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Quoted: Here's a sanitized screenshot of some of the texts from last nite: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/523431/Screenshot_20240123_114137_Messages_2_jp-3104654.JPG View Quote Babe? It's so obvious you're still so into this guy it's disturbing. |
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View Quote Jesus fuck...you call him babe and tell him you want him? WTF is right. Voted troll on this one. |
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Quoted: Here's a sanitized screenshot of some of the texts from last nite: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/523431/Screenshot_20240123_114137_Messages_2_jp-3104654.JPG View Quote Eagerness to respond + pet names = enjoy your self made shitshow |
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Wow.
This post should be pinned at the top so that everyone knows what an attention seeker looks like. |
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Quoted: Eagerness to respond + pet names = enjoy your self made shitshow View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Here's a sanitized screenshot of some of the texts from last nite: https://www.ar15.com/media/mediaFiles/523431/Screenshot_20240123_114137_Messages_2_jp-3104654.JPG Eagerness to respond + pet names = enjoy your self made shitshow |
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Lol...
You must have the longest run of a 'female account' on ARFCOM; second to only Snowleopard... Congratulations? |
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Quoted: An absolute lack of self awareness is truly something to behold View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: No shit. I think back to all the times she's referred to guys as simps and she's a master at it. Can't make this shit up. LOfuckingL. An absolute lack of self awareness is truly something to behold Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. |
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I'm stupider for reading this post.
Not OP stupid just stupider. |
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Quoted: Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. View Quote I read everything. It seems my colleagues and I have still arrived at the same conclusion: The lambs will never stop screaming, Clarice. |
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Quoted: Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: No shit. I think back to all the times she's referred to guys as simps and she's a master at it. Can't make this shit up. LOfuckingL. An absolute lack of self awareness is truly something to behold Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. We read all that stuff. But you don't see where the exchange between you two. Makes you look like the crazy one. (especially considering this is the "sanitized version") If you're ever going to be free of this situation. That needs to be address first. Same it would be if a dude posted all this mess. |
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OP, I think you need to strap, "My Buddy" on and don't be fucking around this time!
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Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... |
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Quoted: OMG!!! Look, I get that he (like any man) would be embarrassed if she's been playing him - but I told him from day one she wasn't good for him. BUT, FOR HIM to still trust her over me???Seriously??? OMG... View Quote I say the unsaid: most young guys are slaves to their cock and their ego, both cases shut off the basic reasoning aspects of their brain housing group. In college we had a group of guys who's unwritten, but well understood rule about when one of the guys was dating a hoe, user, batshit crazy, or other unsavory category...you only give them one warning as a "bro-friend". After that, expect them to cut contact and be consumed by their latest GF. Let them crash and burn and they'll eventually show up at the next bar meetup or the group part watching a game or whatever, sulk a little and say "yeah, you guys were right....". You can't save this guy from himself. Some guys just have to learn the hard way and you could show him a video from the future of his fuckup and they still wouldn't listen to your advice. My advice Ms. @StraightShootinGal, cut ties, and move along. Avoid the drama, that shit get old fast and never gets better. I wish you luck as I would hate to be single in my life right now...I would probably just be a nice sugar daddy accepting the expense to feed the physical needs and save me from the psychological drama bullshit ROCK6 |
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Heat Movie - The Action is the Juice Scene |
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Quoted: lol the drama some of you deal with in your lives. View Quote This. I’m too old(late 30’s) to be putting up with high school drama. People like that are not worth my time or energy. To put it bluntly, you might want to take a look in the mirror and ask yourself, “why am I , or were,in a relationship with a person like this?!” That kind of petty shit doesn’t pop up out of thin air. He is and probably always has been that type of guy. Go find a real man. |
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Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... View Quote |
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Quoted: Ok, I've posted here about the guy I ended things with a few months ago - who turned down me doing nice stuff for him, like trying to run a bath for him. Well, remember my angry posts about him dumping me for a woman who was overweight, drunk and had a questionable past? Well, today, he accuses me of planting a condom in her car...and tells me he's checking his security cameras and wants me to fess up before he catches me on camera. OMG, I'm still like this is some Jerry Springer shit... This woman that he's with, has a mom, who per him, was a drunk who had men just in and out of their bedroom - where I can't fucking remember if the daughter (the woman he's with) partook in the sex, drinking and rock and roll...BUTTTTTT, despite her shitty past, he's gonna accuse ME of trying to break them up by putting a condom in her shitty car???? OMG!!! Look, I get that he (like any man) would be embarrassed if she's been playing him - but I told him from day one she wasn't good for him. BUT, FOR HIM to still trust her over me???Seriously??? OMG... View Quote I have a friend you should talk to: The Lord Jesus Christ. Bring your ex too. |
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Quoted: I say the unsaid: most young guys are slaves to their cock and their ego, both cases shut off the basic reasoning aspects of their brain housing group. In college we had a group of guys who's unwritten, but well understood rule about when one of the guys was dating a hoe, user, batshit crazy, or other unsavory category...you only give them one warning as a "bro-friend". After that, expect them to cut contact and be consumed by their latest GF. Let them crash and burn and they'll eventually show up at the next bar meetup or the group part watching a game or whatever, sulk a little and say "yeah, you guys were right....". You can't save this guy from himself. Some guys just have to learn the hard way and you could show him a video from the future of his fuckup and they still wouldn't listen to your advice. My advice Ms. @StraightShootinGal, cut ties, and move along. Avoid the drama, that shit get old fast and never gets better. I wish you luck as I would hate to be single in my life right now...I would probably just be a nice sugar daddy accepting the expense to feed the physical needs and save me from the psychological drama bullshit ROCK6 View Quote Agreed.... My buddy told me that I'll never be his "type"...I mean each woman that he used to ramble about to me or that I've seen him with got issues. In one of Beyonce's songs she says she can't compete cuz he cheats with loose women - where I'm not perfect, but I don't have issues like these women he puts on a pedestal. So yeah, last nite he confirmed to me that he could catch her naked with some guy and still blame me some how. What also amazes me is this guy is in his late 40s where I thought he would be over tragic women...but sometimes I think he likes drama. Oh well... |
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????right Then again, there’s definitely some in the same boat as her lurking here. |
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Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... Wait wait wait what is this we and we're you are a single entity or multiple personalities? .....TheWhitePill? In any case, you forgot the golden rule when dealing with a potential mate. you always no matter what have to wait at least 3 hours before replying to their text. Better yet wait 24 hours. I thought this was universally undestood? |
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Quoted: Who's we? Is this other person in the room with you right now? Is this person speaking to you? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... The "we" I'm referring to is who you all think are trolling here - past and present. |
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Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Make up your minds... You guys say we're trolling if we continue the thread....and then you beat us up with insults...but if we walk away, you still say we're trolling. So pick one... "We"? WTF. multiple personalities too? I think your "cover" is blown. And I'm not talking about a faulty condom. |
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Quoted: Agreed.... My buddy told me that I'll never be his "type"...I mean each woman that he used to ramble about to me or that I've seen him with got issues. In one of Beyonce's songs she says she can't compete cuz he cheats with loose women - where I'm not perfect, but I don't have issues like these women he puts on a pedestal. So yeah, last nite he confirmed to me that he could catch her naked with some guy and still blame me some how. What also amazes me is this guy is in his late 40s where I thought he would be over tragic women...but sometimes I think he likes drama. Oh well... View Quote So I am once again asking you. You do understand how this sounds right? This buddy thing is and always was a situationship for you. A FWB thing for him if he even admits that much. I get where you're coming from, but here in this space. This will never be a good look for you. Or a mindset that's going to get much in the way of real sympathy from the rabble. You put him on the pedestal and from the sounds of it where very available to him sexually only for him to choose another woman. Think about that and what it means for you and how you stand in this man's life. Even reversing genders it looks the same. |
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Quoted: So I am once again asking you. You do understand how this sounds right? This buddy thing is and always was a situationship for you. A FWB thing for him if he even admits that much. I get where you're coming from, but here in this space. This will never be a good look for you. Or a mindset that's going to get much in the way of real sympathy from the rabble. You put him on the pedestal and from the sounds of it where very available to him sexually only for him to choose another woman. Think about that and what it means for you and how you stand in this man's life. Even reversing genders it looks the same. View Quote Agreed in part... If I don't get over my intimacy fears, I'm gonna keep on having trouble landing and keeping a decent guy. But, in this case, I am not like these women he esteems. The one he claims I planted the condom on? Like I posted, per him, her mom was a functional alcoholic that men were fucking left and right. I don't remember if he told me she did like her mom, but her body type gives away that she has alcohol issues....maybe she's a garden tool like her mom. So, while I may have intimacy issues, I'm no garden tool who is living in her car and/or has addictions. |
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Quoted: Agreed in part... If I don't get over my intimacy fears, I'm gonna keep on having trouble landing and keeping a decent guy. But, in this case, I am not like these women he esteems. The one he claims I planted the condom on? Like I posted, per him, her mom was a functional alcoholic that men were fucking left and right. I don't remember if he told me she did like her mom, but her body type gives away that she has alcohol issues....maybe she's a garden tool like her mom. So, while I may have intimacy issues, I'm no garden tool who is living in her car and/or has addictions. View Quote "I'm not like those other assholes she dates. I'm a nice guy. Those other guys always treat her bad, cheat on her, and abuse her. But I'm not that way. I have my life together, listen to her problems, and talk to her when she's feeling down." Same energy. |
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Quoted: Ok, I've posted here about the guy I ended things with a few months ago - who turned down me doing nice stuff for him, like trying to run a bath for him. Well, remember my angry posts about him dumping me for a woman who was overweight, drunk and had a questionable past? Well, today, he accuses me of planting a condom in her car...and tells me he's checking his security cameras and wants me to fess up before he catches me on camera. OMG, I'm still like this is some Jerry Springer shit... This woman that he's with, has a mom, who per him, was a drunk who had men just in and out of their bedroom - where I can't fucking remember if the daughter (the woman he's with) partook in the sex, drinking and rock and roll...BUTTTTTT, despite her shitty past, he's gonna accuse ME of trying to break them up by putting a condom in her shitty car???? OMG!!! Look, I get that he (like any man) would be embarrassed if she's been playing him - but I told him from day one she wasn't good for him. BUT, FOR HIM to still trust her over me???Seriously??? OMG... View Quote Why do you have enough access to him, that he can accuse you have having planted anything in his car to begin with? I think that's your first problem, apparently he is still in your life to some extent. Get rid of the guy altogether! Edit to add: I posted just based on your OP, I didn't even read the thread at all. Now I have come back to read through it, nice to know my instinct was right on for once...... |
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Quoted: Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: No shit. I think back to all the times she's referred to guys as simps and she's a master at it. Can't make this shit up. LOfuckingL. An absolute lack of self awareness is truly something to behold Uh, I guess you didn't read the rest of this story - where I ended it with him; he recently told me he thinks things were going too fast with her - where I told him that I'm done trying and am moving on... I tried really hard here cuz I thought I should've been more patient with him and all the stuff he was dealing with....now, I'm finally waking up. You guys complain about women not giving you chances and when we do, we get blown off. What is your relationship with GuyinFl? |
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OP still wants to be with this worthless toxic dipshit. She cannot let go. He has her on a string and can pull the string at will and she will leap to take the bait every time, and offers endless absurd justifications and rationalizations. It is really sad.
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Quoted: "I'm not like those other assholes she dates. I'm a nice guy. Those other guys always treat her bad, cheat on her, and abuse her. But I'm not that way. I have my life together, listen to her problems, and talk to her when she's feeling down." Same energy. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: Quoted: Agreed in part... If I don't get over my intimacy fears, I'm gonna keep on having trouble landing and keeping a decent guy. But, in this case, I am not like these women he esteems. The one he claims I planted the condom on? Like I posted, per him, her mom was a functional alcoholic that men were fucking left and right. I don't remember if he told me she did like her mom, but her body type gives away that she has alcohol issues....maybe she's a garden tool like her mom. So, while I may have intimacy issues, I'm no garden tool who is living in her car and/or has addictions. "I'm not like those other assholes she dates. I'm a nice guy. Those other guys always treat her bad, cheat on her, and abuse her. But I'm not that way. I have my life together, listen to her problems, and talk to her when she's feeling down." Same energy. Mmm.... Agreed in part. That attorney in that Soft Underbelly video said something like it's hard to see objectively when you're in the situation....easier when you're looking from the outside and not emotionally involved. |
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Quoted: Mmm.... Agreed in part. That attorney in that Soft Underbelly said something like it's hard to see objectively when you're in the situation....easier when you're looking from the outside and not emotionally involved. View Quote You don't have to agree in full. But please see you definitely need some introspection here. Although good news is. The level of autism you've displayed here certainly shows you are in like company here in arfcom. And I saw that interview and the later interactions with Rollo and the gang after. So I would agree with that sentiment. You're way in too deep with your feelings to see how off this whole thing is. I've been in similar situations so I can empathize. But even with all the embarrassing things I've shared over the years. I've always been self aware enough to not do what you've done here. |
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