[ARCHIVED THREAD] - Dating Situation - How To Respond (Page 1 of 4)
Posted: 4/9/2012 8:36:14 AM EDT
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This has happened a few times now. Dating a new woman and first time doing the nasty they all the sudden want to talk about exclusive rights. This happened with several women now. And they always bring it up while fully engaged.
What is the proper response? Pull it out get dressed and throw them out? Say "Sure baby, whatever you say." Then after things cool down say lets talk about what you just asked me a minute ago? They must be crazy to think that your are going to clear you stable out after one ride on a new mare. The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. |
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I'm really not up for discussing exclusive rights during sex....
Maybe it's just me, but I'm not interested in talking about much of anything during sex. I'd probably go with "Sure whatever" and get my rocks off, then do whatever I wanted in terms of the relationship. If they don't like it, they don't have to put up with it. |
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This has happened a few times now. Dating a new woman and first time doing the nasty they all the sudden want to talk about exclusive rights. This happened with several women now. And they always bring it up while fully engaged. What is the proper response? Pull it out get dressed and throw them out? Say "Sure baby, whatever you say." Then after things cool down say lets talk about what you just asked me a minute ago? They must be crazy to think that your are going to clear you stable out after one ride on a new mare. The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. throw them out? Why the hell you at your place is the bigger question? dating homeless women? NEVER take her to your place. |
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want to talk about exclusive rights. What does that even mean? I was wondering that too. Whatever it is, a person want to have a conversation during nookie is not ideal. "IDEAL" is probably expecting way too much with these older women. "TOLERABLE" is what I am shooting for. |
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want to talk about exclusive rights. What does that even mean? I was wondering that too. Whatever it is, a person want to have a conversation during nookie is not ideal. "IDEAL" is probably expecting way too much with these older women. "TOLERABLE" is what I am shooting for. Interesting. How old are you? |
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This has happened a few times now. Dating a new woman and first time doing the nasty they all the sudden want to talk about exclusive rights. This happened with several women now. And they always bring it up while fully engaged. What is the proper response? Pull it out get dressed and throw them out? Say "Sure baby, whatever you say." Then after things cool down say lets talk about what you just asked me a minute ago? They must be crazy to think that your are going to clear you stable out after one ride on a new mare. The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. They foresee the days of diminishing returns where they have less marketability for what they have to offer. Maybe they're already experiencing it. They're trying to lock some stability into their lives and figure that sex is the way to seal the deal. You can bet that as soon as they have you hooked the sex frequency will drop right off. Quoted:
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want to talk about exclusive rights. What does that even mean? What do you think it means? They only want you banging them. Monogamy. |
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want to talk about exclusive rights. What does that even mean? I was wondering that too. Whatever it is, a person want to have a conversation during nookie is not ideal. "IDEAL" is probably expecting way too much with these older women. "TOLERABLE" is what I am shooting for. Interesting. How old are you? Late 50s. |
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Hmmm... I'm in.
1. Are you giving them the "I'm ready to commit" vibe just to get them into bed? 2. 50 and 60 year old women were active during the 1960s and 1970s. They know about free love and stuff... but they've probably matured since then. 3. Most women don't want to be perceived as a slut, so she might be asking so you'll "respect her in the morning". Three women saying the same thing to you - what's the common denominator in all the relationships? ETA: TC made a good point, too: They're trying to lock some stability into their lives and figure that sex is the way to seal the deal.
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Their age.
Hmmm... I'm in. 1. Are you giving them the "I'm ready to commit" vibe just to get them into bed? No. Not at all. 2. 50 and 60 year old women were active during the 1960s and 1970s. They know about free love and stuff... but they've probably matured since then. 3. Most women don't want to be perceived as a slut, so she might be asking so you'll "respect her in the morning". I don't get that feeling. It is more of a "I like what we are doing and don't want you doing it with anybody else" type thing. hree women saying the same thing to you - what's the common denominator in all the relationships? |
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The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. Quoted:
You definitely came to the right place for insightful and relevant relationship advice. And where the fuck are the pics? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Quoted:
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BRB, pics aren't loading, swapping out monitors. I tried that already but it didn't work. I am almost done reinstalling windows. I'll let you know how that turns out. Damn you guys are desperate. 
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The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. Quoted:
You definitely came to the right place for insightful and relevant relationship advice. And where the fuck are the pics? Posted Via AR15.Com Mobile Quoted:
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BRB, pics aren't loading, swapping out monitors. I tried that already but it didn't work. I am almost done reinstalling windows. I'll let you know how that turns out. Damn you guys are desperate. Maybe some basement dwellers have a mommy thing going on. |
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The ones that have pulled this nonsense have all ben in the 50 to 60 year old age group. Damn you guys are desperate. When you get to a certain age, who wants to hang out with a 20 year old? What common ground do you have with someone who is 30 years younger than you are? |