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nothing that I said in my post invited your comments or supports them. But don't let that interrupt your LBAM rant. You can join Renata on my ignore list. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Wife 1.0 was BPD. What’s interesting is starting to read some of the LBAW threads while keeping the characteristics noted in the OP in mind, and comparing some of the posters to those standards. You can join Renata on my ignore list. Sorry you took it personally. |
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Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/forums/General/Medical-Malpractice/5-2199051/?page=4 Not so much a thread on personality disorders but more like a thread caused by a personality disorder. View Quote Textbook. |
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Lots of tales of wives and girlfriends having BPD here on Arf, at almost what seems like a higher rate than what is diagnosed in the general population at large. Makes me wonder how many of those women were actually diagnosed vs judged to be so by their ex, who is conveniently posting only his version of things on Arf. What’s interesting is starting to read some of the LBAW threads while keeping the characteristics noted in the OP in mind, and comparing some of the posters to those standards. View Quote My wife was never formally diagnosed. The therapists and psych professionals were all ‘idiots’ and all ‘crazy’ and she wouldn’t last with them long enough to get diagnosed. All the mutual therapists who had counseled both of us individually or as a couple have told me she shows all the Classic signs of BPD and that I need to run not walk away from the relationship. |
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Well, considering that a lot of men with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) end up in relationships with BPD, yeah, there are two broken buttholes in those stories. My wife was never formally diagnosed. The therapists and psych professionals were all ‘idiots’ and all ‘crazy’ and she wouldn’t last with them long enough to get diagnosed. All the mutual therapists who had counseled both of us individually or as a couple have told me she shows all the Classic signs of BPD and that I need to run not walk away from the relationship. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Lots of tales of wives and girlfriends having BPD here on Arf, at almost what seems like a higher rate than what is diagnosed in the general population at large. Makes me wonder how many of those women were actually diagnosed vs judged to be so by their ex, who is conveniently posting only his version of things on Arf. What’s interesting is starting to read some of the LBAW threads while keeping the characteristics noted in the OP in mind, and comparing some of the posters to those standards. My wife was never formally diagnosed. The therapists and psych professionals were all ‘idiots’ and all ‘crazy’ and she wouldn’t last with them long enough to get diagnosed. All the mutual therapists who had counseled both of us individually or as a couple have told me she shows all the Classic signs of BPD and that I need to run not walk away from the relationship. |
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I have known way too many people who would fit in both the histrionic category and the narcissistic one. I don`t think there is any fixing them, they seem to like it. View Quote It's hard to get people to stay on meds when the symptoms are so enjoyable when untreated. |
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Lots of tales of wives and girlfriends having BPD here on Arf, at almost what seems like a higher rate than what is diagnosed in the general population at large. Makes me wonder how many of those women were actually diagnosed vs judged to be so by their ex, who is conveniently posting only his version of things on Arf. What’s interesting is starting to read some of the LBAW threads while keeping the characteristics noted in the OP in mind, and comparing some of the posters to those standards. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Wife 1.0 was BPD. What’s interesting is starting to read some of the LBAW threads while keeping the characteristics noted in the OP in mind, and comparing some of the posters to those standards. Less beta males here than the general population Alphas don’t put up with that |
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Unless they got married on the first date they were putting up with it for a while at least, right? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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I had a friend who was a little off when we were young by his 30 ‘s his swings were severe. He was diagnosed as bi polar, he took meds for a while that actually made him more or less normal. Got married had a business, etc. he decided ine day he didn’t want to take his meds anymore “the made him fat”. Lost his business, wife, and half his retirement. I had to break ties with him as his bullshit was spilling into my life. 12 years later (this past year) I initiated contact, I miss the friend I used to know. That man is gone. He has developed a gambling problem and was defrauding his church’s poor fund. He looks like a bum that lives under a bridge....they had to shave his head there were so many knots in his hair he hadn’t washed or brushed it for so long. He threatened suicide (veiled threat so you can’t baker act him). This is all within the two weeks I made contact and subsequently cut him out of my life forever. He is a cancer. It is truly a shame our society decided to close the nut houses where people like hime could get help. Sorry for the long post, I guess it is more of a vent. I really wish we could make more headway with treatment of mental illness. View Quote As someone who deals with the assholes for a living, the vast majority can't be fixed even if they wanted to be. They are broken. The worst part about it is that the ones closest to them haven't dealt with enough of them to say "fuck it" and move on. |
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Quoted: In a sense, I almost feel bad for those with BPD. They'll never know what a baseline "normal" is, short of a lobotomy. SNIP View Quote There was one called Joker. He had some serious issues and was off and on suicidal. He did see a therapist and medicate. In one scene he was looking across a valley and said he does that and wonders what normal people "over there" feel like. I had some empathy for the guy but at the same time I would guess I wouldn't want to associate with him. He was brutally honest for the interviews, and it painted a very rough picture. That only made me imagine how bad shit really gets around him. |
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Quoted: I knew a guy who would give seekers injections of "nawmalsaleen" (said with a very heavy mispronunciation) after extolling it's virtues as a pain medication. View Quote It worked well since the docs knew with 99% certainty who was a squirrel. |
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Quoted: Michigan doesn't have beaches like this: https://www.AR15.Com/media/mediaFiles/136311/IMG_6789_JPG-866667.JPG View Quote Unfortunately, it's very hard and cold for part of the year. |
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Lots of tales of wives and girlfriends having BPD here on Arf, at almost what seems like a higher rate than what is diagnosed in the general population at large. Makes me wonder how many of those women were actually diagnosed vs judged to be so by their ex, who is conveniently posting only his version of things on Arf. View Quote |
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I have a very quick and effective way to determine if someone has a raging personality disorder...……..I merely ask them...…….
"Are you a democrat?" |
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In light of a recent thread (now locked) I would like to provide the following information to the denizens of GD for their education and edification. View Quote |
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A bunch of (mostly) PhDs trying to define 'normal' in THEIR terms. So many of them are already off the curve they can barekly finction among a larger crowd. It takes a differnet drive to get a PhD. I have one. In Electric al Engineering. And like every other Engineer we are 'different.' The far side of the MD declaring the newly born child "An Engineer" and parents being forsaken is not all that far off. We are strange and we damn well know it. There are more lawyers, MBAs, and MDs than Engineers. Especially ifg you look at Professional Engineers. Those of us with an actual State License. Note that MDs kill patients one at a time. An Engineering failure gets a lot of victims all at once. A: Don't worry, they'll tell you. |
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Quoted: https://www.ar15.com/forums/General/Medical-Malpractice/5-2199051/?page=4 Not so much a thread on personality disorders but more like a thread caused by a personality disorder. Textbook. I'd love to take a course on medical hardware and tools. Lotsa neat stuff we never knew existed. Usable info? Maybe not, but good to know anyway. Back on topic: I see "borderline" used. Is there a grading system for disorders? Interesting subject. |
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Dated a BPD last year, learn the signs so you can RUN away as fast as possible.
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Yep, let me guess: superficial, her ex is the ‘worst person on the planet, treats people they see as ‘below them’ like crap, have rigid ‘rules’ they expect from you but don’t actually apply them in their own life, nothing is ever their fault, etc... Am I close? View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted:
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Dated a BPD last year, learn the signs so you can RUN away as fast as possible. Am I close? After pondering for the last hour or so, I had a boss at work that was BPD. She made everyone's life miserable but mostly mine since I tried shield my employees from her abuse. Thinking about it now that took a toll on me too |
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Quoted: I just read that thread and learned a new fastener: "cannulated screws". I'd love to take a course on medical hardware and tools. Lotsa neat stuff we never knew existed. Usable info? Maybe not, but good to know anyway. Back on topic: I see "borderline" used. Is there a grading system for disorders? Interesting subject. View Quote View All Quotes View All Quotes Quoted: I just read that thread and learned a new fastener: "cannulated screws". I'd love to take a course on medical hardware and tools. Lotsa neat stuff we never knew existed. Usable info? Maybe not, but good to know anyway. Back on topic: I see "borderline" used. Is there a grading system for disorders? Interesting subject. History of "Borderline" in Borderline Personality Disorder
The term "borderline" was first introduced in the United States in 1938. It was a term used by early psychiatrists to describe people who were thought to be on the "border" between diagnoses, mostly psychosis and neurosis. At the time, people with neurosis were believed to be treatable, whereas people with psychoses were deemed untreatable. Then, in the 1970s, a deeper understanding of borderline personality disorder began to emerge. People with BPD were described as being very emotional, needy, difficult, at risk for suicide, and to have an overall unstable level of functioning. Soon, a pattern of symptoms began to emerge to describe those with borderline personality disorder. These included: Rapid shifts from periods of confidence to total despair Unstable self-image Rapidly fluctuating mood swings Fear of abandonment Strong tendency for both self-harm and suicidal thinking In 1980, BPD became an official personality disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders III or DSM-III. |
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I've learned at least two things from this thread:
The SI joint. Didn't even realize this was a thing. Normally, I don't learn about stuff until I break it myself. So, this was a nice change of pace. Second, I've learned that the next time I meet a doctor for the first time, I'm going to shake his hand, pull him in close and tell him, "If you hurt me, I'll hurt you back. At a time, place, and method of my choosing". And then preemptively fondle his balls. Is it a threat? Is it a compliment? Nobody knows. We'll just file it under R, for Rapport. I don't know what the medical billing code is for rapport, but that's for the staffers to figure out. AR15.com: I came for the guns. I stayed for the people skills. TM |
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I've learned at least two things from this thread: The SI joint. Didn't even realize this was a thing. Normally, I don't learn about stuff until I break it myself. So, this was a nice change of pace. Second, I've learned that the next time I meet a doctor for the first time, I'm going to shake his hand, pull him in close and tell him, "If you hurt me, I'll hurt you back. At a time, place, and method of my choosing". And then preemptively fondle his balls. Is it a threat? Is it a compliment? Nobody knows. We'll just file it under R, for Rapport. I don't know what the medical billing code is for rapport, but that's for the staffers to figure out. AR15.com: I came for the guns. I stayed for the people skills. TM View Quote |
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Borderline is it's own diagnosis, not a gradation. https://www.verywellmind.com/borderline-personality-disorder-meaning-425191 View Quote I think Arfcom should have icons/badges for all the disorders. Fill up that empty space below avatars. |
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