[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Cheating Wife (Page 1 of 5)
Posted: 5/28/2011 1:49:29 PM EDT
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I just found out my wife is cheating. Apparently it's been going on for at least two months. I know for a fact they have had sex. We have two teenager daughters, one a junior in High School, the other a sophmore. Our marriage has been rocky for the past year, due to financial issues stemming from her loss of a job but I did not see this coming. We just got out of the whole money wise May 1st. I had always planned to get things straight now that we had the money to do it right.
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Quoted: Need to flush out the story, and have more character development. Remember that one guy who thought his wife was cheating, so he waited for her to come home from a suspicious appointment and then went into the bathroom while she was showering and found cum stains in her panties? THAT is how you post a Cheating Wife thread! |
| You have to decide between the two of you if you want to try to save the relationship or not. It has to be mutual. If not get an attorney and cover yer ass asap. If the divorce happens you will find out what a rotten bastard you have been to her all these years (at least according to her attorney). |
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Quoted: A good writer grabs the reader's attention in the first sentences.Quoted: Need to flush out the story, and have more character development. Remember that one guy who thought his wife was cheating, so he waited for her to come home from a suspicious appointment and then went into the bathroom while she was showering and found cum stains in her panties? THAT is how you post a Cheating Wife thread! "Mother died today. Or maybe yesterday, I don't know". ––––––Albert Camus, The Stranger
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Quoted: kick her cheating ass to the curb and dont look back this. if she doesn't know that you know keep it opsec though. get lawyer get plans to hide guns and money and anything you really care not to lose. do not confront her until you have your battle plan. Then shove the papers in her face and walk. Your kids are old enough where there wont be any bullshit about child support if you want split custody and continue to take care of them. Hopefully you can get out of any alimony trap. sorry this happened to you bro. |
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You have to decide between the two of you if you want to try to save the relationship or not. It has to be mutual. If not get an attorney and cover yer ass asap. If the divorce happens you will find out what a rotten bastard you have been to her all these years (at least according to her attorney). This is it. Been there,played this game before. tried to save it, in the end we (I) couldn't 1/ Talk to her about the situation and events. 2/ Decide if you both want to try to save the marriage or not. [Doesn't mean it will be saved, just that you are both willing to try at this stage] 3/ Depends on outcome of the above. |
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Quoted: May I be the first to: Join date check Post count check Not that I don't believe you OP...but you bear your problems on a single digit post on a web site you just joined? ETA Damn, while I was typing. perhaps he is a well known member and wants to keep this private for now. |
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Get out of the marriage and stay out. Get a lawyer. Get a Private Investigator. You will likely find more than just this one instance. Have all her phone records looked up by the PI and traced down. I know I said it already but pay attention to what I highlight. GET OUT NOW. GET A LAWYER. GET A PI. SUE FOR DIVORCE AND CUSTODY NOW (She will and will win if you don't). If your state has a law for this, (FILE FOR ALIENATION OF AFFECTION ) , and burn his ass to the ground. Be as HARSH as you can and try to GO FOR ALL THE LAW ALLOWS, because she will.
NEVER LET HER BACK IN, SHE WILL CHEAT AGAIN> KICK HER ASS OUT NOW AND LET HER LIVE WITH HIM. Deal with the fallout later. |
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Get out of the marriage and stay out. Get a lawyer. Get a Private Investigator. You will likely find more than just this one instance. Have all her phone records looked up by the PI and traced down. I know I said it already but pay attention to what I highlight. GET OUT NOW. GET A LAWYER. GET A PI. SUE FOR DIVORCE AND CUSTODY NOW (She will and will win if you don't). If your state has a law for this, (FILE FOR ALIENATION OF AFFECTION ) , and burn his ass to the ground. Be as HARSH as you can and try to GO FOR ALL THE LAW ALLOWS, because she will. NEVER LET HER BACK IN, SHE WILL CHEAT AGAIN> KICK HER ASS OUT NOW AND LET HER LIVE WITH HIM. Deal with the fallout later. Damn. Mr. Serious just showed up.  
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Well, if you're not jerking us off, I'm very sorry for your situation. Next step is GTFO and concentrate on being a good dad and as civil with the worthless cunt as possible for your kids. My parents divorced 12 years ago and were always civil to each other in front of us kids especially.
If you're being a smartass, pool party is the only logical next step. Followed by internet dating with stories of epic dates and epic fail. Oh and pics of wife of course. |