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God damn GD hates freedom and being all up in other people's business.
What a bunch of busy body bitch men.
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Not at all. I'm going to articulate what I see as the consensus of this group, generally speaking.
We don't hate freedom, and certainly wouldn't want a law passed that forbade thigh tattoos on women under age 35 without a psychological exam. That would be to hate freedom and to be all up in other people's business.
But we will judge you. And that's ok. Passing judgement on people is lizard brain important. Sure we can take it too far, ie KKK, Black Panthers, Westboro, et al. But we need to judge the people we encounter in life to survive and to achieve goals that we idealize as positive for ourselves.
phatmax nailed it. An individual who exhibits X is most likely Y, generally speaking.
It is absolutely ok to have a self perception of being "better" than someone else. To aspire to be better each new day than you were yesterday is the literal definition of improving. Realize that we are not all intellectual equals, emotional equals, etc and that all souls are at different points of learning in their own path. You can see yourself as being further down that path of growth, but respect the other travelers and let them have their own existence separate from yours.
If you do this you will find that your life will be mostly free of bad circumstances that are caused by other people, generally speaking.
We collectively agree that "not making bad decisions" and awareness of the exponential power of compounding them is a critical life skill that is honed over time.
Let me paint this picture for ya...
She's gorgeous and seems to behave herself. Her modest work attire and weekday makeup & hair say "I drive a 2 year old Honda Accord." And she does.
Within a couple of weeks you've seen the tramp stamp and the butterfly tattoo next to her shaven pussy. She tells you about her bastards. The 12 year old she had with the coke dealer when she was 19. And the 5 year old with a bad learning disability and dwarfism that she intentionally conceived with a sheriffs deputy after dating for two months.
You ask about the tattoos. It doesn't all come out at once. Over time you get trickle truthed. She got them when she was 15 and a runaway. A 50 year old crack head named Maurice did it at his apartment where they were couch surfing and partying. Shortly after that, she gets blacked out fucked up on her own and / or roofied by Maurice. All kinds of good shit goes down. She never tells anyone. Turns out she's pregnant. Tells her boyfriend it is his. Boyfriend's mom took her for the abortion.
Wouldn't it just have been easier to jerk off than to have wasted 15 minutes of your life on this piece of shit once you saw the tattoos?