[ARCHIVED THREAD] - DUPE!! (Page 1 of 2)
Posted: 1/3/2016 3:12:51 AM EDT
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DUPE!!
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You and your family sounds like some real gem quality aholes.
Not liking how a kid is turning out and participating in his assault and ridicule is downright slimy. What's on tap for next year, waterboarding the kid? I'm not for doll play for boys, but who the heck is to say what's precipitating this? Maybe he's being abused, maybe he's just odd (show me a kid that isn't). Sounds like you are raising some grade a pieces of work who are following in their parents' footsteps. The fact that you are proud of it is even more disturbing. I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. |
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Quoted: You and your family sounds like some real gem quality aholes. Not liking how a kid is turning out and participating in his assault and ridicule is downright slimy. What's on tap for next year, waterboarding the kid? I'm not for doll play for boys, but who the heck is to say what's precipitating this? Maybe he's being abused, maybe he's just odd (show me a kid that isn't). Sounds like you are raising some grade a pieces of work who are following in their parents' footsteps. The fact that you are proud of it is even more disturbing. I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. |
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I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. WTFO
An entire family laughing and making sport out of emotionally and physically assaulting a 4 year old kid because he's different? Yeah they get what they deserve. Two clarifications: 1) He's only 4 years old, so maybe have him hold off until he's stronger and 2) not advocating he kill anyone, maybe just take a couple whacks to your kneecaps. Kids will be kids and roughhouse, if all are down with it and participating--cool. But when a group of adults join in the mental torture of a 4 year old because he's 'different' or maybe not even different but just not an ahole (like OP) or an ahole in training (like OP's kids)....that crosses the line. |
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So what you're saying, is that you're not in favor of tens of thousands of years of human development that makes us enforce normative behavior? Quoted:
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You and your family sounds like some real gem quality aholes. Not liking how a kid is turning out and participating in his assault and ridicule is downright slimy. What's on tap for next year, waterboarding the kid? I'm not for doll play for boys, but who the heck is to say what's precipitating this? Maybe he's being abused, maybe he's just odd (show me a kid that isn't). Sounds like you are raising some grade a pieces of work who are following in their parents' footsteps. The fact that you are proud of it is even more disturbing. I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. Enforcing normal behavior is taking the kid and taking away the dolls and playing catch with him or taking him fishing or doing something else with him that's positive. Get him involved with some activities. Laughing because you kids are treating him like a punching bag and adults ridiculing him for not liking the abuse? |
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An entire family laughing and making sport out of emotionally and physically assaulting a 4 year old kid because he's different? Yeah they get what they deserve. Two clarifications: 1) He's only 4 years old, so maybe have him hold off until he's stronger and 2) not advocating he kill anyone, maybe just take a couple whacks to your kneecaps. Kids will be kids and roughhouse, if all are down with it and participating--cool. But when a group of adults join in the mental torture of a 4 year old because he's 'different' or maybe not even different but just not an ahole (like OP) or an ahole in training (like OP's kids)....that crosses the line. Quoted:
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I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. WTFO
An entire family laughing and making sport out of emotionally and physically assaulting a 4 year old kid because he's different? Yeah they get what they deserve. Two clarifications: 1) He's only 4 years old, so maybe have him hold off until he's stronger and 2) not advocating he kill anyone, maybe just take a couple whacks to your kneecaps. Kids will be kids and roughhouse, if all are down with it and participating--cool. But when a group of adults join in the mental torture of a 4 year old because he's 'different' or maybe not even different but just not an ahole (like OP) or an ahole in training (like OP's kids)....that crosses the line. I genuinely hope you seek help. I did not take OPs post to mean he was picking on the 4yo. |
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Quoted: Enforcing normal behavior is taking the kid and taking away the dolls and playing catch with him or taking him fishing or doing something else with him that's positive. Get him involved with some activities. Laughing because you kids are treating him like a punching bag and adults ridiculing him for not liking the abuse? Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: You and your family sounds like some real gem quality aholes. Not liking how a kid is turning out and participating in his assault and ridicule is downright slimy. What's on tap for next year, waterboarding the kid? I'm not for doll play for boys, but who the heck is to say what's precipitating this? Maybe he's being abused, maybe he's just odd (show me a kid that isn't). Sounds like you are raising some grade a pieces of work who are following in their parents' footsteps. The fact that you are proud of it is even more disturbing. I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. Enforcing normal behavior is taking the kid and taking away the dolls and playing catch with him or taking him fishing or doing something else with him that's positive. Get him involved with some activities. Laughing because you kids are treating him like a punching bag and adults ridiculing him for not liking the abuse? |
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Well, you can think that all you want. That's different than what I'm talking about. Quoted:
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You and your family sounds like some real gem quality aholes. Not liking how a kid is turning out and participating in his assault and ridicule is downright slimy. What's on tap for next year, waterboarding the kid? I'm not for doll play for boys, but who the heck is to say what's precipitating this? Maybe he's being abused, maybe he's just odd (show me a kid that isn't). Sounds like you are raising some grade a pieces of work who are following in their parents' footsteps. The fact that you are proud of it is even more disturbing. I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to you next year. Enforcing normal behavior is taking the kid and taking away the dolls and playing catch with him or taking him fishing or doing something else with him that's positive. Get him involved with some activities. Laughing because you kids are treating him like a punching bag and adults ridiculing him for not liking the abuse? Do explain, what about the OP's comments are you defending? It doesn't seem like two boys who were happily wrestling, it was a group of kids (well trained by their parents) abusing a weaker kid and a bunch of parents sitting around enjoying it. Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. |
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Quoted: Do explain, what about the OP's comments are you defending? It doesn't seem like two boys who were happily wrestling, it was a group of kids (well trained by their parents) abusing a weaker kid and a bunch of parents sitting around enjoying it. Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. Quoted: Quoted: Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. You seem to be bent out of shape about it though, even though it's normal. |
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I'm not defending them at all, as I already pointed out, it's a classic case of gender policing, which is a type of normative behavior enforcement. You seem to be bent out of shape about it though, even though it's normal. Quoted:
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Quoted: Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. You seem to be bent out of shape about it though, even though it's normal. No, I don't have a single problem with the sister throwing away the dolls (or throwing them out the window). That's gender policing, establishing boundaries using social pressure or what not. When the kid is being assaulted and the parents are enjoying it and pre-planning his next year assault....that's sadistic. As I said, I hope the kid takes a baseball bat to the adults and learns to fight and beats the everloving snot out of the other kid. |
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Quoted: Maybe I am reading this wrong but if that was my son and another family came over and started bullying him I would throw that family and their children out of my home in about 2 seconds. And I would tell them to never come back. Who knows... circle of life and all that...  |
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That would be the rational thing to do! Who knows... circle of life and all that... https://i.ytimg.com/vi/WBi-3vqiHlk/hqdefault.jpg Quoted:
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Maybe I am reading this wrong but if that was my son and another family came over and started bullying him I would throw that family and their children out of my home in about 2 seconds. And I would tell them to never come back. Who knows... circle of life and all that... https://i.ytimg.com/vi/WBi-3vqiHlk/hqdefault.jpg I'd probably have to hold you back from beating the shit out of the bullies. 
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Quoted: I'd probably have to hold you back from beating the shit out of the bullies. Quoted: Quoted: Quoted: Maybe I am reading this wrong but if that was my son and another family came over and started bullying him I would throw that family and their children out of my home in about 2 seconds. And I would tell them to never come back. Who knows... circle of life and all that... https://i.ytimg.com/vi/WBi-3vqiHlk/hqdefault.jpg I'd probably have to hold you back from beating the shit out of the bullies. I'd probably hand everyone rittalin and knives. ("tizzle wizzle show" from Saturday night live for more info, it's blocked on youtube) |
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Quoted: White trash holiday FTW! Did you guys bean the kid in the head with your empty Old Milwaukee cans and Maury on in the background? |
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Quoted: [sigh] Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy because he's never learned how to defend himself. Other kid can't understand why SIL's boy isn't participating in the fun. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. Better? 
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Fingernails on a chalkboard. Quoted:
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[sigh] Family gathering, divorced sisters 4 year old son plays with dolls, his sister hates this and tosses the dolls outside if he's playing with them. Another 4 year old boy tackles and beats on the SIL's boy because he's never learned how to defend himself. Other kid can't understand why SIL's boy isn't participating in the fun. Me and others in the family find it funny because no one is getting hurt. Me and my nephew want a rematch for the two boys next year. Better? They be all in da same trailer. It cool. |
