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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:24:03 PM EDT

Annual party on Saturday (tech company), I told her that I wanted her to go. She said she didn’t want to if it would end late and said she’d go if we left by 10pm the latest. I said that’s unlikely and asked if she would stay out later. She said I should go out, have fun, and in a joking way (I thought) said she’d be angry at me for going out late

She had my location and I was texting her every 30min or so. She went out as well until midnight, and stopped texting me for 2 hours. I get back home from hanging out with a bunch of dude coworkers at 330AM, text her goodnight, and now today she won’t talk to me because I was “out so late”and that I disrespected her wishes to an event she didn’t even go to (after I said I wanted her to)

Wise old men of GD, what is the answer here?

Some additional context, I don’t really go out late very often, and I typically prioritize spending time with her and see her 3-5x a week

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:24:54 PM EDT

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Eject

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:02 PM EDT

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Bang her sister and send her pics

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:17 PM EDT

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One job OP!

Thread fail.

Eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:21 PM EDT

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Wait, you voluntarily let her have your location?

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:25 PM EDT

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I’m getting this feeling. She’s been the most caring and loyal (I believe) girlfriend I’ve been with but I’m just seeing a ton of warning flags lately that have me concerned

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:41 PM EDT

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Actually it sounds like she played you so she’d have an excuse to eject.

Sorry.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:26:45 PM EDT

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Ignore her.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:02 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:02 PM EDT

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She was ashen or pallid?

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:08 PM EDT

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GTFO

Seriously eject dude.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:11 PM EDT

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So she told you 10 at the latest then stayed out til midnight? Fuck that.

I fucking hate hypocrites.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:20 PM EDT

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She was cheated on in the past so I give her my location when I’m out because I don’t want her to be concerned. Too much I’m sure

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:33 PM EDT

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Time for makeup sex, then eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:37 PM EDT

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Put a baby in her and marry her

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:44 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:27:54 PM EDT

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shoot her sister and bang her dag.

SO she didn't want t stay out passed 10 and then proceeded to go out and stay out till 12....hmmmm... who did she bang?

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:03 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:11 PM EDT

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Never tell them where you are or how much you make.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:12 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:16 PM EDT

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Same. She said it was fine since I was out so why would I have a problem with it

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:17 PM EDT

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Opinion withheld until you find out where SHE was during all this.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:18 PM EDT

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She's testing you and you're failing.

Don't be fazed by it.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:24 PM EDT

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Fuck that. You're a grown ass man. I lived through 8 years of a marriage of that crap.

Tell her to hit the bricks if she is trying to control you like that.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:27 PM EDT

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Projecting her cheating on you.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:32 PM EDT

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FPNI

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:28:53 PM EDT

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She feel guilty about the 2 hour BBC train and is projecting on ya.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:11 PM EDT

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I’m getting this feeling. She’s been the most caring and loyal (I believe) girlfriend I’ve been with but I’m just seeing a ton of warning flags lately that have me concerned

Such as?

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:25 PM EDT

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and here we go...

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:30 PM EDT

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Need pictures and ages

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:34 PM EDT

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Curfew is for tweens

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:51 PM EDT

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Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:54 PM EDT

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She went out as well until midnight, and stopped texting me for 2 hours.

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She got laid, you didn’t. Now you are in trouble so she has an excuse and doesn’t feel guilty.

Or maybe she just doesn’t like your coworkers, which I could understand.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:29:57 PM EDT

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You and your dude coworkers have gay orgy sex

Record it

Text the video to her

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:09 PM EDT

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Your relationship won't get any better OP. Go with the first post.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:12 PM EDT

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So she didn’t want to be out later then 22:00, but then stayed out until 00:00, and went silent for two more hours?

She tried to make you jealous. Nip that in the bud.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:13 PM EDT

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You're not a child and don't need a curfew.

Tell her to grow up. She was cheated on in the past, boo fucking hoo. She needs therapy not riding your ass over bull shit.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:27 PM EDT

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I don't get the constant need to text each other all the time through the night. That will only get worse.

Eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:44 PM EDT

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Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:52 PM EDT

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Reject and then Eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:30:55 PM EDT

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No, make it rough sex and then eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:31:04 PM EDT

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You don't need a mother.

Eject.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:31:36 PM EDT

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...and then eject!

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:31:39 PM EDT

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Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me

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Out with a coworker and the husband - she was sharing location with me

Uh huh. This is turning out to be a reddit thread.

And for that reason: I'm out.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:31:56 PM EDT

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First off, how can you expect us to render a proper opinion here without any pics of the GF?

Secondly, She didn't want to go with you if you were going to be out past 110, but she went out anyway until midnight?

Now she's mad at you because you didn't do what she wanted.

Eject. Life's too short to put up with that kind of shit.

Posted: 1/22/2023 9:31:58 PM EDT

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I’m 33 she’s 28

She’s been caring less and checked out compared to normal, upset with me for not doing what she wants to do more (then when I asked her what she couldn’t give me an example). If she cheated on me that is what it is, I’m a little checked out at this point myself