My girlfriend of 4 years just dumped me, ask me anything

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Posted: 6/7/2016 11:22:53 PM EDT

I'm in shambles, my world just fell apart in the blink of an eye

ETA: Anyone live in Raleigh area? Could use a range buddy sometime this week

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:23:28 PM EDT

[#1]

How old are you?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:02 PM EDT

[#2]

Why?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:25 PM EDT

[#3]

That sucks bud. Things will get better.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:24:48 PM EDT

[#4]

What did you do wrong?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:02 PM EDT

[#5]

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No it didnt. Get out and have fun, slay some tail.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:27 PM EDT

[#6]

That blows dude

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:33 PM EDT

[#7]

Keep your head up, OP. Eventually you will look back upon this day and see nothing but the start of a new-found freedom.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:39 PM EDT

[#8]

That sucks. Man up. Move on.

Clearly it wasn't meant to be.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:25:42 PM EDT

[#9]

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This.

Not because I am being an ass, I am genuinely curious.

Things will get better.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:06 PM EDT

[#10]

Lots of women. Get another one.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:15 PM EDT

[#11]

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He dated a woman for 4-years without popping the question. Most won't even make it 2-years. Women have a much shorter shelf-life than men do, and they don't care to waste it away. Good news is there are plenty more.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:26:32 PM EDT

[#12]

Feel better.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:02 PM EDT

[#13]

At least you didn't lose half your shit.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:17 PM EDT

[#14]

You'll be ok. Think of it as an opportunity once the cloud of despair dissipates.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:29 PM EDT

[#15]

Did you plan on marrying her?

I know a few people over the years that the chick broke it off b/c he didnt propose after 2 years. I know a woman that said if she didnt have a ring within a year she gone. But she also said she wanted a long engagement.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:46 PM EDT

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Posted: 6/7/2016 11:27:50 PM EDT

[#17]

I married my wife after six weeks of knowing her. That was 35 years ago. I still have her. After 4 years you should have sealed the deal. It will suck for a while then it will be as if it never happened.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:28:49 PM EDT

[#18]

When you grow up you'll see she did you a huge favor!! Now go fishing and chive on young'un

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:01 PM EDT

[#19]

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He dated a woman for 4-years without popping the question. Most won't even make it 2-years. Women have a much shorter shelf-life than men do, and they don't care to waste it away. Good news is there are plenty more.

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What did you do wrong?

He dated a woman for 4-years without popping the question. Most won't even make it 2-years. Women have a much shorter shelf-life than men do, and they don't care to waste it away. Good news is there are plenty more.

I'm at 6 years with my GF. No plans to get married in the next 5-6 years.

Head up OP, get your mind right and move forward.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:26 PM EDT

[#20]

Congrats

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:29:37 PM EDT

[#21]

Sleep with her: sister(s) if she has any and as many of her friends as possible.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:05 PM EDT

[#22]

You'll live...

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:13 PM EDT

[#23]

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I married my wife after six weeks of knowing her. That was 35 years ago. I still have her. After 4 years you should have sealed the deal. It will suck for a while then it will be as if it never happened.

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Were you at Ft. Riley?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:14 PM EDT

[#24]

Feel better dude. In the mean time there's only one thing you've got to do.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:17 PM EDT

[#25]

Are you gonna answer questions or?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:20 PM EDT

[#26]

Come back OP

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:55 PM EDT

[#27]

Grit your teeth. Keep diggin. Day by day brother.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:30:58 PM EDT

[#28]

Yeah.. it sucks. Go to a bar, tell your story to the hottest girl there, its a panty dropper. Drop said panties. Fuck contents in said panties. Kick contents of said panties out of home once said panties have been reapplied.

Wash, rinse, repeat.

Its the summer of OP!

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:02 PM EDT

[#29]

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:12 PM EDT

[#30]

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Come back OP

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+1 Don't Fo. We've been down that road before and it's not fun.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:17 PM EDT

[#31]

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Or this....................http://www.ar15.com/forums/t_1_5/1875676_Friend_just_killed_himself___.html

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:31:50 PM EDT

[#32]

Someone get to his place and hide the nail guns

ETA: It's always the darkest just before dawn...

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:11 PM EDT

[#33]

Maybe she did you a favour but you can't see it right now.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:25 PM EDT

[#34]

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Thread title says, "ask me anything."

Provision of answers to questions was never guaranteed.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:32:29 PM EDT

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I lost more then that in mine that's for fucking sure.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:33:10 PM EDT

[#36]

Is she good and crazy in the sack?

If no, disregard

If yes, what's her number?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:05 PM EDT

[#37]

Ask me anything. I'm not gonna fucking answer, or return to this thread, but go ahead and ask.

Txl

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:28 PM EDT

[#38]

This is bullshit...
He didn't say console him

He didn't say encourage him

He didn't say give him advice.

He said,"Ask him anything".

Stop fucking up his thread and start asking him shit.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:34:51 PM EDT

[#39]

Tis but a bump in the road. Chin up and chest out. You will carry on.
Eta. She have a cute friend?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:35:02 PM EDT

[#40]

Why so sad?

Best way to get over a chick is to get under another one.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:35:27 PM EDT

[#41]

You will be fine. I promise.

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:37 PM EDT

[#42]

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I'm in shambles, my world just fell apart in the blink of an eye

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... No worries. Life picks up from here!

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:51 PM EDT

[#43]

Real woman or Jenner-style?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:52 PM EDT

[#44]

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This is bullshit...

He didn't say console him

He didn't say encourage him

He didn't say give him advice.

He said,"Ask him anything".

Stop fucking up his thread and start asking him shit.

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where's your question?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:36:55 PM EDT

[#45]

2 words .... Fruit plate

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:37:02 PM EDT

[#46]

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Maybe she did you a favour but you can't see it right now.

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Whats the first being single large expense you are going to make?

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:01 PM EDT

[#47]

You were probably too drunk to see it coming

Posted: 6/7/2016 11:38:08 PM EDT

[#48]

When was the last time you two did it?

Was it good, or dead fish-ish?

Did you see any warning signs?

Is she perhaps banging your best friend?

Bummer for you.

Chris