning at life don't start threads saying look how fucking awesome we're doing and everyone else blows moose cock. Make some babies with a good woman and do your part to preserve and sustain Western Civilization. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Threads like this are a great reminder of why I refuse to ever marry or have kids. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG |
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Your terms suck. You need to be a dad to your kid. Your kid deserves that. I hope it works out for your kid.
Sorry if that is blunt. |
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People that have kick ass wives and awesome fucking kids and generally winning at life don't start threads saying look how fucking awesome we're doing and everyone else blows moose cock. Make some babies with a good woman and do your part to preserve and sustain Western Civilization. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Threads like this are a great reminder of why I refuse to ever marry or have kids. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG But if civilization is so bound to destroy itself then I am in no mood to stop it. As for the OP, congratulations on avoiding the giant rusted bear trap that is alimony. |
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People that have kick ass wives and awesome fucking kids and generally winning at life don't start threads saying look how fucking awesome we're doing and everyone else blows moose cock. Make some babies with a good woman and do your part to preserve and sustain Western Civilization. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Threads like this are a great reminder of why I refuse to ever marry or have kids. https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/476733/20181004_174937-698429.JPG |
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Congrats on it being mostly painless. You got out easy, unlike a lot of guys here.
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