Posted: 6/29/2009 8:47:26 PM EDT
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** Warning the OP may be slightly drunk at the time of this posting** PROCEED WITH CAUTION Alright fellahs it has been a year and eight days since me and my last girlfriend broke up. I have laid alot of hot girls trying to get my mind off her but it doesn't work. Everyday I think about her and everytime anything has started to get serious I break it off because I don't want anyone else. Getting Laid doesn't help it actually makes it worse , drunk well that leads me to hear, and sober is just damn depressing. So Arfcom I beleived that after a year I'd be ok but why the hell am I still so fucked up in the head. I drink way too much alone , screw any good looking girl in hopes of getting my mind off her. Hell I have tried it all. I got to have some releif here Arf. Getting back together ain't an option, new boyfriend that I wanted to kill at first but he means well. Hell I sometimes hangout with him just to fucking learn what makes him so special. Anyway how the hell do I get over her , I've tried women .... lots, booze.....lots, the best thing is work but that ends at 5 PM and then I am shit out of luck off to go home to sulk and be depressed. Seeing a shrink is not an option so what say ye ARFCOM. Please keep in mind I have ingested 3/4 bottle 12 year old Canadian Club Whiskey So don't mind me. And I apologize of this is innapropriate but this is GD. If I'm too drunk to post MODS feel free to delete. Really? Why? After I had a tough break up I erased every link to my ex that I had. Once I got over it, I rebuilt the bridges and we are civil if not friends. |
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Getting back together ain't an option, new boyfriend that I wanted to kill at first but he means well. Hell I sometimes hangout with him just to fucking learn what makes him so special. Anyway how the hell do I get over her Kicking back with the dude laying her pipe probably isn't the best way to "Get over her" For getting over woman out of sight out of mind has worked for me. |
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As mentioned by another poster, you've got to kill all connections. Just honestly tell her (or him, with respect to the new BF) that you're struggling with the arrangement and you need to break it off for a while. You can be addicted to people and you need to quit and move along before you can interact responsibly again. Once you've done that, try liking someone before banging them. As go the clothes, so goes the novelty. They generally go away together, leaving you feeling dirty with someone who is no longer interesting. It's only natural. As soon as you've closed the deal with a present target, guy-ness tells you to get moving and find another DNA recipient. While it satisfies your instincts, it won't satisfy your emotions. You basically need to admit to yourself, through experience, that other people can and will make you happy. Which requires someone else genuinely making you happy. That next person will probably also shit on you and walk off, but once you've had that epiphany you are open others making you happier, and will truly digest the fact that you don't need this broad to be happy. After you lock someone new down, and honestly, not just as a jealousy trophy, then you may re-open the friend lines with the ex and her boyfriend. I would give it a year plus though, no joke. You will be miserable until you get past the old relationship, and you'll stay miserable if you don't get "clean." </gay> |
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As mentioned by another poster, you've got to kill all connections. Just honestly tell her (or him, with respect to the new BF) that you're struggling with the arrangement and you need to break it off for a while. You can be addicted to people and you need to quit and move along before you can interact responsibly again. Once you've done that, try liking someone before banging them. As go the clothes, so goes the novelty. They generally go away together, leaving you feeling dirty with someone who is no longer interesting. It's only natural. As soon as you've closed the deal with a present target, guy-ness tells you to get moving and find another DNA recipient. While it satisfies your instincts, it won't satisfy your emotions. You basically need to admit to yourself, through experience, that other people can and will make you happy. Which requires someone else genuinely making you happy. That next person will probably also shit on you and walk off, but once you've had that epiphany you are open others making you happier, and will truly digest the fact that you don't need this broad to be happy. After you lock someone new down, and honestly, not just as a jealousy trophy, then you may re-open the friend lines with the ex and her boyfriend. I would give it a year plus though, no joke. You will be miserable until you get past the old relationship, and you'll stay miserable if you don't get "clean." </gay> Im gonna write that down just in case i need it later in life. A+ post |
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Kill her boyfriend and eat him... You will absorb his power and she will fall in love with you again. If that doesn't work... Kill her, and eat her. Then, kill yourself. You'll always be together that way.  It is probably very irresponsible of me to suggest this to a drunk man with a severe emotional conflict... But I'll do it anyway. |
| Thank you I always wandered what Arfcom's opinion would be of me if I put it all out there. Guys I'm sorry if you think I'm kind of obsesive loser or something. Also trust me I have more alot more hobbies thank ar15.com. It's just I always kept thinking I would get better you know but hell here at over a year I'm still the same. I'm looking for some real fucking advice because the hell I can't keep following the routine I'm on. So if you got some real advice lay it on me. If not fucking flame me I have always wanted to be a part of an epic thread or something. Sorry guys this thread may be dunb but I'm just tired of playing it smart. |
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Kill her boyfriend and eat him... You will absorb his power and she will fall in love with you again. If that doesn't work... Kill her, and eat her. Then, kill yourself. You'll always be together that way. It is probably very irresponsible of me to suggest this to a drunk man with a severe emotional conflict... But I'll do it anyway. 
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| Aight guys I got the advice I need. Let us let this post disapeer into the internets. Because I know in the morning I will surely regret opening up to ARF like this and exposing the only weakness I got. So shit hell fuck it theres no going back and hell it seems I love her too much to cut all ties. Hell maybe the feelings before banging thing will work. wish me luck and don't come down to hard on me cuz I like Arfcom and I would hate to get Tar and featherd out of here |
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Aight guys I got the advice I need. Let us let this post disapeer into the internets. Because I know in the morning I will surely regret opening up to ARF like this and exposing the only weakness I got. So shit hell fuck it theres no going back and hell it seems I love her too much to cut all ties. Hell maybe the feelings before banging thing will work. wish me luck and don't come down to hard on me cuz I like Arfcom and I would hate to get Tar and featherd out of here You'll do fine. Just do what you have to do. |
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Quoted: Kill her boyfriend and eat him... You will absorb his power and she will fall in love with you again. If that doesn't work... Kill her, and eat her. Then, kill yourself. You'll always be together that way. It is probably very irresponsible of me to suggest this to a drunk man with a severe emotional conflict... But I'll do it anyway. Fuckin A! Murder/Suicide Its the only way for two lost lovers to be together for eternity... |
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People in GD especially late at night tend to be ass holes.
it seems many of the nicer dudes surf during the day, while at work. where as many on the night crew are miserable unemployed bachelors who want everyone to be as sad, angry and depressed as they are. ignore them man, i broke up with my GF of 3 1/2 years a few months ago. things get better then they get worse, eventually they will get better again you just got to ride the cycle. |
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Quoted: People in GD especially late at night tend to be ass holes. it seems many of the nicer dudes surf during the day, while at work. where as many on the night crew are miserable unemployed bachelors who want everyone to be as sad, angry and depressed as they are. ignore them man, i broke up with my GF of 3 1/2 years a few months ago. things get better then they get worse, eventually they will get better again you just got to ride the cycle. What is this a fucking encounter group? |
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People in GD especially late at night tend to be ass holes. it seems many of the nicer dudes surf during the day, while at work. where as many on the night crew are miserable unemployed bachelors who want everyone to be as sad, angry and depressed as they are. ignore them man, i broke up with my GF of 3 1/2 years a few months ago. things get better then they get worse, eventually they will get better again you just got to ride the cycle. Thanks man, I don't think I expected to get many real answers here anyway. Just venting. But the GD asses does remind me it's time to renew my TEAM status. Anyway thanks hius for your encouragment support help or criticisism. As always no more drunk posting for me, |
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People in GD especially late at night tend to be ass holes. it seems many of the nicer dudes surf during the day, while at work. where as many on the night crew are miserable unemployed bachelors who want everyone to be as sad, angry and depressed as they are. ignore them man, i broke up with my GF of 3 1/2 years a few months ago. things get better then they get worse, eventually they will get better again you just got to ride the cycle. What is this a fucking encounter group? i dont know what that is, but if that means im trying help some dude out instead of growing my edick by being a prick then yes |
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Getting back together ain't an option, new boyfriend that I wanted to kill at first but he means well. Hell I sometimes hangout with him just to fucking learn what makes him so special. Anyway how the hell do I get over her Kicking back with the dude laying her pipe probably isn't the best way to "Get over her" For getting over woman out of sight out of mind has worked for me. this break off all ties |
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Try it after 16 years of being faithful to a woman who turned into a slut. It has been a year and a half and I am still too fucked up to think about entering a relationship.
No, no real answers, just someone else drinking and trying not to think about it. Thanks.  
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Chin up, man! Enjoy your freedom while you have it. Some other disguised, ladder-hopping harpy will come along to suck the life out of you soon enough. And dump the awkward fuckingmyex-friend  Single is all it's cracked up to be, and more. Sounds like you could use more female friends. (even fat non-sexual female friends to talk to  - It works.)-Victim #870104632 |
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People in GD especially late at night tend to be ass holes. it seems many of the nicer dudes surf during the day, while at work. where as many on the night crew are miserable unemployed bachelors who want everyone to be as sad, angry and depressed as they are. ignore them man, i broke up with my GF of 3 1/2 years a few months ago. things get better then they get worse, eventually they will get better again you just got to ride the cycle. What is this a fucking encounter group? Yeah, I thought it was Dr. Phil...
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Kill her boyfriend and eat him... You will absorb his power and she will fall in love with you again. If that doesn't work... Kill her, and eat her. Then, kill yourself. You'll always be together that way. It is probably very irresponsible of me to suggest this to a drunk man with a severe emotional conflict... But I'll do it anyway. My very first "I LOL'd" |
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** Warning the OP may be slightly drunk at the time of this posting** PROCEED WITH CAUTION Alright fellahs it has been a year and eight days since me and my last girlfriend broke up. I have laid alot of hot girls trying to get my mind off her but it doesn't work. Everyday I think about her and everytime anything has started to get serious I break it off because I don't want anyone else. Getting Laid doesn't help it actually makes it worse , drunk well that leads me to hear, and sober is just damn depressing. So Arfcom I beleived that after a year I'd be ok but why the hell am I still so fucked up in the head. I drink way too much alone , screw any good looking girl in hopes of getting my mind off her. Hell I have tried it all. I got to have some releif here Arf. Getting back together ain't an option, new boyfriend that I wanted to kill at first but he means well. Hell I sometimes hangout with him just to fucking learn what makes him so special. Anyway how the hell do I get over her , I've tried women .... lots, booze.....lots, the best thing is work but that ends at 5 PM and then I am shit out of luck off to go home to sulk and be depressed. Seeing a shrink is not an option so what say ye ARFCOM. Please keep in mind I have ingested 3/4 bottle 12 year old Canadian Club Whiskey So don't mind me. And I apologize of this is innapropriate but this is GD. If I'm too drunk to post MODS feel free to delete. I've been there. It gets better. The first two years were the roughest. Eventually you'll get back to normal :-) I found the movie Swingers helpful :-) |