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Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:29:50 PM EST
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I almost shot someone the other day that was “just trying to be nice” as he said.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:33:56 PM EST
[#2]
I’m very nice


I’m not a patsy, and I don’t put up with anyone’s shit.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:34:06 PM EST
[#3]
The First 48 taught me to avoid being out in crap neighborhoods at 2:30 in the morning.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:35:39 PM EST
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Mattis if a fag, but his quote is gold.

“Be polite, be courteous. But always have a plan to kill everybody.”
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Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:35:49 PM EST
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I almost shot someone the other day that was “just trying to be nice” as he said.
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You should change your name to Quickdraw.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:36:47 PM EST
[#6]
That Bald and Bankrupt guy did pretty well for himself in a lot of dangerous shitholes.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:38:11 PM EST
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DON'T BE FRIENDLY AND OUTGOING


So lately I have been watching these guys:
The Crime Zone
The dude Nigel does a very good job narrating these crimes.
One huge take (this is the PSA),
If you don't wanna be a victim of a horrible murder:
Don't be "friendly and outgoing."
Almost every victim is described that way.
Fortunately, those that know me would never describe me that way.
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This is a good PSA. I’m absolutely the friendly outgoing guy , but I have recently been putting up a wall when meeting new people lately. Sad state our society has gotten to at this point.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:41:00 PM EST
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This is a good PSA. I’m absolutely the friendly outgoing guy , but I have recently been putting up a wall when meeting new people lately. Sad state our society has gotten to at this point.
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We should hang out. I could fix you to make you safer. Biggest problem is, I don't like you and I don't want to be around you. So...it just ain't gonna work. Good luck.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:51:46 PM EST
[#9]
My wife's sister is the overly friendly person who would fail any street interview she found herself in. She doesn't have any personal boundaries. She stresses my wife out whenever they take trips, because she treats places like Chicago or DC the same way she treats her 100 person town.

I'm typically friendly and outgoing, but can flip the dick switch in an instant when boundaries start getting pressured in the wrong type of situations. Dude in line at the grocery store is fine, guy beelining towards me at a gas pump gets a different personality entirely.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 4:54:36 PM EST
[#10]
I think Gavin De Becker said something similar in The Gift of Fear.  Friendliness and agreableness are liabilities when dealing with strangers.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 5:01:34 PM EST
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I think Gavin De Becker said something similar in The Gift of Fear.  Friendliness and agreableness are liabilities when dealing with strangers.
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Really good friend here missed being murdered by a no-kidding notorious serial killer in Portland by a whisker. The attributes of his victims matched her down to the letter. She made both of her daughters read that book.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 7:38:25 PM EST
[#12]
I despise the general populous and I trust no one until they've earned it. I feel like that's a start anyway.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 7:41:52 PM EST
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Link Posted: 1/7/2024 8:48:44 PM EST
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This is a good PSA. I’m absolutely the friendly outgoing guy , but I have recently been putting up a wall when meeting new people lately. Sad state our society has gotten to at this point.
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It's the sad truth.  SO MANY people are looking to take advantage of others.  Our society has become extremely adversarial and is devolving into an animalistic "survival of the fittest" mode.  

Sucks that I think the assholes that believe there's just too damn many people just may be on to something.
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 11:46:28 PM EST
[#15]
Tag
Link Posted: 1/7/2024 11:59:08 PM EST
[#16]
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Having worked in the prison system for close to 30 years now, I've learned that criminals see friendly and outgoing as a sign of weakness that is to be exploited.
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This is correct. One can be a kind and sociable person without having a conciliatory demeanor that basically screams “I’m weak, take advantage of me.”
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:04:01 AM EST
[#17]
You can be friendly and outgoing to most people if you profile.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:08:03 AM EST
[#18]
  • Keep your basement door locked.
  • Ask your parents to positively identify themselves before coming downstairs.
  • Cover all windows with aluminum foil.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:15:24 AM EST
[#19]
I'm friendly and outgoing but I also carry a g19 and a zt folder.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:16:14 AM EST
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Some asshole got stabbed.
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Been there. Would not recommend.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:16:16 AM EST
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Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:17:13 AM EST
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GD is all safe then.
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Link Posted: 1/8/2024 12:25:05 AM EST
[#23]
True Crime stuff about the deaths of insufferable cunts and assholes probably doesn't sell as well as more likeable dead people.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 1:27:08 AM EST
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GD is all safe then.
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Link Posted: 1/8/2024 1:40:43 AM EST
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Great sig line material.
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We might all be moody loners with assault rifles, but everyone here is *alive*.
Great sig line material.


Link Posted: 1/8/2024 2:10:54 AM EST
[#26]
I just stick out my hand and say "Trickle's the name, Dick Trickle" and they usually leave me alone after that.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 6:17:53 AM EST
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It's the sad truth.  SO MANY people are looking to take advantage of others.  Our society has become extremely adversarial and is devolving into an animalistic "survival of the fittest" mode.  

Sucks that I think the assholes that believe there's just too damn many people just may be on to something.
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This is a good PSA. I’m absolutely the friendly outgoing guy , but I have recently been putting up a wall when meeting new people lately. Sad state our society has gotten to at this point.

It's the sad truth.  SO MANY people are looking to take advantage of others.  Our society has become extremely adversarial and is devolving into an animalistic "survival of the fittest" mode.  

Sucks that I think the assholes that believe there's just too damn many people just may be on to something.

Yep, too many people. And you're right about our society devolving. This seems to be our era's Bleeding Kansas with both sides already like a lit fuse, and when you throw in all of the criminal stuff that isn't even related to ideology, everything is setting up to get really, really ugly. "Survival of the fittest" is probably an apt description of the preparedness frame of mind that people need to get themselves into.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 6:27:12 AM EST
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If you don't wanna be a victim of a horrible murder:
Don't be "friendly and outgoing."
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Fuck you, fuck everyone in the this thread and fuck all of GD...you all suck ass...

I ain't getting dead!

ROCK6
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 6:55:59 AM EST
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Having worked in the prison system for close to 30 years now, I've learned that criminals see friendly and outgoing as a sign of weakness that is to be exploited.
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Yep.


Be the kind of person that the homeless don’t bother to approach….


Related- FBI report on LE assaulted (different report than the one on LE killed in the line of duty) showed consistently that criminals sized up LEO’s, and that “Officer Friendly” was the most likely to be the type that criminals would decide were safest to seriously assault….
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 7:18:07 AM EST
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What do they say about the other 99.9999999% of people who are friendly and outgoing, yet are never murdered?
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Uhhh... look, man. We have a narrative going here, mmkay.
Link Posted: 1/8/2024 9:24:27 AM EST
[#31]
My friends sister and nephew were murdered by scumbags they took in to help.

https://archives.rep-am.com/2014/01/20/killer-in-twin-watertown-homicides-gave-2-hour-confession/
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