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Posted: 12/28/2015 1:54:04 AM EST
Two kinds of significant other to choose from.  Which would you rather have  *edit--- This is for long term.  Who you would marry and what you would pick for the rest of your life.

1. Good, responsible, down to earth person who you know you can put your faith in, but a shy, uneventful, and boring sex life.

2.  Has a bit of a wild side and maybe a touch of the crazy.  Still overall good and the best sex you could hope for and it keeps getting better.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 1:58:57 AM EST
[#1]
We talkin about getting married or just shacking up?

That makes the decision.

Also, which one got that booty doe?
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 1:59:54 AM EST
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This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:01:19 AM EST
[#3]
Why can't you turn the first one into a freak?
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:01:44 AM EST
[#4]
In for #2.

As long as #2 isn't too messed up, you have a good thing going, and she makes you HAPPY, then that's who gets my vote...

The bottom line is BE HAPPY. If it isn't that..then I say...HAUL ASS.

Life's too short to live unsatisfied.


Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:01:47 AM EST
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This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.
you should clarify that in the OP.



 
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:02:33 AM EST
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Just not in them.  They don't have that kind of personality.  Will never really be like that.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:08:22 AM EST
[#7]
Marry #1

have epic internet porn stash and fapp like crazy
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:09:07 AM EST
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We talkin about getting married or just shacking up?

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This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.


Ok, can I get a pre nump?
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:09:45 AM EST
[#9]
Is #1 at least making herself available for sex?
Boring and uneventful is okay as long as it isn't once a year.




Take the sure thing. Ending up in jail, raising another man's kid as your own since she fucked several guys during that time, or just drinking yourself to death is just plain retarded. But what do I know, 2/3rds of ARF is going to tell you to pick the freak.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:10:29 AM EST
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One time with #2 (aka bipolar) was enough.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:12:35 AM EST
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This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.


Ok, can I get a pre nump?


Yes.  It might cause some drama or hurt feelings though.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:16:11 AM EST
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Is #1 at least making herself available for sex?Boring and uneventful is okay as long as it isn't once a year.


Take the sure thing. Ending up in jail, raising another man's kid as your own since she fucked several guys during that time, or just drinking yourself to death is just plain retarded. But what do I know, 2/3rds of ARF is going to tell you to pick the freak.
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Yes, everything is good as far as frequency.  I think theres a lot to be said for fulfillment, but what is it worth?  As you stated in the second part of your post.....is it really worth that?  It's a tough question IMO.  I can see both sides.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:20:04 AM EST
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# 1 will lead you to # 2
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:24:36 AM EST
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Yes.  It might cause some drama or hurt feelings though.
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This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.


Ok, can I get a pre nump?


Yes.  It might cause some drama or hurt feelings though.


So a new car would make her feel better about it?

Does she have a body like this?



Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:28:49 AM EST
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So a new car would make her feel better about it?

Does she have a body like this?

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We talkin about getting married or just shacking up?

That makes the decision.



This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.


Ok, can I get a pre nump?


Yes.  It might cause some drama or hurt feelings though.


So a new car would make her feel better about it?

Does she have a body like this?

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bb/09/7d/bb097dffe516092ef163690655ac256f.jpg



Yeah I think a new car will make things all good.

No, she can't look like that.  if she looked like that then every one would pick that one haha.

Let say they both rate about the same.  For mental picture sake we will say a good, solid 7-8 for both face and body.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:28:59 AM EST
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Why have a wife at all if she's boring and unfulfilling?
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:31:00 AM EST
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You
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Idea
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:31:43 AM EST
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Money
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:32:16 AM EST
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Story time?
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:34:31 AM EST
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Yeah I think a new car will make things all good.

No, she can't look like that.  if she looked like that then every one would pick that one haha.

Let say they both rate about the same.  For mental picture sake we will say a good, solid 7-8 for both face and body.
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That makes the decision.



This is for the long term.  We are talking marriage on this one.


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Yes.  It might cause some drama or hurt feelings though.


So a new car would make her feel better about it?

Does she have a body like this?

https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/bb/09/7d/bb097dffe516092ef163690655ac256f.jpg



Yeah I think a new car will make things all good.

No, she can't look like that.  if she looked like that then every one would pick that one haha.

Let say they both rate about the same.  For mental picture sake we will say a good, solid 7-8 for both face and body.


Give an example of a 7-8.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:37:51 AM EST
[#21]
Married 35 years.  Got #1 but without the boring sex life.  To this day I do not know why she chose me.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:38:17 AM EST
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If #1 gave it regularly (once or twice a week except for shark week) than i would choose her.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:42:23 AM EST
[#23]
True love is hard to find, sometimes you think you have true love and then you catch the early flight home from San Diego and a couple of nude people jump out of your bathroom blindfolded like a goddamn magic show ready to double team your girlfriend.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:47:02 AM EST
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Freak all the way. BUT my wife showed me a meme on time that said and I quote.

"All women have the Cray Cray.  Figure out the level of Cray Cray you want to live with and then marry the girl with the level of Cray Cray you can live with.""

Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:47:12 AM EST
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It stops right there and continues right here because I think what Mitch is trying to say is that true love is blind.


Let's raise our glasses, what ever we got in front of us.

Salute, health and happiness

Cheers, everybody
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:55:33 AM EST
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Harder than I thought to find a pic, but I say this is a good 7 or 8.  Shes hot.

Link Posted: 12/28/2015 2:57:56 AM EST
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Harder than I thought to find a pic, but I say this is a good 7 or 8.  Shes hot.

http://meatgrinder.co/photos/jewel-staite/jewel-staite-13938103e313d211d426c72910136668-smaller-127161.jpg
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Give an example of a 7-8.


Harder than I thought to find a pic, but I say this is a good 7 or 8.  Shes hot.

http://meatgrinder.co/photos/jewel-staite/jewel-staite-13938103e313d211d426c72910136668-smaller-127161.jpg


#2 fo sho
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 3:01:33 AM EST
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It should go without saying that if you have to ask then neither is "the one".
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 3:34:28 AM EST
[#29]
No get both option in poll
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 4:47:49 AM EST
[#30]
Why don't you introduce #2 to #1 and if they hit it off, get #2 to try to convince #1 for a three way.

Everyone wins.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 4:52:44 AM EST
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Link Posted: 12/28/2015 5:38:53 AM EST
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They're all crazy to some degree.

Cheers!
-JC
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 5:42:07 AM EST
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Link Posted: 12/28/2015 5:46:58 AM EST
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At this point I'd put up with any kind of crazy out there to have some good times.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 6:08:59 AM EST
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Keep in mind this person will be with you a looong time if things go right.  They will be the mother of your children and your best friend in the long run..  Anything that's a problem before you get married will almost always be worse after marriage and again worse after kids.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 6:18:01 AM EST
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Long term?

Give me the normal, even if the sex is not fantastic.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 6:36:18 AM EST
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For those that voted crazy, I just think you need one woman in your life who imagines you're cheating on her and smashes expensive things and does it dramatically enough that all the neighbors look out their windows.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 6:40:45 AM EST
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If my dick is going in a vagina; I'm not really bored. Boring sex is still sex.

Crazy only leads to more crazy. One of my friends almost got stabbed in his sleep by a psycho girl friend. She broke his 1989 Pistons championship mirror and picked up the biggest shard. He woke up in a drunken stupor when he heard the mirror get smashed and was able to defend himself when she snuck in his room.

He married a normal chick.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 7:24:33 AM EST
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Ummm yep.


Hot and crazy is like the tilt-a-whirl at the carnival...awesome for a few turns, but eventually you end up sick and beat.  College is a good time for this.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 7:29:40 AM EST
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I used to go for #2 but as I get older I lean towards #1, although I won't put up with a total bore
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 7:55:11 AM EST
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Crazy in small doses can be fun. Or at least a source of good stories.

Crazy for breakfast, lunch and dinner - NO FUCKING WAY!!!
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:03:17 AM EST
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Two kinds of significant other to choose from.  Which would you rather have  *edit--- This is for long term.  Who you would marry and what you would pick for the rest of your life.

1. Good, responsible, down to earth person who you know you can put your faith in, but a shy, uneventful, and boring sex life.

2.  Has a bit of a wild side and maybe a touch of the crazy.  Still overall good and the best sex you could hope for and it keeps getting better.
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I have the best of both
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:07:13 AM EST
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Who has the best career potential?  Don't marry a deadbeat.

The boring sex girl can be taught.  

Need pics for final.judgment.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:14:30 AM EST
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At my age 45, #1 I'm too old to put up with crazy.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:18:00 AM EST
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I have.

Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:20:48 AM EST
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Truth
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:34:39 AM EST
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It depends on the kind of crazy.

Bipolar, angry, hurtful, vindictive crazy? No way.

A little of the fun, wild, playful crazy that pushes you to live life as an adventure, maybe a little eccentric? Sign me up.
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:50:47 AM EST
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Marry #1



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My dad tried that. He resorted to other for fun and still Jacks it at 82 I believe.  You want to be in a relationship with 30 to 50 years of sexual fustration and depravity you're the crazy one,

 
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:55:53 AM EST
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"No doubt exists that all women are crazy; it's only a question of degree."

W. C. Fields
Link Posted: 12/28/2015 8:58:43 AM EST
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Coming out of a 13 year marriage with lousy sex, I'll gladly take a bit of crazy!

And let me tell you: there's PLENTY of crazy out there!








Disclaimer: I'd MUCH prefer crazy-hot-sex mixed with a level-headed, loving and loyal doll baby! I'm not giving up looking till I find her!
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