[ARCHIVED THREAD] - When you get a divorce questions... (Page 2 of 2)
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Fourthly, quit posting about your divorce on this and any other form of social media. And do not ask friends and relatives for advice, that’s what your attorney is for. |
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When women "tell" the divorce they have a plan already. Cancel ALL forms of credit and make her get her own shit. Get the phones shut off and make her get her own. I have been married for 42 years and have seen some pretty brutal shit put on my friends. Unfortunately you have to cut bait and move forward now. Just figure that you will get half of everything and the old lady is getting ready to kick your ass out as we type. If that happens shut off all utilities in your name because they will not get paid anyway. Move your stuff out as quickly as you can as once you are served you are gone and she will sell everything she can to get cash and by the time court comes around there will be nothing left and you will get nothing as she will have spent everything. Find a campsite and buy a van. Fuck it, do not dwell on it as you need your energy to find a sugar momma and they are out there. Keep your chin up and find that strange, your whole attitude is about to change. |
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Hmm...this is a bad one, bud. May God be with you in this time of need. I hope your health improves as well brother. 
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Quoted: I fought hard to keep alive 11 years ago when she did the same thing.....Can't take it anymore...I have already been hospitalized for stress related AFIB last week because of this so said the cardiologist. May God be with you in this time of need. I hope your health improves as well brother.
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Good luck brother. I don't think you lose any SS yourself but she can piggyback off your earnings to increase hers after 10 years of marriage. Pensions are split according to how many years you were married when you had it, if she worked and has one, it goes both ways, same for all retirement accounts. There is a reason I didn't give that much of a "F" when I broke up with my GF a while ago, no female is going to rape me again financially when it comes to my earnings or retirement funds because of how screwed up the US divorce courts are. |
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Can she get my SS? Quoted:
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She’ll get half of your pension. If she gets advice, she'll take part of yours on a sliding scale based on age, then take her own when she reaches full retirement age, or keep drawing on yours if that pays more. |
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If she has health problems and you and her have been married 41 years and you aren't having an affair and she wants the divorce. Then there is a missing piece to this puzzle. Quoted:
Quoted: I told her to quit work and come home...She was having health problems. Then there is a missing piece to this puzzle. 
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If she has health problems and you and her have been married 41 years and you aren't having an affair and she wants the divorce. Then there is a missing piece to this puzzle. Quoted:
Quoted: I told her to quit work and come home...She was having health problems. Then there is a missing piece to this puzzle. |
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Good luck brother. I don't think you lose any SS yourself but she can piggyback off your earnings to increase hers after 10 years of marriage. Pensions are split according to how many years you were married when you had it, if she worked and has one, it goes both ways, same for all retirement accounts. There is a reason I didn't give that much of a "F" when I broke up with my GF a while ago, no female is going to rape me again financially when it comes to my earnings or retirement funds because of how screwed up the US divorce courts are. |
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Good luck brother. I don't think you lose any SS yourself but she can piggyback off your earnings to increase hers after 10 years of marriage. Pensions are split according to how many years you were married when you had it, if she worked and has one, it goes both ways, same for all retirement accounts. There is a reason I didn't give that much of a "F" when I broke up with my GF a while ago, no female is going to rape me again financially when it comes to my earnings or retirement funds because of how screwed up the US divorce courts are. |
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The retirement fund was my brothers...he left it to me when he died 3 years ago. Quoted:
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Good luck brother. I don't think you lose any SS yourself but she can piggyback off your earnings to increase hers after 10 years of marriage. Pensions are split according to how many years you were married when you had it, if she worked and has one, it goes both ways, same for all retirement accounts. There is a reason I didn't give that much of a "F" when I broke up with my GF a while ago, no female is going to rape me again financially when it comes to my earnings or retirement funds because of how screwed up the US divorce courts are. |
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How in the hell does anyone get divorced after 41 years? Christ live in different parts of the home. That is a long time. As far as the assets, that is going to depend on the state you live in and how nice you actually want to be to each other after all of these years... Hell neither one of us has any family left to speak of..and we have only been married for 32 years.. Good luck, sorry to hear this.., |
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Quoted: Her sisters Did you screw one of them? After 41 years, I would think the sisters would not be an issue. We are probably getting to go into a major recession and maybe worse. I'd think wisely...VERY wisely. |
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Quoted: What does than mean "her sisters" without having to have a Rosetta stone to decipher this? Did you screw one of them? After 41 years, I would think the sisters would not be an issue. |
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Guessing the sisters are divorced and telling his wife it's better than being married or the sisters are patty and selma and just hate OP. Every one of my unmarried aunts has tried to get their other married sisters divorced out of sheer envy and spite. It's been so blatant that it actually opened the eyes of many sisters who had sided with the divorced sisters over their BILs. Misery loves company. |
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"Guessing" being the integral part of your quote since OP leaves more holes in the story than Swiss cheese. Quoted:
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Guessing the sisters are divorced and telling his wife it's better than being married or the sisters are patty and selma and just hate OP. I just wanted to know what she might can get from me... Quit being so nosey |
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Prayers up for you Brother.
Similar thing happened to me after 30 years marriage. We both had separate Attorneys but all they did was the paperwork. My ex and I worked out our split in a very amicable manner. Our assets and business stuff was quite large but we did agree to a simple 50/50 split. Despite what some here may encourage you to do, THIS is the time to treat her in a loving and respectful manner. If she's a wretched woman that is unwilling to work with you than that will be the time to fight. Until such time OP keep working on getting back together if there is any chance whatsoever. Good Luck OP. |
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Really amusing, lets get on ARFCOM and wash my life on the net. Then lets let the troop get involved and get snotty because of questions being asked. Your right none of anyone's biss but the three of you.
The best advice came from the cat that said not to wash your life on the net. Find an Attorney and ask the questions. Blame it on everybody but the two players. Yep, typical. |
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This. I learned a very good but hard lesson when I got married and then divorced. I’ll never get married again. Don’t give a fuck how much I love them , I’ll never get married again nor will I ever move in with anyone. I’ve rebuilt all of my assets and NO-ONE is getting their fucking hands on my stuff. The closest I’ll ever get marriage is attending weddings as a guest or banging married women. Quoted:
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Good luck brother. I don't think you lose any SS yourself but she can piggyback off your earnings to increase hers after 10 years of marriage. Pensions are split according to how many years you were married when you had it, if she worked and has one, it goes both ways, same for all retirement accounts. There is a reason I didn't give that much of a "F" when I broke up with my GF a while ago, no female is going to rape me again financially when it comes to my earnings or retirement funds because of how screwed up the US divorce courts are. Find someone that is more inline with your financial goals. If they make near amount of money as you and bring similar assets to the table why would that still shut your heart down from loving again? |
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Quoted: she does not work now....I brought her home because she wanted to be a housewife. She worked about 35 years. she has no income but will start drawing her SS in August. |
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That. My MIL and her husband have lived apart for 20 years. Still married, and on decent terms. We do family things with her, him, and his live in girlfriend. Keeps us busy with their health issues though. Quoted:
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41 years... just separate forever. Keeps us busy with their health issues though. OP, sorry man. That's rough. My wife and I both agree that divorces crush you financially. I think we'd work damn hard to work our shit out before divorcing. By your age we hope to be floating around the world on permanent vacation. |
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