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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:35:02 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Eject, lawyer, get half |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:35:40 PM EDT
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In Kali, what income is earned while they are married is automatically joint. If they divorce, everything is split 50/50.
BTW I can see that guy is going to have problems in marriage. She doesn't understand that concept of marriage, everything is shared, even happiness and pain. If it were me, yup eject, and take her money, because she hasn't got the mindset to be married, ie this is mines and that is yours it should be "ours'" |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:36:44 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. Truly? Ok then, fuck getting married. I dont trust ANYONE enough to have a joint bank account. 
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:40:41 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Damn man, tonight I’m gonna have to tell my wife we aren’t married.  Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. Damn man, tonight I’m gonna have to tell my wife we aren’t married. Pics then? |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:43:01 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: You're aren't fully married if you are not one cohesive and faithful unit. You have haven't fully married two formerly separate beings into a true covenant. You aren't married to the idea of each other if you are still acting as if you two are separate. Yep, going into separate bathrooms at a restaurant is a good indicator of a couple of heathens merely playing house for 20-30 years! Should never have different opinions either because two becomes one and one is holiest! If we want to be pedantic, wimmens must cleave to their husbands and stop thinking daddy’s thoughts and start thinking his highness their husband’s. Pretty sure that’s the 1600s paging you sir. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:46:22 PM EDT
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Meh. If my wife won’ 35k or so on a scratch off I’d let her have all the money.
 Right after I beat her ass for spending MY $15 on that scratch off. J/K!If she won 35 Million? Yeah it would go right in the joint checking account, |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:48:36 PM EDT
[#7]
Eject.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:49:39 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. HAHAHA. Yeah, I remember having that same naive thought process when I was a newlywed and a few years in.........then it all changed. What's mine is her's. What's her's is her's. That thought process can't be unfucked. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:50:53 PM EDT
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What the hell is up with women and "the need" to travel? I would rather travel and be a poor over spending on priority items. Entitled to travel? Travel as Rome burns?
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:51:47 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I saw that earlier from the reddit page. https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/ca-court-of-appeal/1072229.html Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: I read a story about this. Wife wins a millon or something. Doesnt tell hubby. Divorces him. He gets mail about lottery stuff. He finds out she won. He sues her and judge awards him all the winnings. I saw that earlier from the reddit page. https://caselaw.findlaw.com/court/ca-court-of-appeal/1072229.html Had to read it…. Dumb woman fucked herself pretty well on that one! Had to pay 100% of the lottery winnings due to a clause in the divorce paperwork. And then she lied about the winnings being a “gift” from the lottery winners. As always, an obvious liar losing in court makes me happy… |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:51:51 PM EDT
[#11]
Goodbye, don’t let the door hit you in the ass!
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Posted: 7/3/2023 5:53:11 PM EDT
[#12]
Give it all to the lawyers.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 6:10:56 PM EDT
[#13]
Only eject AFTER he gets his half.
Replace her with a women half her age. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 6:13:05 PM EDT
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Sad state of affairs with some people and marriage now. If you can't trust your spouse, you shouldn't be together, period. Out of all the people in the world, your spouse should be the one you can count on.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 6:19:23 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Sad state of affairs with some people and marriage now. If you can't trust your spouse, you shouldn't be together, period. Out of all the people in the world, your spouse should be the one you can count on. You should start a You Tube Red Pill channel. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 6:24:06 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I don't believe most of the outrageous stories I read like that on the internet. They usually turn out to be bullshit. Yeah, because it’s Outrageous and Completely Unbelievable, that a woman could buy a scratchoff and WIN literally Thousands of Dollars! And then, want to spend it on travel.  It boggles the mind.Based on simple probabilities alone, it probably happens several times a Day, nationwide. Lots a poor, desperate people buy those scratchers. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 6:38:35 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: She probably bought that ticket with a dollar that ultimately the husband earned. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:12:57 PM EDT
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Depends on the state. Here in Florida those winnings are marital property.
Eject Collect half Hookers and blow |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:26:57 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I read a story about this. Wife wins a millon or something. Doesnt tell hubby. Divorces him. He gets mail about lottery stuff. He finds out she won. He sues her and judge awards him all the winnings. That happened locally also. Woman won 2.5 mill in the state lottery. Hid the winning ticket until after the divorce was final. Then she cashed it in. Husband found out it was from a winning draw from a month or 2 before their divorce. Sued her in court. Judge awarded him the whole take home amount after the taxes were paid. He ended up with something like 1.7 mill or something close. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:41:21 PM EDT
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:45:58 PM EDT
[#21]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Naw, that’s just your opinion and you’re wrong on top of that. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:56:18 PM EDT
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Eject now, if he doesn't she will be soon enough.
Remember what women have taught us. Equality and the word half. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:58:21 PM EDT
[#23]
If they are married does she have a choice?
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Posted: 7/3/2023 7:59:36 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: He better eject, she’s going to here very shortly. This. She wants to travel up and down the cock coast. She’s already gone, dude. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:00:24 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: Why even bother getting married if you view your finances like that? She deserves her Whorecation. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:01:45 PM EDT
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:02:31 PM EDT
[#27]
I agree with her.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:03:21 PM EDT
[#28]
SIIHPAPP
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:03:30 PM EDT
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:08:18 PM EDT
[#30]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You're aren't fully married if you are not one cohesive and faithful unit. You have haven't fully married two formerly separate beings into a true covenant. You aren't married to the idea of each other if you are still acting as if you two are separate. Separate checking accounts preclude all of the above?  Attached File |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:16:17 PM EDT
[#31]
She's not wrong. It is her money, and she should be able to do with it whatever she wants.
The fact that she doesn't want to share any of it with her husband, someone she supposedly married because she loves him, doesn't change the fact that it's hers. What it does change is how her husband should view her, because she's clearly a selfish person and a shit wife. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:16:21 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: I think it depends on how they do separate. I've seen it work better than joint, and worse. If it's broken up into her money/my money/our money where the bills get paid and people have their spending money in their own accounts I don't see an issue w/ it. Quote HistoryQuoted: Quoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. I think it depends on how they do separate. I've seen it work better than joint, and worse. If it's broken up into her money/my money/our money where the bills get paid and people have their spending money in their own accounts I don't see an issue w/ it. Some people are raised with the financial skills of a chinchilla, and refuse to change. The other person being responsible for all the bills and keeping the chinchilla in check by not giving them access to the accounts is the only way to stay out of bankruptcy and cat food dinners 6 days a week. Kharn |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:20:01 PM EDT
[#33]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:22:13 PM EDT
[#34]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. Attached File |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:29:43 PM EDT
[#35]
First off how much can it be after taxes? It's a scratch off not megamillions. If she plans the family vacations and uses it for that I'm ok with it. If she take vacation without him, no good.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:35:35 PM EDT
[#36]
Has she been paying half the mortgage, food bill, etc. If so she should keep half. If she's been paying for everything then she should keep everything
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:38:46 PM EDT
[#37]
Quote HistoryQuoted: You're aren't fully married if you are not one cohesive and faithful unit. You have haven't fully married two formerly separate beings into a true covenant. You aren't married to the idea of each other if you are still acting as if you two are separate.  Attached File |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:44:02 PM EDT
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:45:53 PM EDT
[#39]
Wow....
How quick you all pile on the woman w/o knowing all the "facts". For one, never get involved in married people's spats - cuz there's his/hers version, where somewhere in the middle there's the truth that only they and God know. Next, I know of stupid women have this whole "separate account" thing - where their husbands spend everything. Case in point...one woman, she paid/pays majority for everything. She is the stereotypical woman who pays with cash cuz her credit sucks. She even paid her husband's child support and/or Xtra things for HIS kids. He got two Escalades, Harley, Crotch Rocket, ATVs, pick-up truck, a boat and wants a camper. Every time they purchased a home, it's where he wants and it usually costs an arm and a leg. Their last home (the "Retirement" home) is too big that they can't even maintain it. It needs a pressure washing and/or painting and landscaping/fencing is all fucked up. Before they retired from the military, she got promoted to Major while he was Captain and he told her she needs to pay more on the bills than he does, cuz she makes more Mind you, they are both retired military and 100% disabled and do real estate. Oh yea, when she got out, she got a real job, while "he" did real estate. She left the financial security and swanky paycheck to do real estate on her own, only to wind up partnering with him....So, brining in almost $12K a month tax free from Uncle Sam + real estate commissions, they live paycheck to paycheck and she has to buy everything with cash cuz she still can't fix her credit. Only thing I can suspect she caters to him is maybe like her alcoholic dad, she married an alcoholic that she just wants to please.... IN her case, if she won the lottery, she'd probably be so stupid to share it with him....but I just explained her story to show that there are some women who stupidly carry the financial weight in a "marriage". |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 8:59:42 PM EDT
[#40]
Quote HistoryQuoted: but if the roles were reversed, she would be all "I WANT MY HALF"... just like in a divorce. Or just like in professional soccer. Friggin' lying hypocrites. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 9:03:23 PM EDT
[#41]
This was the initial logo proposed for The National Organization of Women:
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Posted: 7/3/2023 9:06:52 PM EDT
[#42]
Quote HistoryQuoted: but if the roles were reversed, she would be all "I WANT MY HALF"... just like in a divorce. GUARANTEED. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:33:30 PM EDT
[#43]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Right out of high school I worked with a crew in Philly painting a building for a meat wholesaler. Eating lunch one day the subject was “what would you do if you hit the lotto for a mil?” One guy “I’d get a divorce.” Everybody “But she’d get half.” Him- “sheee-it. I got a half a mil, wtf I want her around fo’?”  Attached File |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:43:34 PM EDT
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Quote HistoryQuoted: What the hell is up with women and "the need" to travel? I would rather travel and be a poor over spending on priority items. Entitled to travel? Travel as Rome burns? Boggles my mind too. My younger sister has spent close to six figures in the past 5 or so years on traveling.  Attached File |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:44:57 PM EDT
[#45]
Divorce. Get the lawyer to take half and then pay the lawyer fees out of her half.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:45:28 PM EDT
[#46]
Divorce, of course.
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:46:59 PM EDT
[#47]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Honey pack your bags I won the lottery. Where are we going? I don't care where you go get the fuck out. 
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:49:18 PM EDT
[#48]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Married people with separate accounts are not truly married. And I don't care if that is how you do it and "you are fine", just a fact. Marriage is 2 becoming 1 in everything. And yes, he should bail, with half the money. Sounds like she is a greedy think of herself only, while he is wanting to save for a home. Good post. |
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Posted: 7/3/2023 10:50:44 PM EDT
[#49]
Quote HistoryQuoted: I agree with her. Yeah, nothing was illegal. But that's kind of a dick move thought. |
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Posted: 7/4/2023 2:42:28 AM EDT
[#50]
Quote HistoryQuoted: Wow.... How quick you all pile on the woman w/o knowing all the "facts". For one, never get involved in married people's spats - cuz there's his/hers version, where somewhere in the middle there's the truth that only they and God know. Next, I know of stupid women have this whole "separate account" thing - where their husbands spend everything. Case in point...one woman, she paid/pays majority for everything. She is the stereotypical woman who pays with cash cuz her credit sucks. She even paid her husband's child support and/or Xtra things for HIS kids. He got two Escalades, Harley, Crotch Rocket, ATVs, pick-up truck, a boat and wants a camper. Every time they purchased a home, it's where he wants and it usually costs an arm and a leg. Their last home (the "Retirement" home) is too big that they can't even maintain it. It needs a pressure washing and/or painting and landscaping/fencing is all fucked up. Before they retired from the military, she got promoted to Major while he was Captain and he told her she needs to pay more on the bills than he does, cuz she makes more Mind you, they are both retired military and 100% disabled and do real estate. Oh yea, when she got out, she got a real job, while "he" did real estate. She left the financial security and swanky paycheck to do real estate on her own, only to wind up partnering with him....So, brining in almost $12K a month tax free from Uncle Sam + real estate commissions, they live paycheck to paycheck and she has to buy everything with cash cuz she still can't fix her credit. Only thing I can suspect she caters to him is maybe like her alcoholic dad, she married an alcoholic that she just wants to please.... IN her case, if she won the lottery, she'd probably be so stupid to share it with him....but I just explained her story to show that there are some women who stupidly carry the financial weight in a "marriage". You wrote this and took it as her carrying the financial weight instead of us taxpayers carrying it via paying for their fraudulent 100% VA disability ratings? Did they both get PTSD from a mortar hitting 1000m from their FOB? |
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