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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 3:27:25 AM EDT
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Why don't you take a belt to him..

Make sure no one else sees it. Stripe his ass hard once or twice and he'll knock that shit off quick.

I threatened one one time to do that, up to the point I took my belt off and chased him. He's never been back.
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Sounds like the psycho would burn your house down the minute you went to work if you did that.

Link Posted: 7/27/2020 3:39:23 AM EDT
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Sounds like the kid is a shit bag and the parents don't care, making them a family of shitbags. So tell me why are they invited to attend events where
decent people gather and why would you expose yourself and your family to shitbags?
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 4:12:31 AM EDT
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I hope you installed a sump pump in your basement OP.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 5:37:10 AM EDT
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Don't argue with the kid, but consider mentioning it to the parents.  Keep it low key but let them know how the kid is coming across.
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Most likely just repeating what he learned at home.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 5:49:01 AM EDT
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Good thing you kept your cool. Wouldn’t want his dad to get pissed at you.
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Holy fuck.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:00:09 AM EDT
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I hope you installed a sump pump in your basement OP.
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:06:01 AM EDT
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Sociopath Narcissist can't fix dat...without lengthy incarceration...jail or psych.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:08:36 AM EDT
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If Biden wins, the riots might go away; but, the racial moralizing and speech policing will accelerate.
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Same thing if Trump wins but worse.  We're fucked.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:09:54 AM EDT
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"No. I'm judging you because you're a little asshole."
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:32:58 AM EDT
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I would have said to him.

You can believe that if you want, I don’t care, but you are not going to get very far blaming White people for your failures.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:36:44 AM EDT
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Had the same thing happen to me years ago but it was always blame the black kid.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:39:09 AM EDT
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“You’re only saying that because I’m white.”
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 6:39:51 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:00:14 AM EDT
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Don't make the black kids angry.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:13:04 AM EDT
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The only correct response to “that’s racist” is “I don’t care”. Please start practicing this now.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:16:04 AM EDT
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Excellent.

Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:18:57 AM EDT
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Had a little get together down my street out front.

There is a 10 year old black kid who lives in the neighborhood who was being really mean to a younger kid (7 years old).

Anyway i tell the black kid to knock it off and be nice.

He looks right at me at says:

“You’re just judging me cause I’m black”.

Kid has already been trained.  
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You are only complaining about him because he is black.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:21:53 AM EDT
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Ha yep..he is adopted by a white couple.  

I could post 50 things this kid has done that would blow your mind.

I’ll give you one from when he was SEVEN years old.

Another neighbor who lived two doors down from this kid...the kid kept messing with some flowers in neighbors yard.  Neighbor tells him to knock it off, talks to the kids “parents”.

A short time later, neighbor goes on vacation.

The kid, as a 7 year old takes a hose and puts it down the stairs of the walkout basement and turns it on...flooding the house for several days while they are on vacation.

What kind of 7 year old does that??
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The kind of kid you strangle with a piece of piano wire.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:39:13 AM EDT
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Good thing you kept your cool. Wouldn’t want his dad to get pissed at you.
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It’s Utah. Probably has white parents. Seriously.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 7:45:04 AM EDT
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Most likely just repeating what he learned at home.
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Don't argue with the kid, but consider mentioning it to the parents.  Keep it low key but let them know how the kid is coming across.

Most likely just repeating what he learned at home.



Im sure he will totally out grow that attitude when hes older and totally not blame racism for every failure he experiences in life, and use the racism screech to get ahead when life gets hard.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:00:42 AM EDT
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Ha yep..he is adopted by a white couple.  

I could post 50 things this kid has done that would blow your mind.

I’ll give you one from when he was SEVEN years old.

Another neighbor who lived two doors down from this kid...the kid kept messing with some flowers in neighbors yard.  Neighbor tells him to knock it off, talks to the kids “parents”.

A short time later, neighbor goes on vacation.

The kid, as a 7 year old takes a hose and puts it down the stairs of the walkout basement and turns it on...flooding the house for several days while they are on vacation.

What kind of 7 year old does that??
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One who has been instructed by an adult. A seven year old would never think of something like that.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:06:14 AM EDT
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You've got to be joking.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:07:51 AM EDT
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Had a little get together down my street out front.

There is a 10 year old black kid who lives in the neighborhood who was being really mean to a younger kid (7 years old).

Anyway i tell the black kid to knock it off and be nice.

He looks right at me at says:

“You’re just judging me cause I’m black”.

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Nope. I'm judging you because you're a fucking asshole.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:11:34 AM EDT
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Tell your kid to wait 3 days and then curb stomp the bully.
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My vote.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:11:48 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:15:29 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:19:31 AM EDT
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The kid, as a 7 year old takes a hose and puts it down the stairs of the walkout basement and turns it on...flooding the house for several days while they are on vacation.

What kind of 7 year old does that??
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A defective one
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:22:01 AM EDT
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He really is.  Now that's he's a little older he's getting more sexual in what he's trying to do.
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Really a little sociopath. Not all adoptees are charming or grounded in civil life.


He really is.  Now that's he's a little older he's getting more sexual in what he's trying to do.
I bet his parents are on the left and don't discipline him because "RACISM!"
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:24:36 AM EDT
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Sha-zam!
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:27:19 AM EDT
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He really is.  Now that’s he’s a little older he’s getting more sexual in what he’s trying to do.
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That’s no bueno. Given the kid’s track record thus far I’d be tempted to get the sexual stuff documented with other parents/local authorities. May sound extreme, but it’s only going to escalate and get worse IMO. Seems clear that the parents are incapable of handling it, maybe escalating it to someone else would force a psych eval & counseling.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:28:59 AM EDT
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The seven year old need to receive The Talk.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:30:29 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:32:13 AM EDT
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About a week ago I was walking the dog. Couple of teenage boys were getting kicked out of the community pool area for being unsupervised, causing issues, being rowdy, etc. The property manager was a white woman. They were black.

All three were pretty aggressive arguing with her. I stopped to watch cause I figured there was a medium chance she was going to get hit. After a bit they gave up and stormed out.

As they passed by, they were saying “Black lives matter” along with the expected “fuck this bitch” type stuff

...there were plenty of other black people at the pool, of course.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:34:45 AM EDT
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Had a little get together down my street out front.

There is a 10 year old black kid who lives in the neighborhood who was being really mean to a younger kid (7 years old).

Anyway i tell the black kid to knock it off and be nice.

He looks right at me at says:

"You're just judging me cause I'm black".

Kid has already been trained.  
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Hope you corrected his ass?
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:35:58 AM EDT
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This is 100% correct.  He has had ZERO consequences for his actions.  

There is a park by our houses.  Kid was there this summer going to all
the cars and trying to open doors to steal change.  

Some guy catches him and goes door to door until looking for the kids parents.  Finally finds out what house it is.  Tells the parents what happened.  Kid was back at the park in less than an hour.  

This is going to blow up in my neighborhood.  

There has been several things sexual in nature that he’s trying to do with younger kids.  
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I’ll add that you aren’t allowed to move. Moving makes you a racist.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:37:56 AM EDT
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Ha yep..he is adopted by a white couple.  

I could post 50 things this kid has done that would blow your mind.

I'll give you one from when he was SEVEN years old.

Another neighbor who lived two doors down from this kid...the kid kept messing with some flowers in neighbors yard.  Neighbor tells him to knock it off, talks to the kids "parents".

A short time later, neighbor goes on vacation.

The kid, as a 7 year old takes a hose and puts it down the stairs of the walkout basement and turns it on...flooding the house for several days while they are on vacation.

What kind of 7 year old does that??
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Good thing you kept your cool. Wouldn't want his dad to get pissed at you.


Ha yep..he is adopted by a white couple.  

I could post 50 things this kid has done that would blow your mind.

I'll give you one from when he was SEVEN years old.

Another neighbor who lived two doors down from this kid...the kid kept messing with some flowers in neighbors yard.  Neighbor tells him to knock it off, talks to the kids "parents".

A short time later, neighbor goes on vacation.

The kid, as a 7 year old takes a hose and puts it down the stairs of the walkout basement and turns it on...flooding the house for several days while they are on vacation.

What kind of 7 year old does that??
He's broken.

SSS
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:38:52 AM EDT
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Not every dog can be rescued. Sometimes they're defective and need to be put down.

Oops. I think I posted that in the wrong thread. My mistake.

Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:40:24 AM EDT
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I’d have said you are wrong, I’m judging you based on these actions.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:41:01 AM EDT
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No, I am judging you on your behavior.

I hope he learns proper behavior.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:41:31 AM EDT
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This was the PERFECT comeback!   ZING!!!!!
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:43:43 AM EDT
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Theses are the comments that keep me coming back for more.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:47:12 AM EDT
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Let a toddler stumble and he'll learn to walk.

Give a kid a crutch and he will limp for life.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:50:25 AM EDT
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Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:50:48 AM EDT
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He really is.  Now that’s he’s a little older he’s getting more sexual in what he’s trying to do.
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Really a little sociopath. Not all adoptees are charming or grounded in civil life.


He really is.  Now that’s he’s a little older he’s getting more sexual in what he’s trying to do.

Please tell me you don't have any young children in your household.

I'm not asking because I'm concerned about you or your parenting. I've been reading your posts for years - I know you're one of the good guys.

I'm asking because I'm concerned about the little asshole in the park taking his growing rage out on your daughters.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:51:25 AM EDT
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time I for a call to Child Protective Services in your state.  Parents aren’t parenting.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:54:10 AM EDT
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That’s no bueno. Given the kid’s track record thus far I’d be tempted to get the sexual stuff documented with other parents/local authorities. May sound extreme, but it’s only going to escalate and get worse IMO. Seems clear that the parents are incapable of handling it, maybe escalating it to someone else would force a psych eval & counseling.
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He really is.  Now that’s he’s a little older he’s getting more sexual in what he’s trying to do.

That’s no bueno. Given the kid’s track record thus far I’d be tempted to get the sexual stuff documented with other parents/local authorities. May sound extreme, but it’s only going to escalate and get worse IMO. Seems clear that the parents are incapable of handling it, maybe escalating it to someone else would force a psych eval & counseling.

That kid will grow up to be a rapist and/or murderer.
Better to stop it sooner rather than later.

ETA:  That much sociopathy might not wait to adulthood.  There are kids younger than him who have committed murder.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:56:57 AM EDT
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Had a little get together down my street out front.

There is a 10 year old black kid who lives in the neighborhood who was being really mean to a younger kid (7 years old).

Anyway i tell the black kid to knock it off and be nice.

He looks right at me at says:

“You’re just judging me cause I’m black”.

Kid has already been trained.  
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You should have said what, wait, you're black?

I am judging you because you are acting like a brat.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 8:58:09 AM EDT
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At what age was he adopted?

I’ve noticed with folks I know who have adopted (Russian, Central American, etc. kids), that unless they get them very, very young, the kids are already imprinted by all the bad things they’ve encountered and/or the good things they’ve not encountered (loving, nurturing, protection, etc.). And that’s not factoring in drug and/or alcohol abuse by the birth mothers.

In the end, more often than not, it seems like they just cause heartache for the families, and as it seems in OP’s case, for the community.

This kid is already breaking into cars at 10, I bet by 14 he finds a gun in a car or house and carjacks someone.

Sad, but it would have been better for all parties if they had left him in the ‘hood and let nature take its course.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 9:01:03 AM EDT
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ha ha! good one!

oh, wait, you're serious.
Link Posted: 7/27/2020 9:08:51 AM EDT
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Had a little get together down my street out front.

There is a 10 year old black kid who lives in the neighborhood who was being really mean to a younger kid (7 years old).

Anyway i tell the black kid to knock it off and be nice.

He looks right at me at says:

“You’re just judging me cause I’m black”.

Kid has already been trained.  
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Proper response would be "You're only saying that because I'm Jewish".
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