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Link Posted: 11/12/2021 7:24:32 PM EDT
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Holding the line, but I’m tired of not sleeping well. Tonight I’m trying the melatonin and zinc suggestion from earlier in the thread.
Link Posted: 11/12/2021 7:43:49 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/12/2021 8:41:23 PM EDT
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Right? The struggle is real.
Link Posted: 11/12/2021 11:06:02 PM EDT
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1/3rd of the way through the month, been tough a couple of times, but doing okay.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 2:15:51 AM EDT
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Wound up in Vegas for a few days on a business thing... I need a ruling!

What if wife sends you a photo when you're out of town?

(BTW: I didn't break, I didn't look at photo or act upon it. Figured I'd play November 100% no cheat, but got me wondering if that would have been within married-guy-acceptable limits. )
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 6:17:25 AM EDT
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Wound up in Vegas for a few days on a business thing... I need a ruling!

What if wife sends you a photo when you're out of town?

(BTW: I didn't break, I didn't look at photo or act upon it. Figured I'd play November 100% no cheat, but got me wondering if that would have been within married-guy-acceptable limits. )
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If you Jack off to a photo of your wife, and have to ask if counts as jacking off you know it’s jacking off.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 6:27:22 AM EDT
[#7]
Not sleeping well.  Already use melatonin, have to see if the PX has zinc.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 9:50:50 AM EDT
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If you Jack off to a photo of your wife, and have to ask if counts as jacking off you know it's jacking off.
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Wound up in Vegas for a few days on a business thing... I need a ruling!

What if wife sends you a photo when you're out of town?

(BTW: I didn't break, I didn't look at photo or act upon it. Figured I'd play November 100% no cheat, but got me wondering if that would have been within married-guy-acceptable limits. )



If you Jack off to a photo of your wife, and have to ask if counts as jacking off you know it's jacking off.

Link Posted: 11/13/2021 10:07:15 AM EDT
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If you Jack off to a photo of your wife, and have to ask if counts as jacking off you know it's jacking off.
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Wound up in Vegas for a few days on a business thing... I need a ruling!

What if wife sends you a photo when you're out of town?

(BTW: I didn't break, I didn't look at photo or act upon it. Figured I'd play November 100% no cheat, but got me wondering if that would have been within married-guy-acceptable limits. )



If you Jack off to a photo of your wife, and have to ask if counts as jacking off you know it's jacking off.
I think it was more of a question of the whole "no porn" thing. Dude already said he didn't jack it. But wtf do I know?
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 10:36:37 AM EDT
[#10]
Still holding the line, still really not noticing anything other than improved battery life on my phone.

Edit. Actually I’ve noticed one thing about how I’ve been acting towards my wife, but I’ll type that out later if I have a chance to sit down at my computer.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 12:59:27 PM EDT
[#11]
This isn’t as hard as I expected. The “more bored than horny” rings true
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 1:15:01 PM EDT
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But I 100% agree with your statement
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 1:22:18 PM EDT
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Not sleeping well.  Already use melatonin, have to see if the PX has zinc.
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Well, 50mg zinc and 5mg melatonin didn’t seem to do anything for me. I got maybe one more hour than usual, but that’s because I didn’t have to get up for work.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 5:03:08 PM EDT
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Made the sex with the wife. EARLY this morning. I woke up around 1:30am. She was awake because kids. Around 4 am I knocked one out and it was amazingly worth not jacking off for.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 5:08:55 PM EDT
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Exactly.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 5:10:07 PM EDT
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I think it was more of a question of the whole "no porn" thing. Dude already said he didn't jack it. But wtf do I know?
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He also said he didn’t look at it. Sooooooooo almost no point discussing it. Just saying ‘if you have to ask if it breaks a rule, it most likely does.’
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 5:10:39 PM EDT
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Well, 50mg zinc and 5mg melatonin didn’t seem to do anything for me. I got maybe one more hour than usual, but that’s because I didn’t have to get up for work.
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Drink more water.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 6:27:51 PM EDT
[#18]
Still going strong. Thankfully I shot a deer at 7:15 this morning so I wasn't sitting bored in the stand all morning.
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 6:40:15 PM EDT
[#19]
Still holding the line here. Went to week 2 of a men's retreat up in NH, so not alot to look at and let the mind wander.

Wife better be ready to go when I get home Sunday though...
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 7:09:52 PM EDT
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He also said he didn't look at it. Sooooooooo almost no point discussing it. Just saying 'if you have to ask if it breaks a rule, it most likely does.'
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Truth. I was really more making conversation by bringing up an ironic wrinkle!

Vegas can be a difficult venue though.  :D
Link Posted: 11/13/2021 7:24:32 PM EDT
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Same here.

Was up late last night, couldn't fall asleep, so I decided to keep the wife up with me.

At one point she threw in the towel and said she needed to get some sleep.

Link Posted: 11/14/2021 12:44:53 AM EDT
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Truth. I was really more making conversation by bringing up an ironic wrinkle!

Vegas can be a difficult venue though.  :D
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Wife must know you’re not rubbing one out and tried to get you to like 40 days/40 nights. You should have sent her the same pose.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 12:54:04 AM EDT
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Pretty much sums it up. I've just spent all my spare time in the garage spinning wrenches.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 2:53:46 AM EDT
[#24]
Damn is it too late to get in on this? So far so good, though admittedly it's because I save it for the wife... who gets it quite often... because if I need a quickie, I take a quickie.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 8:06:26 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/14/2021 8:20:53 AM EDT
[#26]
Well, dammit, now I keep pinching my right nut between my legs when I'm asleep and I roll over.

This hasn't been a recurring issue in the past like it is currently
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 12:47:02 PM EDT
[#27]
Wifes has been ready to go a few times but kids make it impossible.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 1:06:18 PM EDT
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You gotta throw some snacks at them, turn on the TV and get er done.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 1:55:56 PM EDT
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I just lost.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 2:53:21 PM EDT
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Just got to lock the door, turn on some music and grind one out while the kids are banging on the door.

Just pretend you’re in college dorms (or the barracks) again.

At least it’s only you two in the room and you don’t have roommates peeking out from under their blankets watching.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 5:42:17 PM EDT
[#31]
You can do this men.  Stay strong.  Do not tarnish your permanent No Nut ARF record with a dishonorable discharge.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 5:48:07 PM EDT
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Sorry Guys/Gals  You can count me out now.  I gave it a good try.  To the rest that are still maintaining the line hold it tight!  I am proud of everyone here and how honest they are.  I may lost this round, however, I know that I am not alone in this.  Thanks for the opportunity.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 6:09:33 PM EDT
[#33]
I’ve had a mild headache the past few days. I doubt it’s related but who knows.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 6:36:49 PM EDT
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Sorry Guys/Gals  You can count me out now.  I gave it a good try.  To the rest that are still maintaining the line hold it tight!  I am proud of everyone here and how honest they are.  I may lost this round, however, I know that I am not alone in this.  Thanks for the opportunity.
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It's tough with the access we have to porn on the internet. Innuendo is everywhere and difficult to avoid without going off-grid. Good job going 2 weeks.

Still going strong with NFN. 2 weeks left.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:15:46 PM EDT
[#35]
Still hanging in at 2 weeks in.

Its a bit like a switch got flipped, don't seem to be too interested in porn at this point, at least not as a time killer for being bored.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:17:56 PM EDT
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Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:23:20 PM EDT
[#37]
Still not looking at porn. I find I am randomly grabbing at my wife less. It is something she doesn’t much care for ( the grabbing), so that’s a win.

Still no fap/nut.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:34:51 PM EDT
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Still in here, 1/2 way there tomorrow.

Everyday seems to be getting easier and I haven't even found myself thinking about porn. Been way more productive, and my wife has been digging the extra attention
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:39:26 PM EDT
[#39]
Still holding strong!
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 7:51:33 PM EDT
[#40]
I laughed when I saw the title but good on you, OP. Good idea and very generous.

Godspeed gentlemen.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 9:19:24 PM EDT
[#41]
Just made it through the weekend with mom and sis-in-law over with three of her kids.  To make it better 2 friends of my daughter spent the night Friday for a total of 5 girls and 1 boy.  Holy FUCK!! Jacking it seems the better choice so there aren't any surprises.  I now know for sure that I DO NOT want anymore kids!

Staying strong I will resist, its easy I'm wore out and my ears are ringing from all of the screaming.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 10:39:04 PM EDT
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Hehe... he said discharge.
Link Posted: 11/14/2021 10:53:26 PM EDT
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We're moving do its easy to stay busy. This weekend I replaced 3 light fixtures, boxed a bunch, moved a ton of furniture to storage, patched and textured drywall...then the piano teacher called to say she had covid.

So the youngest and I spend 4 hours waiting for a brain poke test. I'm on quarantine until results come in so I dont have to work the next few days...gives me more time to pack.
Wife is too busy and tired to do anything but pack and paint.
Link Posted: 11/15/2021 1:25:23 AM EDT
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We got this boyos.


Link Posted: 11/15/2021 7:24:14 AM EDT
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Half way there, gentlemen.  I’ve got an edge on all of you!




I yanked the shit out of my lower back yesterday putting a 55lb bag of dog food into the back seat. I must be too fat. 42 isn’t old enough to hurt yourself doing that.

Guys, if I can make it this far not looking at porn and not fapping, any of y’all can.
Link Posted: 11/15/2021 7:46:59 AM EDT
[#46]
Staying strong here... honestly Im agreeing with some of the previous posters. More bored than horny.

Link Posted: 11/15/2021 11:52:24 AM EDT
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Day 17 for me.  Sleep much better, interesting dreams, more energy and I have acquired the ability to levitate.

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Keep strong fellas.
Link Posted: 11/15/2021 12:10:13 PM EDT
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Welcome to my world.
Almost had it yesterday
Link Posted: 11/15/2021 12:17:51 PM EDT
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Welcome to my world.
Almost had it yesterday
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Welcome to my world.
Almost had it yesterday


Id be a huge win for me if my wife was even ready to go.

Link Posted: 11/15/2021 12:22:31 PM EDT
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Halfway!
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