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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:40:37 PM EST
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Fuck no.
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:41:09 PM EST
[#2]
Nope. Been married over 20 years.
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:41:50 PM EST
[#3]
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Too many variables, but if she goes crazy about being honest about her weight then yea.... I'm out. But it's not so much about weight as maturity dealing with health problems. Yeah, the mind set is more worrisome then the weight. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:43:37 PM EST
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First woman needs a sammich Wouldn't leave, but i would help here loose some weight 
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:44:54 PM EST
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5 Years ago, you married a woman who looked like this: http://media.mademan.com/chickipedia/uploaded_photos/6/6c/Mischa_Barton-lips-sexy-lovely-eyes-babe-chicki-young-stunning_thumb_585x795.jpg Now she looks like this: http://www.sickchirpse.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/Mischa-Barton-Fat.jpg All the while, you've stayed in shape. She blames it on genetics and goes batshit every time you mention eating healthier or going to the gym. You've never had kids together and she stays at home all day. What is your course of action? Keep wrenching them guts! 
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:47:09 PM EST
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I married my husband when he was 175 lbs. and I was 98 lbs. I stood by him when he got up to 264 lbs and I stayed 98 lbs. He has now gotten back down to 175 lbs, and I am 95 lbs. I never stopped loving him, physically or emotionally. I never stopped thinking he was handsome. Sad to see that's not the case for many of y'all.  I've got a friend and her husband has gained 140+ lbs since he left the service a few years ago. She is 120 lbs and says she still loves him with the weight. But she is much less attracted to him now that he overweight. She still wants to be with him, but has less fisical desire to sleep with him. I'm not sure what she will do in the future. Is she shallow, or is her reaction to the weight a normal reason for the way she is feeling? |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:48:42 PM EST
[#7]
No....actually my wife has lost a lot of weight the last few years, I am happy with her either way.
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:49:50 PM EST
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What did her momma look like? Good point. If your girlfriend's mother doesn't pass the boner test there is a good chance your potential wife won't either in 25 yrs. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:51:07 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: No. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 8:57:59 PM EST
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Pretty much this! And there's a difference between someone putting on a little extra because of age, or after the birth of a child versus letting one's self go completely. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: part of loving someone is loving yourself enough to care of yourself. If you don't care for yourself, you don't care for the other person in the relationship. Eject if she does not take care of herself, not for you but for herself. Pretty much this! And there's a difference between someone putting on a little extra because of age, or after the birth of a child versus letting one's self go completely. And dropped all the weight 120lbs then She is 130 now at 44 My buddies wife got huge as is 2x Rosie fat, after not losing Her weight she got surgery and is around 140 now and looks great. Sorry I don't buy all th excuses I had another buddies wife do the same thing Through diet and exercise. I used to believe its natural for some women to gain weight, but after My wife and my buddies wives I just don't buy it any more |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 9:06:39 PM EST
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I've got a friend and her husband has gained 140+ lbs since he left the service a few years ago. She is 120 lbs and says she still loves him with the weight. But she is much less attracted to him now that he overweight. She still wants to be with him, but has less fisical desire to sleep with him. I'm not sure what she will do in the future. Is she shallow, or is her reaction to the weight a normal reason for the way she is feeling? Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I married my husband when he was 175 lbs. and I was 98 lbs. I stood by him when he got up to 264 lbs and I stayed 98 lbs. He has now gotten back down to 175 lbs, and I am 95 lbs. I never stopped loving him, physically or emotionally. I never stopped thinking he was handsome. Sad to see that's not the case for many of y'all. I've got a friend and her husband has gained 140+ lbs since he left the service a few years ago. She is 120 lbs and says she still loves him with the weight. But she is much less attracted to him now that he overweight. She still wants to be with him, but has less fisical desire to sleep with him. I'm not sure what she will do in the future. Is she shallow, or is her reaction to the weight a normal reason for the way she is feeling? She's not wrong. Attraction is attraction, and we can't really dictate what is or is not attractive to us. The weight didn't put me off, but she's not me. Each person is different. I don't think she's abnormal or shallow, though if she left him over it, that opinion might change. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 9:14:02 PM EST
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If my wife got fat, she would soon realize it made me unhappy. She'd bust her ass to get back in shape. If I got fat and made my wife unhappy, I'd do the same. It would never come down to leaving each other. We love each other too much to cause unnecessary unhappiness, and would fix it.
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Posted: 7/27/2015 9:22:15 PM EST
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I go with for better or worse. Easy for me to say, my wife has gained 5 lbs in 25 years.
ETA: She started out at 110 lbs |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 9:29:03 PM EST
[#14]
Cut back on the groceries. Use ductape and tie wraps to limit her activities. Enough sex will make her skinny again.
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Posted: 7/27/2015 9:38:05 PM EST
[#15]
11 years and 2 kids in. My wife has completely stopped giving a crap about herself. Gained 100lbs +, has the "speak with the manager haircut" and pretty much has no decency at all anymore...open door on just about every bodily function and doesn't even try to keep herself up. Snores, farts, burps louder than most of the guys I hang out with.
But I made a promise and I'm a man of my word. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 11:47:53 PM EST
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She's not wrong. Attraction is attraction, and we can't really dictate what is or is not attractive to us. The weight didn't put me off, but she's not me. Each person is different. I don't think she's abnormal or shallow, though if she left him over it, that opinion might change. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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I married my husband when he was 175 lbs. and I was 98 lbs. I stood by him when he got up to 264 lbs and I stayed 98 lbs. He has now gotten back down to 175 lbs, and I am 95 lbs. I never stopped loving him, physically or emotionally. I never stopped thinking he was handsome. Sad to see that's not the case for many of y'all. I've got a friend and her husband has gained 140+ lbs since he left the service a few years ago. She is 120 lbs and says she still loves him with the weight. But she is much less attracted to him now that he overweight. She still wants to be with him, but has less fisical desire to sleep with him. I'm not sure what she will do in the future. Is she shallow, or is her reaction to the weight a normal reason for the way she is feeling? She's not wrong. Attraction is attraction, and we can't really dictate what is or is not attractive to us. The weight didn't put me off, but she's not me. Each person is different. I don't think she's abnormal or shallow, though if she left him over it, that opinion might change. Fair enough. Thanks. I've never found a gal that has been in my friends shoes. Thought I'd through it out there and ask. Just to add, I do not think she will ever leave him. My guess is if they ever did split, it would be over other something else. |
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Posted: 7/27/2015 11:49:40 PM EST
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Wow the love runs shallow with a lot of yall.  what if you went blind?Well there's the solution |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:10:23 AM EST
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Well there's the solution Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Wow the love runs shallow with a lot of yall. what if you went blind?Well there's the solution You can still feel mishapen doughy pasty flesh....being blind wouldn't help.... |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:12:04 AM EST
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Marriage vows do mean a lot to me but I guess it depends just how fat and why did it happen. I will say that having an ex that was at one time quite attractive and seeing her balloon up with an ass the size of a Buick a few years later is quite satisfying.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:12:40 AM EST
[#20]
Nope
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:17:01 AM EST
[#21]
Bye Felicia
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:23:42 AM EST
[#22]
No.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 12:59:51 AM EST
[#23]
Fucking fuck.
Did she really do that to herself? I hate the world I live in. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:10:31 AM EST
[#24]
Fat and crazy? Yes she would be replaced. Just fat? Probably not, but there would be lots of "hunting trips".
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:23:17 AM EST
[#25]
No kids and she's already let herself go?
Gone |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:33:15 AM EST
[#26]
Seriously how are you "yes" folk going to handle old age, bad health, etc. if you can't handle 25 lbs. Love is more than a picture babe. On the other hand, no harm in throwing out junk food and putting her out on forced marches either.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:36:12 AM EST
[#27]
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No, fuck no. I don't like superficial people, male or female.Your screen name......and this response.  
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:40:06 AM EST
[#28]
Just wait until YOU age. Or suffer some type of injury that changes you.
Now ask yourself would you blame your wife if she left you? |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:41:59 AM EST
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Wow the love runs shallow with a lot of yall. what if you went blind?Apples to oranges. Did I chose to go blind? Being lazy and fat is a choice. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:45:03 AM EST
[#30]
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Let's see how you've held up. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Before we got married, I told my husband that I expected him to maintain his appearance. If he got fat or all old and wrinkly, his ass was going on the curb. Let's see how you've held up. she just attempted to associate weight gain with getting old (Something out of a person's control), so its pretty obvious
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:57:26 AM EST
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My wife and I have had this conversation. The answer is likely yes. She's a health nut and it's just a core part of her personality. If that went away, I'd not want to spend time with her. More than the looks, it's the change in who she is that would move me. I seesomething like that as being more about understanding the appreciation of human complexity. A change like that is probably symptomatic of something else not being right. Health is a function of work life balance, human contact, happiness, environment and mental wellbeing. Sleep, diet, exercise and a range of other things are all contributing factors. If the balance is wrong then health suffers. I love my wife. It is not a conditional thing based on how she looks. It is the whole package. As we have both got older both of us have changed in some ways. We see it as part of the relationship evolving and responses to how life and time have challenged us. If something like that were to occur I'd want to know why and try to understand what was going on in her life to make her change. Ultimately though, as long as she is happy then generally speaking, so am I. YMMV. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 1:59:52 AM EST
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Nope. I love her for who she is, not what she looks like. As if the two are mutually exclusive. If you are a lazy turd who doesnt respect your partner or yourself enough to take care of yourself, then you are exactly what you are. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 2:10:08 AM EST
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Just wait until YOU age. Or suffer some type of injury that changes you. Now ask yourself would you blame your wife if she left you? Seriously.....do you think being lazy, disrespectful, not giving a shit whether your mate is attracted to you is somehow the same as having an accident or getting old? |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 2:10:13 AM EST
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Maybe but my wife put on almost 40lbs after 4 kids and at 39 she said no more And dropped all the weight 120lbs then She is 130 now at 44 My buddies wife got huge as is 2x Rosie fat, after not losing Her weight she got surgery and is around 140 now and looks great. Sorry I don't buy all th excuses I had another buddies wife do the same thing Through diet and exercise. I used to believe its natural for some women to gain weight, but after My wife and my buddies wives I just don't buy it any more Quote HistoryQuoted:
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part of loving someone is loving yourself enough to care of yourself. If you don't care for yourself, you don't care for the other person in the relationship. Eject if she does not take care of herself, not for you but for herself. Pretty much this! And there's a difference between someone putting on a little extra because of age, or after the birth of a child versus letting one's self go completely. She is 130 now at 44 My buddies wife got huge as is 2x Rosie fat, after not losing Her weight she got surgery and is around 140 now and looks great. Sorry I don't buy all th excuses I had another buddies wife do the same thing Through diet and exercise. I used to believe its natural for some women to gain weight, but after My wife and my buddies wives I just don't buy it any more You don't buy that it's natural for women to put on weight, or that they can't lose it after the fact? |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 2:15:22 AM EST
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I would throw her ass to the curb. I work hard to impress my lady. I want her to be attracted to me. If she doesnt care enough about staying healthy and trying to impress me, I will find someone who does.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 2:17:16 AM EST
[#36]
Vows mean things.
Mine included "in sickness and in health, til death do Us part." I meant it. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 2:48:03 AM EST
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I would divorce any woman who decided to sit at home and do nothing all day.
I can't stand lazy people.........which is why I don't vote for democrats. My wife worked for 33 years and has a nice retirement package. She helped out a lot money wise and she would have dumped me in a heartbeat if I was a lazy fuck. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:02:46 AM EST
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Lotta guys are playing beta bucks to obese women. They hamster it away using terms like honor, and fidelity, when really they are just her bitch. Any man with the internet, who can read, and still wants to get married; maybe logic isnt his forte. But someone has to be the cannon fodder. Have fun with that.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:29:27 AM EST
[#39]
More than likely yes..
I also don't think that having children is an excuse for long term weigh gain. I know plenty of women that have had 2,3, or even 4 kids and 6 months to a year after childbirth are back to being fit and trim. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:35:00 AM EST
[#40]
Yuck...
Yeah, I'd leave. #2 is fucking gross. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:38:31 AM EST
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You've never had kids together and she stays at home all day. That would do it. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:45:14 AM EST
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That would do it. Quote HistoryQuoted:
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You've never had kids together and she stays at home all day. That would do it. That doesn't describe us. Our kids are 17 and 20. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 3:59:38 AM EST
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she just attempted to associate weight gain with getting old (Something out of a person's control), so its pretty obvious Quote HistoryQuoted:
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Before we got married, I told my husband that I expected him to maintain his appearance. If he got fat or all old and wrinkly, his ass was going on the curb. Let's see how you've held up. she just attempted to associate weight gain with getting old (Something out of a person's control), so its pretty obvious 
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Posted: 7/28/2015 6:37:34 AM EST
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I really pray that Arfcom is mostly kids under 18 because y'all sure act like it.
I think one of the reasons that married people live longer is that spouses take care of each other. I know my wife would help me up if I started taking a dive, and I know I would her.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 6:52:56 AM EST
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Why should I suffer because my wife got Fat and Nasty? Sorry but I don't want to be seen in public with some fat ugly cow. I've told my GF many times, you get obese and I'm out. She can do the same if I somehow let myself go.
Only guys saying they would stay are Fat themselves, Don't Get Pussy but once a year, or are full of shit. Screw this I MADE A PROMISE BS. I'm not going to imagine I'm banging the Old You when your now a 300 pound whale. Sick |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 6:54:57 AM EST
[#46]
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I really pray that Arfcom is mostly kids under 18 because y'all sure act like it. I think one of the reasons that married people live longer is that spouses take care of each other. I know my wife would help me up if I started taking a dive, and I know I would her."Love" is becoming as superficial and disposable as anything else these days.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 7:01:14 AM EST
[#47]
Probably not, but I wouldn't have sex with her anymore.
I guess that's why some guys get a girlfriend on the side. |
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Posted: 7/28/2015 7:23:58 AM EST
[#48]
no.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 7:25:49 AM EST
[#49]
Marriage, it ain't what some of you young guys think it is.
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Posted: 7/28/2015 7:28:39 AM EST
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2nd pic, still hot Glasses, get them.
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