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Posted: 2/15/2019 9:08:30 PM EDT

Could you see any warning signs before you got married/committed?

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:10:35 PM EDT

[#1]

Yes. And I did it anyway.

Because I was young and stupid.
One can almost say I had it coming.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:11:19 PM EDT

[#2]

Hindsight is 20/20

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:13:45 PM EDT

[#3]

Pussy is a terrible drug.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:14:36 PM EDT

[#4]

Signs I did not know were signs:

Only child
Divorced parents

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:16:04 PM EDT

[#5]

The Holy water made her scream.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:16:07 PM EDT

[#6]

Nothing was ever her fault.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:19:32 PM EDT

[#7]

In hindsight there are always signs. We just miss them for various reasons.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:20:46 PM EDT

[#8]

Yeah, she tried to run over her ex while I was in the car.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:23:07 PM EDT

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That's more of a billboard. BAH is a helluva drug?

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:32:58 PM EDT

[#10]

The entire relationship was a red flag. Dumb ass me tho kept going.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:50:35 PM EDT

[#11]

Even obvious clues can be missed

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b08cWOyHqAM

Blade Runner 2049 (2017) - K vs. Luv Scene (8/10) | Movieclips

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLSFQUjyBQo

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:54:38 PM EDT

[#12]

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The Faces - Ooh La La (1973)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1_xwnb3cymc

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:56:37 PM EDT

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Hmmm my ex ran over me. I ended up in the Kaiser hospital emergency room Walnut Creek, CA.

Posted: 2/15/2019 9:57:26 PM EDT

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I’m an addict

Pirates of the caribbean mermaid scene

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hC8gpeDgZG8

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:02:00 PM EDT

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Oh Lord, THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:02:15 PM EDT

[#16]

Don't compromise your values one bit. I fell for the old 'I only use pills once in awhile'....

But crazy sex be good sex!

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:02:56 PM EDT

[#17]

Tons of signs.

Decided to be a dumbass and not question her word.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:03:40 PM EDT

[#18]

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Yes. And I did it anyway.

Because I was young and stupid.
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Posted: 2/15/2019 10:04:04 PM EDT

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Yes. And I did it anyway.

Because I was young and stupid.
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Exactly this.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:09:55 PM EDT

[#20]

FPNI as usual.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:11:16 PM EDT

[#21]

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Yes. And I did it anyway.

Because I was young and stupid.
One can almost say I had it coming.

Exactly this.

Yup, exactly.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:15:44 PM EDT

[#22]

If she complains about everyone, including family.. Has 1000+ facebook friends, but is always alone. her car interior looks like a tornado went through it. her own father says " you sure bud?".... Any type of employment that involves tips.. HAIRDRESSERS!!! dont walk, RUN the fuck away...

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:27:37 PM EDT

[#23]

I suppose the fact that I was husband number "FOUR", should have been a huge clue . . .

. . . but . . .

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:29:39 PM EDT

[#24]

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Yes. And I did it anyway.

Because I was young and stupid.
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Posted: 2/15/2019 10:31:38 PM EDT

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Nothing was ever her fault.

Oh Lord, THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Yep.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:32:20 PM EDT

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God damn I laughed way too hard at this.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:33:38 PM EDT

[#27]

Yep.

I was young and dumb.

Today's me would kick that bitch to the curb with the quickness.

LC

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:35:05 PM EDT

[#28]

From here on out, potential sammich-makers will have to have an STD and mental health screening on file before I will even consider taking her out. The signs were there, fear is what drove my decision...

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:38:37 PM EDT

[#29]

Fuck yes, saw them, ignored them all, paid the price.

Posted: 2/15/2019 10:39:08 PM EDT

[#30]

Voted accordingly.
Lessons learned.

Posted: 2/15/2019 11:25:28 PM EDT

[#31]

I was a total retard when it came to women and relationships and thought "love" was enough.

When that first plate of spaghetti went flying by my head I realized I may have been lied to.

Posted: 2/15/2019 11:27:55 PM EDT

[#32]

Anyone who says no, is a fucking lier

Posted: 2/15/2019 11:51:47 PM EDT

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Posted: 2/16/2019 12:05:26 AM EDT

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Posted: 2/16/2019 12:09:17 AM EDT

[#35]

Check out the mom...and dad

Posted: 2/16/2019 12:10:42 AM EDT

[#36]

ETA - Whoops, misread the subject question. Drunk atm.

Posted: 2/16/2019 12:11:22 AM EDT

[#37]

Bell Biv DeVoe - Poison

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sb2np1HGqxg

Posted: 2/16/2019 12:12:41 AM EDT

[#38]

Same here i can spot evil a mile away now.

Posted: 2/16/2019 12:17:20 AM EDT

[#39]

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Hmmm my ex ran over me. I ended up in the Kaiser hospital emergency room Walnut Creek, CA.

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Yeah, she tried to run over her ex while I was in the car.

Hmmm my ex ran over me. I ended up in the Kaiser hospital emergency room Walnut Creek, CA.

Twice! First time, I thought maybe she didn't see him because it was dark. Then she turned around and tried again! He was my battle buddy from Ft Benning School for wayward boys 1986, saved me from getting smoked by the Drill Sergeant for kicking him when he tried to wake me up to go do Bn HQ cleanup. I figured I owed him, talked her down. This was in Berlin between Andrews Kaserne and my room on McNair.

Redhead and those tig ol' bitties!

Posted: 2/16/2019 12:19:37 AM EDT

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This. I should have seen my future right there, but I told myself, she could NEVER act that way to ME. She’s NOTHING like her mom.
Yeah, that was a flashing billboard I should have seen.

My marriage went like this: