[ARCHIVED THREAD] - INCEL support thread (Page 2 of 2)
| Sorry for your loss. You sound like you're handling it well, all things considered. It's just too soon, really, and it sounds like you recognize that. Still, you sound like a cool dude. Time will soften the rough spots out for you, at least you have a sense of humor, thank goodness. |
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Quoted: A 41 year old man jerking off in the shower just seems sad. I don’t want to do that anymore... ever again, really. I just exercise now when I start to feel that tension. Had a great workout earlier today. Arms and chest are good and tired. My dreams have gotten really vivid. I actually had a lucid dream Friday night about my wife no less. I don’t feel bad at all. Something in me has definitely changed. Lol what |
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Quoted: You have the opportunity to capitalize on. Most girls have dated plenty of garbage. I'd imagine a widower with his own place, a young kid, and who isn't a complete trainwreck would be an interesting prospect for a young woman.... I'm so confused |
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Quoted: His wife is deceased. But ok that clears things up. Dam op, that's gotta be tough. RIP I have full custody of 2 kids and I can tell you it's not the pussy repellant you think. It's not a huge draw like some of these guys are saying either, but it does separate wheat from chaff. Theres no way around it, kids are relationship baggage but chicks will put up with a certain amount of baggage if a guy is a catch. And its subjective. Some chicks - ya kidd are an automatic do not pass go do not collect 200. Or at least they wont get serious but will still hook up lol. But other chicks will see it as a mark of maturity IF you pull off the dad thing well... and have money lol |
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You don't like Latina hotties but you made a thread about one. I'm confused. Is the wife around or not? So, there was no barrier in getting with the young Latina hottie then. WTF OP? What's the deal? |
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His mention earlier sounded like a sarcastic reason not to approach the hottie by the pool. But ok that clears things up. Dam op, that's gotta be tough. RIP Quoted:
Quoted: His wife is deceased. But ok that clears things up. Dam op, that's gotta be tough. RIP |
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For you guys that missed the original story, it's a rather depressing one. Michelle passed away about a week after giving birth to their daughter.
Here's the thread in the memorial forum. https://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_151/2017078_Last-week-I-became-a-father-last-night-I-became-a-widower-Gofund-link-added-in-OP-.html Here's the GF's tribute to this amazing woman. 
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUWbWTUVf-k[/youtube] |
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Quoted: I feel a good cry coming on. 
If I’m being honest, whenever I think - I mean really think - about what it would be like to sleep with another woman, I almost feel sick. I think that’s a clear sign that I’m not in any position to pursue anything with anyone. |
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Pretty girl who is non-social to that extreme? You just go looking for ways to fuck up your life, don't you? https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e4/74/00/e474001a1630ed3e3d8ffb820c30203e.jpg Quoted:
She spent the entire time just standing in the same spot at the edge of the pool by herself. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e4/74/00/e474001a1630ed3e3d8ffb820c30203e.jpg My original OP was more a self reflection on the obstacles a man in my position would face if he were so inclined to seriously consider dating any woman. I don’t think I’m inclined. It was good for a laugh, though. |
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That’s no shit. I may have a dating resume shorter than Vern Troyer, but the last thing I want is to bring any female drama into my life. My original OP was more a self reflection on the obstacles a man in my position would face if he were so inclined to seriously consider dating any woman. I don’t think I’m inclined. It was good for a laugh, though. Quoted:
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She spent the entire time just standing in the same spot at the edge of the pool by herself. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e4/74/00/e474001a1630ed3e3d8ffb820c30203e.jpg My original OP was more a self reflection on the obstacles a man in my position would face if he were so inclined to seriously consider dating any woman. I don’t think I’m inclined. It was good for a laugh, though. Actively not trying, especially when it sounds like this lady was somewhat interested I do not get. Clearly you miss both your wife and having a woman around. That's because women are great. |
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For some reason I had women throwing themselves at me after my wife passed. Carrying around a newborn just seemed to make them more determined. They were all really hot too, it was a strange dynamic. I wasn’t interested, I’d just lost the love of my life and could care less about pussy. Once some time passed I started seeing my second wife and was ready. Things will come when you’re ready and if you’re never ready then no big deal, live your life how you want. |
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I've been reading an INCEL forum. They have some strange personalities. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. |
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Yep. Most don't deserve to pass on their genes. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. Quoted:
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I've been reading an INCEL forum. They have some strange personalities. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. I was denied by an Abercrombie model. 
Bros: Dude you have zero chance. Me: Nope. I have a very small chance. You have zero chance because you won't go talk to her. |
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That’s no shit. I may have a dating resume shorter than Vern Troyer, but the last thing I want is to bring any female drama into my life. My original OP was more a self reflection on the obstacles a man in my position would face if he were so inclined to seriously consider dating any woman. I don’t think I’m inclined. It was good for a laugh, though. Quoted:
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She spent the entire time just standing in the same spot at the edge of the pool by herself. https://i.pinimg.com/originals/e4/74/00/e474001a1630ed3e3d8ffb820c30203e.jpg My original OP was more a self reflection on the obstacles a man in my position would face if he were so inclined to seriously consider dating any woman. I don’t think I’m inclined. It was good for a laugh, though. Don't think about it as finding a soul mate. Think about just having a good time, regardless of getting laid. Don't be a push over ( "LOL, I didn't order that shit, you did"). I'm just there to look at boobs and have a good time. |
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Atta boy. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. I was denied by an Abercrombie model.
Bros: Dude you have zero chance. Me: Nope. I have a very small chance. You have zero chance because you won't go talk to her. Quoted:
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I've been reading an INCEL forum. They have some strange personalities. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. I was denied by an Abercrombie model.
Bros: Dude you have zero chance. Me: Nope. I have a very small chance. You have zero chance because you won't go talk to her. |
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Most of the women who tell me they aren't interested tell me that with a smile. I thank them for the clarity, raise my glass to "here's to mistakes" and move one. Quoted:
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I've been reading an INCEL forum. They have some strange personalities. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. I was denied by an Abercrombie model.
Bros: Dude you have zero chance. Me: Nope. I have a very small chance. You have zero chance because you won't go talk to her. But guess what? Women don't often approach men. That's your job. Do your fucking job. |
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Yep. Most don't deserve to pass on their genes. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. Quoted:
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I've been reading an INCEL forum. They have some strange personalities. It's really not that hard to chat up a woman. I'm a geek, but yet I've been able to make a long series of mistakes with women, marrying and divorcing three, with a much larger number of girlfriends in the mix. I don't have shit for game, I'm nerdy and not athletic at all. My biggest claim to fame is I can make most women laugh, and I'm not afraid of rejection. |
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If you go on dates and it doesn't work, I get that. That's dating. Actively not trying, especially when it sounds like this lady was somewhat interested I do not get. Clearly you miss both your wife and having a woman around. That's because women are great. I’m sure the majority on this website share your viewpoint that you don’t turn down a woman who shows interest in you because, well, pussy. I can’t say exactly at this time where on my list of priorities that falls, but it isn’t near the top. |
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I don’t have an obligation to go out with women who might show interest in me. My only obligation is to my daughter. I’m sure the majority on this website share your viewpoint that you don’t turn down a woman who shows interest in you because, well, pussy. I can’t say exactly at this time where on my list of priorities that falls, but it isn’t near the top. Quoted:
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If you go on dates and it doesn't work, I get that. That's dating. Actively not trying, especially when it sounds like this lady was somewhat interested I do not get. Clearly you miss both your wife and having a woman around. That's because women are great. I’m sure the majority on this website share your viewpoint that you don’t turn down a woman who shows interest in you because, well, pussy. I can’t say exactly at this time where on my list of priorities that falls, but it isn’t near the top. You don't have an obligation to go out with everyone who shows interest. And if you're not ready, I totally get it. But if you're kinda ready, you should try things. You don't have to bang every woman you see, clearly you're looking for more. But talking and going on dates are a good intermediate. Bless you and your late wife. I don't know what I'd do in your situation |
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Lol. FUCK. THAT. Never in a million years would I resort to strange creeper tactics. Plus, Hispanic girls just aren’t my type. Quoted:
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Call your friends and find out who she was. Ask her out. Lifes short. Quoted:
Life's too short. Try and hit that. what's the worst that could happen? Never in a million years would I resort to strange creeper tactics. Plus, Hispanic girls just aren’t my type. |
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