I have an Octane 45k along with a bunch of other pistol cans. I've put 9mm through it on a couple different hosts now (P229 with factory threaded barrel and a G17/Lone Wolf) and it's "OK". I was not really impressed with the tone or the DB reduction. To my ears I considered it hearing safe, but it was still loud using Winchester 147gr or Brown Bear 145gr JHP. If I were you I'd lean really hard towards a TiRANT-45M. I've got a 45s and it's not bad on 9mm. Shorter and lighter than the Octane 45k, about the same noise level to my ears, and a lower tone. The one I'm really shocked by is the TiRANT-9s. It's a little stubby 5" can and it sounds better (to my ears) than the Octane 45k or the TiRANT-45s. Both are much longer cans.
I've got a Ghost M that just cleared form 3 but I won't have that in my grubby hands till probably next year. Sent the form 4 in at the end of June...... I'm also lusting after an Omega 9k for a 3-lug can. I'm using a TiRANT-9 with a Triad mount now.
Octane 45k vs Octane 45:
Best pic I've got at the moment with my "compact" cans:
Left to right: TiRANT-45s, TiRANT-9s, Octane 45k, and a Thompson Wasp 22 on the right.