[ARCHIVED THREAD] - What do you want to know about ... Traps, Cross-dressing, Bishonen, and Kkonminam. (Page 2 of 12)
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I think it would be interesting to know the social castes of the gay community. Do bears in general loathe furfags? Do traps dislike tgirls? Despite knowing a lot of gay dudes, I've never really gotten into a deep discussion on gay social biases within their own circles. Just like any profession has their own semi-castes (engineering pecking order for example. EE at the top, then ME, then Aero, civil and systems shouldn't be called engineers) I'm interested in that aspect. Also, there ain't nothing wrong with banging a trap. Looks like a chick but doesn't bitch as much.  |
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Ever been with a female? And for those that like girly guys well they are their own thing, many of them fawn over Kpop and Jay Rock Stars, they are quite adorable with their frilly outfits |
| Thanks OP for ‘splaining this shit. I, for one, am fascinated with the human mind and what makes it tick. Each and every person sees the world thru a different set of goggles. It amazes me what a difference 2 people standing side by side can “see”. I have had in depth convos with trannies, but never with traps or those addicted to them. In the end, it may not be my cup of tea, but I don’t look down upon anyone for any of their choices in the bedroom or anywhere else for that matter. As long as they are conservative leaning and love the constitution, I consider them a brother/sister in arms. We are all on the same team and I’m glad to have you as a part of it. You have a set of giant balls coming to a site like this and just being you. |
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I’m trying to read through the OP’s post, but I still can’t figure out the why. It makes sense if you full on want to transition. But at the same time, don’t the more masculine, maybe dominant gay guys want a twink? I thought women don’t do it for them. They want a guy, they don't want a tranny, they just want a guy that's a bit soft and gentle looking Look at this guy, a South Korean K-pop Star who goes by the name of Ren This is what he is like most the time in public, and they don't mind if they look like that in public, sure it is a bit frou-frou but that doesn't typically bother people and the outside world like going to restaurants and such. 
But when you get behind closed doors after dinner, well ... off of the pants and on with the dress, someone has to be the "woman" of the house  'giggle'
K-pop stars and J-rock stars are the best @Mall-Ninja |
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As I am in no way into this kind of stuff, could you post a glossary of terms? I'm trying to decipher the nuanced differences between trans, trap, twink, bears, etc. I don't know any of this shit and don't want to spend half my Saturday doing research. Trans - person who identifies as the gender they don't have the genitals for Trap - This, I guess Twink - young, thin, hairless boys Bears - Burly hairy gay dudes |
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I only crossdress behind closed doors. Quoted:
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Do you dress male or female at work? How do you dress when you go out with your husband? Do your co-workers and bosses know you're a trap? Do you have friends and acquaintances who have no idea who you really are? Since we are discussing this, what is up with the lisps so many gays have? |
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That was my question too. You mentioned once that one of your co-workers had no idea. Do you act (or maybe it's not an act and this trap business is more of a fetish thing?) more masculine around them or was that one guy just oblivious? Since we are discussing this, what is up with the lisps so many gays have? At home we are our, softer real self, those some truly don't give a fuck about the outside world and blatantly be themself, most of the time we are mistaken for being trans, when we aren't. We are kind of rare in the west, a minority of minority you could say. @oates |
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Have you seen any others who experienced a similarly confusing adolescence who were pressured into becoming trans even though thats not what they really wanted and are miserable because of it? Only gen z young teenagers are dealing with things like that, I would not really know how to help all I know is that their parents are insane @Cornholiodagreat |
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Thanks for taking the time to try to explain the different feelings and processes around it.
I spent a lot of time in competitive Drum and Bugle Corps. You can't possibly swing a dead cat without knocking over at least a dozen gay dudes. But, I never did get into the "nuts and bolts" of the whole deal. They knew and you knew what your preferences were, and nobody ever pushed it on each other. I have a lot of gay friends. But surprisingly, have no idea about their lifestyles or how/why they chose it......for lack of a better way to explain it. I feel it falls under "Life, Liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness". Do your own thing and I'll do mine while respecting each other's differences. It's always worked for me so far. You're a solid dude in my book, LP |
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So, what category would your husband fall into? Do you have to take drugs (estradiol) to keep from being masculine? And no, we don't take hormones, plastic surgery on the face sure, but not hormones, we are mostly comfortable with our physical shell @charliebravo |
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While I don't understand it, I wouldn't necessarily put it under the same mental illness umbrella that I do the trannies. Quoted:
Quoted: Sounds like Mental Illness to me. |
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I have never understood the gay guys who are attracted to other guys who dress and do their damndest to look like a broad. even more weird is the gay men who date/marry etc a dude who has had a sex change into a woman.
what fucking sense does that make? Your story is nearly exact to this japanese guy I know. He likes cute japanese girls so much he wishes he was one, so he makes himself into a trap when he goes to comiket a few times a year. he will say he is gay or says he thinks he's gay but a few times he has told me he wished he had a cute tiny GF with big tits. I think he is just a confused dude who never got laid. hada rough homelife. a highschool confession to a pretty girl classmate of his did not go well to put it mildly. that and him already living in a country that is having issues with men and women getting together, has really fucked his head up. I have sworn to him when he next visits the US I am taking him to a strip bar or to the bunny ranch or something to see if he can sort himself out one way or the other Im glad I was born normal and I get my sexual rocks off from stabbing homeless people to death and using their intestines masturbate with like everyone else. that homo shit is just messed up |
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I have never understood the gay guys who are attracted to other guys who dress and do their damndest to look like a broad. even more weird is the gay men who date/marry etc a dude who has had a sex change into a woman. what fucking sense does that make? Your story is nearly exact to this japanese guy I know. He likes cute japanese girls so much he wishes he was one, so he makes himself into a trap when he goes to comiket a few times a year. he will say he is gay or says he thinks he's gay but a few times he has told me he wished he had a cute tiny GF with big tits. I think he is just a confused dude who never got laid. hada rough homelife. a highschool confession to a pretty girl classmate of his did not go well to put it mildly. that and him already living in a country that is having issues with men and women getting together, has really fucked his head up. I have sworn to him when he next visits the US I am taking him to a strip bar or to the bunny ranch or something to see if he can sort himself out one way or the other Im glad I was born normal and I get my sexual rocks off from stabbing homeless people to death and using their intestines masturbate with like everyone else. that homo shit is just messed up We know what we are, and we know why we are the way we are and why we want it to be that way His issue is even more complicated. @Shawnmt6601 |